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Írj valamit arról a személyről, aki itt a legnagyobb kérdőjel számodra.

én itt nem ismerek már senkit. talán 2-3 személy van akinek likeolok néha es ezáltal a válaszaiba is bele olvasok. de mivel senkit nem ismerek, nem tudok mit mondani. talán annyit, hogy s legtöbb ember nem önmagát adja itt sem, ahogy egyik social media platformon sem.

According to you, what can and should we do for the religion Islam in an attempt to bring back its real image in society? (Serious and practical answers only)

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
I don't think that most of the society has ever been having the right image about Islam thanks to false media. But as Muslims we should put enough effort to learn about true Islam and most importantly to apply what we learn as much as possible.

You know it’s funny how for years you would blast me on social media stalk me threaten me. get mad at me when I didn’t do something right and go put it all over Facebook R put our personal business on Facebook and also have my granddaughters teacher contact about a post. But it’s OK for u to do it

اهه والله وصرت مخوته للأجانب💔 الأجانب صارو بس يكونوا فاضيين يتخوتوا عصفحتي💔💔💔
Why didn't you send this to the person you're referring to? Why did you send it to me???

Basszus... Kaptam egy kérdést a Varga Irén-jelenségről, miszerint megjátssza-e magát a hölgy, de mire elküldtem a választ, a kérdés törölve [ jelentve? ] lett...

Sophrones’s Profile PhotoSophrone
Ám felettem nincs hatalmad, cenzúra, muhaha!
A populáris média mozgatórugója, hogy az alapjáraton korlátolt szellemi képességekkel rendelkező, ezért könnyen befolyásolható, szeretetre és figyelemre éhező embereket arra kondícionálja, hogy a pozitív megerősítések miatt helyesnek érezzék önmaguk végletes lealacsonyítását, önkritikátlanul odadobva a teljes lényüket a lakmározó csőcseléknek, ezzel nagy anyagi hasznot hozva a menedzsereknek, szponzoroknak és hasonló hiénáknak (we ❤ konzumizmus). Az ő korlátolt értelmezésükben a nézettség, lájk és a figyelem minden formája csak annyit takar, hogy "foglalkoznak velem = fontos vagyok", és ki ne akarna fontos lenni, pláne, aki a hétköznapokban olyan icipici és - önismeret és egyéni gondolatok híján - az öndefiníciója kvázi teljes mértékben a külvilág megítélésére alapozott?
Azonban nem mindenki képes mérlegelni az árat.
Amint Irén utolsó csontjairól is leszopogatták a húst a médiakeselyűk és már nem lesz semmi hírértéke, mert a folyton újdonságra éhes nép új cirkuszt talál, ő pedig egyedül, kizsákmányolva ott ül majd az üvöltő csöndben, remélem, képes lesz megbirkózni önmagával és nem fordul majd önmaga ellen.

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I guess that ask era where people actually gave a shit and used to answer comprehensively to a question really is finally over now

Oh, absolutely! It's not like we live in an age where information and resources are readily available at our fingertips. Who needs comprehensive answers when we can just rely on quick Google searches and social media sound bites? Who cares about understanding complex issues when we can just resort to snarky one-liners and sarcasm to get our point across? It's a brave new world, my friend! 🙄

Sau ăia care zic că de ce stai pe ask dacă ești măritată și ai copil. De parcă femeile măritate cu copii nu au voie să stea pe social media. Nu îi ca și cum Ask îi site matrimonial. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Uite de ăștia am uitat😂😂 Da păi dacă răspunzi la câteva întrebări cum îți permiți, în loc să stai DOAR cu copilul că viața e gata, nu mai ai voie să faci, să ieși în oraș, să pleci în concedii fără copil. Au rămas limitați și cu gândirea de 1900, pe care nici bunicii mei nu o au.😅

Have you ever had a friend that unfollowed you on social media? Did you find out if it was on purpose or not?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
Yes... and as a result, I learned the following lesson:
real friends do not unfollow or walk away. > Adonis
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."
> Henri Nouwen

Is it red flag if you the man you were hypothetically married to hides his relationship status on Facebook or don’t wear his ring in public?

Not posting it on Facebook would not necessarily be a red flag, cos some people are more private on their social media. If you had that showing but then he suddenly hid or removed it? That’s different. 🚩 As for the wedding ring, why is he taking it off in public unless his job requires it (health and safety/gets his hands dirty a lot) unless he is trying to appear available to other women? If he has always worn it and suddenly has stopped? 🚩If he has hidden the status and got rid of the ring at a similar time? 🚩

If all socialmedia apps get deleted we will not be able too communicate. This is what they want, socialmedia blackout. It starts with tiktok.

That wouldn't be a bad thing. It would remove cyberbullying, online assaults, harassment and stalking. It would force people to acknowledge that there is more to life than wasting it away on a screen. People would be much happier without it — it would be difficult in the beginning as social media was created to make us addicted and like any addiction, it takes a while to break.

Share an unpopular opinion you have!✨

yomummyyy’s Profile Photowicked.witch
I can share a common unpopular opinion among some people which is that social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram have a negative impact on mental health and wellbeing. While social media can be a useful tool forcommunication and networking, excessive use of these platforms can lead to feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression.While not everyone may agree with this view, it is a common opinion that has gained more attention in recent years.

If ppl dont want commentary, why do they post publicly and allow comments? Keep their business to themselves.. and if not, lock comments. Problem solved.

That doesn't make the behaviour of those leaving negative comments okay. I am talking about their behaviour alone. They are surely not mentally well. What drives them to leave rude comments? Jo unwanted opinions hain apnay dimagh tak rakhain zuban py lana lazmi nai hota.
Ap ghar sy bahar nikaltay toh hogay hi public mai , agar log apko bilawaja bully karna apka mazak urana shuru kardain would that be ok? Would telling you to stay home, away from public be a reasonable suggestion? Social media is no different.

شخصيتك ع ال social media نفس شخصيتك ع الحقيقه..؟ 🦋

HendMohammed505’s Profile PhotoHend Mohammed
لا مكانَ لي على مواقع التواصل..
إذا كانَ القصد عن " هنا" فأنا
أُحِبُّ " نور" التي تضع ما يعنيها
وما تتحدث به " هنا"..

Do you text boys first?

That totally depends on the situation.
My friends I text first if I need to ask them something.
My boyfriend and I text basically continuously, so I’m not sure who starts first lol. At the beginning of our relationship I started first.
On social media: only if I asked a question or if I want to know how somebody is doing, but it’s not often that that happens. 😅😂

Is it okay to block someone if they are your ex or someone from the past year just don't like?

alpharean’s Profile PhotoChatter Box
Yeah, I think it’s okay to block somebody or at least unfollow them if you don’t like them or don’t want to see them on your feed.
It’s your social media and I feel like it should be a place that is entertaining to you, not a place where you’re feeling forced to watch updates from people you don’t want to see.

Você acha fácil ou difícil encontrar pessoas interessantes pra conversar ?

Difícil. Não porque me considero especial ou sei lá o que. Muito pelo contrário, eu me acho é bem regular e nada fora do normal. Diria até abaixo da média pra certos "grupos". É que eu simplesmente não tenho interesse em papear com as pessoas.
Talvez um "oi, tudo bem?" ou alguma conversa que dure, no máximo, uns 5 minutos. Sei que, por questão de prudência social e até inteligência emocional, eu deveria procurar interagir mais, mostrar mais interesse. Mas eu não consigo. Me falta vontade.

I think people should go back to book reading and story telling phase. Social media of today has become complex, boring and limited by the latest algorithms. Your thoughts?

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
I really miss sending texts via gmail.
I'm not that old lol, but it was actually good...
It made me realize what the word WAIT actually feels like...
I think waiting for someone you love is actually sweet and respectable, but nowadays every couple wants quick responses or MUJE SEENZONE KYUN CHORA :')

Hi Liu. How have you been? /Alex

Hi, Alex!
I've been good. After the second semester started, I don't have much time for social media, so I stopped using my smartphone and switched to the Light Phone 2, which has been an interesting experience. All social media is now on my laptop, and when I have time, I check it.
In general, my life is good. I'm still going to work, college, Bible study group, and church on Sundays, and the rest of my time I'm either doing homework or making plans with my friends.
I've read your posts about your updates and I'm glad you can work fewer hours now and commit your time to the things that are important to you ☺️

I think people should go back to book reading and story telling phase. Social media of today has become complex, boring and limited by the latest algorithms. Your thoughts?

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
In actuality the limelight on social media attracts ppl in a way that everyone wants to be a part of it,ppl are getting intensely involved in different social platforms just for getting fake fame no matter what they are actually going through in their life which results in more depression ,anxiety....thts the only reason ppl have 0 interests in books,novels and good activities....bcz limelight is more important thn good health for all of us...we cant do anything bcz we all are stuck with this sad fact😊

What would you think in a situation where you barely speak to someone but when you decide to contact them they block you immediately on a social media platform? Would you think it’s valid and understandable that they blocked you?

I would say that person has lost interest in communicating with you and it is time to move on with your own life and forget about them. Live and let live.

Have you heard about that UFO that the US military shot down in Alaska? They have actually broad casted in on the news now.

cam51440’s Profile Photocam
"broad casted" ?
Have you heard about the new language devised by Cam?
*broadcast* . . . . for all tenses !
No ; 'ufo' is gutter media bull-feces . It is very well identified .
I mean, it is even ascertained to be without personage . . . nobody aboard . Just like Biden's brain-cavity
It's 'just' a distraction . . . .
Have you heard about that UFO that the US military shot down in Alaska They have

What are the reasons of that a girl we were texting with each other has suddenly disappeared and stopped interacting on social media? We've just chatted for 2-3 days and the chemistry was very good! Why would she do that of she's really interested in me as a man?

I know neither of you nor your circumstances, so I don’t know how you think I’d know why someone has stopped texting you!
After only a couple of days, it could be anything from something that you said, to them just being ill, or anything!🤷🏻‍♂️
I’m afraid you’ll just have to hang on there and see if they get back in touch - and if they don’t, remember not to harass them or anything.
Good luck!

In every social site,or Wherever you go, Girls are in demand, Bt then, Why everyone wants only Boy as their child ???

curosity46’s Profile Photoritesh kumar
Statement 1 : In every social site, or Wherever you go, Girls are in demand.
What demand are you talking about brother ? IDK about social site, but elsewhere wherever we go, if its a workplace, then there's a hiring team, there are some professions where girls are preferred, but its not generalised. And vice - versa is true, at some places , men are preferred, and at most other places, jobs are gender neutral. Beyond this, you go to any recreational place or anywhere else, its just a person's choice to go there, there is no "Demand" factor.
Also for this "social site" , where do you get this idea that Girls are in "Demand" ? Social Media is just a place to be , everyone can choose to be there or not be there for XYZ reasons, social Media isn't a marketplace where something is in "Demand".
Statement 2 : Why everyone wants only Boy as their child?
IDK where are you getting this idea for "Everyone" but "Everyone" doesn't want a boy child, some don't even want children, some want 1 boy 1 girl, some want 1 child any one, some want boy, some want girl, this is just a personal choice, its not a generalized thing. You may want a boy child, maybe you can also justify why you want a boy child, but it doesn't mean everyone wants a boy child.
Now , What are you trying to say by your question actually? Online aao to sabko ladkiya chahiye and ghar par sabko ladke chahiye, something like this?

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Why are so many people online against talking to children? I always see on here and other socials people with things like “adults only” “18+ only” “minors do not interact” “no minors” etc. In their bio. No, I’m not a child, I’m a whole adult. Just curious

"Death Of The Soul" by Alex (Part 1)
There are many reasons why adults are afraid to associate with young people and much of it relates to the numerous crimes and abuses that adults have perpetrated upon our youth over the years and centuries. The list is long so I will only mention a few:
- Priests molesting young people
- Teachers having sex with students
- Parents abusing their children
- Wealthy people like Jeffrey Epstein arranging for young girls to have sexual intercourse with politicians, millionaires/billionaires, businessmen and world leaders.
There are many more documented cases that I could list, but you get the point I am making. As a result, society has demanded that our children and young people be protected by law and that these laws be aggressively enforced and adult perverts be punished.
Other contributing factors are the "Me Too Movement," pervasive groupthink and victimhood movements, the LGBT+ ideology and a belief that whatever alleged victims say it must be true and therefore the alleged perpetrator is "guilty" and must prove his/her innocence. These combined forces have made many adults nervous and fearful of false allegations because we understand that if we are wrongly accused of a sex crime, it is likely that we will lose our family and friends, our employment and all of our assets. In addition, there is a high probablity that we would be found guilty and sent to prison.
A friend of mine who was a prosecutor and is now is a successful defense attorney specializing in sex crimes, told me that 80% of the men imprisoned for sex crimes in the state where he practices law are, in his opinion, innocent. And he also admits that the judicial system, our media and our society believe that if a man is accused of a sex crime, he is guilty and must prove his innocence.
I would challenge anyone reading this essay to talk to an innocent man who has been falsely accused of a sex crime and ask him if he was treated fairly and assumed innocent until proven guilty or if he was instead, treat like a criminal who must prove his innocence? I could provide more graphic detail of what I am talking about, but I have said enough and hopefully you understand the point I am making.
My son is a director of Music and Arts in a well known private high school and to protect himself from false allegations, he had the school install video cameras in his office and bandroom. Students are only allowed to meet with him if other adults and students are present and the doors are left open. In my private life, I teach guitar lessons and require that a parent be present at all times to protect myself from false allegations. And whenever I am in the presence of women (young or old) I always ask my wife or daughter to accompany me and if they cannot, I will not attend the event. (cont)

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You may cause a war in the USA.

Honestly, I have no idea how women do it. The constant sexual harassment and objectification of men and how incredibly toxic women are to other women. As a bisexual man, a man in general women already hate me for simply existing and forget even trying to compliment a girl. I can't even talk to women anymore without getting chewed out and they used to be the people I always went to. Just the end of 2022 I have never experienced so much sexual harassment and objectification from MEN in my life and now WOMEN too? What the hell is this? I can't go on social media without feeling like shit about myself and that's incredibly sad.

En referencia a lo físico a mí me atrae una chica alta (pero no más alta que yo, no quiero parecer su hijo), "delgâda", con buenas pômpas/cadêras, "lindo" rostro, cabellera rizada, con rico olor; ¡uf, me caso! :$. ¿Para ti cómo tiene que ser físicamente la persona para que @MuchoTeAtraiga_? *DNSB.

JocLuisHernandz’s Profile PhotoјǿÇ ļยĺ$´Ħz ⚙️
JocLuis, hola. 🌷
Linda noche. 🌟
Vaya, buena pregunta.
Me atrae muchísimo un chico alto o por lo menos que sea unos centímetros más alto que yo, contextura media, cabello liso, sonrisa amplia, pulcro, varonil con tonos sutiles, delicado, y con fuerte aroma a perfume. 🍂
Saludos!
En referencia a lo físico a mí me atrae una chica alta pero no más alta que yo

Cand cineva va e drag, care e exact sentimentul? E de iubire sau doar apreciere sau admiratie? De exemplu daca zici ca iti e drag un user de pe ask ce sentiment ai pentru el?

păi de admirație, poate simpatie.
dar pe social media poți să-ți iei și ţeapă cu oamenii
gen aici să fie ok, iar în realitate opusul
mulți dintre oameni nu sunt deloc ca pe media, dar na
eu pățit chestii din astea și am învățat să citesc oamenii oarecum

Neked mi a "bűnös élvezeted"? (A guilty pleasure isan activity or piece of media that someone enjoys but would be embarrassed by if other people found out about it. These might be books, movies, TV shows, foods, etc...)

tangled01219867’s Profile PhotoD.
Amióta sikeresen leszoktam a beteges túlevésről (kopp-kopp), azóta nem igazán van bűnös (= ártalmas) élvezetem.
Igen, szoktam pl. édességet vagy instant kaját enni (I ❤ chilis Soba), és igen, a legtöbbször a Valorantot választom olvasás helyett, DE nem gondolom, hogy ezek helytelen döntések volnának - egyszerűen csak átgondolt mértékben hallgatok a testi és a lelki, mentális igényeimre, amiért nem vagyok hajlandó bűntudatot érezni, sem egy külső nyomás hatására önmagamnak generált, impozáns szerep szerint élni.
Majdnem azt írtam, hogy esetleg a mozgásszegény életmód lehetne az én "bűnös élvezetem", de amióta a jelenlegi helyen dolgozok, annyit futkározok és lépcsőzök, hogy már ezt sem tudom példaként felhozni.
Hmm... Mondjuk legyen a bűnös élvezetem a munkamániám. A héten az egyik kollégám (is) már azzal szivatott, hogy fog nekem hozni egy vörös csillag kitűzőt. :c

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What are the reasons relationship now a days don't work out?

usmanaay1’s Profile PhotoUsman
There are two answers, both related.
People are becoming more self-centered and narcissistic. And it’s because people are selfish, that they tend to do relationships wrong.
For one thing, girls give themselves away to men, without marriage. Without marriage, the guy has no reason to commit.
Many people are mind-screwed by media and pop culture, and Hollywood, that relationships are all about these romantic encounters and love nonsense.
In reality, the primary reason a man gets married, is to have sex. When women give themselves away without marriage, a man has no reason to get married. Thus the relationship rarely ever lasts.
Additionally, people are just flat out selfish. They simply don’t believe they have to stick together with someone they don’t have some sort of magical mystical ‘feeling’ for.
Well any life long married couple will tell you that months, even years, they sometimes don’t have those ‘feelings’ for the other person. Sometimes marriage is tough. Sometimes life is rough. Sometimes you don’t want to be nice, and loving… but you do so anyway because it is right. And because of that you end up with that deep loving relationship that you want.
People never get there, because as soon as they don’t ‘feel’ it, then they break up, divorce, and move on.

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Cum pot sa nu mai fiu frustrata si hateful ?

Să rezolvi lucrurile din interiorul tău. Frustrările și răutatea vin din anumite nemulțumiri pe care le ai tu cu tine. Încearcă să te concentrezi pe persoana ta, pe lucruri care te fac să te simți fericită și împlinită, să citești pentru a te deconecta și a sta departe de social media unde implicit se întâmplă hate-ul și unde toți etalează vieți perfecte etc. Mergi la terapie, discută cu cineva de încredere, scrie într-un jurnal ce te face să te simți așa de rău încât să ataci alți oameni…
Și în final gândește-te că nu câștigi absolut nimic din asta. 😊

Opowiedz mi o czymś, co jest coraz bardziej akceptowane społecznie przez innych, ale nie przez ciebie.

dominikaR20’s Profile PhotoஐniePOLUBISZmnieஐ
Trawiłaś w dziesiątkę, oto przykład Węgielka. Fakt, że Roksana pięknie śpiewa. Stała się sławna 25 listopada 2018 roku wygrywając Konkurs Piosenki Eurowizji dla Dzieci, jednak ciążę w jej wypadku uważam za dużo przedwczesną: https://www.pomponik.pl/plotki/news-roksana-wegiel-chwali-sie-zdjeciem-z-usg-tego-nikt-sie-nie-s,nId,6530013?parametr=polecamy Pamięta ktoś wczesne teledyski Roksany Węgiel, gdzie media po wygraniu konkursu promowały ją prawie jak 30 letnią artystkę w otoczeniu dorosłych facetów, udających taniec współczesny, kręcących rękami jak wiatraki? Czy w ten sposób robi się teledyski dla piętnasto, czy szesnastoletniej dziewczynki? Prywatnie uważam, że dla Roksany to za wczesne lata do w ten sposób kreowanego show-biznesu. Odpowiednio ukierunkowana Roksana mogła się stać polskim odpowiednikiem niemieckiej Wanessy Mai, bo ma dziewczyna warunki głosowe. Niestety ludzie, którzy produkowali dla niej teksty piosenek i choreografię do teledysków z jej udziałem moim zdaniem zupełnie zawiedli. Oby Roksana Węgiel nie skończyła podobnie jak Britney Spears, która ze światowej klasy piosenkarki stała się na jakiś czas gwiazdką filmów dla dorosłych! Później jako piosenkarka i aktorka wycofała się show-biznesu. Niechlubna sława z filmów pozostanie do końca życia. Węgielku nie idź tą drogą. Lepiej skończę ten temat, ponieważ, czajniki zaczną piszczeć, że temperatura moich wypowiedzi za bardzo zbliżyła się do temperatury wrzenia wody. Lepiej skończyć temat piosenką Britney'ki - niegdyś słodkiej nastolatki, mającej dobre warunki głosowe. Wolę, żeby ten przykład był przestrogą, dla bardzo zdolnych i bardzo młodych polskich piosenkarek: https://youtu.be/CduA0TULnowKubaGR571’s Video 171297058789 CduA0TULnowKubaGR571’s Video 171297058789 CduA0TULnow

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Seems like FAA would be able to work around the kind of problem they claimed caused the outage. Not buying any of it.

I worked as a Senior Network Engineer for fortune 500 companies for over 40 years until I retired. During that time I worked on designing, installing, configuring and troubleshooting large enterprise networks. Every element within the core network and server farms had redundancy and were protected by firewalls, access lists, network mgmt systems and intrusion protection systems. In the event that we suffered a software or hardware failure the affected systems would failover and their network traffic re-routed automatically without user intervention or down time.
Those of us who are paying attention understand that democrats, RINOS, and their deep state operatives will do literally anything to maintain power even if it means destroying America's infrastructure. I honestly believe that this attack was instigated by the deep state. They did it with Russian collusion hoax, Ukraine hoax, Marlargo home invasion, labeling parents as terrorists for attending school board meetings, funding Antifa and BLM to burn down cities, hire 87,000 IRS agents to attack the middle class, leave billions in military hardware in Afganhistan, take control of the MSM as a propaganda tool to be used against American citizens, destroy our southern border, advocate for an international carbon tax to fund the Climate hoax, invade sovereign nations, remove conservative professors and teachers from the Universities, Public schools and confiscate weapons, indoctrinate our children with LGBT nonsense and take control of all Main Street Media to brainwash and dumb down the population.
The attacks on our constitution never end because the democrats are determined to destroy America and implement a New World Order run by globalist tyrants.
WAKE UP AMERICA!

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Czy w 2022 stracił*ś kogoś ważnego dla siebie?

Fruubus’s Profile Photozya
Tak. Odcięłam się od osoby, która była moją przyjaciółką przez 7 lat. Tylko dlatego że nie podobało jej się że wprowadziłam zmiany w swoim życiu, bez ustalenia z nią tego + zaczęła twierdzić że znajomi, których mam po za nią nie istnieją, bo nie dodaje z nimi zdjęć na media. Ja naprawdę nie czuję potrzeby relacjonowania w necie każdego mojego spotkania ze znajomymi, a ona nie potrafiła tego zrozumieć. Nie podobało mi się też że za każdym razem od roku każde nasze spędzanie razem czasu leci na internet. Ruzumiem zrobić sobie wspólne zdjęcia, ale po co je wstawiać do sieci? 🤷 Straciłam ją, była dla mnie ważna... Ale wiesz co? Bez niej czuję się lepiej psychicznie, więc to może ona ciągła mnie w dół? I przestałam tak dbać o aktywność w mediach, bo nie muszę już pilnować żeby polajkować i skomentować jej każde zdjęcie, które doda. 😁

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Nektek mi a véleményetek a norynas élö liverol?(18+)

Nagyobbat röhögtem, amikor csak úgy nocontext felgyújtotta a haját.
Egyébként az a véleményem, hogy pont Noryna és társai égetik le felettébb mód a transznemű közösséget. Ismertebb social media szereplők között is full normális transznemű emberek vannak, de nem ők válnak országszerte (ami azt jelenti, hogy nem csak LGBTQ emberek között) ismertté, hanem a Noryna, KaffMerci, Csinibaba Fannika, meg a többi segghülye attention seeker, akik szerintem be is szarnának élő adásban, ha garantált lenne, hogy pár napig arról fognak beszélni. És ezek reprezentálnak egy közösséget Magyarországon :_(
Kis híján azt mondtam, hogy ennek függvényében már meg is értem a jobbereket, de ilyet sose mondanék, lol :D

How do you ensure that you're neither too naive nor too distrustful in life? Simply put, how do you know when to let your guard down or armour up? , What, when, why… ask

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Great question Aisyah.

As a teenager I was very naive because I use to believe that words had specific meaning and that whenever people expressed themselves, they understood the meaning of their words and were being honest and telling the truth. Of course, this was untrue and naive. A defining moment in my life occurred when I was 16 and my English teacher challenged my set of beliefs when she said: "50% of what you read in the newspaper or hear in the news is either false or misleading." I remember sitting there thinking to myself, is my teacher correct and if so, what do I need to do to prove it and not be victimized by it?
I decided to pay attention whenever people expressed their opinions and to challenge them whenever appropriate. I soon discovered that humans communicate in several ways:
1. Subjective Thought - these are opinions that might be factual and based upon research and hard evidence; but most of the time subjective opinions are either gross exaggerations, intentionally misleading or simply dishonest and unethical propaganda based upon flawed perceptions and personal bias.
2. Objective Thought - this requires that the writer express themselves honestly and to consider opposing ideas and viewpoints. It also requires serious inquiry, analysis and vetting of the subject matter to reveal the truth and to express these revelations in an honest and transparent manner.
To answer to your question:
How do you ensure that you are neither too naive nor too distrustful in life?
You must be able to differentiate between subjective thought and objective thought. And you must also be willing to challenge the information that you are being exposed to whether it be online, newspaper, cable news, books, magazines or any other medium be it verbal or written. For example, those who govern and control our society, country and world i.e. politicians, media, professors, teachers and the ruling class, do not like their narratives to be exposed or challenged with truth, facts and reason. Instead, they prefer predefined state sponsored narratives that support their globalist/Marxist ideology. These state sponsored narratives must be exposed and challenged by citizens who disagree with globalist ideology and are not indocrinated or naive or afraid of negative consequences or reprisals from the globalist tyrants.
/Alex
> "I had to make a decision about whether it would impact how I felt about trusting people, and I decided I wasn't going to allow it to impact my outlook on trust, because I believe trust is a choice. And I've always given people the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. So, it just made me stronger in my conviction about that, but it also taught me never to put anything past anyone.
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Neked mi a "bűnös élvezeted"? (A guilty pleasure isan activity or piece of media that someone enjoys but would be embarrassed by if other people found out about it. These might be books, movies, TV shows, foods, etc...)

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Nagyon ciki és nagyon bűnös, de legalább tízszer láttam már a Paula és Paulinát. Fogalmam sincs, hogy mi tetszett abban a gagyi sorozatban, de újra végig tudnám nézni, ha lenne időm.

have there ever been moments in your life where you felt the need to take a break from social media? if you're comfortable talking about it, what was happening?

if you know me and have been following me for a while you know i’ve struggled a lot with my mental health in the past. i have sadly hit rock bottom a few times and done things that could have been irreversible and tragic for the people in my life and obviously for myself. i am very open about mental health and the stigma around it and i can say i am not completely recovered and i don’t think i ever will, although i am in a much better place now than i was two years ago. with this being said, yes i have felt the need to take a break from social media several times and i did so. not only from social media but even from the world and everyone around me. dealing with anxiety and depression isn’t easy (and any other mental illness) and the recovery process is a lot harder than what it looks like to outsiders. the last social media break/detox i did i remember i was at my breaking point, and when you suffer from illnesses like this you constantly compare yourself to people you see on social media and wonder why you can’t be like them, why you can’t look like them, why you can’t have their lives. i remember going on an “influencers holiday” to dubai and i would spend all my days and nights sitting in my hotel room crying and hating myself and having panic attacks while everyone else was out partying and living their “perfect lives”. at that point i felt like nothing made sense. i didn’t even relate to that lifestyle anymore and i felt so out of place and alone. that was effecting me really badly so i had to step away from social media, focus on myself and my healing, my happiness and learn how to love myself again and accept that we are all at different stages in life and that’s perfectly fine, you are not better or less than someone just because you haven’t achieved the same things they have.
remember it’s okay not to be okay and it’s okay to take a break to focus on yourself. you’re not alone and it does get better 🤍

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