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I think people don't know what to do with this frееdоm.
From the very childhооd we have some frаmеwоrk of bеhаviоr from our parents for example and we live within this "box" of bеhаviоr.

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I would say when such people learn, they can do everything they want, they start going сrаzу or getting lоst from the amount of chоicеs they have now and that's why they start to behаvе wеird or dаngеrоus.

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To use your frееdоm irl you need to brеаk your innеr frаmewоrk.
Maybe it's better to strеtch them out grаduаlly to learn how to use this new "space" instеаd of just еrаsing the bоrdеrs to avоid hm.. a stаtе when you apply to yourself the behаviоr pаttern of another person, possibly unrеаl (hero or аnti-hеro from some book or movie).

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P.S1 My thoughts are disоrdеrеd. Hope you get the idea... ^^'

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P.S2 The scrееnshоt is from "Chоicе Milliоnаire" by Pоеts оf the Fаll

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Well… Here’s what I know about this topic (and of course, this is largely from an American perspective).

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Throughout history, various foods were categorized as rich or poor people’s food due to price or quantity, or both. Like, for example, lobster, back in the day, was deemed “poor people food” because there was so much of it at all times, that it was fed to prisoners amongst many others, and was even referred to as “poor mans chicken”. 🥴 A modern day example I know of is that something like instant noodles here in the US, is referred to as “poor people food” (whether it’s jokingly or not, I think depends on who is saying it) because it’s typically super cheap, and notoriously what broke college students eat a lot. And also, a lot of heavily processed foods, in general, tend to be cheaper than whole foods that contain more nutrients, which is why many low income households largely rely on them to get by, sadly.

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However, it seems that this varies between countries and is not a “one size fits all” situation. And that likely goes for many cultures too, depending on what food prices are, and what is traditional to eat for those people. The cultural side is not something I have really any knowledge on though, so I’d need to read up on that. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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If we’re getting real technical about it, I guess you could label any food/dish as being primarily for “rich” or “poor” people depending on who has the most access to it, or who relies on it the most. But I’d say the classification of “poor” food by rich people is likely more prominent because rich people can basically afford any food they want, whereas poor people, sadly, cannot. 🤔 And even more sad than that, rich people tend to look down on poor peoples lifestyles in general… They harshly critique a poor persons food choices without having a single clue what food insecurity feels like, and to not have enough money to be certain that they’ll even get a meal that day. Or to have to ration the little food they have, and stretch it for days or maybe longer, in order to make to their next paycheck, or get food stamps, etc. But, they don’t care about that, cause they eat anything they please… So they just turn their nose up and judge unfairly. 😒

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So, I think, technically, can foods be classified in those ways? Yes, because depending on where you live, and what you commonly eat/can afford, you might view other foods outside of that to be out of your range, or notice that it is marketed towards a different segment of the population than you. Is it good that this happens? No, not at all. Is it absurd? Yes. But it doesn’t stop it from continuing… Cause even I grew up hearing people around me use that terminology fairly regularly. 😅

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Ehh… Maybe. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Like, if they are jealous to the point that they get angry, lose their temper, try to control how long I hang out with someone/who I hang out with, or are just prone to unhealthy coping skills when dealing with jealousy, then no I wouldn’t date or marry them. It’s not a relationship I’d want to be in. 😬

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BUT, if they came to me and said something along the line of: “Hey, I’ve been missing you and would love to spend some extra quality time you. It sometimes makes me feel upset/jealous when I don’t get to see you much. What do you say we set some time aside and enjoy each others company?” THAT would be something I’d be more than willing to work through, and we could absolutely navigate that in a healthy way.

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For me, it’s not so much the jealousy itself that’s the problem, I think it is a fairly normal thing to feel… And I’ve felt it too, trust me. But it’s more so the way people act/speak when they’re jealous, because it’s such a powerful emotion at times. It can be hard to speak of jealous feelings with a partner in a way that is both clear and intentional, but also, approached with care and love. 😅 So I think if both me and my future partner feel comfortable and confident enough in each other to navigate those feelings in such a way, I’d have no problem at all. 😄

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I had to think about this question for some time and, in doing so, I realized just how little I remember from my school days... Because there aren't really any field trips that stand out in my mind. I remember some of the locations I went to, but very little of what I did or learnt there...

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... I do, however, remember getting an earful off my primary school history teacher after a trip to the Jorvik Viking museum in York. I don't remember how old I was exactly, but I know it was very early in my school career, maybe year two?

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Anyway, I had been asked to write a report of my visit and also draw a picture of something from the trip. I completely misunderstood what was being asked of me and drew myself sat in McDonalds, which was were we went for lunch after the museum. My teacher wasn't best pleased and insisted I draw something from the museum, so I drew a Viking.

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Because I didn't have much room left on the page though, I had to put the Viking drawing right next to my McDonalds illustration, which made it look like the Viking was in the restaurant with us. 🤣 🤦‍♀️

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**What if it's the same as me?**
They say parallel ones are supposed to be the opposite of the current you ... If that's true then I'd tell him how lucky he is and he has no idea what I'd give away to just see how much he smiles or the fun he has ... Maybe he takes care of himself in terms of sleep , diet and exercise while making those abs ... Maybe he's getting more sharp and active as he ages like wine 🍷 ... Maybe his lucky enough to have his life plans executed as he planned and is at a better stage of life ... Maybe he'd be a little selfish enough to think about his priorities and himself ... And Maybe he'd enjoy his Life and time with more quality people while keeping his priorities straight !!!
I'd love to see a me version in the parallel universe but even if he's not as I expect it will be cool by me because I know both of us would understand why we are the way we are than anyone else could ... !!! 🍀🤞🏻

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How about you Jo ?

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Well depends ... If there's a slight scope of correction there's no harm in trying but I guess most of the time it's better to let things take their course because if it's meant to be the situations will turn itself in a way that they can be repaired and if it's not then the sooner you move on from it the better because life and time will keep moving wheather you have regrets or you don't feel okay or maybe anything else that stops you from being you ... But it's much better to take some time off from Life and not care if it waits or not but just take that time to recover, heal and reflect on what's next so you can continue with your future self without letting things hinder your way ...
I personally envy those people though because sometimes life never gives you any time to heal or recover from any of it ... You'd have to leave your healing as secondary and just move on far to a distance that your regrets and things don't bother you anymore ... !!!

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I think you attract whatever you think a lot about. For example, if you think that your friend doesn't like you, your brain will work hard to prove this to you by pinpointing little things she does that may suggest she doesn't like you. Now she may not intend to do those things to annoy you, maybe she has always done those things but now taht you've given your brain this task of proving your thoughts right, it's gonna become extra cautious of everything she does and try to prove your thoughts right.
Which in turn causes you to act on those thoughts because now you have 'evidence' to prove that you're right. When you take subtle steps towards that direction, you're naturally making it your reality 🤷🏻‍♀️
In this example, you start being rude to your friend or stop being too friendly with her to protect yourself, your friend senses that and starts disliking you for real. You turned your thoughts into your reality now.
Your brain's job is to help your survive and it hates conflicting thoughts. Because conflict is not good for your survival. So it's eventually gonna start looking for things to prove your beliefs/strong thoughts. Which will greatly alter your reality.

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