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Would it bother you if someone flirted with your boyfriend?

It would bother me if there was history/feelings there from that person or intent yes. It would bother me more if the flirting was entertained. If it's harmless banter with a mate then eh, as long as it's within the boundaries of the relationship then it is what it is. You can't control other peoples actions haha

Imagine that you have a crush for 6 months who you text each day on askfm. How long do you fantasize about spending eternity with this crush before admitting that the relationship is never going to materialize into anything substantive or meaningful?

Imagine paying so much attention and attempting to intervene in a matter which doesn't concern you. It is very unfortunate that a dear friend has "left" the site. If he were still here (which I know is impossible because he would never lie), I would ask him to conduct a few of his famous "psychiatric tests." Let's hope that he "returns" soon. Oh, if you only knew how much we miss him! ❤️
Imagine that you have a crush for 6 months who you text each day on askfm  How

Relationship is like cake Kitna heei khoubssurat kyun naa hoou kategqa zaroor...

Haram relationships ka yhi anjam hota hai..it is haram for a man to have a girlfriend and it is haram for a woman to have a boyfriend..Bf/gf culture is forbidden in Islam.This is a western culture aur muslims andhon ki trah isy follow krrhy which is the main reason of their downfall. Regardless Islam, bf/gf culture is not durable and it is ended after sometime..bad me kuch jahilon ne kat gya kat gya lgya hota h lol

When do you consider yourself in a relationship with someone?

Bring it up but no, 5 dates and sleeping with someone in this day and age is not cause for any assumption of any kind. So ask and see where he stands. Also 5 dates over what time frame? When I really like someone I probably see them 5 times in the first 2.5 weeks, which is definitely too soon to declare exclusivity. Sometimes it is 5 times over a month, which timewise may be more reasonable, but you're only seeing them once a week which means you probably aren't exclusive.
It is the moment to bring it up when you either want to or you feel worse for not doing so. It's an awkward conversation, so I think you just need to focus more on taking the leap. It's good to lead with an unambiguous statement so that you don't chicken out and backtrack. "Hey, Hotstuff, I was wondering if we could just touch base on things. How do you feel about this? . . . Okay, so how would you feel about being a couple?" Don't get sidetracked by what he says -- remember what you want to hear. If he goes, "hey, you're really special to me, and I really like you." that is not an answer. An answer would be "hey, you're really special to me, and I really like you. I would really like to be a couple with you." Or "I need more time to figure things out" (at which point you have to give a deadline or risk being a warm body getting strung along). Be firm and don't lose sight.
Bring it up or it isn't official. Even if you personally decide to stop seeing other people and see where it ends up, there isn't anything until you both agree to it, in explicit terms. Even if that's just a "Hey, want to stop seeing other people?" "Yeah, sure, that sounds good," some sort of mutual agreement has to be reached.
I've been on like five dates with this guy and I already slept with him. I've never slept with anyone so soon after dating, so I'm not sure if at this point, do we consider ourselves getting to the point where we should stop seeing other people or not? We're both pretty shy people and I don't know how the "talk" starts about being in a monogamous relationship. When should we consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend? After how much time? Will I feel if a moment is right? How do you bring it up without it being awkward?

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If you put in a lot of effort for somebody but the other person doesn't do the same, do you continue putting in effort or just give up?

Definitely just give up. I'm done putting effort into any type of relationship if I don't get the same energy back.
If they simply can't put in the same amount of effort into me as I do, don't come to me and bother my peace and try to get me to let my walls down.

your thoughts on people who move on so fast from a recent break up?

It is their choice if they wanna move on so fast. We can’t let or have something to say to someone who don’t wanna drown themselves about the past. Never judge someone so easily just cause they want to move on that way as everybody has their own pace and coping mechanism. Just let them be. And sometimes it depend — If they just got out from a bad break up or toxic relationship, then they have the rights to move on quickly for they deserve better. I just hope that they have already realized their worth by that time they already moved on, though. It is difficult to enter a relationship without considering what you really feel, like you are just rushing everything up cause you feel like you are all alone.

My ex still reaches out and tries to be positive with me. I'm still angry and hurt and the relationship went toxic, but I still care about her. How do I get past the resentment I have for her?

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoKeepYourEyesPeeled
I think it’s probably a good idea if you cut contact for a while so you can process your feelings. It might mean saying to her “I still care but I need to step back for a while so I can deal with things.”

Today’s word is: Unappreciated. Tell me a time when you went out of your way to do something for someone and felt unappreciated for it.

BlueEyesWhiteGuy’s Profile PhotoReaper
Fortunately, it's been a long time since I've last been made to feel that way. In fact the most recent instance I can recall was over seven years ago now, when my ex and I were still dating. I gave so much to that relationship and in the end, it was all thrown back in my face.
It was soul-crushing, but it taught me a valuable lesson about the kinds of people I should and shouldn't allow in my life.
Todays word is Unappreciated Tell me a time when you went out of your way to do

Do you believe in keeping things from an ex??

Grac3fulBella86’s Profile PhotoJaiBella
I think if your relationship were healthy, you didn’t suffer from him/her, but you ended relationship because of other reasons, then I don’t see any point throwing or destroying these things. Probably you’ll have to put them somewhere out of your sight for a while, but it’s not bad to keep them

women see sex like buying a car, they think to themselves is it reliable, does it look good and how long will it last (meaning sex is about attachment and investment) whereas men see sex no different than parking a car, as long as there is a space it will fit. That’s why men cannot cheat, agreed? 😘

highwaystar34871’s Profile PhotoBen
No Ben, cheating is literally being unfaithful in a relationship. It's underhanded and it involves seeing someone else while being in an established relationship. That's it. That's actually what it fucking is and only that. It's not some convoluted theoretical bullshit that you are trying to desperately propagate to justify your choices in life.

Why the fûck wouldn't it be another guy?Like you're literally not his property.Geez.

It's no wonder half of you can't keep a relationship. Do you not understand the concept of marriage or loyalty.
I'm in a committed serious relationship and marriage. No other man needs to see me naked other than the man I'm spending My life with and sleeping with. Kthx .

Signs na pinapafall ka lang niya?

observations lang 'to ha, case to case basis pa rin 😂😂
Exhibit A: you guys are in one friend group; both are single or maybe he/she has a crush on someone, however,
• he/she lowkey flirts with you, but always makes it clear na "ganun lang ako sa lahat ng friends ko"
• updates you with everything they do, then you'd feel parang extra special lol (unless matagal na kayong ganoon and purely platonic lang talaga)
• they don't draw a line
Exhibit B: you confessed to them;
• he/she probably said "thank you but i'm not ready yet to be in relationship," or "sorry, friends lang talaga/may iba akong gusto" pero parang kinikeep niya yung presence mo (leaning na in making u hopeful)
Exhibit C:
• Binibigyan ka niya ng atensyon pero walang assurance na ikaw lang yung may access sa kanya ng ganoon lol
• Kinakausap ka lang niya when it's convenient for them
• They do love bombing
On the other hand (not a sign na):
• he/she is naturally kind, friendly or gentleman, but you're the one who's misinterpreting it as interested siya sa'yo
• it should be always, "words & actions" para pag na-fall ka alam mong may sasalo 😊

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Am single here for serious relationship

lindaisabella333’s Profile PhotoIsabella Mary
ᴡᴏᴍᴀɴ, ᴀʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴏᴜᴛ ᴏꜰ ʏᴏᴜʀ ᴍɪɴᴅ? ʜᴇʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡɪʟʟ ɴᴏᴛ ꜰɪɴᴅ ᴀɴʏᴛʜɪɴɢ ᴏʀ ᴀɴʏᴏɴᴇ, ꜰᴏʀɢᴇᴛ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛʜɪs ᴠᴇɴᴛᴜʀᴇ. ᴇᴠᴇɴ ɪꜰ ɪᴛ ᴡᴀs ᴘᴏssɪʙʟᴇ, ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ ʜᴀs ᴀʟʀᴇᴀᴅʏ ʙᴇᴇɴ ᴛᴀᴋᴇɴ ᴀᴘᴀʀᴛ
Am single here for serious relationship

What are some of your red flags in a relationship 🤔

shiraleejoyce3768’s Profile PhotoShiralee Joyce☯️
Mine in general? I'm a little needy but not to the point it gets annoying I just like talking to the person I like at the time but I guess it can get annoying, and I drink but not heaps
Relationships in general I don't like overly protective, over-emotional, toxic in any way, physical and emotional abuse, controlling etc

I want ask this question to guys. Is it unattractive to you if a girl falls for you first and make the first move to get into a relationship?

koi fayda nh phly reject kryngy phr seedhy insan k bchy ban jyngy end m un ki ama beemar hjayngi or unki khala ki beti unko ly urhygi🙂

What makes you special..? ✨

Egoistic_101’s Profile Photoꜱᴀᴍᴀʀᴀ
We are not Special at least not to our own self and nothing makes us special but Some People around us consider us special through our Helping Nature, relationship, Personality or else.☺️
But Everyone is just an ordinary person but at the same time They are special as well So it's about How or from which Side of the Divider are you seeing it...😶
Just as ALLAH made us Special than many other creations...

I remember meeting you at a dazzling night time as the moon shined through the darkness and we just enjoyed eachothers company. You seemed so beautiful at that moment, more magnificent than any star and living being in this world. I fell in love with you at that time. — R

Please don't make me soft again
If one year ago someone would tell me that our relationship will look like this today, i would laugh. But here I am. In love with you more than with any person in my entire life.
I remember meeting you at a dazzling night time as the moon shined through the
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My ex was in a relationship with his ex during our entire relationship. I have a baby with him and he is now married to his ex. Why was I so clueless to see he didn't love me?

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoKeepYourEyesPeeled
Love is blind hindsight is 20 20. It's easy to look back and blame yourself but it wasn't your fault. You can be so in love with someone that you don't see what's right there. They are good at hiding it 🙂

How did you learn about polyamory? Did someone suggest/introduce you to it or were you curious about it on your own?

I thiiiink the first exposure I had to polyamory (and not random stereotypes) was close to a decade ago, via an article of a lesbian throuple. I was amazed by their relationship, how they navigated marriage, and how much they all loved each other.
Beyond that, I only had passing knowledge of it for a while, and didn't stop to consider if I was polyamorous; after all, I was convinced I was too needy, too jealous, too [insert other insult here]. However, I did have fleeting thoughts about having a polycule, and at times, even yearned for one. Furthermore, knowing I was committed to a single person for life - and would have to pass up relationships with people I have chemistry with - felt like a massive loss, though I pushed that feeling deep down as it brought guilt and shame. I loved my husband, and while these wants didn't change my love for him, I thought having them made me a bad person - despite not acting upon them.
It wasn't until I became close with someone who identified as non-monogamous that I could finally start properly exploring those ideas with someone who understood. I also put in a lot of research, and concluded that I *am* polyamorous. I came out about 18 months ago and it's felt right since, even if coming out did contribute to the end of my (already unhealthy) marriage.

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No I suppose not but I mean cuz he’s one of the Sr. Leads at work and I’m just one of the brand associates, then idk I just feel like that’d be weird and kinda unprofessional no.? Psh I dunno and ok don’t laugh or judge, but I’ve never dated before

Cali0143’s Profile PhotoKasey
Yeah I understand and there’s nothin wrong with that there ‘s plenty of guys out there and you will find someone one day it takes time and don’t rush yourself into a relationship if you and that person has nothin in common the right person will come

Say in you are in relationship for 8 years but have just met your soulmate and that relationship would work out. do you leave your relationship for your soulmate?

Chloemaire2022’s Profile PhotoChloemaire2022
If you were in a relationship for 8 years, then does this mean you’re married? If not, you should know that he’s not serious about your relationship and just wants to keep things as they are. If you are happy that way, then it’s another story. I think you are the only one who knows the answer.

Ok so I have 3 girlfriends rightbut I don't want to break their hearts. I know I'm cheating with all 3 of them. It's been 2-3 years with them. Now, due to not having much time I'm thinking of ditching one or two maybe to ease my life a little. What should be done? It's not a joke. Please be serious

Jinko ap apni life sy nikalna chahty unko saf saf bta do k me nai Rh skta....unko dukh tu hogaaa par ye dukh thora kam hoga uski nisbat jab ye relationship bhtt ziada agy bhar jaye ga

How do you get to know that you are in love?

afiyah_khan’s Profile PhotoAFIYAH
I'm not sure about it anymore. You think you have something really strong with someone but with time you realize that it wasn't really strong, they were with you when it was convenient or easy for them.
When you face a hard time as a couple, it's really important to understand that instead of giving up on each other, learn to stick to each other and make compromises. This is the only time when you can actually evaluate your relationship or so called love.
Saying I love you is way easier than actually proving it. There's no such thing as perfect relationship or love. Everything depends on how you make efforts and compromises to make that thing perfect.

Relationship is hard with local girl, maybe I will look for friend with benefits..😃

noelkjc’s Profile PhotoMitchell
Wait wot? I'm gonna have to guess that the relationship with a local woman is difficult because of uhh... I don't know. I never had any problems with them even if its mere conversations, ingredient masteries, science in culinary, even having a very unique debate about men, and those men, they're literally standing in what seemed like. any of the men just needs to perform a mediocre leap and the debate would end in a few broken bones and tomorrow newspaper's headlines.
So I 'kepo' a bit and looped around on your profile and mother of Rodenia! If there's any woman you tried to date seems to have judged you on your looks beforehand, only to leave to a more quieter space, well I've got something to add to that! 😂
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Do you think it’s weird to talk to ex’s every day?

If there's no kids involved, you don't work together and it was a casual ex then sorta? If you're in a relationship and any apply then I would say it's on the border of being disrespectful to the person that you are with or as leading the ex on if they still got some feelings there (admitted or not). If you would not be okay with your partner talking to their ex regularly, if you know your partner is uncomfortable with it or you feel you have to hide that you're talking to them or hide your new relationship from your ex then you shouldn't be speaking to that person often in my opinion out of respect for your partner. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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