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Di solito i nice guy sono quelli che si mostrano apparentemente gentili non perché effettivamente lo sono, ma perché si aspettano qualcosa in cambio e, se non si presenta questo ricambio, poi mostrano la vera natura insultandoti.
Esempio banalissimo:
"Ciao, come stai? Sei bellissima"
"Ciao, tutto bene, grazie mille! Te come stai?"
"Bene bene, ti va di uscire con me?"
"Guarda apprezzo il pensiero e ti ringrazio, ma non mi va"
"Ok trøia, non sei davvero bella comunque, fai schifo al cäzzo"

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Una persona che è veramente "bravo ragazzo" non dice sei bella al solo scopo di uscire con te per insultarti dopo che la rifiuti ecco, magari dispiace il rifiuto ma lo accetta educatamente.
Un altro modo per distinguerli è che spesso i nice guy si autoproclamano bravi ragazzi (la tipica frase "i bravi ragazzi come me vengono sempre rifiutati -sottinteso: da quelle trøie che la danno ai cattivi ragazzi che le maltrattano", azzardo che un 90% è un nice guy e solo il 10% è realmente una brava persona).

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Poi online c'è sì la definizione vera e propria, ma i nice guy, che tal volta vanno a braccetto con gli incel* redpillati, sostanzialmente sono così (idem per le nice girls, ma credo siano numericamente molte meno)

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>*mi riferisco esclusivamente alla categoria redpill che sono effettivamente tutt'altro che bravi ragazzi, non a tutte quelle persone che semplicemente non sono riusciti ad avere ancora rapporti pur essendo comunque persone a modo

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Per avere chiare reference di niceguy ci sono i reddit dove condividono screen di conversazioni dove il nice guy esce allo scoperto in tutta la sua "brava e gentile" personalità

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Promise!!✨

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No creo que exista un sólo tipo de feminismo, me parece que es un movimiento bastante poliédrico, obvio las cosas que más se hacen notar son las que muestran los medios de comunicación, pero también hay mucha literatura, arte y política, de hecho, mucha política y no de un solo lado 👈 👉. Sabias que existe feminismo islámico? hace tiempo recuerdo leer en reddit una discusión entre feministas, unas eran de países islámicos que defendían el uso del velo y otras eran anglos que les parecía horroroso que feministas defiendan eso. Me parece curioso que no exista feminismo cristiano o católico(¿.

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Yo creo que los movimientos, como el feminismo, al igual que otros movimientos en la historia evolucionan, algunos desaparecen, pero siempre dejan huellas de que existieron, y de hecho, el feminismo del siglo pasado ya ha marcado varios hitos en la historia. El feminismo actual dejará sus propias marcas, lo positivo y negativo quedará bajo juicio de las generaciones venideras.

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Jumped of a 30ft cliff after my buddy. Since he went first the Rock was wet at the point of the jump. Fell about 6 inches away from the wall thought I was going to smack into some rocks at the bottom. While I missed the rocks at the bottom I hit the water on my side. Air immediately left my lungs. It was one of those moments where I was swimming for the top of the water and wasn’t sure if I’d make it before I passed out. Obviously I made it, but I really though for a moment that was it! Jumped out of a helicopter when skiing. My skis were stuck in my parachute so I dropped them 4000 feet in the air. This was in backcountry Switzerland so I had to make my way 40 miles to the rendezvous in 3 days hiking. Not a fun trip. Almost fell 4000 feet without a parachute, was frost bitten, almost died of infection, and got sent back to Canada without my personal belongings.
Oh, quite a few times. Surfing big waves blitzed had a few wipeouts where I didn't know where up was... Warzones, for sure, several times... Trying to jump onto a trampoline from the roof to catapult into the lake... Actually trying the stuff with the wagon from Calvin and Hobbes near my parents' house as a kid... Locking us in the camper, starting a fire in the kitchen while I tried to make coffee, and getting stuck on a bunk when the table fell apart when my cousin and I were 4... Waking up on a deserted island after losing a boat after a tequila misadventure... Waking up in a body bag after mixing alcohol and heroin.

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I'm reasonably intelligent, ambtious, a smart ass and reasonably extrovert. I like to read, play piano, dick around on the internet and listen to classical music/jazz.

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My type is a girl who is about as intelligent as I am (or smarter), ambitious, a smart ass and not too socially awkward. I would get bored if she was too submissive, not very intelligent or if she wouldn't have a life/career of her own. Slightly introverted, not so much intelligent as incredibly fast at thinking. I love stories and take pride in the fact that I can do my work in dangerous and difficult conditions that break other people. I am also incredibly lazy when I can get away with it.
Me: Introvert and quiet until I warm up to people after we have talked a fair amount. Fairly confident but certainly not fearless. I can spend long periods of time with 1 person but more than a few people drain me. I like dicussing concepts and ideas, and making terrible jokes. Generaly very laid back and calm at most times, though I love competition and get fired up over it easily. Homebody who does not do clubs or rowdy parties but I will go out to a lounge or sports bar for drinks once in a while.
I have found myself to be pretty introverted, to my surprise as I always thought I was otherwise until I really understood what that means. I have spent a lot of my life learning to just take things as they come, a day at a time, and I like to imagine that makes me pretty laid back. I can tolerate most things in other people as long as it's not to do with deliberate ignorance or something they flat out know is not a good idea (ie. complaining about something that they could fix but won't, picking fights with others to try to find some affirmation for their life choices, etc.). I used to be a pretty hard core neck beard, but without a beard, and have been working very hard over the last few years to change that. I can only hope this self improvement has been working, but that's really for me to judge. I like me more, so there's that I guess.
I'm 5'10 (a good height I think). Good looking, manly chin, nice build. I'm pretty even keeled in terms of personality. Wouldn't say that I'm intro or extroverted because I can be both. I'm ok with peace and quiet, sitting in my room browsing reddit. I also have fun going out to parties and hanging out with people. But I do mind my own business, as opposed to some people who seem to have a need to bother and talk to others for no reason. I'm confident, willing to put my money where my mouth is. I don't believe in limiting myself, I want to experience all that the world has to offer. I'm intellectual, and well traveled, so I know what I like. I'm openminded, and appreciate the same in others. I look good in sweats and a v-neck, even better in a suit. A lover and a fighter.

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I am a gentle, kind-hearted, romantic, sympathetic and compassionate individual. I always look for people who are as kind hearted as I am. My friends say that I am kind hearted, caring and tender. My easy-going, kind-hearted temperament is ideally suited to working with people. I try to give an helping hand to all those who are most in need of a helping hand. Peiple say I am the sweetest, most kind-hearted person that they've ever known. I am broad-minded, kind-hearted, perfectly informed, clear-sighted and congenial. I loved experiencing the different cultures of the two prefectures and learning more about their kind-hearted people and Japan. I am so soothing, so smart, and do kind-hearted deep inside. I am kind-hearted, always nice and quiet and try my very best to be helpful to everyone I meet along the way. My master is a kind-hearted and sympathetic man, but, he didn't agree to help me.
You're a handsome, kind-hearted, young man, and any girl would be lucky to have you in her life.
A man of great modesty and shy by nature, he was kind-hearted and generous.
I have told many stories of the enterprising, generous and kind-hearted people that live in this community.
He was their kind-hearted teacher and mentor and guide from whom all drew inspiration.
She has a warm personality and she is very kind hearted.
Quick to laugh and kind hearted, I was a happy child.
I expect the man I am looking for will be be reliable, caring, intelligent and kind-hearted.
I’m a really open hearted, giving, loving person. Though I get wrapped up in emotions very easily and that sends me into a downward spiral of depression. I always want my love to be reciprocated which is so selfish I know. Another horrible thing about me is that I seek attention. I have a loud personality. Most people find me a lot of fun to be around but for some I might be too intense. I’m complicated 😐
People generally tell me that before they got to know me they were scared of me or thought I was cool. I personally just see myself as kind of distant and detached but I also care deeply about lots of things. Also I have really thin skin and it kind of shows.
This is a hard one. Most people that meet me, and even know me well, tell me I’m one of the nicest people they’ve ever met (I was voted “nicest person” in 8th grade) but I don’t feel that way at all. I feel like if they knew my thoughts, they wouldn’t believe that. I’m quite critical and cynical, though I mostly keep it in my thoughts and in my reddit comments, hahaha. I do try to be a good person though, and I would say I’m fairly generous and loyal. I care deeply, but that also means I get worked up over injustice easily.

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Ja, ich höre sie mir gerne nebenbei an. :D
Wer es ganz kurz haben möchte, sieht sich einfach das Bild an, auf dem sind 12 Podcasts drauf, denen ich folge. :D
Ich habe aber von manchen noch keine Folge gehört. :3
Okay, dass sind jetzt alle Podcasts, die ich entweder höre oder mir Mal vorgeschlagen wurden und sich interessiert anhören.
Die Podcasts, die ich aktuell immer Mal höre sind
- Hobbylos
- Schreib mich ab
- Gemütlich Nachsitzen
- Nicht mehr ganz Twitter
- Kottbruder
- Reddit Stories.
Bei den restlichen habe ich noch keine Folge gehört, finde sie aber ganz interessant.
Ich habe mir ebenfalls den Podcast "Plötzlich schwanger" von Herr Bergmann und Paluten angehört, den habe ich allerdings schon durch und er wird auch nicht mehr fortgeführt, weswegen er nicht auf der Liste ist.
Wenn jemand eine kurze Zusammenfassung oder einfach meine Meinung zu einen/mehrere/alle Podcasts haben möchte, die ich aktuell höre, muss nachfragen.
In dieser Antwort habe ich leider nicht mehr viel Platz, um wirklich darüber zu schreiben. Ich schreibe hier aber Mal ganz grob ein paar Details.
Schreib mich ab ist ein interaktives Hörspiel, wo eine erfundene Geschichte erzählt wird. Wenn du dir die aktuellste Folge angehört hast, kannst du auf Instagram gehen und das weitere Geschehen der Geschichte beeinflussen, falls man es möchte. :D
Reddit Stories höre/sehe ich eigentlich immer auf YouTube, die Folgen werden nämlich ebenfalls auf dem Kanal "Fufu Stories" hochgeladen. Wie der Name es schon sagt, geht es um Stories von Reddit Nutzern. Oft bekommt man da ein paar negativen Gefühle gegenüber bestimmter Personen in der Geschichte. ;D
Bei den restlichen genannten Podcasts geht es immer um 2 Youtuber, die einfach ein bisschen reden. Die Folgen sind meistens sehr lustig. Meine Favoriten davon sind "Kottbruder" und "Hobbylos". :333

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Karma as a spiritual force, no. But I would argue being a good person will oftentimes (but not always) lead to others being good to you. Bad people, however, even the scales by cheating. So even if being a good person helped you out, bad people have means at their disposal to help them too.
I think social karma exists. People see someone doing good and positive acts and the karma passes onto other people.

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You are more likely to tip at the counter if the person ahead of you already tipped.

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The same goes for bad karma. You know how if one person doesn't acknowledge a situation (like a fight in public or a homeless person asking for change) that the rest of them usually do the same?

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It works like that. I don't believe in a metaphysical force though. If it existed there would be a lot of homeless hedge fund bankers.
Karma probably doesn't exist. It's a very comforting thought, knowing that the bad guy gets punished and the good guy eventually gets a reward. Unfortunately, the world just doesn't work like that.
I don't think the universe keeps a numerical value like reddit does, but some people get what's coming to them, and others are on the side of the angels, they're just good people.
If you're nice to people, people will be nice to you. That's how humans work. If you're nasty to people, people on the whole will be nasty to you/ignore you. Again, that's how humans work. If you're mean to people and then get hit by a truck, that's just an unfortunate (or fortunate for everyone else) coincidence.
I don't believe in karma, I believe in statistics. If you're a good person and always do nice things, statistically more good things will happen to you. I don't believe there is some system keeping count of the good things people do.

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I'm complex as hell. No one ever sees the full me because of that. My family sees one piece. People I work with see a totally different piece. People I like/friends see something else. And you people on Reddit see mostly a different piece from everyone else. When people from any of these four elements see me in one of the other elements, they get really confused. Some people think I'm intimidating as hell while other people think the idea that I'm intimidating is completely laughable. I'm old, but I look significantly younger than I am, i.e. at least a decade younger. So, I get a lot of amusement from people because of all of these things. I like dark blue and black and wear those colors almost all the time. I actually love sports, but I treat it like an academic subject. I'm into politics, psychology, reading, research, learning, social issues, pretty much all kinds of music (no "I have eclectic taste" followed by "I hate pop music," though, admittedly, I'm less familiar with modern music--but I just like anything that sounds good to me), old sitcoms. I like philosophical discussions. Great career, but always thinking about what the next step is and positioning for it. "Forever alone"--too weird and different to find someone who is compatible with me and actually wants me. Not "girly." Very calculating and always staying a step ahead of others. Usually have a plan B or a contingency plan. Very unemotional on the outside, more emotional and romantic on the inside. I'm on my early 20s. Very introverted. I find it hard to connect with people. I am picky with my relationships (platonic and romantic). Quite elitistic and arrogant. Loves fine art and the violin. Adores dogs. Pragmatic. Loves money money money! 🤑
I am kind of motivated but unmotivated most of the time. I am a highschool student and I used to go to a boarding school. It taught me a lot about people. And I dream of becoming an engineer and make stuff. I made friends when I used to attend the school, but only talk to one after leaving the school. And I don't really have a person to talk to a lot, but that dosent mean I am alone, have family and friends (2), but just lonely. Closest thing to a friend I have is a random french girl I found on omegle. I rarely talk, to a fistfull of people. I am just shy. Oh and the compliment I get the most by few people I talk to is "weird in an interesting way"
I am also interested in philosophy and psychology, especially applying it to my personal life or analysing the behaviour of others around me. I have grown more confident over time but I still feel very awkward or out of place. I am a very reserved person but I enjoy talking with my friends about meaningful topics. I usually mind my own business but I enjoy giving insightful advice to my friends because I know it will be useful for them. I have two cats. I like iced coffee. I am a good leader.

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Circle. Because I always want to be holding things together, whether I am at work or being with my family. It is one thing always striving to be the center of the world, and it is another to be the one everyone knows they can turn to at any given moment.
Uninterested. I cannot genuinely be interested in something I do for more than a couple days, weeks at the most. When it comes to getting bored easily, I am your man. Nothing online, or on TV holds my attention for more than an hour or so. Even reddit fails to hold my attention for more than an hour and I don't even know why. I frequently get bored of my girlfriend. I have changed many majors...so on and so on. I wish I could change it, but don't know how.
Never thought about a psychologist. That's not a bad idea. Its not that bad, I just try to find A LOT of things to do. Its really depressing when I have to not listen to certain songs because I like them. I know if I listen to it more than a few times in a day, they will get boring. But overall, its not that bad. I don't even really notice it until something like this comes up.
You may suffer from something i've coined as: Genius-Syndrome. You are so intellectually advanced that your brain processes through tasks so fast and easily that you can not focus on anything and are usually bored. I've found that advanced mathematics does the trick for me. Here's to hoping you can find something to put your mind at ease.
In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me everything that comes out of me is authentically mine because I alone chose it - I own everything about me my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions. Whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and successes with me - by so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know - but as long al I am friendly and loveing to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me - However I look and sound whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel, at a given moment in time is authentically me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turn out to be unfitting. I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded - I can see, hear think, say and do I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me - I own me, and therefore I can engineer me - I am me and I am okay the way I am. idealistic. I hope for the best in everyone, everything, but am usually disappointed.

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I am a naturally sane and good-natured person who always looks on the bright side of life. I look out for everyone. Shy, honest, anxious, determined, cat lover, antisocial, pluviophile, funny, boring. I try to bring out the best in people. Caring, oblivious, vindictive, creative, trustworthy, indignant, self-pitying, verbose, introspective, affectionate. I am a very caring person who's looking for making people's days a bit brighter and
Insecure, shy, reserved, distrusting, understanding, ride or die, funny, witty, intelligent, chunky but funky
Empathetic, self-motivated, nonjudgmental, endlessly curious about the human condition, introspective. Empathetic, dog-lover, insecure, easy-going, wine-lover, intelligent, sensitive but strong, hard working, perfectionist. How would I describe myself? Three words. Hard-working, Alpha male, Jackhammer. Merciless. Insatiable. You and me both. Worst part is knowing it and knowing that I'll suspect tremendous potential until the day I die, having achieved nothing to measure up to what I suspect could have been.
I'm happy and funny and smart and good looking and radiant and medium build and brown eyes and well read and I love rock and roll and I live in the city but I wish I lived on a farm but not too far out 'cause I like to party and socialise and go to movies and shows and i like shoe shopping and sometimes I feel a bit guilty for eating all the ice cream but mostly I'm OK with roast beef for dinner but I also like pizza for a change and I like Reddit a lot and I sometimes play Guitar Hero but only when there isn't any Mock the Week on repeat on Dave and sometimes I like to cycle to the park and sit and check all the hot mommas out and every time I go home and touch myself I die a little inside.
I got asked this in a job interview not too long ago. It completely threw me off guard (it was my first real job interview) and I really had a hard time coming up with a good answer right away. I was literally slurring my words. Needless to say, I didn't. Visionary, I suppose. I have the habit of always drifting off into thought and coming up with ideas, theories and explanations randomly in my head based on stuff I see. It's a habit of mine, I guess. I always like to come up with my own solutions for things. Check out the synonyms: admirable, alluring, angelic, appealing, attractive, beauteous, bewitching, charming, classy, comely, cute, dazzling, delicate, delightful, divine, easy on the eyes, elegant, enticing, excellent, exquisite, fair, fascinating, fine, foxy*, good-looking, gorgeous, graceful, grand, handsome, ideal, lovely, magnificent, marvelous, nice, pleasing, pretty, radiant, ravishing, refined, resplendent, shapely, sightly, splendid, statuesque, stunning, sublime, superb, symmetrical, taking, well-formed, wonderful.

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