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Do you have hope that you can change the relationship between you and those who want you to be a certain way or with any of them do you think it will never change and you're willing to accept that?

I accept it only to a limit. I mean I respond to people as much as its doable for me and I'm also there to help people up to an extent (as much as possible for me). But it can get exhausting and once I feel like someone is trying to advantage of my niceness towards them and trying to make me feel bad then I simply cut them off when I've had enough and can't deal with anymore. I know some of my friends used to get mad at me for being online posting things or scrolling through feeds and bot replying them immedietely. It's that sometimes you just need your me time and you just don't want to interact with anyone at that time. Most of my free time goes to my art, I rarely have enlugh time for people around me.

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Establishing personal boundaries and then enforcing those boundaries is your right. Of course people will get upset whenever you say no or tell them something they do not want to hear, right? That is alright because guess what? If they get upset, it is NOT your problem. It is their problem!

alexandermonroe397579’s Profile PhotoAlexander Monroe
I do understand that. I think it's so selfish to make the other person feel like they are being mean for simply having a life of their own. I really appreciate those people who understand this and don't get mad at you for not replying in less than a minute.

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So I’ve been involved with this guy that I’m seeing for almost two years. We’re exclusive But we’re not official but we do live together, I’m close with his family and everything. Recently I caught him messaging other girls and I told him how i felt about it and he told me he does it because he like

Ugh I hate this. I know every relationship is different and if you were happy with this situation it’d be totally fine, but since you’re not, I’m going to say I think he’s taking advantage of you a bit. He has you agreeing to be exclusive with him then he’s talking to other girls. That’s not fair and you don’t deserve that. And if you live together and spend time with his family and aren’t dating other people, how is it not a relationship? It is, by any definition. He just refuses to give it the title so he can do whatever he wants then claim that you don’t have a right to be mad about it. He needs to know that he can’t make up rules that favour him when it’s convenient- he can’t expect exclusivity then say he’s allowed to talk to other people like that. I know you’ve been with him 2 years and I’m sure he treats you well or (I hope) you wouldn’t have stayed that long, but he has to know that he doesn’t own you and if you want a relationship you deserve it and if he won’t give that to you, you don’t owe him anything.

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I mean you have every right of being mad I would be too if that happened to me. She probably was just seeking attention and found a very idiotic way of doing it.

ritaeshoo’s Profile PhotoRita
That’s exactly how it played out. She didn’t think that plan through all the way. Haven’t seen any evidence of her pretending to be me anymore which is good tho but who knows 🤷🏻‍♂️. She could be any of these people and I wouldn’t even know it

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Do you often smiles at dogs and cats? while i always look mad to people.

kinzashah’s Profile Photo_Kinza_
I smile at dogs. I reckon they understand. Dogs have very expressive faces - one of the few animals that has full control over their eyebrows. If they are capable of making facial expressions then logically they must also have the ability to understand facial expressions. Evolution works like that.

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Which distinguishing trait impresses you the most in a character❓

YacerB’s Profile PhotoYacer Baloch
Nothing impresses me really. People are loaded with so much crap with just a little sparkle on the surface and that too is mostly just manipulation. Like they set up traps to lure the prey in. Whatever’s not constant, I don’t appreciate it and I don’t want it.
And it’s bullshit really that a person can’t be their best self always. I know it’s bullshit because I have a friend (just one) I’ve never been mad on in 9 solid years. The only person, in between everyone, I’ve ever known in my life, who hasn’t gotten on my nerves or pissed me off ever! We happen to have same temper issues but that never came in between. She could be shouting on others but never on me. She’s the same polite sweetheart to me all the time, in every situation.
I don’t get that from anyone else but her. No matter what the situation, she’s always the same with me and because she’s like so to me, I’ve never been mad on her either. :’)
It’s comforting that no matter what happens, this one person won’t act indifferent with me.

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Whats the most impactful "no" u have said recently?

beads9870’s Profile PhotoNoor
To one my mates. I don't know what is the problem with people these days..
May be I'm not in right state of mind..
In this pathetic class.. i mistakenly appreciated a student who was helping other students. Now this person is repeating the same line " farwa kch puchna ho tou btaiye ga" . Literally 15 times a day. Are you mad or what? I have said ok JazakAllah million times. Jan chor de bai ab. But ni. Azab bn gya ha.
Plus this Cr? Whenever i miss my class or disconnect thak msg ajy ga. Farwa class ma ni hou??? Byshak seenzone kr dou fr bee ata rahy ga msg.
I don't understand.. why do people do this? Why why why whyyyy
Apna kam kren bai. Achay hain ap pata ha. Ak din mai ak he bat 100 dafa Allah jane q krty hain log.

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Is there anything you are mad at?🌝

handsome_zaki’s Profile PhotoZakir
Yes, Money Heist
I didn't like the professor Acting and Direction was too weak
I don't know why people make something so overrated
Before this was ertugal, I didn't watch it but they create so much hype that other person doesn't even want to watch it
But this time I watched Money Heist and Trust me dude it's not up to Mark it's just overrated there are lot of shows that are much much better than this one.

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Lmfao DAMN roasting Sydney like that!? 😂 What she do to you? Good roast though lmao

Hahahahaha I just felt like roasting.
She didnt do anything to me personally but she claimed i was bullying her because i was sticking up for a couple girls that she was actually bullying so she got all mad at me so now im just gonna be a di.ck 🤷🏼‍♀️

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تتمني تلاقي ايه في شريك/ة حياتك؟

mariamzizo12’s Profile Photoمَرْيَمـ
I wish fall in love with someone who never fails to to remind me how much he love me
I wish fall in love with someone who wants to know all about how My day was. Someone who asks me if I had my meals on time. Someone who tells me to be safe when i am out. And someone who continues to talk to me even though i am terrible at texting.
I wish fall in love with someone who doesn't get mad at me for forgetting to text him back or for forgetting to do something he asked me to do. I wish fall in love with someone who doesn't hesitate to apologize first after an argument cause his love for me is a thousand times greater than his ego.
I wish fall in love with someone who supports me in the things i am passionate about. Someone who always motivate me to do better. Someone who tells me how proud he is of me. Someone who makes me believe how amazing My work is.
I wish fall in love with someone who'd love me so much that i'd forget everything that broke me in the past and erase all the bad memories.
I wish fall in love with someone who gives me all the happiness in the world.✨🌍

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I feel really bad and wanna apologise here instead of private message so I answered a question and it said korn dude or God and not knowing who you were I got mad because I believe in God so I took it to heart, got offended. I’m so sorry and it’s been years since I used this app please forgive me 😩🥺

ShantelleKavana’s Profile Photoelletnahs
Oh there's a guy on here with the username "God" And some immature childish idiot sent a "shoutout" question to all of New Zealand asking who is hotter!🤦‍♂️🙄
No need to apologize, you're fine!😅
Last time you used Askfm i don't think shoutouts were even a thing!

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What is something unfair that happened to you in your youth that you're still mad about today?

Quite a few things, but if I had to single one out for being the worst, it would be the first and second time I moved (I know that's two occasions, but they go hand in hand because the same thing resulted from moving both times).
Bullied because I had zits. It's disgusting how kids can ruin your confidence and not understand the consequence it can have for years to come.
I had to stay after school once in the 6th grade for running out of class before the bell rang - I thought the nun told us to leave. I ran, and felt her cold bony fingers grabbing me and hauling me back to class.
I got pulled over when I was 18 and this cop got really verbally abusive towards me and called me a P.O.S and a scumbag Teenager. I had to call the police on this guy because he started saying he was going to punch me in the face if I kept up this shitty attitude. He pulled me over for lights in my car and was trying to give me a ticket for them. I know they were not illegal yet he wouldn't take that for an answer. I spent an hour there and cops had to come and calm him down.
One time some friends of mine and I went to Big Bend national Park here in Texas. While bathing in the hot springs on the Rio Grande two police officers walked up to us. They instructed us to follow them back to our car. They then proceeded to accuse us of having A variety of drugs (namely marijuana, ecstasy, and mushrooms) The officer asked me multiple times if we had any in the car, I responded "Sir, we do not have any drugs whatsoever in our car." He did not believe me and I overheard him saying to his partner that young kids like us never come out to the desert unless they have drugs. He ripped our car apart for two hours and found nothing. The officers then proceeded to run all of our IDs. Lo and behold my buddy C had a warrant out for his arrest back home for doing something stupid. They then carted him off to jail where he stayed for two weeks. After they had put them in cuffs the officer who was accusing us of having drugs said we were free to go and did not even apologize for turning in our car inside and out.
In my high school the students were allowed to go off-campus to get lunch. But... McDonald's knew this too, and during lunch hours they wouldn't give away free water cups because they thought the high schoolers would steal soda with them. But they had no problem giving free water cups to people who came in during lunch hours and weren't teenagers.
Well I'm a few years past a teenager, but my girlfriend and I seem to get ignored a lot, places like car lots and furniture stores the attendants don't take us seriously and it's very frustrating because we try to get their help or talk to them, eventually taking our business elsewhere.

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Are you self conscious about your looks and the way you present yourself to others?

I find that when I'm deep in thought I have a look on my face that apparently concerns people, or makes them think I'm angry or upset. I've even been asked if I'm schizophrenic (I'm not, to my knowledge). I do tend to stare off into space intensely. Sometimes I don't realize I'm staring AT someone and they get mad, but I've mostly learned to be more careful about that as I've gotten older. I've found that carrying a book, a notebook, or some knitting allows me to let my mind wander while having something that it appears I'm focusing on to keep people from asking me too many questions.
When l took a picture, l cringed. I look back at those moments and l realize l wasn't so bad after all. Partly is having someone who constantly put me down in my early years and also my focus on flaws. My strengths were the check lists like OK, that covered. What's the next weakness l need to work on?
I went through a sudden sickness where l literally looked many decades older. Like grandpas were hitting on me thinking l was their peer during my sickness. I was at my worst, look wise. The sudden change in looks also showed how shallow people are. They treated me differently, shoved me away fast. It was almost a blessing to see the contrast as l generally was used to people treating me very nicely. I can see why some turn bitter and claim it's not fair. I did have it easy at one point. I recieved extra help and favors at times without asking.
Yes, very. I worry that because I'm so reserved, my body language comes across as cold and unfriendly. I'm also really prone to getting lost in my thoughts, and when I do that I get resting concerned face. I'm not ugly but not particularly amazing looking either, but I've learned through the years how to work with what I've got and that has helped a lot with people's opinion of me. Its a tough lesson I've learned but presentation really is everything if you care about what people think of you. Dress well, stand with good open posture, work out till you have a defined jawline, wear clothes that are classy and show subtle wealth. If you are a woman, wear a little bit of makeup. Psychology says you are respected more unconsciously by others if you do these things.
At the moment I'm trying to overcome it by making sport regularly and through positive self talk. But it's so hard for me to work it out. There are days where all of the sudden I feel so ashamed to be me and it makes me sad beyond words. But I thinkt it's worth the effort to overcome it. Everything is connected...the attitude you represent towards yourself mirrors in the attitude other people have of you.

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I was sexually harassed by my close friend. I told my other friends about it and they were mad. They told me na hindi na rin sila muna sasama dun kasi grabe daw. Then, yesterday comes my harasser's bday, lahat sila present. Even the one's na sinabihan ko. Mali ba na mgalit ako sa kanila for attendin

Sorry for what happened to you. It's not your fault and you deserve the support of real friends. If you care about these friends, let them know how their actions made you feel, and that if roles were reversed, you would not do what they did in support of the victim. Whether or not they get it or apologize, it might be time to consider leaving this social circle, especially since it was complicit in your abuse and supports the abuser. It's hard to feel safe with "friends" like this and it's hard to teach empathy and compassion. Be with people who won't hesitate to draw the line between abuser and victim. Establish your boundaries, especially since you no w know where they are.

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➥ What do your powers, if you have any and/or magic look like? Describe colours, smells, physical sensations, aesthetics etc.

megansworld932’s Profile Photomegan
My powers are kinda (excuse the swearing) fucked up. Like I have zero control. They only are there when I'm really emotionals. So I can hear others like me. It drives me mad. And when I use the powers I turn into someone different. I like to call her the red witch. She's a (sorry again) bitch. My eyes change from blue to green, my hair to red. There are green glyphs all over my body. My scent, usually like honey, turns into roses. And like I said, she's mean and likes to tear people apart with ivy or to shred them with torns or poison them with her lips. Like not nice at all.

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If you were a giant like the one from Jack and the beanstalk and you found someone sneaking inside your house, most likely to steal your goose that lays golden eggs, what'd you do? 🤔🥚

TobbeAsks’s Profile Photoᛏᛟᛒᛒᚨ
I've never actually seen or read that, is it a movie or book? I have a goose? How dare they steal my eggs! I would be mad and chase them and either pick them up or crush them under my hand or foot but I wouldn't want anything happening to the eggs or goose

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Have you seen the Series Sex Life on Netflix?

I haven’t but I was at a kinda party the other night and there was a group of women there who were talking about the show. I haven’t actually watched it but from the trailers and I’m just speaking about the trailers - it’s about a women who who’s in a marriage - they’ve got a kid. He sort of comes home. Gives her a quick causal kiss on the cheek and then y’know gives a lot of attention to the kid instead and then says y’know “I’ll see you later I’m gonna go watch the game.” Meanwhile she’s got an ex that she’s (again just reading from the description now) she’s got a sort of..they didn’t say sordid , she has like an interesting sexual past. They didn’t use that adjective, they used something else a bit saucier 😂 but basically the insinuation is, she’s had an mad old time with her ex who’s British I think. So she’s had this wild sex life with her ex and is now in a stale marriage.
There’s a renowned scene now, that they were talking about where the guys in the shower and he’s just this huge penis. Which I was surprised they showed. Which I suppose shows the inherent sexism in movies and TV. So they’ve added to this fantasy, this pornography- is essentially what it is, right? It’s pornography of the mind. Actually I s’pose at this point of which, you’re just showing an enormous penis in the shower it might be start crossing over into just pornography 😂there’s the sexism again ‘cause we see women’s parts on TV and movies all the time, don’t we? Anyway, I heard this. There were guys at this bar and it was quite funny because there was a guy there who was like, “I immediately went..” this is no joke. A guy said, “I immediately went and googled the actors shoe size.” 😂 he goes, “because I wanted to know if it was real.”
Firstly, as if like there’s just always like you know for sure from someone’s feet size what it is, and if it were a size seven he would have gone, “Ah, phew” 😂 and that google has accurate feet sizes for all actors is suspicious as well.
One of the women was a bit annoyed, that she hadn’t just had a bit more of a conversation with her husband first, but that really wouldn’t have played to the fantasy, I s’pose months of couples therapy trying to work it out, talking about feelings you’ve been having. Not to sound too philosophical or sound too old but it’s like, there’s so much of what we read and see creates insecurities. It might be the value of entertainment it might be in the way of an article. Like imagine being an 11 year old boy and you’re seeing a guy with a third leg in the shower and he’s thinking good Lord (well I s’pose boys are getting that anyway from porn, aren’t they?) anyway my point IS, these shows are greater stories. They’re like that cheap magazine or comic book that you’re reading for just some sort of fantasy story. They’re probably not something we should take many lessons from.

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How do you spend your free time when alone?

Well as a single introvert almost all of my free time is spent alone and I do almost everything alone. I even do dinner and a movie by myself if there's something I want to go see. Pretty much a normal outing for most people I still do, I just do it by myself.
Probably half. I'll become a hermit when I'm completely drained of energy, but when I'm recharged I'll visit friends or sit in public places and read should I still have free time. I used to have a big issue with social anxiety. I'd go a week without leaving the house other than to go to class or work, and I'm secretly terrified that I'll revert back to being that person should I let myself get too comfortable with being alone all the time.
Sometimes I feel lonely and bad about spending time alone, especially if I see people with a bunch of friends. But then I remember that my friends don't really care for a lot of things I love to do. So it's just easier to do things alone than to try and convince them to do this thing that I like. Most of it. Back in the colder months, I often took myself out to lunch and dinner at nice restaurants and was seeing new movies biweekly. I'm not opposed to going out with other people, but that requires me to work with other people's schedules and likings and sometimes I like to just be by myself.
Most of it. I have a bunch of flatmates but I'm around people all day and I'm a huge introvert so my free time is all-by-myself recharging time and I tend to get irritated when someone interrupts that even to ask for a pen. (I don't get outwardly mad at them obviously, I just don't like it.)
I'm working all the time and I'm usually tired so my main hobby is probably video games (should probably knock that off at my age but idgaf) and I recently took up golf, it's really fun! I try to go at least once a week if not more.
I read, watch TV, spend too much time on reddit, spend time with my boyfriend, am learning how to knit, play with my pets, take my dog to the dog park and training classes (once he's a little more adjusted I want to start taking him to the doggy social dates my school runs), cook/bake, go to the movies, go out for dinner/drinks/coffee with my friends, have ladies nights (dinner/drinks/movies/games at someone's house, usually) research career-related things while I determine what my next step should be, travel.
I love to read. I don't really have a preferred genre. It just depends on my mood at the time. I enjoy Sci Fi fantasy novels and autobiographical books quite the bit. I am currently reading the Song of Fire and Ice series. I really enjoyed Slash's autobiography. Anything by Sara Douglass or Neil Gaiman is wonderful. I bake, drink, play vidya games, go running, crochet, study, write. Sometimes my friends come over and we do the activities together and talk about what we've been doing in classes (we like to intellectually stimulate each other and are mostly in very different fields).

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Do you feel ashamed if I look into your eyes?

i'm so sad... my bestfriend of 8 years hasn't spoken to me in 3 weeks. not bc she's mad at me but bc her life has changed over the years that she barely has time to talk to me. i miss those days when we talked nearly everyday. now, i have no one to keep in touch with me everyday bc she's the only person on the internet who ever cared to see how i'm doing

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What type of people are you afraid of?

stunningali’s Profile PhotoAli Muhammad
Hmm. How do i explain this.
the "ALL OVER THE PLACE" ppl
The "YOU DON'T KNOW ANY BETTER" ppl
The "I KNOW WHAT U SHOULD DO" ppl
The "I KNOW IM BAD BUT NOW YOU'RE MAD AT ME SO IM THE HATED VICTIM HERE" ppl
The "PITY CARD" ppl
The "SORRY I MADE U ANGRY, BUT NOW UR ANGRY, SO YOU'RE THE TOXIC ONE" ppl
Damn the list can go on and on.
Im a pessimist i guess.

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What type of people are you afraid of

Its a little unfair to ask for money from people when everyone is going through bad times and exploting your friends on here for their kindness

THEY came to me with an offer.
I just threw out that i needed help. They wanted to be generous & help me. Dont get mad because of choices other people make. They didnt have to offer anything, but people did. I didnt force anything on anyone.
& you’re right we are ALL going through a tough time so if i cant count on my friends to help me through a rough spot they aren’t really my friends are they? I would do the same for someone else & actually i did. I made money writing a short story & I sent a friend some money because they needed help paying a bill. We ALL have to take care of each other.

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ja jestem ciekawa tylko czemu billboard i amerykańskie media na siłę atakują BTS

Nie wiesz? Jeśli nie wiadomo o co chodzi to chodzi o pieniądze. US industry jest mad af, bo normalnie amerykańskie gwiazdy zarabiają tylko 15% kwoty ze swojej twórczości. Resztę zgarnia wytwórnia i media. Zwykle są też zależni od mediów i swoich wytwórni, które wpędzają artystów w masakryczne długi. Czym większe zadłużenie, tym łatwiej osobom trzecim jest kontrolować jakąś gwiazdę. A BTS nie dość, że zgarniają 60% zysku to jeszcze są niezależni od mediów. Trzymają swoje pieniądze z dala od amerykańskiego przemysłu muzycznego i są niezależni, a do tego niesamowicie popularni, więc to pewne osoby trzecie tak strasznie boli, że nie mogą na nich zarobić, a muszą się im przylizywać, aby BTS chcieli z nimi współpracować, a sami BTS mają chętnych do współpracy z nimi na pęczki, więc to oni sobie wybierają z kim chcą współpracować. Do tego mają swoje szerokie grono oddanych fanów. No więc co pozostaje tym, którzy zostali zlekceważeni przez BTS jak nie obsmarowywanie ich w internecie i bojkotowanie ich działalności? Jednak wiedzą, że to mało skuteczne, więc zaczęli teraz brać się za bardziej wrażliwy czynnik czyli sam fandom i próbują oczernić BTS wykorzystując sposób w jaki antis i trolle przedstawiają ich fanów w internecie. Billboard zrobił to specjalnie, mimo że wie, że tak naprawdę to on zawinił i pozwolił na wadliwy system chartowania piosenek z tą różnicą, że w przypadku BTS to jest czysta gra, poniewaz oni nie biorą w tym żadnego udziału. Natomiast wielu innych wielkich artystów przez tyle lat korzystało z payoli i bundles, a Billboard wiedząc o tym niczego nie zmienił i dopiero niedawno miarka się przebrała i wprowadził pewne restrykcje, które w sumie niewiele dały, ale nigdy nie pytał tychże artystów wprost o manipulacje chartami, więc sam fakt, że spytał o to akurat BTS, którzy mają z tym najmniej wspólnego jest śmiechu warty. Ten artykul jedynie pokazał jak bardzo US industry boi się BTS i ich potęgi, bo BTS są anomalią, która zmusza kółeczko adoracyjne do wyjścia ze swojej strefy komfortu i zaakceptowania obcej kultury w ich otoczeniu, która nie dość, że się nieustannie rozprzestrzenia to jeszcze czerpie zysk bez korzyści dla osób trzecich w amerykańskim showbizie. US Industry próbuje pozbyć się BTS chcąc zniechęcić do nich ludzi „odkrywając” rzekomą prawdę o nich, ale prędzej czy później się na tym sparzy, bo nie jest w stanie kontrolować wszystkich, a ci bardziej inteligentni sami widzą, że coś jest nie tak i z tego tytułu ludzie zaczynają się bardziej interesować BTS i fandom nonstop rośnie, a nowi fani szybko stają się tak samo oddani jak ci starzy. US industry podjęło się walki z wiatrakami. Zobaczy gdzie nas wszystkich to zaprowadzi.

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Someone cheats on you and says it meant nothing? What do you do?

“It meant nothing” does not make things better. Because if you cheated on me with someone you genuinely thought was your soulmate, which made you realise I wasn’t, then I can’t truly be that mad at you for pursuing that assuming I genuinely care about your life happiness, which I do. But if you cheated on me with “just a friend” or a random girl you met at a bar, who you had no intention of seeing again and who you’d never want a future with and didn’t even find attractive, that’s just a clear cut case of me not being enough for you. But I value honesty and hate lying with a passion.

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I met a guy , he made me fell in love w him and i just found out that he already engaged. Should I hate him? Should I be mad? Or should I confront his fiancée? Help me, what should i do?

He made u? Whut? Did he mislead u or is just u feeling attracted to him? N no. I knw u may hear ppl saying this a lot but imma say it anyway. He is engaged and it is not right. And if he cn do it to his current fiance who knws if u were ever tgt he will do it behind ur bck.

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What's the harshest truth you have learned?

Becoming an adult does not magically imbue you with all of life’s answers 😩
We’re all going to die someday. We can spend the time we have doing nothing or being sad, mad and miserable OR we can make every last second be spent the way we want it to be.
The system does not care about you and absolutely cannot be relied on.
Love isn't enough to make a relationship work.

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It's not an opinion, it's a fact. The kids carry their parents genetics and *some* illnesses are genetic especially mental illnesses. Educate yourself. Also, I don't see why you getting mad at me stating facts lol. If you tell a schizophrenic person theyre schizophrenic, is not an insult??

You wanna know something funny? Neither my mom nor dad has any sort of mental illness.
Learn how genetics work before trying to preach them to others. It'll work out better for you.
Also in order for me to be mad, I'd have to care. Just because I tell you that you shouldn't speak while hiding anything about yourself doesn't make me angry

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When you are very angry. How do you proceed? If anyone's said you "take care easy" or "keep calm". What are your reactions?

Ohhhh, the right question arrived!😅
The reason why we have to be wise with the ones we choose to be in our circle, no matter if it's 1 or 2, they will have the knowledge, the love and the patience to deal with us. WE, people of fire signs are explosive, we have very bad temper, yes. I have learn in years as I loved myself more and more, to deal with me and to control this,not let it control me, because it damages all what I love👁.
People I have in my life ,knows me ,accept me as I am. They already know that if I am mad, leave me ALONE. Don't talk, don't tell me keep calm, don't look at me. Just tell me : I love you, when you are ok talk. That's it. It's all I need. Sometimes I'll take 1 hour sometimes ill take a day, but I'll come back ,fine and ready to talk only because I was given my space to handle my anger.

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