What's your side of the story?

Two of my friends have hormonal imbalance (it’s pretty common in women) it can lead to a variety of problems, one being PCOS. It’s not fatal but it can cause you to gain excessive weight, have acne, mood swings, unwanted hair growth on usual places. Women have peach fuzz on their face but if somebody has hormonal imbalance, they end up having dark hair. Two of my friends get dark hair grown on their chin and neck and ofc being a woman, they feel very uncomfortable about it. Sometimes when they come around and they haven’t gotten rid of those hair, they really show up and say “mei bohat buri lag rae ho” we calm them down. Tell them it’s okay. If we’re not bothered and we’re not pointing it out or making fun of it, why are you so uncomfortable? Breathe! They eventually get better. 🤍
Then there’s this old group fellow. She was so into this one guy from the group. We all knew this guy digs two things only; money and beauty. After like 4 years, when she joined for MBA we couldn’t recognise her.
She legit learned how to do makeup, took a damn course!
She joined gym, lost weight.
She used to do abaya, she gave it up.
Idk what she did to herself but she was on the darker spectrum of “tan” and she changed her skintone.
Lastly, got a new haircut, got highlights.
Even stopped being her normal self and started being more composed and started talking less.
In short, she became a different person. She became unrecognisable. If this was all for herself, I would’ve been happy for her but it was for that guy, it was then when he got interested. They got married but he still ends up telling her “you don’t look nice. Fix yourself.”
She cries. I told her this guy is not the right choice but back then she was too blinded to see it.
I’m just trying to say is that
What good is someone that only cares about you on their terms?We read as children; “All that glitters is not gold”
But people don’t get it, do they?
Then there’s this old group fellow. She was so into this one guy from the group. We all knew this guy digs two things only; money and beauty. After like 4 years, when she joined for MBA we couldn’t recognise her.
She legit learned how to do makeup, took a damn course!
She joined gym, lost weight.
She used to do abaya, she gave it up.
Idk what she did to herself but she was on the darker spectrum of “tan” and she changed her skintone.
Lastly, got a new haircut, got highlights.
Even stopped being her normal self and started being more composed and started talking less.
In short, she became a different person. She became unrecognisable. If this was all for herself, I would’ve been happy for her but it was for that guy, it was then when he got interested. They got married but he still ends up telling her “you don’t look nice. Fix yourself.”
She cries. I told her this guy is not the right choice but back then she was too blinded to see it.
I’m just trying to say is that
What good is someone that only cares about you on their terms?We read as children; “All that glitters is not gold”
But people don’t get it, do they?