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Are you good at making new friends?

khld_12’s Profile PhotoKhalid
Online maybe it's little easier in person I'm introvert I think mine issues mostly with my confidence levels as child I was loner then mix well with others over time I did make friendships took me a while to open up I'm not for making small talk even to strangers like at the bus stop but I'm not arrogant person will take them on if they engaged the conversation

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Marcelina desde hace mucho tiempo a sufrido de bullying más que todo en su época escolar a un punto lo que eran sus compañeras, más que todo lo que eran las bravuconas eran de hacerle chistes al frente de ella y/o con un cierto grupo de personas, eran de esos chistes pesados, hacer otros con doble sentido, eran de esos chistes le hacían daño, eran más que todo comentarios muy hirientes eran de los que hablan acerca de su físico; cada uno de esos comentarios le hacían sentir menos, la hacían sentir muy insegura más de lo que venía siendo.
Un día se arregló para irse a clases, las bravuconas seguían allí cotilleando entre risas, para Marcy era la gota que derramó el vaso y no pudo aguantar más con tanto peso y más con todo aquel que venía cargando; no había un día que no llorara, sentir que estaba viviendo un infierno, en su mente pasaba por muchas cosas que sin más tomó su maletín y subió a la terraza del colegio; ella sí o sí quería darle fin a todo esto sin pensarlo. Sin más se subió, se acercó a un borde de aquel edificio y dándose media vuelta para dejar caer todo su cuerpo al vacío. — Espera... — Fue lo último que se escuchó de una chica que estiró su mano en quererle auxiliar, pero ya era demasiado tarde.
She takes the long way home
Fighting her emotions
She's a loner [...]
Bu.lly, de Three Days Grace.

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They say we forget a thousand things every day. What can you tell us so that we don't forget about you?

DomUnleashed’s Profile PhotoDom
I’ve always kept to myself ever since I started going to school and even before I started school (so I’ve been an introvert my whole life and a loner for the most part), I don’t like the idea of being in close proximity with others, none of my therapists were able to help change me and my ways in the long run, I’m stubborn when it comes to the certain beliefs I have, I like volleyball, and some people say that I come across as older than my actual age.
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Why would you want to be like everyone else?

if i was like everyone else i would be outgoing & less shy but in a way, i am thankful that i'm shy. my shyness keeps me away from fake people. it keeps me safe from humiliation & embarrassment. i just like to do my own thing. i never had friends. but i've learned to be fine about that. i'm not, as the saying goes, "everyone's cup of tea", i'm just me. i can easily be defined, but the only word that defines me the most is that i'm a loner. always have been, always will be. i don't have any interest in being around people or hanging out with them. i don't care about this social media crap where they do these stupid little videos with each other. i go outside, do some landscaping & go to bed later on when the sun's gone. social media is the worst thing man has invented & i despise it. but i use it anyways because i do what i want, when i want & if nobody likes it they can kiss my ass

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здравствуйте, дорогие подписчики и читатели. наконец я вернулась к вам, очень соскучилась. как вы там держитесь﹖как ваш ноябрь﹖все здоровы﹖лично я хорошо отдохнула, набралась вдохновения, поправилась, перестала болеть, но три дня назад у нас в семье случилось маленькое горе. из жизни ушла наша любимая кошка. безумно больно, не хватает чего-то.. но она уже была в прекрасном возрасте, хотя осложнения принесли последние роды. мы сделали все что в наших силах, но спасти не удалось. сейчас наша девочка на небесах. меня прекрасно могут понять те, которые сами перешли через это. но давайте больше не говорить о грустном, ведь скоро уже зима, скоро праздники, рождество, новый год и мой день рождение. кстати, в литве уже выпал первый снег, а у вас как с этим﹖☺ начались первые заморозки, похолодало, хотя обещали немного солнца, только сегодня его нет. немного скучно и серо. но обычно ноябрь всегда таким бывает. лично я безумно жду зиму, очень люблю снег, мороз, метель, в такие моменты очень уютно сидеть дома, смотреть через окно и пить горячее какао. а больше всего люблю зимние рассветы и закаты. они прекрасные. а какой красивый зимний лес.. свежий воздух, запах сосен, ели.. а какой прекрасный запах корицы дома или сладких мандаринок.. ☺ уже скоро будет магия, подарки, красивые фотографии елок, гирлянды и кевин один дома. ☺ признавайтесь, ведь ждете этого﹖я да, так как люблю зимнюю атмосферу. зима для меня время чудес. а чудеса бывают, только нужно сильно верить. ☺
♫ loner — need for love ♫
♫ airshade — won't run away ♫
Date:17. 11. 2O22
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ᴄᴏᴍᴇ ʙᴀᴄᴋ

i dont mean to sound rude but i don't get why you'd be a loner by choice. like ur so pretty, so smart, so nice! and always dress on point. im sure if u put urself out there in the crowd ppl would be totally drawn to you and like u, cause what's not to like! ur so popular material

People are drawn to me. But I am only drawn back by the rare few. If I cannot be in extraordinary company then I prefer to be alone. I know it’s difficult for some people to think that a person deeply enjoys solitude but I genuinely do. But thank you for the lovely compliments. 💗
i dont mean to sound rude but i dont get why youd be a loner by choice like ur
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1.Would you say you're picky in friendships? Like is there a specific trait you want your friends to have or to not have (what traits)? 2.What kind of people do you tend to avoid/never will befriend? 3. What's a friendship dealbreaker for you? 👥️️

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I am picky, yes. I’m an introvert and a loner. I have a very small social battery. If I interact regularly with a person, I surely find them to be extraordinary. I don’t actively avoid anyone or have dealbreakers. I just like people that I feel connected to on a deeper level and do not have the energy to expend otherwise.
1Would you say youre picky in friendships Like is there a specific trait you

Nagkaroon ka ng pagkakataon na kumanta sa isang sikat na entablado nang biglang dumating yung pag-aalayan mo ng kanta, ano kakantahin mo para sa kanya?

fujiwarazai13723’s Profile PhotoTonichi Chi
nope. i have an extreme stage fright thats why nung school days ko pa, you can either only find me inside the library or at the canteen–taking a nap or eating my lunch alone. although di naman ako loner kasi i have set of friends/acquaintances from time to time 😅

if you're single atleast you're not getting cheated on.

Well if you're single.
You're also a loner and have no one to share anything personal. Which you want to share with the one and only person whom you trust.
Note: Don't include friends and siblings or that BFFs shit which i hate the most 🙄 Bakki saab set hai Alhamdulillah 🖤

Anong magandang personality pag nasa college ka para di ka iwasan ng mga tao at magmukhang weird o loner

Mahirap magpanggap, sis. Wag mo nang balakin. Baka nga mas layuan ka pa nila kapag mabasa nilang trying hard ka just to fit in.

Anong magandang personality pag nasa college ka para di ka iwasan ng mga tao at magmukhang weird o loner

just be yourself. you don't need to impress anyone. and not everybody will match your vibe, anyway. you will find the right peeps.

What is loyalty to you? And in what ways a person can be disloyal in your opinion?

akciMMicka’s Profile Photo⚜️ m o n i c a ⚜️
Loyalty is nothing but protecting each other's interests... If i can not protect your interests you have the right to either quit on me or reciprocate... I am not a loyal kind of person which is why i do not get attached with people more intentionally so that nobody gets hurt... But when people neglect the fact and keep coming closer, i just scare em off... I am just loyal to myself... I am not even sorry for that... I am a loner by choice not a loner by chance...

Do you like being in a group, or being alone?

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That depends on whether I know and like the members of the group or not. I can be more of a loner since I am able to enjoy my time alone - I don't like to play the fifth wheel in the group so I try as best as possible to get rid of that feeling and to separate myself so I don't need to feel like I am the one disrupting the group dynamics.

How would you describe yourself?

I would say I'm shy, a follower, an idiot, not wise with my money, and very protective of the people I care about.
A man who had to settle with wasting his 20s just to keep his family afloat by tolerating no progress on personal goals. I don’t drive (can’t afford it) had to stop my education, had to suspend all romantic pursuits, etc. So, a disappointment. However, some major changes are currently in motion that I’m rather optimistic about.
Happy, successful, a little hungover, and a good sport about my fading youth.
A natural loner and greatly misunderstood by my peers. An idiotic, strange tempered, ginger, loudmouth, happy, caring, “hyper-calm”, smart, and kind child.
Smart, lazy, generous, selfish, caring, unpassionate, funny, socially awkward, independent, picky. Can't think of anything else as I'm braindead at the moment. Negatives: Clingy, overly-attached girlfriend, detached, moody, insecure, self-contradictory. Positives: Beautiful, sympathetic, intelligent, deep, loving, good.
I'd say so. There are many times when I think things in my head that I would be pretty uncomfortable saying out-loud. Just cause you don't voice it doesn't mean it isn't there...so maybe acknowledging it and allowing it makes it less of a big deal.
I hate calling myself arrogant, but I have to admit there are a lot of times where I privately think 'well, I could do that better'. It's better to be honest with yourself, right? I have the weirdest kind of arrogance where I simultaneously think I am better than everyone, as well as the worst person ever.
Forgiving goes under both because very often I'm too forgiving. I still think it's a good quality to have as long as I don't let people walk all over me.
Positive: intelligent, caring, hard working, organised and thoughtful. Negative: indecisive, anxious, snobby, self-pitying, serious (as in, I take myself too seriously around most people).

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Für was setzt du dich aktiv ein und warum?

Verbindungen. Nervt mich ein wenig, wie passend es doch ist, so mit meiner Sozialphobie und depri loner teen und wuawuawua, aber ja, ich hatte immer Probleme damit, mich als Teil der Welt wahrzunehmen. So habe ich zu Filmen gefunden, Spielen, Büchern, Dating, alles, alles, nur Nähe, und nichts hat geholfen, bis ich echte Verbindungen gespürt habe, und den Moment wahrgenommen habe, nicht die Suche.
Nun sind wir in einer so isolierten, entfremdeten Welt, in der tausend Unternehmen tagein, tagaus die Einsamkeit in uns reindrücken wollen, sei's mit Tinder, instagam oder dem verfixkten Metaverse, das uns alle endgültig das Gehirn verbrutzeln will. Nein, da wehre ich mich gegen. Ich habe inzwischen aufgehört, im Zug meine Serie zu gucken. Zwar pendle ich drei Stunden pro Tag, aber ich will nicht noch einer sein, der mit dem digitalen Beispiel vorangeht, mit Kopfhörern und gesunkenem Blick. Das macht mir Angst, das ist so komisch in einer Welt, in der sich so viele allein fühlen.
Ich werde meine Romane nicht vermarkten, sondern verschenken. Ist mir alles nicht mehr so wichtig. Vielleicht wird jemand inspiriert, vielleicht fühlt sie jemand. Das reicht. Mehr, cool, aber mei. Dieses System ist mir nicht geheuer, mein Schreiben von Erfolg abhängig zu machen auch nicht. Es geht immer ums Verbinden. Wenn ich schreibe, dann sogar aus, irgendwie, gar nicht so egoistischer Motivation. Meine Einsamkeit kann und will ich aber doch nicht verhehlen. Ich bin ehrlich, und wertschätzend, geduldig, alles, so gut es geht, und ich habe kein Smartphone, ich will nicht, ich will die Menschen sehen.
Heute hat mich ein zehnjähriger Junge gefragt, ob ich Schach spiele. Ich hätte vor MONATEN mal ein Schachbrett mitgenommen im Bus. Er hat mich wohl jetzt erst angesprochen, weil ich mich mit jemandem unterhalten habe, den ich auch nur durch den Bus kenne. Das.... bedeutet mir viel. Viel, viel, viel.
Dann sitzen Leute, schauen Filme wie Zombies, haben den Moment verloren. Ich gucke Filme fast nur noch in Gesellschaft, versuche, die Inspiration zu teilen, freue mich, wenn mir jemand erzählt, wie er noch Tage später über den Film nachdenken muss. Kleine Dinge halt auch schön. :)
Ja, ich bin vielleicht ein bissel intense und obsessiv. Aber ich möchte mich mehr dafür einsetzen. Die Welt ist so bunt, nicht einsam, und auch nicht digital. Es ist so wichtig. Kleine Taten reichen mir da nicht so viel. Vielleicht widme ich meinem Leben diesem Schritt. Diese artifizielle Einsamkeit ist einfach.... nicht ok. Da geh ich nicht mit. Liebe vor, noch ein Tor, oder so, wenn auch mit melancholischer Violinenmusik. my body is a cage that keeps me from dancing with the one i love ist ein load of bull manchmal. Manchmal. Bitte, manchmal. Okay. Ganz schön chaotisch geschrieben, aber ja. Ja.

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Vai tagad bieži tiecies ar draugiem?

✠ Man ir apnicis saņemt jautājumus saistībā ar draudzību un draugiem.
Man nav draugu.
Call me a loner, loser or whatever, i don't care.
All friendships i ever had ended bad in one way or another and in the end i was hurt. So i ended up pushing everyone away.
Plus people tend to judge me before they get to know me so i can't get friends even if i wanted to. Believe me, i tried. I guess i am too different and nobody likes that 🤷🏼‍♀
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If you're lonely and sad Don't be because you are a incredible human being and whatever is troubling you will go away and this test will be over. Remember you are a beautiful soul and a beautiful human being. The sun will shine on you again. You are beautiful.

"Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living."

This will seem like a really stupid question, because we are all social creatures, but what happens to you when you do stop socializing entirely? Do you save yourself in one sense but feel terrible in lots of other ways?

I'm quite comfortable being a loner. I actually prefer it. Yeah sometimes it gets lonely, but I've noticed that most people make me feel weak and dependant. Being on my own makes me feel stronger and more stable, and I'm more at peace that way. I have a few really good people in my life and I think they are enough.

If you had to guess, what about you would be the same and what about you would be different if you were born and raised only in Canada?

Personality wise I might be more social if I was born and raised here in Canada. But even then it's just my nature which makes me a loner artist so I don't think I'd be much different in that sense either.
What would most likely remain the same is my non comformist nature. And I'm not that way for the sake of rebelling or it's not just a phase for me. I have always liked carving my own path, and I'd say I have always been quite tolerant and open minded.

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I hate it when I express my feelings, people tend to immediately try to make me believe the opposite. I can’t talk about how lonely I am without people telling me otherwise. Sure, I have a couple of friends but where are they when I need them? Sure, I have friends but not in school. Which makes going to class extra hard for me because I’ll feel like people are judging me for being a loner. I can’t talk about how ugly I feel without people telling me I’m not. Sure, you like my instagrampicture with the right angle and filter. Sure, you can like the way I look but that doesn’t make me feel any prettier. It’s like I can’t talk about my emotions because people don’t truly listen. They just give their opinion 🌙🌸 .

Love for the fight, Fight for the love?

there is no love from me. idc about anyone. i am a loner. the world constantly seeks affectionate bonding, but not me. i am good on my own. i don't need anyone. therefore i don't need to fight for love
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Livi, how would you describe your social circle? For example, do you have a group of friends that get together regularly, say for dinner/drinks/other events? Or are you more a loner who doesn't really have a tight friend group? Or something else?

I’m the latter, I don’t have a friend group. I’m friendly with everyone I know, but I wouldn’t go as far as saying I have any solid “friends”, if that makes sense? It can be lonely sometimes, but overall, it works for me though :)

How do you keep your private life private in these world of gossips?

I don't accept my neighbours friend requests on fb. I only post in private groups there, or anonymous sites like this.
It's easy...I don't talk about my private life to others unless I know they can keep it to themselves. A great indicator is how they talk to you about someone else. Is it positive, negative or just after gossip. Some people show interest in your life just to have something to gossip about. A sad reality but nevertheless true. You have to be very selective in who you let into your private space and thoughts.
I don’t care… let them talk if they want to.
People are going to say what they want even if it’s not true…
I don’t share private things with others, and I only have 2 or 3 people in my life I actually trust. The rest I don’t care about, haters gonna hate. Yes, I may reveal too much of myself but my family life is sacred.
I think the main reason I'm private is because we live in such a judgemental world. Sometimes I find it hard to talk to friends because I don't get listened to, the first thing they may do is just tell me "Lol why did you do that? That was really dumb haha. Have you tried this? Why don't you do that?" As you have pointed out, sometimes its more beneficial/comforting if we evaluate how we are going ourselves and the situation, rather than immediately seeking another opinion/perspective.
I am pretty open. Speaking through my work and actions. If someone carefully observe how I work or perform my duties, they'll have a very good idea about me. Problem is nobody pays attention. Not my problem actually.
I hate being asked personal questions too. If someone is being way too nosy I can’t help but hold back. I used to be an open person until I learned that very few cared and the rest were just curious. Some people use your information to gossip behind your back. I don’t make up lies, I just choose to keep most things to myself nowadays. Though the only ones I can open up to are people online.
I'm always keeping my cards close to the chest. Anytime I'm asked personal questions I give the most vague answers possible, brush it off, and quickly change the subject. I'm pretty alright in any casual conversation but it all grinds to a halt when personal topics come up. Dating is gonna be all kinds of hell when I finally put myself out there. I know I'll have to force myself to actually talk openly, as well as somehow meeting someone compatible in the first place.
My parents don't know me. I don't care that they don't know me and they don't pry too much which I am grateful for. Nobody at work really knows me even though they keep talking to me after I've told them I like being alone, am a loner, and am pretty cut and dry with my responses giving as little away as possible without being an asshole. it's kind of hard because they think you're mysterious or trying to be and that draws them in which sucks. Still my only real issue with how I am is how will I ever find my hermit/quiet girl if she's the same way...?

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Amikor nagyba várom hogy írjon végre valaki instán, de tudom hogy nem fog , mert nem vettem fel ismerősöket 😂😂😂 aki meg írhatna, az már nem fog 😏🤪🤪🤪

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Ezért jó, ha loner vagy, mint én. Nem fog írni senki, de ezzel tisztában vagy. 🤷‍♂️😂😂😂

So now it's been 7 years since I'm living alone in this world no friends no cousins no fun, alone hustling not happy but still going. Never met loyalty just in online i did some broke me again. Just me and three other which is my family is what i have in world. "How would you live this loner life?"

Like seriously? Dude?
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So now it's been 7 years since I'm living alone in this world no friends no cousins no fun, alone hustling not happy but still going. Never met loyalty just in online i did some broke me again. Just me and three other which is my family is what i have in world. "How would you live this loner life?"

Well what i think is that it all depends on a person's perspective about life if you say you got only 3 members in fam So i got only 2 still they complete me & i don't feel alone at all.
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So now it's been 7 years since I'm living alone in this world no friends no cousins no fun, alone hustling not happy but still going. Never met loyalty just in online i did some broke me again. Just me and three other which is my family is what i have in world. "How would you live this loner life?"

*Akely aye ho akely jaogay*

So now it's been 7 years since I'm living alone in this world no friends no cousins no fun, alone hustling not happy but still going. Never met loyalty just in online i did some broke me again. Just me and three other which is my family is what i have in world. "How would you live this loner life?"

Yar don't think like that enjoy every moment do whatever you can do don't run after something that can't be achieved or seems impossible spread love but don't let others play with you👍☺️

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