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Have you considered going to therapy? (Not calling you a crazy person, I swear! Lol SheeeeeeEeeesh) 🤪😝 Have you ever gone? If so, what was your experience like?

Coolio247’s Profile PhotoJustine Coolioness
Therapy isn’t designed or meant to save you. Only you can save yourself, with the guidelines and loving support that only a therapist can give you. If you have a genuine and respectful therapist then you can literally move mountains. It isn’t easy. In fact it is bloody hard. Harder than I could ever have imagined and extremely painful. It is the only space where you can feel true exhilaration yet deep depression all at the same time. And every other emotion under the sun too. It is bloody hard. At times is frustrating, hurtful, feels like it is stuck

How do they make you feel?

probably the easiest, but one of the hardest questions to answer and put everything exactly in words…
she makes me feel like i can just be me. the smartass, dumbass, and jokester me. i’ve known her for eight years, which obviously leads to a lot of history. aside from me loving her thats not just my girl, thats my bestfriend too no matter what. i’m not an openly emotional person, i’ll do whatever the hell i can to shove my emotions down. i’ve done that shit for years. it works for everyone…except her. everything i bottle up ends up just flowing out. part of that is me knowing i can trust her, she makes me feel comfortable, and i know she’s actually listening and cares. i used to not be like that to even her about quite a bit of things that were going on. something i had to work on if i wanted to keep my head above water. i tried talking to people, i ended up feeling like they weren’t listening, didn’t care, or didn’t try to understand. i get in my own head a lot, especially about kyara thinking i am who i used to be. i don’t ever want to be that person again. i snap sometimes or feel like i accidentally snap at her when she didn’t do anything. i’m still me, just not everything is the same nor do i think the same. i noticed most of the time how fast i answer her, i think i subconsciously freak out trying to answer her quickly so she knows i just didn’t dip out again. i wake up some mornings and i know that i’m walking a thin line that day, or i’m functioning enough just to keep my head above water. she’s either pulling me out of the water or shes there to catch me. i won’t ever be able to thank her as much as she deserves. this really isn’t half of how she makes me feel, theres a lot more honesty.

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Why do i see him in every face? :(

Falling in love is the worst thing you can do to yourself, because loving someone means giving them the power to effect you in every way, wo achay se baat karey toh mood acha wo ignore karey toh zindagi be-rang.
we enjoy the feeling of love at the expense of vulnerability. we are so vulnerable when in love. heart is just like a glass. no one can hurt us more than people we love. they have most control over us. their single wrong word , gesture can pierce our so called cold heart.

What is most important in life? 😊

zeldalink1’s Profile PhotoNitu.
The most important thing in life is
not money. It’s not friends. It’s not family. It’s not even how much fun you have.
The only thing that matters is if you lived your life the way you wanted to.
At the end of it all, when you are on your deathbed and you look back, you will ask yourself what really mattered. Did you do everything you wanted to? Do you remember the times that took your breath away? Do you feel as though you lived a fulfilled life? Are you satisfied with how you lived? Would you live this life again?
For each and every one of us the reasons we would answer those questions with “YES” are different. Some may look back and see their family smiling, loving and caring for them. Others may look back and remember the times they pushed for their private goals and achieved more than they thought they could. And others still may think about their life and feel satisfied and happy because they led a life full of unique experiences.
What matters to you in the end is dependent on who you are. No one can tell you that.
However, if you just keep chasing after the things you want, if you do not give up on what matters to you and if you try to become better and better and better day after day, you will live a life without regrets.
You will look back on your life with a smile and see that everything you have done was your choice. And that the choices you made led you to a life fully lived. But you will also make mistakes along the way.
No one is perfect and there will be things you realize you should have done differently. But we always see it that way in hindsight.
You might not yet be the person that will look back on life with a smile on their face, but that does not mean you cannot become that man or woman.
You still have the opportunity right now to choose how to live the rest of your life.
And all you have to do to is to choose to make it one worth living, to chase the things you want, and to keep getting better

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What are your views on marriage atm? Are you disappointed that your expectations weren’t met?

I'm not disappointed.
Marriage doesn't mean a super special thing. I would never marry someone without loving them but I can love someone truly without getting married.
Marriage doesn't change anything about a relationship its just..You're safe in case of death or illness or whatever.

Do you believe in reincarnation? Why?

Nope, because the number of living things changes so souls must be able to be born anew and not simply recycled, and also because I refuse to accept that I'll have to come back and go through this crap again, without all that I have learned and the loving family I have created. I don't want to start again. Ever.

🍂 Sunday 11th September 2022 🍂

CyberBullyingSupport’s Profile Photo#spreadingpositivity
🍂 Quote of the day:
"We don't need more definitions of success but we do need more mindsets of success."
- David Anderson Iregbu, Wisdom the Principle Thing.
🍂 Positive quotes of the day:
• "When you live your life according to character, what you use to measure success changes."
- Jason McClure, Sarah K. McClure, How to Find Your Dream Job and Make It A Reality.
• "The road to success is a straight and narrow path; it is a road of loving absorption, of undivided attention."
- Mahesh Jethmalani, The Secret Door to Success: Learn the Knowledge of Spiritual Law.
Sunday 11th September 2022

Depression kya hai.? ya phr asy khty hain ky ...Depression Kyun hota hai.?

akifzulfiqar’s Profile PhotoAkif Zulfiqar
Depression isn’t like a person always talking about sadness. They would be completely normal with you but at the back of their mind they want to escape this world. In fact, you wouldn’t be able to tell if the person is depressed because they’d laugh and eat with you but things get worse when they’re alone. They’re hopeless and empty from the inside and are unable to find someone to share their misery with. They would prefer to sleep or stay silent most of the times thinking that one day it’s going to disappear. In worse cases people are half paralysed not because of any physical change. The brain doesn’t produce much dopamine to keep them happy and motivated in life. And the treatment to this problem is to have a loving and understanding family with whom they can share stuff. Medication is just a push, the real treatment is in therapy.

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What are you grateful for?

klonetron’s Profile PhotoHalbery Jones
My son, my partner, my friends, a roof over my head, food in my belly, opportunities for the future, music and books and video games and media, the communities I'm part of, and my own resilience: I've escaped numerous ab*sive people in my life, I am learning how to create myself and a life free from the cruelty I was conditioned by, I didn't die when I thought death was imminent, and I'm still breathing, learning, and loving. I try to remain mindful of all that, though it is so very hard at times.

How would you describe your own personality?

I am a gentle, kind-hearted, romantic, sympathetic and compassionate individual. I always look for people who are as kind hearted as I am. My friends say that I am kind hearted, caring and tender. My easy-going, kind-hearted temperament is ideally suited to working with people. I try to give an helping hand to all those who are most in need of a helping hand. Peiple say I am the sweetest, most kind-hearted person that they've ever known. I am broad-minded, kind-hearted, perfectly informed, clear-sighted and congenial. I loved experiencing the different cultures of the two prefectures and learning more about their kind-hearted people and Japan. I am so soothing, so smart, and do kind-hearted deep inside. I am kind-hearted, always nice and quiet and try my very best to be helpful to everyone I meet along the way. My master is a kind-hearted and sympathetic man, but, he didn't agree to help me.
You're a handsome, kind-hearted, young man, and any girl would be lucky to have you in her life.
A man of great modesty and shy by nature, he was kind-hearted and generous.
I have told many stories of the enterprising, generous and kind-hearted people that live in this community.
He was their kind-hearted teacher and mentor and guide from whom all drew inspiration.
She has a warm personality and she is very kind hearted.
Quick to laugh and kind hearted, I was a happy child.
I expect the man I am looking for will be be reliable, caring, intelligent and kind-hearted.
I’m a really open hearted, giving, loving person. Though I get wrapped up in emotions very easily and that sends me into a downward spiral of depression. I always want my love to be reciprocated which is so selfish I know. Another horrible thing about me is that I seek attention. I have a loud personality. Most people find me a lot of fun to be around but for some I might be too intense. I’m complicated 😐
People generally tell me that before they got to know me they were scared of me or thought I was cool. I personally just see myself as kind of distant and detached but I also care deeply about lots of things. Also I have really thin skin and it kind of shows.
This is a hard one. Most people that meet me, and even know me well, tell me I’m one of the nicest people they’ve ever met (I was voted “nicest person” in 8th grade) but I don’t feel that way at all. I feel like if they knew my thoughts, they wouldn’t believe that. I’m quite critical and cynical, though I mostly keep it in my thoughts and in my reddit comments, hahaha. I do try to be a good person though, and I would say I’m fairly generous and loyal. I care deeply, but that also means I get worked up over injustice easily.

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Kilka słów do niego.

i love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. i love you simply, without problems or pride:
i love you in this way because i do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no i or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when i fall asleep your eyes close.

I'm going for her good. For her happiness. She deserve better. I'm such a failure and i'm always be. Fucking stupid me. It's totally my fault and I'll accept this. Thank you for loving me. Terima kasih kerana pernah hadir membahagiakan. I'll never forget you and our memories. Farewell my love 💔

As long as u wan to fix it is never too late. Dont just gv up like tht man.
I saw a vid , the man said "yes she is too good for me, way out of my league. But i cnt stand seeing her happy with someone else. So i better up myself for her. "
N yess i agree with this. If u want her so bad, if she is worth it like u say she it. U wont gv up so easily. U will fight for it n get her bck with whtever it takes. Unless u letting her go was for ur own good, own sanity, own peace. The relatioship is toxic. If tht is so thn yes u may let her go. But never ever say tht u deserve better.

reality and love are contradictory to me....felt it to the core🍂

The existence of God is the primordial reality. When there was nothing neither creature or beings nor any dimensions, but He alone. What's the first thought that comes to your mind when you question, "Why He created anything at all?". Out of curiosity? But He is the All-Knowing, how could He be curious about anything? Out of necessity? But He is The Independent, how could He be destitute of anything? Out of frivolity? But He is All Wise, how could he do something frivolously? Out of Love? Yes, that's the right answer because He is The Most Loving. So, love and reality can't be contradictory because love itself is a reality and it's the elixir that has shaped the temporal reality.

Yar dunya me koi banda kia Apke liye bilkul perfect hota hai? Mujhe Jo log mile koi baat samajhta tha lekin break or space boht chahiye thi. Kuch fun loving thy lekin detached bhi. Kahi na kahi zarur lack krta hai insan, me too. Note: don't reply ' yeah everyone's different '.

OneFinalTime_Maybe’s Profile PhotoAhmed Imran Hashmi
Perfect koi BHI nai hota literally. It is on you and them. If you are enjoying someone's flaws, you want to be with them even if you know their imperfections that's kinda love. Otherwise nobody wants to. In a friendship nobody bears your imperfections as I have seen. So you have to be reserved like you don't have expectations and they have no expectations so that's friendship working. In a relationship you show up each and every part, there are a lot of expectations, demands, you got rude, angry, you show this to only that person bcz you just want them to be near you and the person is still living with you, loving you, caring for you, forgiving you 100 times. So just remember you can be perfect for someone who loves you or they can be perfect for you if you love them. Nobody else.

Any dominance loving woman plz? Come forward.. i have a male friend of mine desperately in need of one. Bnda duain dy ga. Let me know anybody interested 😌 #Its Serious

farah_659’s Profile Photofarah Hashimi
I am also looking for a decent boy for my sister, she is pretty, she is very pious, prays 5 times, speaks less, reads Quran etc, but she is not into love thingy like she's a novice. She does not interact with men. She wants to get married but not desperate for marriage, she just needs a good loyal and loving man in her life. Bas larka shareef ho characterless playboy type na ho saath nibhanay wala ho.

Bandaa bohat caring loving ho agr apka aur wo bht payar krta ho lakin wo gusse me thora apsy behas kar jaye yaa ooncha bole ya misbehave kre then???? Or bohat wo overpossesive b ho then?

Hazal5005’s Profile PhotoHazal
Caring and loving is one thing, but being too over possessive can be an issue.
Raising your voice during an argument is still understandable, because it’s heated from both sides. But again if this thing keeps on repeating from time to time then obviously it’s a toxic relationship.

Any dominance loving woman plz? Come forward.. i have a male friend of mine desperately in need of one. Bnda duain dy ga. Let me know anybody interested 😌 #Its Serious

farah_659’s Profile Photofarah Hashimi
Your friend needs to hire a better wing-woman. Because if he keeps relying on you, he's gonna die alone, no offense. 🤷🏻‍♀️

how do you move on from losing your soulmate? theres nothing left to move on to after that, just left with the void in your soul that can never be filled to ever be truly whole again 😔

"Our Final Goodbye"
I didn’t realize how long it has been. Time is leaving me behind and I’ve been leaving you. Not even the gift of a thousand suns could abate the ache, the weight of self-blame. How terrible I have been, to you. Perhaps the memories have faded enough that I will now remain in your yesterday. My image no longer a reminder when you close your eyes. My phantom caress no longer a comfort to soothe the pain. My kiss on your lips no longer a welcome reprieve. All that is left is for me to accept you have moved beyond me, out of my falling reach. Our tethers have become untied, our paths on separate roads. We journey on different seas, enduring differing storms, becoming not what we were once before but neither what we could eventually be. We are what we are, two lives that met, passing in a gliding touch, never to be the same again. I know I am changed because of you, a little bit better, a little bit more warm but I cannot watch as my coldness settles in your veins, consumes your beating heart. I cannot stand by as my shadows cling to you, clouding your loving gaze. I cannot bear for my demons to claim your mind as their new feeding home. So, forget me if you can, remember me if you will; it’s time, for our final goodbye.

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how do you move on from losing your soulmate theres nothing left  to move on to

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How do you move past infidelity in a relationship?

Only way for me to move past that would be to get out of the relationship. No matter how perfect or good things could possibly go, it's something that will always remain in my head. If I can't let go of it, I don't want it. I will not tolerate the disrespect and someone not loving me enough to hurt me. That's not love. I want true honest love.

How people treat you

Some treat me very nice~ listening patiently, talking like themselves(not being pretentious), motivating me to speak up without having any malicious intentions, understanding my emotions whenever I want to share them, sharing their values and opinions with me, accepting my nature as who I am ❤️😊🌻
I can act nonchalant with them. It just makes me feel happy and contented.
I start loving myself more. 😄💜
Never get affected by unfair comments. Even if you are steeped with only 2-3 nice people then that's enough to believe in humanity.
Never stop enjoying your own vibe, building a self-connection is very important. :)
How people treat you

Bandaa bohat caring loving ho agr apka aur wo bht payar krta ho lakin wo gusse me thora apsy behas kar jaye yaa ooncha bole ya misbehave kre then???? Or bohat wo overpossesive b ho then?

Hazal5005’s Profile PhotoHazal
To you and everyone crying over same things, meri jaan kya majboori hy? Ku khajlkhuwar ho rhy ho sab? Allah py yakeen rakho yar, usny behtareen insan likha hy apky naseeb myn jo waqayi insan ka bacha hoga. Thora sa wait or yakeen kr k to dekho, don’t settle for less. Please?! 🥺

Bandaa bohat caring loving ho agr apka aur wo bht payar krta ho lakin wo gusse me thora apsy behas kar jaye yaa ooncha bole ya misbehave kre then???? Or bohat wo overpossesive b ho then?

Hazal5005’s Profile PhotoHazal
Baki sab tou samaj ata ha lekin ye “misbehave” or “over-possessive” scene gets toxic real quick. You should know better, if you’re okay with ^that (for the rest of your life) because people hardly ever change. They are who they are!

How to be a supportive and loving partner when my partner is feeling insecure and resorting to self-pity?

Love and empathy. When you love and care for someone, you don't label and dismiss their pain as insecurity and self-pity. You help them come to the root of their sadness, address it if possible, and be their full support if not. Bring them food or favorite treats, offer to do their favorite things, hug and love and adore them even when times are tough and you don't understand their pain. This comes naturally when you love someone, but dismissing and invalidating them is easy when you do not. Most of the time it comes from a fear of our own sadness and insecurity that makes us not want to be involved with someone else's. But keeping one's emotional distance prevents true closeness in a relationship.

Would you prefer a well-setteled or a struggling person as your spouse?

SpongeBob6359’s Profile PhotoSpongeBob
As long as there’s understanding it doesn’t matter,
There’s nothing wrong with going for the well settled spouse.
There’s nothing like struggling together and making it to the top.
There will always be struggles,you should be mentally prepared for the responsibility,Never rush into something you aren’t prepared to handle:
I feel no rush to get married, I think that when you hear about marriage and divorce in the same breath so often it shifts your focus from getting married to "Am I ready to be married?" Yes, it's fulfilling half of your imaan but it's not a checklist item it's a lifelong decision.
So I guess don't rush into it unless you're 100% sure of the perosn you're getting married to and 110% sure you want to be married. It's commitment to a person for life, it's sometimes putting their needs above your own and that's easier said than done.
So be sure you're ready to take on a loving, caring, selfless role at times, know that you have responsibilities. Your partner has a right over you (vice versa) before you get married sit down with yourself, introspect to see if you will be able to fulfil that role
Idk why the media pushes this cute fairytale love story, yes it's beautiful, love between two people but there are bad days, there are disagreements, conflict because you're two different people.No two people are 💯 percent alike.You cant expect a loving relationship without working on it,if you’re not willing to work on it you’re not ready for it.
You're two different people, you both know two different ways of communicating, you need to learn about each other, sit down and have those difficult conversations. Nothing fixes itself but with love, respect and an open mind you can find solutions that work for your relationship.
It is easier to watch a tiktok or read something online "If he/she doesn't do this then they don't love you" or "They take you for granted" and project it onto your relationship, but you know what works for you, for your relationship half of these people on the internet aren't even
In healthy relationships. They push a very toxic narrative on how to deal with problems in relationship, its always "just leave" or "be petty" "be understood" but never about the actual difficult part of talking it out and working it out or trying to be understanding.
And last but not the least; never ever let someone else influence your decision.

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*Yeah no flying away made Geno think Reaper left so he wouldn't have to admit that whatever created Rott was something he did on purpose*

DontcallmeSans’s Profile PhotoGeno
*Reaper does canonically love both Life and Geno and I can't see him doing anything to hurt either of them-at least not on purpose, he would die to protect the both of them-
Canon wise, Geno and Reaper aren't married but they do still love eachother and had kiddos together, even if they haven't officially gotten married, you can tell they're attached to eachother
Reaper has also searched literal centuries to find Lifes Soul in order to save her from Chara
He also lost control of his powers and had a major freakout when he felt her presence vanish
He cares deeply about both of them and while he isn't canonically married to Life either, he flirts with her the same way he flirts with Geno-
And if Reaper ever did decide to settle down and marry them both but one wasn't okay with being married to 2 people..I don't think he'd force it on them..he would probably decide to marry one and stay close friends with the other, doesn't mean he would stop loving them though*

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Yeah no flying away made Geno think Reaper left so he wouldnt have to admit that

Which one is right? https://bit.ly/3pwCCfG

First of all you must have a motivation 🤷‍♀️, but if your loving man is telling you: "I love your shapes Honey, stay the same", motivation is on the point 0 😅, Heavy love! 👇😂
Which one is right


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