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Welche Gedanken hast du vor dem Einschlafen?

Veroniicayouknow’s Profile PhotoVerostrasza
Ich bin ein Overthinker, leider. Bei mir im Kopf dreht sich ständig alles, um die verschiedensten Dinge.
Habe ich meine Aufgaben alle erledigt? Habe ich dort auch wirklich nichts vergessen?
Ist Person xy vielleicht doch sauer auf mich? Habe ich vielleicht doch irgendwas getan, ohne es zu wissen?
Liebt mein Freund mich noch? Vielleicht gehe ich ihm mit meiner Art und Weise doch auf die Nerven ... oder ich bin ihm zu anstrengend?
Und das ist nur ein kleiner Teil von etwas ganz Großem. Es ist belastend.

Ab welchem Moment/durch welche Aktion verliert ihr das Vertrauen in einen Menschen oder einen Beziehungspartner?

Lunartear01’s Profile PhotoSarah
Lügen… ich bin ein overthinker und das nicht leicht heißt ich bekomme direkt ein komisches Gefühl im Bauch oder ein piepen im Ohr wenn jemand lügt und bekomme am Ende dann auch immer raus das mein Gefühl recht hatte da ich dann direkt überdenke ob alles zusammenpasst oder nicht und dann auch alles nachschaue…

Denkst du viel nach? 💭

AndreasWitte278’s Profile PhotoAndreas
I am a overthinker.
An overthinker feels like,“My brain has too many tabs open”.
It is both a blessing and a curse. Being an over thinker has been a blessing, in the sense that it has stops you from making many stupid decisions, but a curse, in the sense that sometimes you cannot shut your brain off no matter how badly you want to.
If you are an over thinker like myself, you know the feeling of making a risky decision and spending hours worrying whether or not you did the right thing. You know the feeling of getting a bad test grade and thinking of everything you could have done differently to prevent it. “If I started studying earlier I would have done better…If I was on my phone less I would have done better…If I worked less I would have done better…If I didn’t hang out with my friends I would have done better…” The list of excuses and reasons goes on and on until you finally accept the fact that you got a bad grade and you will have to do better next time.
Over thinking can also be the result of a busy schedule. When you are as busy as I am, your mind is always going a mile a minute. You are constantly thinking about what you have to do today, tomorrow, next week, and next month. You are just thinking and over thinking nonstop. Even when you do finally have some down time, meaning when it is finally time to go to sleep, sometimes your brain still won’t shut off. You begin planning out your day for tomorrow or start worrying about things you shouldn’t. You might start thinking about an argument you got into with a friend or boyfriend and wondering if you had just done this or that differently, maybe the result would have been different.
When you are an over thinker, the slightest things can cause you to freak out and make up random scenarios in your head that you know are highly unlikely. When your friend doesn’t answer your text message, you will sit there wondering if she is mad at you and then think back to every conversation you’ve had with her wondering what might have upset her. In all reality, her phone is probably dead or she is at work.
When you start getting sick, you are immediately googling your symptoms trying to figure out what’s wrong. By the end of it, you have convinced yourself you are dying or need surgery. As a child, when I would complain about a pain in my side, my mother would always tell me my appendix was on the other side because she knew I had convinced myself I had appendicitis. To this day, I do not know which side of my body the appendix is on.
Long story short, overthinking is something many people experience. In some ways it is helpful and other ways it is not. Over time, you learn to cope with it and learn that you cannot do everything just right all the time. People make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. Learn to close some of those tabs and enjoy life. It's a beautiful thing

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What keeps you up at night?

klonetron’s Profile PhotoHalbery Jones
I'm extremely lucky in the fact that when I go to bed, I'm asleep within ten minutes. I just love going off to dream land away from normal existence, so nothing keeps me awake to be honest! ✨
(Unless I've done or said something really embarrassing that day, that might keep me up a bit longer than usual haha. I am an overthinker!)

ممكن تستغنى عن حد بسهولة..؟

nwaged’s Profile PhotoNõùr
مش من طبعي ودي حاجه علي قد ما مؤذيه ليا علي قد ما بتريح ضميري في البُعد لاني شخص overthinker..
مبستغناش او اقطع الا لما اكون عملت كل حاجه لحد ما فاض بيا.. وبعد ما فاض بيا اديت فرصه و اتنين .. بعدها بمشي بهدوء واحاول اتعافى من آثار اذى التمسك بيهم دي🍃🚶🏻‍♀️
وانا مقطع "هتروح يومين وتجيلي جريح تقولي دبر حق الدوا" في اغنية ملطشة القلوب اتكتب عشاني 🦦💙

Care este lucrul care te relaxează total atunci când ești stresat?

Deoarece sunt genul overthinker, stresul se diminuează încetul cu încetul în timp ce ma gândesc la situația cu pricina și cum ii pot face fata în cel puțin 3 modalități sau chiar toate felurile posibile la care ma pot gândi în acel moment sau cum o pot rezolva în toate felurile posibile și tot gândindu-mă atâta la acea situație stresul dispare ușor, ușor

هـل أنتِ [مدمنة] تفكير؟ هل يمنعكِ تفكيركِ من النوم أحيانًا.

aboahmed00’s Profile Photo[ سـكلر ♕ ]
Yes I am overthinker
التفكير الزايد اي يسبب لي ارق واذا نمت احلم بالاشياء الي واجد قاعده افكر فيها ، مرات اوصل لمرحله المرض النفسي اذا كان الشي الي افكر فيه مسبب لي ضغط وتصيدني نوبات قلق مثل ماصار قبل فتره بسيطة

Myślisz momentami za dużo?

Ja jestem człowiek overthinker. Ja bardzo dużo myśle, a jeśli ktoś nie daje mi odpowiedzi to mi łeb paruje i wszystko co możliwe w głowie układam każdy scenariusz.
Do mnie trzeba mówić logicznie jak człowiek i dawać konkretne odpowiedzi, a nie wymijające, bo potem właśnie dużo myśle.

What are adjectives people commonly use to describe you?

Quirky, nice, happy, friendly, lovely and cute are probably the ones I hear most often from my friends, co workers and girlfriend.
I guess I'd agree with all of those. My husband adds in funny - I generally don't think of myself as a funny person but I can be around people I am really super comfortable with.
Intense - Easily the top one I get. It sounds negative, but the second I want to get into details on the meaning I'm just proving I'm intense apparently. Smart - Sure, I agree. Strong - They mean mentally and I don't know if I agree or not. Mostly I disagree, but I'm not dead so maybe they have a point. Hard headed/Stubborn - ...yeah. Crazy - Well documented so yeah.
Weird/eccentric - Seems to be used when people don't want to say "crazy," so sure. Meticulous - I got this a lot at work. I would agree that I am on some things. Funny - I don't really agree on that, but people laugh so I dunno. Sarcastic - Much easier for me to agree with than a general "funny." High maintenance - I don't think I'm that bad honestly. Lazy - Used often when I'm depressed. Disagree. I'm depressed. Big difference.
I think quirky is the most common. I'm called mothering, eloquent, concise, forward, loud, smart, annoying.
Funny, cute, beautiful, kind hearted, sympathetic, easy going, relaxed, patient, talkative, empathetic, genuine.
Intimidating, quiet, patronizing, really fucking smart, overthinker, neurotic, 'magnanimous with the cloves,' ambitious, kind, a comrade, a team player, overcommitter, procrastinator, hipster.
I agree with the negatives mostly. I'm struggling to correct them. Magnanimous with the cloves is probably my favorite description ever (I used to smoke cloves, and give them away to whoever asked, no questions back).
Cute, Sweet, Warm, Girl Next Door, Worrisome, Intelligent, INNOCENT. I don't get it, no matter my personality I get innocent. I guess I could agree with some of them, maybe not the innocent one (and I have no idea what people mean when they tell me I'm the girl next door. They barely know me).

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Imagine, a stranger is tasked with summarising the kind of person you're. But the info they've on you is a video footage going about your most recent week. Based on the tapes alone, what opinion would they form about you?

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
Here's a list: Procrastinator, couch potato, big eater, food stealer, feisty, chatty, clingy, overthinker, filial, loyal, helpful, loving and entertainment lover.

Cara agar tidak mudah overthinking

aku juga seorang overthinker, tapi akhir-akhir ini udh jarang overthinking. mungkin cara ini terdengar klise karena pasti udh banyak orang yg sering bilang. caranya, apapun masalah yg lg kita dapet jgn terlalu dipikirin, i mean setiap pikiran itu muncul kita "swipe" si pikiran itu, dan jangan terlalu nethink. inget kalau apapun masalah yg dtg itu pasti ada penyelesaiannya, pasti. karena masalah tuh gaakan terus-terusan stay, walaupun nanti akan ada masalah baru yg bikin kita overthinking lg, selalu inget kalau apapun yg terjadi akan ada penyelesaiannya dan ambil hikmah dari apa masalah-masalah itu. coba juga deh untuk lebih sering ngelakuin hal yg kamu seneng, main sama temen-temen, atau apapun itu. karena percuma juga loh kita terlalu nethink mikirin sesuatu yg belum tentu hal itu akan terjadi. jadi lebih baik kita fokus ke depan, upgrade diri kita supaya terus lebih maju dan lebih baik okayy? semoga membantu yaa<3

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so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Understand the terms: Intuition, Vibes, Frequencies, Intellect, Doubt, Trust, Contemplation and Gut feeling.
Once, you will learn to differentiate between all of them, You will become more profound in dealing with these situations.
Don't doubt, If you are in position where You are feeling you are about to Assume worse, Place yourself in their Shoes and Always give yourself the positive-Realistic reason(behind their action) also, if you find any red flags, proceed accordingly.

هو لو احنا بنفكر في حد كتير و مدايقين انه بعيد عننا و انه خسرنا بعض ده معناه انه هو كمان كده ولااي

مش شرط ممكن تكوني أنتي بس over-thinker زي أغلبنا ،والشخص ده بيبقي عايش حياته عادي ولا فاكرك
متوقفيش حياتك ع حد وتقولي أكيد بيفكر فيا زي ما بفكر فيه لا عيشي حياتك وامحي اللي فات ♥️

How to stop overthinking?

Egoistic_101’s Profile Photoᴄʜɪʟʟɪɴ' ʟɪᴋᴇ ᴀ ᴠɪʟʟᴀɪɴ
You can not, especially if you are dealing with another overthinker in your life, you have to keep thinking of how their brain works, which is what got you over thinking in the first place, nai toh you were fine, just make sure you dont let it ruin you, and try to talk to someone about it, your own mind plays such games with you, that you can even tell the difference between your thought and whats real, take it from someone whos been there
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Ti ritieni una persona anaffettiva ?

Al contrario, mi ritengo una persona che prova troppi sentimenti e che spesso ha difficoltà nel gestirli tutti. C'è chi si considera overthinker perche pensa troppo e analizza tutto al microscopio, in quel caso io sono un "Overfeeler" perche dentro di me tutto ha un impatto e non riesco ad essere indifferente quando qualcosa mi tocca da vicino

Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

UniversalHamza’s Profile PhotoHamza Khalid
Even before message. I am overthinker. I already have predicted what he will ask or reply and then what I will reply of that.
I already predict the whole conversation from all sides. If he will say this, I will reply this and when I will say this. He will ask about that and then if he said that I will say this otherwise that.
I spend good time predicting and thinking about the personal’s personality. Acha woh tu assa hai, woh Karna he yeh chahta hai tu mere es reply per woh yeh yan phr yeh puche ga yeh pucha tu yeh kehna ha nahi tu yeh.
Some people may think pagal hai yeh. Leikin Alhamdulilah Jab bhi main planning Kar Ke Koi meeting Karo. Woh Lead mere han 🔥 Aaj taak assa he howa ha

Quotes people have said about what depression feels like to them. Can you relate? If so what does it feel like to you?

"Always remembering the past situation that hurts to you. Overthinker. Close your eyes but your mind is awake. Feels like its your fault. Mood swings again and again. Feels like no one understand you because they think your only dramacting. You want to stay only in your room. Can"t enjoy the talk from others. Feels like no one care for your feelings. Many thoughts in your mind that can't explain, express enough the way you want you want to express. I hate that feelings because I felt that again and again...😔" F.L
"Depression feels like a combination of an overwhelming numbness and a heightened emotional sensitivity simultaneously. This completely depletes your energy for life." B.B
"Depression feels like exhaustion. It feels like I've worked 18 hours without a break constantly. It feels like you have an uneasy feeling within your stomach that you just cannot shake and no matter how positive you try to be you end up back in the same hole you started in." J.M
"For me, it feels like giving up because everything else is too hard. A life of normal feels like it will never happen to you - it could if you put in the work but you can’t be bothered to feel better… because it’s all too hard and it’s easier to sit in the darkness and stay there no matter how hard you hate yourself for not trying more
Knowing you could do so much with you’re life but feeling like you never ever will. Feeling like a failure before you’ve even started
That’s me anyway ❤️" T.R

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so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
اللّٰھُمَّ إنّي فَوَدْتُ أمْرِي إلَيْكْ.
My Lord I seek your recurve in disposing my affairs.
One of the scholars said
"I pray to Allah when I'm in need. If He gave me what I needed, I'd feel happy once. And if He didn't give me what I needed, I would be happy ten times.
Because the first is my choice. And the second is the choice of Allah, the Knower of the unseen."
It's beautiful to trust in the Lord of mankind.
And Allah knows, and you do not know.
That is a healing answer to our saying "why is this happening to me"
لأن الله يعلم، و نحن لا نعلم.
- Because Allah knows and we do not know.
The departure or entry of certain people into your life is a blessing from your Lord. A blessing that we take for granted and realise later in time.
Years change many people. They certainly change the environment.
How come they wouldn't change the characters of humans.
If we only knew how much we would be overwhelmed with good reward after hardship, we would not ask for relief soon.
He did not take from us, except only to give us back.
So receive your fate by saying
الحمد لله.
Praise be to Allah.

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so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
You can’t be a pessimist if you’re an over thinker. A true over thinker will go deep in their thoughts and think of every possible aspect they can get their hands on and beyond even. In simple words.. A true over thinker will have to end up with an optimistic thought. Cause no matter how negative the situation, person or the thoughts are you’re gonna helplessly think so damn much that your brain is going to run out of all the negativity that it has to provide. And thats when the positive thoughts/clarity rushes in.

Hai, baik baik saja kan?

Alhamdulillaah, semoga bisa baik² saja :')
Tapi Allaah itu baik banget selalu dikala sedang tidak baik² saja, Allaah kirimkan support lwt hamba²nya kadang walau hanya sekedar tulisan tapi sangat² membantu dan bikin yakin bahwa pertolongan Allaah itu bakal datang. Salah satu contohnya adalah ini :')
Ini juga relate bagi para overthinker :) yang namanya husnudzon sama Allah itu kek punya kekuatan tersendiri. Karena Allah memang sesuai prasangka hamba Nya.
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ – رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ – : أَنَّ رَسُوْلَ اللهِ – صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ – ، قَالَ : (( يَقُوْلُ اللهُ تَعَالَى : أَنَا عِنْدَ ظَنِّ عَبْدِي بِي ، وَأَنَا مَعَهُ إِذَا ذَكَرَنِي ، فَإِنْ ذَكَرَنِي فِي نَفْسِهِ ، ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي نَفْسِي ، وَإِنْ ذَكَرنِي فِي مَلَأٍ ذَكَرْتُهُ فِي مَلأٍ خَيْرٍ مِنْهُمْ )) مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ
Dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, ia berkata bahwa Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Allah Ta’ala berfirman: Aku sesuai persangkaan hamba-Ku. Aku bersamanya ketika ia mengingat-Ku. Jika ia mengingat-Ku saat bersendirian, Aku akan mengingatnya dalam diri-Ku. Jika ia mengingat-Ku di suatu kumpulan, Aku akan mengingatnya di kumpulan yang lebih baik daripada pada itu (kumpulan malaikat).” (Muttafaqun ‘alaih) [HR. Bukhari, no. 6970 dan Muslim, no. 2675]
Sumber https://rumaysho.com/17041-aku-sesuai-persangkaan-hamba-ku-hingga-balasan-mengingat-allah.html

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Hai baik baik saja kan

so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Hmm.... I'm an overthinker too
And cynical. but I don't see everything in a negative way... Maybe try a self-help book or look for advice on YouTube. 👍
Btw I am just coming back to this app real quick and leaving again. Lol. I can't believe they changed the layout!! It looks awful and outdated. like it's from the year 2000 or something. Crazy... 😵‍💫 Did not think it could get worse...
so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume

so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Imagining the worst will only kill your peace. We donot have control over anything. What's written is gonna happen. All we can do is hope that life has something good in store for us.

so i am very pessimistic plus i am an overthinker this is why i always assume the worst in situations and people. Does anyone know of a way to be less negative in life?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Keep making ur mind conscious of ur problem every know and then, eventually ur subconscious will learn it too.... its a long process, so give urself time and be patient.....
U can also ask family and frnds to help u with it by telling u when u are being negative....
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overthking itu wajar nggak sih?:v

What helped me with overthinking was reminding myself that I am not my thoughts, my thoughts are not me. By putting this in your brain it gives you a chance to take a step back and just kind of observe the overthinking that is going on in your head while maintaining an almost completely neutral emotion towards it(reacting to overthinking with a negative outlook is a 100% guarantee to make it worse). From this point, you can then learn to filter out the thoughts you channel to your brain. If you can control overthinking, it can become a very powerful skill.
You know what makes a genius? An overthinker who has learned how to control his own mind.

اختصر حياتك في كلمة واحدة.

fofo3639’s Profile Photoبنت ابوي
The analyser: the over-thinker: the semi-wise:the reserved philosopher :
المحلل: الفيلسوف الكتوم: المفكر: الشبه حكيم (او الحكيم تحت الصناعة) : المتغير: (مجموعة انسان)
Choose one
اختاري واحد 😅🤣

Would you rather - go through life unable to forget anything ever or go through life unable to remember anything?

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
Since I'm an overthinker i wish I could forget some bad incidents happened in my life but i do not think living a life where you're unable to remember anything would be beneficial.. So option number 1.

Was bevorzugst du - zu lieben oder geliebt zu werden?

Fummelhummel’s Profile PhotoGinger Corso
Weil es gerade so langweilig ruhig ist stellen wir uns einfach selbst Fragen:
Ich bevorzuge keines, denn beides sollte gleich viel bedeuten.

Gerade als overthinker gerät das häufig aus der Balance, weil man sich zu oft für zu gering hält um Liebe zu verdienen.

A la persona que sufre de overthinking se le llama overthinker que en español significa: persona que piensa demasiado. Si sufres de overthinking es probable que, en vez de realizar las diversas actividades del día a día, pases mucho tiempo pensando en lo que tienes que hacer.

😯 Entonces creo que si sufro un poco de Overthinking.

Was sind deine Schwächen?

- ich bin zu ehrlich.
- wenn mich etwas stört dann spreche ich das direkt an und will darüber reden, damit können viele nicht umgehen
- ich gebe sehr viel Liebe und Zuneigung, erwarte dadurch aber auch viel
- ich bin sehr schnell enttäuscht und verletzt
- ich bin ein overthinker
- ich habe vertrauensprobleme aber ich arbeite daran
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ang hirap kaya kapag anxious ka na tao. kahit maliliit na bagay, may masabi lang or may makita ka lang mag ooverthink ka na kahit hindi naman dapat. kasi takot ka sa posibleng mangyari. sa totoo lang sobrang hirap to the point na sarili mo na lang sinasaktan mo😪

mtrmtby’s Profile Photoあいな
But if I'm not mistaken, you've mentioned before na medyo nakakainis yung mga overthinker, na paulit-ulit KAMI. That's why I ignored that shoutout because overthinking is a sensitive topic for those who have it. You should not have shoutout about in the first place.

Fine, ty. I'm an overthinker too! By thoughts I mean specifically, chatter in the skull Perpetual and compulsive repetition of words, of reckoning and calculating. I'm not saying that thinking is bad. Like everything else, it's useful in moderation. But I know that our way of thinking is different!

Yeah Exactly I Feel Ur Words, Such Stuff In Ma Head, When U Say Our Way Of Thinking Is Different U Mean
Mine For Your Or Our Thinking Compare To Others?
+4 answers in: “Hello overthinker! how are you holding up?”

حلو 👌🏻 جوف أي فكرة تجي في بالك بتجذب وراها أفكار مُشابهة لها ، مثلاً لما شخص يقول انا متضايق بيجي في باله فلان زعلّني و فلانة جرحتني ، على قد ما ان هالاشياء صح و صارت اصلاً على قد ما انت تقدر تغير كل ذا بإنك تفكر في اشياء عدلة 💃🏻💃🏻 لما شوي شوي تتعود م تفكر واجد باللي يضايق

HA2700’s Profile Photoحُب
انا overthinker ف كل شي سيء كان ولا جيد ف عشان جذي قاعد اتعب من هالموضوع بس ان شاء الله مع الوقت يختفي
+13 answers in: “عطوني أسوا موقف انحطيتوا فيه🤍”

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