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"Yes well... we aren't your typical couple I'm aware, neither of us is interested in the more physical aspects of a relationship" *the canon I use they're both Asexual, Vio is Homoromantic and Shadow is Panromantic though*

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Opal: Love is love. Still totally valid.
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ʂɩɾɩʋʂ ƄƖɑcƙ ━ ❛ a drama queen's biography. ❜

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* full name ; sirius orion black
* nickname ; padfoot, snuffles
* age ; verse dependent
* birth date: 1959, november 3rd
* ethnicity ; caucasian
* gender ; male
* romantic orientation ; panromantic
* sexual orientation ; pansexual
* religion ; n/a
* spoken language ; english, latin
* current living conditions: verse dependent
* occupation ; verse dependent
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* phobias ; abandonment, being forgotten, losing everyone he holds dear.
* intelligence ; sirius is rather smart whenever he wants to be, he has got a sharp tongue and his wits are nearly unmatched. besides, he is rather good at magic as well. he is hardly 'book-smart' but rather 'street-wise'.
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* james potter ; brother from another mother
* remus lupin ; best friend / flirting
* peter pettigrew ; best friend
* marlene mckinnon ; love interest / friends
* lily evans ; friends
* emmeline vance ; friends
* frank longbottom ; friends / acquaintances
* alice fortescue ; acquaintance
* narcissa black ; acquaintance / cousin
* bellatrix black ; acquaintance / cousin
* lucius malfoy ; strong dislike
* severus snape ; enemies
* professor mcgonagall ; mentor
* professor dumbledore ; admiration
* lord voldemort ; deep hatred
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-.-.-.-.- graphic made by me, don't steal it.

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Kada si shvatila da si panromantic asexual? Ja imam te neke periode gdje mislim da sam bi(tinejderica sam so nisam jos sig o svojoj seksualnosti iako mi nije ni bitno) samo me zanima kako si ti sama reagirala. ?

Nakon dugog perioda pokušavanja da to shvatim, konačno sam 25. juna 2015. i shvatila i to kroz razgovor sa svojom prvom pravom simpatijom ženskog pola. Te noći sam joj ujedno i priznala da mi se sviđa, dok ishod toga nije bitan. Prvobitno sam mislila da sam bi, ali sam onda shvatila da sam panromantic asexual jer mi pol osobe, bio on biološki ili ne i njena seksualnost nisu bitni.
Pre toga još u šestom razredu svidela mi se jedna devojka, ali nisam znala kako sebi da priznam to, pa se vremenom taj osećaj izgubio, a pored toga sam takođe imala i drugih sličnih problema koji su prilično privatni i ne bih da ih delim ni sa kim, čak ni svi moji prijatelji ne znaju to, već nekolicina njih i planiram da tako i ostane.
Što se tebe tiče, u redu je osećati se tako povremeno, isto kao i ne osećati se nikako, vremenom ćeš shvatiti kako se zaista osećaš, no need to hurry.?

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Mel, I know it's kind of personal but I'm coming out to my parents soon and I was wondering how did you come out to yours?

Well I knew at a young age that I wasn't straight and coming from a country where being anything but straight was and still is seen as wrong. So that was really scary for me because one of my old teachers was gay and when she came out a group of people beat her up because of it and they got away with it because she was gay. Also at the time I didn't know that there was such thing as being bisexual or anything I thought you were gay or you were straight and that's that. But the first thing I did was tell my brothers because being the youngest and only girl of nine they've all always been very protective of me so I knew if I had approval from them they wouldn't let anybody hurt me and they all just laughed telling me they didn't care because no matter who I want to be with I'm always going to be their baby sister. So the next day me and my oldest brother Richie (who I currently live with) cooked my parents dinner while my other brothers all went out because I only really wanted Richie there. So about halfway through the meal I kinda just told my parents that I like girls, my dad who was my biggest supporter until the day he died just smiled and hugged me saying that as long as I'm was happy he'd be happy. My mum on the other hand dragged me down the street by hair to the church telling me to get down on my knees and pray that God would still let me in heaven. But I never really got on with my mum and even now I refuse to see her so I didn't really care about that. But honestly I don't regret coming out, I mean now I know I'm not gay I'm demisexual panromantic but just knowing that all my family (at least the ones I care about) are going to support me no matter what was something I really needed. So good luck coming out let me know how it goes please love.

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I've gained some new members to my spam list. So I know a little bit about each of you guys, list a couple facts about yourself below 😊

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- im panromantic and somewhere on the asexual spectrum (probably somewhere between demisexual and sex repulsed asexuality)
-im nonbinary
-one time my uncle brought a satanic bible to jury duty and he got kicked out and I told my history teacher that and now he wants it
-im 100% here for musicals give me all of them
-im moving to New York with @pinestree after we have both graduated
-I want a career in music
-I need one more fact because 6 is a bad number um... I have somewhere around 7 siblings and that's just that I know of...

Don't start talking to kaydence she is a horibal person, she cant be a real sexuality ( she is panromantic demisexula) or gender (she is bigender) and she is ugly and rude please block her and she thinks she is a they them that's not even a real pronoun they them is more than one person lol for one

i am a they and im pan so.... get ur transphobic disgusting ass of my page, kaydence is cool and pretty as heck, ur a piece of shit
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I identify as bisexual, and I feel kinda...rude now because of it? Since I do acknowledge that there as more than two genders...and I definitely would not mind dating someone who identified outside of the gender binary so does that mean I'm pansexual?

Thats a question that only you can answer. You are who you are. Also panromantic isn't the same thing as pansexual. You are either sexually attracted to everyone or you arent.
being open to date them could mean you are panromantic. But if there isn't sexual attraction you are still a bisexual.
and tbh sweetie you shouldn't feel bad. That anon was trying to invalidate all nonbinary people and say people are either bi. straight. or gay only. He was being a bigot and a prick. There is a big difference

I'm panromantic Polysexual. I date girls, guys, transgenders, agenders, genderfluids, and so much more. There is more than 3 sexualities. Please stop disrespecting the lgbt community with your opinions.

1. exactly "LGBT" not lgbtshshshsshd
2. pansexual is basically bisexual
3. genderfluid is not a sexuality, that is a tumblr made term, its a personality disorder.
when you grow up you will realize how dumb your "sexuality" sounds

Hey! My straight boyfriend found out about me being panromantic and got sooo mad, started insulting my body, picie cut etc. And I know I shouldn't care about such shallow insults, but after hitting me he just left me crying in the kitchen and I just don't want to get up anymore. Sorry to bother you.

friend you need to leave him and never talk to him again, have you told anyone? those aren't shallow insults, that's emotional and physical abuse and he's a terrible person.

if u like all genders romantically and sexually then it would just be pansexual ! like if you were asexual it would be panromantic asexual to separate romantic/sexual attraction

I know, thanks friend!! (: I've just had so many people before tell me that they don't know if my romantic attraction and sexual attraction are different, so I listed it like that in my bio and I usually explain it like how I did below, just so people will understand better. I've thought about changing it multiple times to just pansexual, but then I'll probably get more questions like before. So I'm sort of tied about what to do. (:
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Hey so is jane/john non binary? I searched its meaning on google, so is it like you identify as both male/female or neither? Like ruby rose as well? I'm still fairly new to the whole lgbt stuff and some things still confuse me and i wanna write a story where the mc is non binary so yeah :/

jane is a gender-fluid lesbian (like ruby rose, i believe?), which basically means she identifies with two or more genders. usually, she prefers she/her pronouns, but she'll let everyone know when there's a shift. she identifies as both male and female and she switches around the two (she feels most comfortable dressing feminine when she's feeling the she/her pronouns, and masculine when she's feeling the he/him pronouns).
ari is non-binary, or agender. they don't identify as male or female. they like to think they have no gender. they use the pronouns they/them. they're also panromantic asexual. so their romantic attraction is not limited by gender, but they don't experience sexual attraction and have no desire of engaging in a sexual relationship. ari is all about emotional connections and basically being real and true to one's self. they wear whatever they want whenever they want (they aren't taken by gender roles the way jane is).

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RANDOM SPAM BECAUSE I'M BORED; tell us all something that no one else knows about you, could be stupid like "I find bananas gross", or more complex, like a secret.

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I suppose this is kind of a secret that nobody knows because it's something I've only recently discovered myself, but through talking to people on this website, I've always discovered my true sexuality and its brought me a lot of peace knowing that there's an actual name describing how I feel.
I always considered myself pansexual but it never felt right because I often don't feel sexual attraction to others. I never understood the FULL scope of sexuality and through using ask and talking to all of the gender-aware people on here, it's helped me realized I'm actually panROMANTIC and demisexual. I've always developed sexual attraction to people after establishing a bond with them, and now that I can put a name to the feeling, I feel much better about it. :)

Sorry I would Google this, but I don't even know where to start :( so I am confused with my sexuality. I like guys, but feel whatever with them and with girls I get really serious and intimate but sometimes with guys too but only for a moment. Is there maybe a word for it or explanation?

I have no idea. Maybe you're just more into one or the other when it comes to different things. Some people are different in their romantic orientation than they are with their sexual orientation, so maybe that's something that could fit you. I mean, some people are panromantic (they can fall in love with a person of any gender), but they can also be heterosexual (only sexually attracted to someone of the same gender). So yeah, there are a lot of terms out there. In general I would just say don't worry too much about it. As long as you're happy and comfortable, terms and labels aren't as important.

This is simply a curious question. Why must everyone always associate themselves with labels? Gay, straight, emo, hipster--those are but only a small few of the millions of labels that are out there. Why can people not simply 'go with the flow' (for lack of better wording) and like whatever it -c-

Society likes labels. When we have a label, we feel more comfortable. We have something to identify with, something that others can understand. I mean, trust me, I'd love to just be like "hi i'm Jack, and i'm human." But then people wouldn't /know/ who I am. If I say "Hi, I'm Jack and I'm a panromantic homosexual agender." And people would understand and gather information about me like "okay, their name is Jack and they have no gender, love everyone but is only interested in people with vaginas". They got all that from one sentence.
I think we as humans like to understand something. We like giving things names--not to separate them harshly--but to separate them to know who they are as a person.
Some people are assholes and separate people to discriminate. I, personally, like knowing things about an individual just so I know how to approach and communicate effectively.

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Some people may not find it a big deal but its kinda getting to me and I was wondering if u had any advice, basically my friends all think that I'm bisexual but in reality I am pansexual/ panromantic but I'm scared and unsure on how to tell them

i would just tell them that i'm pansexual and explain what it means. i know it can be scary but if they are your friends they will listen and try to understand and accept you for who you are.

this girl posted in Facebook she's bi and pan, I know the two are similar but there different. Can you be two sexualities (bi and pan) BC I don't wanna say anything if I'm wring aha. Sorry for my typos

they could be panromantic bisexual or biromantic pansexual but they cant be bisexual and pansexual at the same time (in my opinion) if i were you i would just leave it, dont start things about it

sorry if i sound ignorant or if u don't want to talk about it or something, but ur bio says ur a lesbian but i thought u were pan? do u just mean that u prefer girls or are you homoromantic pansexual or??

I'm a panromantic homosexual~
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That's not what i'm asking about. Panromantic is when you can be romantically attracted to all genders, no sexual feelings, right..???? Then how can you be demisexual?

you are right. but sexual orientation does not correlate with romantic orientation. demisexuality is when i have to have a VERY strong emotional bond with someone, and it may not even be sexual.
i am able to have a romantic relationship with all genders but i won't be able to have a sexual relationship unless that emotional bond is there, whether it be platonic or sexual.
i don't get what's so confusing tbh

i'm so nervous to come out to people because i don't want to be judged. but i finally know that i'm panromantic demisexual

aw well you dont have to come out if you dont feel comfortable !! im not out irl so ya but im glad tht u figured out ur identity n-n
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Alright, everyone! I have finished the first draft of the FAQ! If you guys have any other things you think I should mention, leave them in my askbox with (FAQ) in parentheses at the end. I'll add them and update as best I can.

What is “genderfluid”- The word genderfluid is what it sounds like! My gender is fluid. It flows between two different gender identities for me, which are “female” and “agender”. It can change on the hour, on the day, et cetera, and sometimes it stops in between the two.
What is “agender”- Agender means “the lack of gender”. It is simply not having a gender. Being human, but that’s it.
When/How did you know you were genderfluid-I have never fully identified as female. That is simply not a word that has always applied to me. I never really cared to apply a label to it as a young child, but now that I’m older, I’m exceedingly grateful that there is a term for the way I feel and the way I experience gender. Asking me HOW I knew I was gender fluid is like asking me how I know I have green eyes. It’s a factual aspect of myself, something that I don’t give much thought to outside of questions on my askfm about it!
Do your parents/friends know how you feel and do they understand- My mom knows that I am genderfluid. She is the only one that I have come out to in words, and she is very understanding and accepts me for who I am. I am uncomfortable coming out to my friends, for obvious reasons, and my father and I do not have a good relationship in which I could come out to him.
What “parts” do you have/what are you “REALLY”- These questions are not only transphobic, but also just inappropriate. I’ll leave it at this and any other questions concerning this will be deleted. I was AFAB, assigned “female” at birth.
How do you use your pronouns?/why do you use they/them pronouns- These are the only gender neutral pronouns in the English language that refer to people. Although it is technically not grammatically correct to use them in the singular form, more and more people are beginning to. You use them in the same way you use traditional he/she pronouns.
They went to the store to pick up a snack for their mother.
They wanted to save some snacks for theirself*
*yes, this sounds weird. I know. I try not to use -self when using “they” pronouns because it sounds like this.
What is your sexuality?- A lot of people seem to think I’m a lesbian. I am not. I’m not a girl, after all. I am a panromantic asexual.
Panromantic- pan- means all. The romantic bit shows that I am ROMANTICALLY attracted to all people, regardless of gender. This is a “gender-blind” attraction, as opposed to people for whom gender is part of the basis for romantic attraction to another person.
Asexual- No, I don’t reproduce via meiosis. Asexual simply means that I do not experience sexual attraction. This is different from lacking a sex drive and no, it was not caused by ED/malnutrition/what have you.

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i like all genders but I'm sex repulsed, does it still mean I'm pansexual? sorry if this is a stupid question lol

if you don't experience sexual attraction but you'd still date them, you're probably panromantic asexual
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What does it mean the last five sexualities, i'm sorry but i don't know that much about this kind of topics

Pansexual - Sexually attracted to all Genders.
Panromantic - Romantically attracted to all Genders.
Polysexual - Sexually attracted to many Genders.
Demisexual - Takes deep attraction to have sex
Demiromantic - Takes deep attraction to fall in love
:) They're basic descriptions of course :3 ♡

really hope this doesnt come across as rude & so sorry if it does but can you explain being panromantic and asexual as i thought someone could be one or the other but you identify as both?

Asexual - no desire to have sex. Panromantic - I can experience a romantic attraction to someone regardless of their gender. Sexual orientation doesn't necessarily have to match up with romantic orientation and I can identify however I feel comfortable. Panromantic asexuals are probably more common than you realise.

Is there a name for being romantically attracted to all genders but only being sexually attracted to one gender? I'm non-binary (genderfluid to be exact) and sexually attracted to males*, but romantically attracted to men* and women*.

biromantic // panromantic // androsexual
but im cis so i wouldn't take my word for it
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Is there a name for being romantically attracted to all genders but only being attracted to one gender? I'm non-binary (gender fluid to be exact) and sexually attracted to males*, but romantically attracted to both men* and women*. I'm so confused with myself.

Panromantic androsexual maybe?

Ilysm, you made me realize that I'm not alone with my dissociative identity disorder. You made me reach out to get therapy for my rape and abuse. You made me realize we need feminisim. You made me realize it's okay to be a panromantic asexual. It's all you. Everything is you. Thank you. So much.

I want to fly to wherever you are and give you a hug, you are such a sweet, strong, amazing person and I am so proud of you. Give yourself a hug since I can't be there to do it myself and love yourself; you're worth every bit of it.

hey i just wanted to add that since im panromantic demihomosexual, most people dont know what that means and are all like "why do we even need labels!!!1!1!1!?.?.!?!!1!1' uwu uwu uwu" so i just call myself gay or qu**r but i still wouldnt rly use the word f*gg*t

Ahhh, thank you!!
That's really good to know. n__n
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I was annoyed bc like I dont know my sexuality but im panromantic so I didnt have much of an option other than straight

WOW OK SO LIKE THIS ANNOYING KID IN MY CLASS WAS LIKE "would you sit on Dave Franco's face" AND I WAS LIKE "uh no" AND HE WAS LIKE "so what are you" AND I WAS LIKE "asexual" AND HE WAS LIKE "you reproduce with yourself" AND EVERYONE WAS LOOKING AT ME AND IT WAS REALLY QUIET SO I WAS JUST LIKE "yes and I'm surprised you pay attention enough to know what a scientific way of reproducing means without a dictionary" AND THIS GUY JORGE WAS LIKE "OOOOOHHHHH"

Wenn du die möglichkeit hättest, würdest du einen Dreier mit deiner Freundin und einem Kerl zustimmen?

Und seit wann genau habe eine eine Freundin?
Und zweitens: Wenn ich mit einer Frau intim werde, hat ein Schwanz dabei nichts zu suchen.
Und drittens: Ich bin panromantic homosexual. Ich habe allgemein wenig bis kein Interesse an Sex mit Männern.

I see that many people are asking you about orientations, and I read the answer where the orientations were listed and I would like to know if someone can have mixed orientation? Like panromantic demisexual, for example?

yep!! romantic and sexual orientations can be completely seperate.
(although demisexual isn't a stand-alone sexuality)
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I believe I'm panromantic grey-heterosexual, and yes I am a girl and thank you so much for helping me because I didn't know if it was normal to feel this way and just thanks so much I hope you're doing great!

of course! i'm really glad i could help. all sexualities are normal and good so !!! n-n
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I remember when you had a boyfriend (what happened thought?) and I was disappointed cause I thought you were straight but now? what's with the sexually confused thing?

Oh, I'm not heterosexual. Never claimed to be.
I guess if I have to be extremely specific I'm panromantic and demisexual (but I sometimes drift in the grey asexual end and I just want to be in a platonic relationship). I guess it's kind of confusing and annoying to most people, so that explains why I'm not considered girlfriend material.

I think I've heard you describe yourself as Demi-sexual, did i hear correctly? Also, what gender(s)/person(s) do you find attractive?

yeah i'd call myself maybe grey-demisexual but tbh i'm still a bit confused about both my sexual and romantic orientations. i feel like i've finally mostly figured out the sexual attraction and i think i'm maybe just panromantic but i've never really had the experiences to know. so i find some dudes attractive once i know them well and probs non-binary folk but i haven't rly met enough to know yet if that makes sense?? and i think i can be attracted to any gender romantically but i have trouble telling the difference between platonic and romantic sometimes idk i hope that all made sense sorry if it's confusing but i'm still working it out myself

i have a question i currently identify as bisexual, but i can't ever see myself having sex or getting married to a male, so i guess i'm more homosexual and biromantic. however, i already came out as bisexual and i dont wanna "switch" bc im afraid of getting made fun of for "faking it" or some shit

Don't worry about having to tell people. It's okay to feel differently; it's okay to change your mind or decide that maybe your initial assumptions were wrong. The only person you ever have to explain anything to is you. I went through a very long phase where I felt asexual and then I realised that maybe it was more panromantic than anything else. But the point is - it doesn't matter. You'e allowed to be unsure and you're allowed to feel a certain way one day and another the next. Never feel like you have to put yourself out there and explain it to other people though. Just concentrate on what your mind is telling you. If you're attracted to someone - great, but don't feel like you have to put a label on it just so you have a word to describe it to other people when/if they ask! You do you. :)

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Weird question: Have you ever doubted your sexuality? If yes, what did you do or what made you doubt? (If the question bothered you then deleted it and don't answer it)

Oh yes. It took me quite a long time to figure my sexuality out. I thought I was straight, then I thought I was gay, then I thought I was bi, then I realized that I'm demisexual and panromantic (thus deeming me pansexual by default). I've felt a fairly equal amount of sexual attraction toward men and women, although I do typically find women much more aesthetically pleasing/sexually attractive. I usually get along with men better, but whenever I am into a woman I start feeling really protective and usually take on the more masculine role so really my sexuality has an effect on my gender in a weird way. Over the past year or so, I have been in a heterosexual relationship in which I am the more submissive/feminine partner, so I have dressed and felt a lot more femininely than I did back when I was interested in a female. I really don't have any control over it, I guess I'm just really genderfluid and drift back and forth according to my sexual circumstances. When I was dating my ex, I always felt like the more dominant one for some reason (not really sure why) so during that time I think I embraced more of a masculine aesthetic (sort of).
I don't know. I like girls, I think I like them more than I like guys as far as them being cute and soft and generally pretty (though, oddly, I've always been a lot more attracted to masculine/androgynous females than anything in the world). But I very rarely get along with them on a deeper level than that. I have an easier time forming bonds with males because I feel more like a male than a female inside, however many of my mannerisms and preferred aesthetics align much more heavily with femininity. It's really quite odd, I suppose. I'm very comfortable with my lack of a set gender, it's me and I'm happy to explain it to people who want to understand. Couldn't give a fuck about anyone who doesn't.

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Ya leí que prefieres no usar etiquetas en lo que es tu orientación sexual, pero si tuvieras que decir necesariamente tu orientación, cuál sería?

Uhmm, pues aquí está la cosa: Soy panromantic pero polisexual.
Si hablamos de /solo/ atracción sexual, tengo que decir que soy polisexual porque no siento atracción sexual por todo tipo de persona. Tengo una marcada inclinación por individuos con vagina, me siento más atraído a la /anatomía/ femenina, y sinceramente no me veo teniendo relaciones con un individuo que tenga miembro reproductor masculino, simplemente no me veo, me puede atraer la persona físicamente pero me siento incapaz de llegar a tener relaciones sexuales como tales.
Y, aún así, podría desarrollar sentimientos románticos por todo tipo de personas, independiente de qué es lo que tiene entre las piernas y de con qué identidad de género se siente identificado, por ello soy panromantic. Osea, podría tener sentimientos románticos por una persona con cuerpo masculino pero no podría tener relaciones sexuales con esa persona o al menos por ahora así me siento.
Así que, más que nada porque el decir mi "orientación" solo significa tener que explicar más cosas, prefiero solo no usar títulos y decir que me enamoro de quien me enamoro y que me atrae quien me atrae, y fin del cuento.

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