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Blablabla. Die Schönheit an der Kunst ist nicht die Perfektion, auch wenn das Streben nach der Idee die eigene Entfaltung sicher fördert. Die Schönheit der Kunst ist die Vielfalt, die Persönlichkeit, das Wissen, dass dieses Bild, dieser Film, dieses Buch, dieser Song, dass es das Resultat dessen ist, was dieser Mensch, diese Menschen in seinem gesamten Leben gelebt, erfahren, gefühlt hat, all seine Sorgen, Wünsche, seine unterbewussten Probleme, und wenn die Wachowskis wieder zu rührselige Szenen haben, ist das für einen Kritiker ein Drehbuchfehler, für mich der Ausdruck ihrer rührseligen Wünsche und Ängste, die sie so ausdrücken wollen. DEAL WITH IT, Lektor, Editor, Kritiker. Es ist Persönlichkeit. Kritiker, die Kunst nicht schätzen und solche Werke schnell mal abtun, sind für mich daher wertlos oder weniger. Qualitätskontrolle, die Kunst als Produkte wahrnimmt, nicht als Kunst. Es gibt da große Ausnahmen, und es ist schön, sich auseinanderzsuetzen mit Finesse und, nun, Werkzeug, aber wenn das nicht wertschätzend, dem Künstler zugeneigt geschieht, dann ist es zwangsläufig normierend.

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Etwas, das mit der KI noch sinnloser wird. Das Einzige, was wir haben, ist nun Persönlichkeit. Wie immer. KIs halten uns Spiegel vor die Augen, erinnern uns, dass Kunst und Kreativität, mit der wir uns doch so identifizieren, definieren, nicht uns allein zugesagt sind. Aber das stimmt halt nicht. Kunst ist anders definiert, fernab Zweckorientierung oder einer mathematischen Analyse, die fundamental auf den Rezeptor fokussiert ist, und zwar GÄNZLICH. Das ist dann aber ein Produkt. Kunst ist das Erzählenwollen, Zeigenwollen, nicht das Zuschneiden eines Produkts(!), um eine bestimmte Gruppierung zu erreichen. Das kann Kunst sein, I guess, aber kein Kunstwerk, aber jetzt wird’s zu semantisch.

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Punkt ist, ja, ich bin frustriert, bin schon lange frustriert, weil's eh schon endlose Geschichten gibt, weil die Industrie und Medien Leute unter Druck setzt, sich online auszudrücken. Weil die Filmindustrie so kalkuliert und eklig ist, dass ich mich fürs Schreiben entschieden habe, wo Geld weniger Rolle spielt, wo kein Produzent mir über den Rücken guckt, solange ich keinen strengen Verlag habe. Was die Welt heute weniger braucht als jemals zuvor, sind „perfekte“ Geschichten. Bah. Gib mir persönliche. Was du fühlst, das will ich hören. Kunst ist Konversation, Verbindung, Kultur, ist Seele oder Herz. Bei der Flut an perfekt kalkulierter Geschichten und Werken, die kommen wird, ist es dem Menschen noch so viel schwerer, damit Erfolg zu haben, dass viele entmutigt sein werden. Gegenbewegungen kommen, in denen versucht wird, so neu und abstrakt zu sein wie möglich.

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https://ask.fm/Gismolo/answers/174046879154

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Max Grazie ♡
Grazie per esserti impegnato nel leggermi nonostante un'altra lingua, spero un giorno di poter imparare la tua
Apprezzo tantissimo che mi abbia scritto in Italiano venendomi incontro
Dunque con il tempo ho capito che internet offre tante possibilità ma ha molte poche protezioni. Su questo social , ci sono persone che scrivono e purtroppo a volte ,seppur si cerchi di costruire un dialogo franco , le tue parole possono essere fraintese o usate contro di te, non perché dici la cosa sbagliata .. ma perché gli altri non capiscono cosa stai dicendo e perché sei proprio tu a dirle ed è il tuo pulpito a non andare bene.
Ci vuole molta forza a stare sui social , anche solo scrivendo, puoi farlo al meglio delle tue capacità, ma sei a distanza di un click , chiunque può usarti violenza. Lo vediamo succedere di continuo e purtroppo temo che questa macchina non si fermerà finché non ci saranno più regole online (le regole non sono segnalazioni a caso,censure o rimozioni forzate) e una bella rieducazione emotiva, empatica e sociale (cosa di cui abbiamo tutti un estermo bisogno per essere *be kind* con il prossimo e con noi stessi)

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Statement 1 : In every social site, or Wherever you go, Girls are in demand.

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What demand are you talking about brother ? IDK about social site, but elsewhere wherever we go, if its a workplace, then there's a hiring team, there are some professions where girls are preferred, but its not generalised. And vice - versa is true, at some places , men are preferred, and at most other places, jobs are gender neutral. Beyond this, you go to any recreational place or anywhere else, its just a person's choice to go there, there is no "Demand" factor.

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Also for this "social site" , where do you get this idea that Girls are in "Demand" ? Social Media is just a place to be , everyone can choose to be there or not be there for XYZ reasons, social Media isn't a marketplace where something is in "Demand".

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Statement 2 : Why everyone wants only Boy as their child?

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IDK where are you getting this idea for "Everyone" but "Everyone" doesn't want a boy child, some don't even want children, some want 1 boy 1 girl, some want 1 child any one, some want boy, some want girl, this is just a personal choice, its not a generalized thing. You may want a boy child, maybe you can also justify why you want a boy child, but it doesn't mean everyone wants a boy child.

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Now , What are you trying to say by your question actually? Online aao to sabko ladkiya chahiye and ghar par sabko ladke chahiye, something like this?

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Both scenarios can occur depending upon what your goals are. Personally I do not consider askfm a dating site and I would never use it as such; however, I have had private conversations with askfm users on askfm and other applications like whatsapp, instagram, Tumblr, discord and VK. The issue I have with private conversations is they can get to invasive and intimate unless you establish boundaries. One of the boundaries I have set is to never have a romantic relationship online or particpate in sexting, video chats or sharing photographs (selfies, etc).

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You have to decide how you want to utilize askfm and what your objectives and end goal is. I have know several married couples who met on askfm and I also know people who have cheated on their husbands and have used askfm to act out their sexual fantasies. To each his or her own.

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What I personally enjoy using askfm for is to post poems, music, and quotes while also answering well formed questions. I am always on the search for excellent writers who are willing to communicate with me and exchange ideas. Using askfm to meet women for a romantic fling is of no interest to me. So each askfm user has their unique reasons and motives for using this application. Only you can decide how you want to utilize askfm.

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Hopefully this helps. /Alex

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"Death Of The Soul" by Alex (Part 1)

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There are many reasons why adults are afraid to associate with young people and much of it relates to the numerous crimes and abuses that adults have perpetrated upon our youth over the years and centuries. The list is long so I will only mention a few:

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- Priests molesting young people
- Teachers having sex with students
- Parents abusing their children
- Wealthy people like Jeffrey Epstein arranging for young girls to have sexual intercourse with politicians, millionaires/billionaires, businessmen and world leaders.

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There are many more documented cases that I could list, but you get the point I am making. As a result, society has demanded that our children and young people be protected by law and that these laws be aggressively enforced and adult perverts be punished.

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Other contributing factors are the "Me Too Movement," pervasive groupthink and victimhood movements, the LGBT+ ideology and a belief that whatever alleged victims say it must be true and therefore the alleged perpetrator is "guilty" and must prove his/her innocence. These combined forces have made many adults nervous and fearful of false allegations because we understand that if we are wrongly accused of a sex crime, it is likely that we will lose our family and friends, our employment and all of our assets. In addition, there is a high probablity that we would be found guilty and sent to prison.

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A friend of mine who was a prosecutor and is now is a successful defense attorney specializing in sex crimes, told me that 80% of the men imprisoned for sex crimes in the state where he practices law are, in his opinion, innocent. And he also admits that the judicial system, our media and our society believe that if a man is accused of a sex crime, he is guilty and must prove his innocence.

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I would challenge anyone reading this essay to talk to an innocent man who has been falsely accused of a sex crime and ask him if he was treated fairly and assumed innocent until proven guilty or if he was instead, treat like a criminal who must prove his innocence? I could provide more graphic detail of what I am talking about, but I have said enough and hopefully you understand the point I am making.

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My son is a director of Music and Arts in a well known private high school and to protect himself from false allegations, he had the school install video cameras in his office and bandroom. Students are only allowed to meet with him if other adults and students are present and the doors are left open. In my private life, I teach guitar lessons and require that a parent be present at all times to protect myself from false allegations. And whenever I am in the presence of women (young or old) I always ask my wife or daughter to accompany me and if they cannot, I will not attend the event. (cont)

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For some people, askfm is a dating site where they hope to meet their knight in shiny armor or their princess daisy and ride off to their castle in the sky. The truth is that I do not see askfm as a dating site and would never utilize it as such.
I am a man. When I want to meet a woman, I do so in person and not by text messages. It is probably my age but, I need to hold a womans hands and look into her eyes when communicating with her to see inside her soul to determine if she is sincere or not. Therefore, I have no interest in online romance. Now with that said, I see that many askfm users enjoy online romances and seem to thrive in such an environment for reasons that I do not fully appreciate or comprehend. So if you believe askfm is a dating sight, good for you; but, please do not expect me to participate in that type of folly.

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/Alex

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