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What do you think about long distance relationship?

Love does not care if you are standing face to face, or if you are thousands of miles away.
I actually think it would be better to start a relationship with someone long distance at first. While you do not have the physical contact of a normal relationship, you need to build a deeper more meaningful bond in a long distance relationship to make it work.
There is nothing better than gently holding your partner’s face in your hands and look deep into their eyes.
But in a long distance relationship, words can hold us just as close… when I cannot. 🥺❤️

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Do you listen to your parents’ advice?

huraib_8388’s Profile PhotoUmmayy♑
I took a risk to follow my dreams, had some great life experiences, then returned to find myself back at square one. My friends who followed the boring sensible path are all successful now and I’m not because none of my wonderful memories are relevant to now.
My parents and I have always had a tumultuous relationship that has only improved (vastly, I should add) within the last few years. I'm 20 going on 21, and life is coming at me fast. I've always been quite independent and a little rebellious, and I'm at a point where I can't figure out if I'm doing the right thing in following my own gut and doing what I like, or simply finding satisfaction in going against my parents' very traditional ideas. The bottom line is that I still care about them very much, and still take into consideration their advice. I'm currently dating a boy who is absolutely amazing to me. He's so sweet and caring and a lovesick puppy--albeit a little naive and sometimes immature when it comes to making good long term life decisions. I definitely take on a sort of maternal role sometimes. I've been brought up in a middle class family with both my parents and am headed towards a white collar career track. He's from a low income single-parent family and is training to work in the entertainment industry. I see the possibility of myself staying with him for the long term, because I don't mind being the potential breadwinner. My parents like him and think he's a nice person, but they're adamant in that he's not a good match for me because our backgrounds and career paths are so different. They believe that I need a partner to take care of me when I get old, because they don't think I'll be able to. They want long term stability for me. For what it's worth, we both have degrees from a prestigious university, so if anything, I feel he can at least find a decent job if his dreams don't pan out, and he cared about me enough to take on something more stable.
On one hand, I feel like they're coming from such a different background that I feel like they might not understand my situation. I don't think they married for love, and my dad seems to function more as my mom's keeper than her romantic partner. My mom defines her love for him as gratitude that he takes such good care of her and me. Maybe they underestimate my earning potential and my capability. On the other hand, they are adults who have lived much longer and experienced more than I have, and are certainly much wiser than I am in some respects.
For instance, they raised me religiously.Yes, I deeply regret listening to my parents. See, my parents made a lot of life decisions mistakes, that affected me and the rest of my siblings. I know they are not trying to screw us over but their mistakes are really stupid. If they only used their brains. I am still dealing with something that happened 10 years ago because of my parents.

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What short rules do you have for yourself to have a better life?

liquid_sinn’s Profile Photoѕιии-ѕαи ☻
"inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un" which means "to God we belong and to Him we return."
everything in this life is temporary. things do get clearer. pain doesn't last. life does go on. today's rain is tomorrow's sun.
good times become good memories, and bad times become good lessons.
at the end of the day, the longest and most cherished relationship you have in this ephemeral life is the one you have with yourself. because who will be there with you in your grave once you've passed? only you and your deeds. 😌
this is life. we say c'est la vie, and we move on. if we don't like the road that we're walking on, there's always a choice we can make to start paving a new one.

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What short rules do you have for yourself to have a better life

What are your thoughts on long distance relationships?

Jyrice_music’s Profile PhotoJyrice
They usually don't work out due to disloyalty, loneliness, or can't commit to the big move to visit each other. The problem is it's hard and difficult to stay in a romantic relationship that you only communicate through a screen than in person where you can show affection and start a life together.
It is possible that one can succeed long enough to be with each other, but I've personally witnessed many fall apart.

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Is it possible for you to love a guy who is not a muslim??

Love is limitless ...it 's somethin' that penetrated deep inside the heart.it doesn't know any boundary..but in my religion it can be conditionally cuz I 've to marry a Muslim guy ..
Maybe u 'll say that u talked about love in ur Q not marriage but in a true, healthy relationship love always ends with marriage.
and this thing makes me somehow control my feelings towards anyone...

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Is being single a curse or a blessing?

Depends on the person and/or their current state of mind.
I wouldn't call it either of those. Too extreme. For me, it'd be nice to not be single, but only if I found someone who'd be an almost perfect fit for me.
I wouldn't want to be in an unhappy relationship just for the sake of not being single. A toxic relationship could be called a curse for sure, considering how harming and how hard to escape it can be.
And even if I found an almost perfect fit, the relationship wouldn't be only positive (a "blessing"). There will always be obstacles you have to overcome if you want to preserve it.

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are you happy in your relationship?

"Happy" does not even begin to describe it. I feel completely at home with my partner. The mask that I often find myself wearing in my day-to-day life falls away whenever we are alone together, and I feel like I can just be entirely myself around him. He is, in a lot of ways, my best friend. We operate as a team, any problems we come up against, we work through together. When we have drama, we talk things out. He somehow ALWAYS manages to make me laugh, often without trying too hard.
And, to say that I am "happy" with him,
would be a horrendous understatement.

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I need some help yar I've been in a relationship for 6 months and my gf is super loyal I've all her passwords and she loves me no doubt i love her more but i just can't help it yar time nahi dia ja raha she has no friends besides me or wo pura din meri call ka wait krty he but idk how to givehertime

Just talk nicely to her for even an hour or two and she’ll stay happy for whole day💯
Baaqi apki marzi🤧

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The relationship lasts a long time with the condition .... ???

When you both want it to last, It will last...
Some key points do play a major role in all this:
1- Communication: Everything should be transparent, not saying tell him/her your past or your secrets, just be clear about whatever you feel towards his/her actions... Understanding that you can't be talking every single day and it won't affect your relationship
2- Every single of us have same flaws but with different intensities, I could be more toxic than you but less toxic than some other person... But if there's something that your significant other does too much that affects you pretty badly then talk about it, if he/she doesn't change then you should understand that the other person doesn't value you, atleast respect yourself enough to not fall too low by giving chances over and over again.
3- Love and Lust are both different, though they are at the borderline on becoming one but they aren't.
Lastly this is the most IMPORTANT one... Don't OVERANALYZE, like thinking he/she is a liar because he/she lied to you their past, try to understand maybe there's a reason behind it maybe they thought you'll leave them because of it or maybe they were insecure about it... Be understanding and again COMMUNICATION IS KEY 🗝️
P.S: Sorry for this long ass paragraph, you may not even read it but you asked for it so here you go 🖤🖤🖤 Peace Out ✌🏽

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The relationship lasts a long time with the condition

What short rules do you have for yourself to have a better life?

liquid_sinn’s Profile Photoѕιии-ѕαи ☻
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➀ – Don't pick up the phone. You know he's only callin' when he's drunk and alone.
➁ – Don't let him in. You have to kick him out again.
➂ – Don't be a friend. You know you only wake up in his bed in the morning...and if you run to him...you ain't gettin' over him.
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xDDD Sorry that lyrics were the first things that came up to my mind. But it's so true, tho. Especially for every toxic relationship. It's from Dual Lipa, with her song: New Rules.
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Mine would be something like this:
➀ – Always believe in your intuition and the energy someone gives off.
➁ – stop giving more than you receive.
➂ – Treat people, animal and everything with respect | Don't treat people in the manner of "an eye for an eye" - because revenge and feelings of hatred don't bring peace to yourself
➃ – When someone is limiting you and tries to put their belief all over you: Let them think what they think. Because it's just their limitation for you. It doesn't need to be yours. Believe that you can achieve everything you put your mind to. You also can change if that is your wish. You decide.
➄ – If you don't take the decision someone else will. Always know that trying not to decide, is also a decision. Take responsibility for it.
➅ – Try to live up to your own moral codex.
➆ – Don't hurt people or animals intentionally.

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If you forgot to reply to someone you were chatting with, how'd you feel if they sent one or two follow-ups later as a reminder? •Wouldn't mind •Wouldn't like •Depends on how they go about it •Depends on nature of relationship •I never forget to reply •Other opinion(?)

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
Lol today i forgot to reply a guy offering me new job banda logo k msgs parhay yah hbl or telenor ke.

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