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Your random thoughts? 🤔

How many of you fear slautering the animals? Idkw but, i feel its eyes got stuck in mine, dark, numb, still... its been over 24 hours, i cant eat.. i .. feel sad. I miss him.
I know hes in a better place, i dont have any doubts, but being a human i grieve for what i lost.
He was home grown, we went to see and i loved him at ver first sight, we paid a price, we got him home, changed his atmoshphere he wasn't much happier at first. He sensed we are strangers. We kept loving him until he started trusting us,
BUT THE CLOCK KEPT TICKING.
Soon, one day i knew his time has come i saw the buthers arriving, my brother brought it out, i touched his head i wasnt ready for the goodbye.
My brother took him, kept his string in his hand so he know everything is fine, although he had sensed some strange men around, loud and noisey, i kept looking at him .. while the buthers planned how to slauther him, my father said they'll be easy on him...
But my question is if some mf is cutting your throat how can it be painless?
His eyes were numb. Dark and still. I can tell he was afraid of them in a moment they cut his throat the blood flew all through the street, and his voices are stuck in my mind..
I dont know what sort of ranks this test might have, or greiving fr him is right or wrong, BUT I MISS HIM. 😔

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My bf gets so upset if he sees if im following another guy even my seniors juniors in uni. Is it weird? Is it normal for men to feel this way? I just think he shouldnt have to tell me this stuff, i know myself too not to talk to anyone & he thinks i argue when he talks about his feelings. What to do

So One NA-MEHRAM TELLS YOU NOT TO FOLLOW OTHER NAMEHRAMS?
listen babe, he has no right to be upset about things he has no right on, until you are nikahified.
Next, hes not better than any of them you follow online, so if you want to listen, listen to your brothers and dad. Other than them they all see you the same way.
Still if you are in some sort of relation which is pretty much acceptable socially, not religiously.. you must know what loyalty means, there is no point of following random guys and taking a sneak peak of their life if you are satisfied with your own.
Huge Sins break through into your soul through the smallest holes,which are usually inslvisible to your eyes at first.
You follow them, you have random chit chats, you see them daily, to laugh and react to memes, you build a connection, and now you are stuck in a triangle, you ditch one for other, the other one ditch you foranother and ya'll keep rapeating sins in circles,
So its better to block the holes of sins when you can control the dropby drop seeping sin . Dont wait until its a flood now. I hope you get my point. GOOD LUCK

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My bf gets so upset if he sees if im following another guy even my seniors juniors in uni. Is it weird? Is it normal for men to feel this way? I just think he shouldnt have to tell me this stuff, i know myself too not to talk to anyone & he thinks i argue when he talks about his feelings. What to do

He's your bf, not a husband. Learn the difference and determine the extent of control you want to bestow somebody with over yourself.

Intelligence is sucha hot and adorable trait.

I am not sure, but in brown society men feel insecure around a strong woman.
If you dont say you need them to survive,
If you dont say the cheezy stuff to make them happy,
If you dont believe in everthing they say,
If you question the decisons they take.
If you are more intellegent in terms of dealing with financial or other crisis.
if you earn more, its because of that woman card.
If you drive they cant sit with you.
No matter how strong independent or intelligent you see yourself they see you as a red flag.
Men usually need a robot that follows the command. They cant see you walk beside and if you plan to walk ahead you are not accepted at all.

What's your story of Eid Day 1?☠️

civilized488’s Profile PhotoQasim
I have a small family to begin with and it’s scattered. Everybody doesn’t live in the same city/country. So barely any from family shows up.
Neither I’m a fan of seeing the whole slaughtering process, nor I take part in the distribution of meat. I can’t stand raw meat and blood, in general.
Slaughtering always takes place at home, which means the whole place reeks afterwards. It reeks even after the ground is washed with detergent. 🤡
I don’t like the food that’s made at home, I don’t even feel like having chicken on this Eid.
My (few) friends have big families and they’re always occupied on Eids, all of them.
My brothers go out with their friends, but they’re not a fan of taking me out cause of all the traffic jam situation on eid followed by paindu men on bikes.
My parents always have someone to visit them and that’s about it.
All my Eids at my family home have always been boring.

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Do boys ever look at their favourite girl and think "man! I don't even deserve her"?

ridaaaww’s Profile PhotoRida
Men things# 101:
If you find us staring at you randomly outta nowhere -sometimes in the middle of the conversations- (where you ask us “what” and we reply with a subtle smile and say “nothing, I love your eyes) thats when such dialogues are happening inside of our head.

Men are so non trustworthy like how do we even know for sure that a guy is genuinely into a girl?

laibairam’s Profile PhotoLaibs
“When you know, you know.”
As a woman, your gut feeling is your best friend. Don’t ignore it and pay attention to EVERYTHING. If something’s not sitting well with you, leave. People know what they’re doing nobody’s a kid.
Don’t entertain BS disguised in any form of excuse and always pray that may God divert anyone from your path, who’s not good for you.

Men are so non trustworthy like how do we even know for sure that a guy is genuinely into a girl?

laibairam’s Profile PhotoLaibs
Har cheez hony me wakt mangti hai, jo bnda sach me interested hoga vo har moky py khud ko proof kr k dikhaye ga, or is bat ki care kry ga k tum usky bary me kya sochti ho, agr acha sochti ho to vo proof kry ga k me acha hu. Or bura sochty ho to vo khud ko acha krny ki koshish kry ga. Tmhari har cheez me interest ly ga, tmhara acha bura sochy ga, jo behter ni tmhary liye usny roky ga Yeh sb cheezain hony me wakt mangti hain,
Or jisny sirf time pas krna hai usny sirf bat krny me interest rkhna hai, usko ni interest tmhari life me kya ho raha, usko ni interest tm kya kr rai, usko fark ni prta k usky bary me kya sochti. Yeh sb cheezain wakt mangti hain,
To jb tk dono khud ko ek doosry k samny proof na krlain, tb tk itny close na hon k bad me dukh ho

I got a problem. Serious suggestions please. I'm a Student. I'm a muslim. I live in a Western country. I do a job where both men and women work together. Girls wear shorts and inappropriate dresses and I'm not able to save myself seeing them in short dresses. Should i quit that job ?

I believe you control your thoughts and save your eyes from sins,
You should practice more islam,
a class fellow i know of mine used to fast alternative on days to prevent him from talking or seeing girls.
I cant tell what aura he had. The pure you are the more you attract sins.
Yet i was amazed to see him practice islam in such young age. 🙂

Have men been mean to you?

My first ex fiance cheated on me with multiple women after I was there for him during his chemotherapy. He had cancer. He told me he could never give me children because he couldn't because he had cancer. I didn't care because I loved him, and told him we could adopt children later on as we were only 16. Then my second ex fiance cheated and abused me. I got pregnant, and he killed our baby. I was nothing but kind to these men. I didn't deserve it. It was only because I was kind to them. And then my last boyfriend proved most men are the same. I can't be a kind woman to a demon. Then people dare to ask why I am so guarded? Just read my story.

I got a problem. Serious suggestions please. I'm a Student. I'm a muslim. I live in a Western country. I do a job where both men and women work together. Girls wear shorts and inappropriate dresses and I'm not able to save myself seeing them in short dresses. Should i quit that job ?

If you can’t control yourself morally, physically or otherwise then I guess that’s your only option.

I got a problem. Serious suggestions please. I'm a Student. I'm a muslim. I live in a Western country. I do a job where both men and women work together. Girls wear shorts and inappropriate dresses and I'm not able to save myself seeing them in short dresses. Should i quit that job ?

Serious suggestion my project manager tends to be in night suit when I was working for company it's their culture you just know your limits you good job chorh kr kuch faida nahi

Can a person change their personality?

roshsmile’s Profile PhotoMisba T. Awan
From gender perspective, women are more flexible than men and there’s a natural reason. Men are decisive, they take actions immediately while women tend to take their time which brings our their ability to adjust to their surrounding. Flexibility is not a sign of weakness, it’s more of a survival strategy. Naturally, men fight to create the surrounding to their level while women tend to mutate. So, men rarely change their ways while women adapt to the changes. Yes, there are cases where the opposite is true but it’s rare and not a natural part of human nature. Usually inflexible women and highly flexible men are self destructive.

So you know why most men won’t open up their feelings with you women? It’s because it’ll just blow up on their faces by u telling them they are weak by feeling that way. Justify!🤔🙄

No. Not true, I believe opening up, and being honest, takes more strength and courage than keeping it in.. I'd never call and have never called a man weak for opening up, I think hiding your emotions is more of a cowardly thing than anything else

if she wears nosering wife her up asap

ishnaal’s Profile Photoruined mascara
Guys might find it sassy.
But orignally it defines ownership.
And were initally used mostly by bit*hes of the "badnam-e-zamana" streets to attract men.
(Payal, nosering, ghungroo) attracted men back then from a distance.
women must be careful of using things that make them resemble to people who were already lost. No matter HOW SAASSY THE MEDIA MAKES IT LOOK ON OUR SO CALLED MODELS THESE DAYS!

Sydneys other man on her roster is hotter than your man https://ask.fm/syd13kidxo/answers/175630536849

It's funny how nobody got sent anything about her for over a month, then as soon as she comes back on to talk about how happy she is, and how she's not about drama anymore, yet still run her mouth about my friends and I, and answer questions about drama, THEN we got non stop shxt about her and links. It's usually sent around the time she's online, too. What a coincidence, huh? She'll say it's me, though. Nobody cares about sydney or the multiple men she's banging. If I wasn't happy with my man, we wouldn't be planning our wedding for next summer and we wouldn't still be together for over 5 years. Sydney's lifestyle choice isn't everyone's cup of tea, so I don't know why you "anons" keep sending my friends and I links as if we are supposed to be jealous of it. I personally could never have a "roaster" of men that I'm seeing and banging, especially at the age of 27. Maybe at 19-20, but definitely not 27, that's immature to me. If that's what makes her happy, then great. Stop accusing everyone of being jealous of it, though. There's NOTHING about her that makes me jealous. Go away. That's all I'm saying about her.

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Do you think there is a certain reason why every man you meet "girls" sexualises you in one way or another ? (Other than being their nature) Why do things always end up here?

I would say the majority of men see women as human beings. Unfortunately not all do and in some cultures almost the entire male population see women as objects to be owned. Personally I see this as a serious indication of the true weakness of the male human
When you treat women like sex objects you really run the risk of choosing the worst shit women on Earth to be involved with

Do you think there is a certain reason why every man you meet "girls" sexualises you in one way or another ? (Other than being their nature) Why do things always end up here ?

Men might sexualize you due to cultural and media influences, subconscious behavioral cues, unclear personal boundaries, the context of interactions, and individual differences in attitudes and respect for boundaries.

🌸hanafubuki🌸 Kulturschock! Welche Dinge verblüffen oder schockieren deinen OC am meisten an der Außenwelt? sofern es spoilerfrei geht natürlich (:

valchen64998’s Profile Photovalchen
Wünschte ich könnte hier eine super deepe oder überraschende Antwort geben...aber Haru ist selbst nicht so die hellste Kerze auf der Torte und manche Dinge würden ihr gar nicht erst auffallen (wie z.B. die Tatsache, dass es auf den meisten Inseln kein Ständesystem gibt) oder es würde sie nicht großartig interessieren :') Was ihr aber sofort auffällt ist die Vielzahl an anderen Menschen/Rassen in allen Größen, Formen und Farben die es in der Außenwelt gibt und das würde die gute Haru einfach komplett umhauen (im wahrsten Sinne des Wortes) :'D
basically Haru: What do you mean there a even more tall men and elegant women I can simp for??? No way?!!? Omg! Tall fishmen AND cute fishgirls??? Fluffy Minks? Pretty Mermaids and hot Mermen??? These aren't even all?? KSKSKSKS!!!
She is harmless and a little dummy, but she develops crushes so easily T3T

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If someone asks what kind of man i want, i'll just say a man who always takes care of my feelings and will never let me cry because of his behavior. Do such men exist?

there may be times when we be wanting their advice and critical thinking and also its their job to take care of their women but we cant solely rely on them because they are humans with limited capabilities and we're not 6y/o either.
instead of waiting to lean your head on someones shoulder, try working on yourself and develop your character so much that you become the shoulder people can lean on

I'm sorry you are going through that :(( My ex had endo and it was unbearable. What's the issue with the hysterectomy? They want you to wait for a certain age?

I've been asking from the age of 18 - 29 I'll be asking again this year at 30.
Nope they just want women to have crotch goblins.
They want us to be breeders for men and it's disgusting.
I've heard your too young.
What if you change your mind?
What If your imaginary future husband wants kids?
Etc etc etc
I'm 30 now Im having a scan for my fibroids as they are causing me a lot of pain I'll be asking again.
If they say no again I'll be saving to go private.

Why do gay men say I’m handsome but woman say I’m ugly?

Maybe those men can look past your appearance and see the person you are underneath the exterior whereas for women, you may not be the kind of guy they usually go for appearance wise and the way guys look at you might be significantly different. Also, those women sound shallow and seem to only go for looks as well as disrespectful by calling you ugly. Perhaps it’s not your looks they’re talking about as it could also be about your personality but I can’t speak for your personality or looks since idk you.

What has left an imprint on your heart?

akciMMicka’s Profile Photo⚜️ m o n i c a ⚜️
Everyone is double-faced (منافق).
People show their true selves when you're at your lowest. I have experienced it. But when Allah elevates you, they become artificial again. They start treating you politely and with respect. It's all fake. The truth is, people will be nice to you as long as they need something from you or if you're richer than them. For men, this situation always remains the same. You are rejected if you have less than them or are at your lowest. That's when you see reality.

You make other men sound like boys with everything you do and in your every state :3 So imagine how they'd look when you're strongerrr.. hehehe ;pp Hurry up and get stronger again <333

I do, don’t I baby gorl :$
Best motivational letterrr
Flexing my muscles rn 💪
Make Nick strong again hahaha
Mwah <3

Men on here are so disrespectful. I just saw a dude posting publicly how he hates big women and he said some horrible stuff. Should we shame him for his receding hairline and beer belly too?

You should just block him and move on.
Engaging in drama with awful people will just make it all worse.
IMO.

I'd like to take you to the movies but they don't let you bring your own snacks in.

You could've hit me in the head with a hammer, hide me in a bag made of straws (necessary or I won't be able to breathe), set a few chairs, turn on the projector, make some snacks and then let me open my eyes to a surprise. But no, all you men do is whine and growl like little chihuahuas and occasionally waggle your tails if shown a treat.

Hard times create strong men, strong men create easy times. Easy times create weak men, weak men create hard times. Many won't understand, but we need to raise warriors, not parasites.

princess567l’s Profile PhotoMiss Multiverse
We all are fighting in our own ways. No other person can understand what we are suffering from. It’s so easy to make comments on others situations. So we all are strong and weak in different matters of our lives. We shouldn’t judge anyone.

For what ever reason you deny reality. Men and women are not the same. It is very obvious that women are much much much more selective than men. mgtow

I could point you towards the many many MANY men's dating profiles that have long ass lists of qualities they expect from women that are often misogynistic and Unrealistic, I could speak to you from my own experience of dating, I could do the leg work to find you proof, but it wouldn't matter because you aren't open to genuine discussions or mew information that doesn't align with your pre-decided "reality", so I won't bother. Have a nice life being bitter, I hope it works out for you 👍🏻

Men on here are so disrespectful. I just saw a dude posting publicly how he hates big women and he said some horrible stuff. Should we shame him for his receding hairline and beer belly too?

Men get rejected always give abuse to women they could be slim call her fat imagine if we went around calling every guy that..take the rejected calling women isn't helping your case they just sound like big baby be the bigger person and get over it

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