#pron

I think it's harmful to only teach kids about safe sxx with someone of the opposite sxx as them.
I was an adult by the time I learned that dental dams exist because in Ireland, church(Catholicism) and state go hand in hand. In Catholicism there's no speak of any oral sxx, especially not performed on people with vxginas or anxl oral sxx so dental dams here are very rare to see.
I don't think teaching cis kids about trans people is going to make them trans.
Trans kids spend their whole life around cis people and that doesn't make them cis.
But I do think it'd be more likely that if young kids were taught about all of this that when they do, if ever have same sxx sxx that they'd do it safely rather than not and that they'd be more likely to have more confidence expressing their gender however they see fit whether they're masculine, feminine, androgynous, cis, trans, non-binary etc.
I think it's more of a good thing than a bad thing but I do think it would work better starting off if it was optional. That way parents don't have to let their kid learn this stuff but we all know the kids that are allowed are gonna tell them anyway and so in the future, maybe parents would be more likely to let teachers educate their kids on this stuff.
I know that I as a member of LGBTQ+ took to pron for sxxual education as a child and that's extremely harmful but I just wanted to know how I would have sxx with someone I'm attracted to of the same or different sxx and that wasn't taught at schools.
Kid will always learn this stuff but as the average person has sxx for the first time at 15, they may learn about how to have safe sxx too late. They may contract STDs or cause a pregnancy all because of lack of education.
Most trans children have behavioural issues before realising they can change their clothes, hair, name, pronouns etc. Because they feel like they're different but no one understands. The trans community's biggest reasons for death is sxicide, which usually occurs before their 20th birthday or murder.
With the ****correct**** education these trans kids will have better chances of accepting themselves and being accepted by others and the children who go on to have same sxx sxx will be less likely to contract STDs or cause pregnancies.
I think a mere 1hour class for students could make the lives of the people around them so much easier and safer and I think that's what matters most.
We need to protect kids. They are some of the most vulnerable people on our planet and they are the future.
But while people talk about protecting kids, they often forget kids from minorities whether it's the kids living in poverty who can't access this information, the kids who aren't straight who don't know how to have safe sxx with a member of the same sxx or the children who are trans. I think people think their children will be made think they're LGBTQ+ when they're educated but I was telling my mother "I'm a boy" when I was 3 before ever knowing what trans was.

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ok i was gonna ignore this because i don't want drama, i don't want ash to feel attacked, i don't want this to turn into some he said/they said discourse, but i've gotten an increasing amount of messages about it so i decided to respond:

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male and female comes in all shapes and sizes. from the genitalia to the exact amount of hormones present in an individual body, no two people are 100% alike-- and this extends to intersex people as well. although intersex does only have a handful of chromosome arrangements possible, two individuals with that arrangement are not alike. me for example, i'm shorter than an average male- not taller, despite that usually being one of the "symptoms".

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having a certain genitalia doesn't mean you're //not// intersex- ash is open about how they are dfab and they have a pron hub where anyone can clearly see that for themselves-- but to be honest, my genitals look pretty standard, and so do a bunch of other intersex people's. the only difference here is what lies underneath, aka the actual system (uteri, testes, and so on).

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someone who's gotten pregnant obviously has a functional female reproductive system (uteri, ovaries, and a vxxginal canal as well as the ability to produce fertilisable eggs)-- but i know a few people who are intersex and have had biological kids of their own. that being said, 99.99% of the time that requires help from an endocrinologist since we do not produce the right amount of hormones.

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again, i'm not attacking ash, this is not a callout or a roast it's just merely facts. being intersex isn't something you can self diagnosis on the basis of having a few things that don't fit traditional female characteristics as there are hundreds of more probable conditions and the only way to truly know if you're intersex is to have your karyotypes analysed.

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Well... that is a little hard to believe. I would certainly like to see a way to objectively test that premise. Tho' I do not doubt there are at least similarities and haunting parallels.

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I suppose an argument could be made that the inhumanity and monstrosity of WW1--i.e., the distance between that which was experienced and what young men were prepared for by human adaptation--has parallels in every day life today. Exposure to pron at increasingly early ages, unlimited alone time, pron time, game time, no limit to interpersonal coarseness, especially from young women, the same young women prostituting themselves for free, widespread divorce and emotional neglect all bound up in a protective social condom for putative safety. None of those are things that nature, even in her wisdom, could possibly have prepared young humans for in the adaptive environment.

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Modern culture is a full frontal assault on human nature. Presumably, the strong might come through little damaged. But many, many more on the margins are damaged in a profound way.

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"Mulla on ihan järkyttävä nälkä, kuolen just.." "aI SULLA ON NÄLKÄ SIIS AJATTELE AFRIKAN LAPSIA JOKKA KUOLEE JOKA PÄIVÄ NÄLKÄÄN, ET KYL KOSKAAN AJATTELE MUITA SENKIN ITSEKÄS PASKA!1!!1 AFRIIKKA!!! STARVIN CILDREN!!!!"
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"Siis taiteilijat (tms) ei oo tollasia noin rauhallisia. Taiteilijat on sekopäitä ei toi oo taiteilija siis minä tunnen kaikki maailman taiteilijat uliulisprölölölööLÖlölö." (perustuu myös tositapahtumaan).
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*lapsi vetää itkupotkuraivarit kaupassa koska ei saa 70€ lelua* (vanhempi): "Älähän nyt Pertti-Vispilä-Anton, elähän huuda nyt nii hys hys pilalle hemmoteltu pikkupaska, okei äiti ja isi ostaa sulle sen lelun, voi voi hys nii hyvä poika osaat olla hiljaa ootniin hyvä poika ihana kullanpullan nupukka kuukeliskeikelis tuitui."
Kiitos, ja siinä muutama ihmistyyppi joka ärsyttää! Mukava purkaa mieltä näihin, haha.

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