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can a party girl and a working guy make it work if one is an extrovert who loves to party all the time and be around people, while the other is an introvert and is anxious around people, and also goes to bed early? can someone with such different lifestyles be together.

Yes but they may have to make compromises at times. That’s what relationships are all about anyways: how willing you are to compromise.

What are you most grateful for? 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ тєηα¢ισυѕ тσммαу™ ▩ ♚ ☻
The fact that I have such incredible people in my life. Without going too far into the nitty gritty, this year has been a bit of a bumpy ride, back in January I learned the hard way that some of the people I considered friends didn't hold me in the same regard, which in turn resulted in a lot of burnt bridges...
... But, those relationships coming to an end has allowed me to grow closer and form deeper bonds with the people who truly were in my corner. In particular, the three friends I have chosen to be my bridesmaids have gone above and beyond for me these past few months.
I am seeing them all again tonight, and I have a couple lil surprises planned for them-- as a "thank you" for all they've done for me! 💕
(Pictured: A little snap from my hen party, last week!)
What are you most grateful for

Do you think you have learned from your past relationships to make it last the next time? Because I hope for you the next one will be the right one.

i’m a firm believer that we are always learning, and there’s always space to learn new things. in both of my relationships i always tried to do the best i knew and be the best version of myself, doing things the right away. sometimes things don’t work out and that’s okay. as much as it hurts when it ends, it’s always for the best. but i would say that yes, i’ve learnt to protect my heart a bit more instead of just giving my all to someone so quick. i’ve learnt to take things slow and see where it takes me. thank you for this message though, im also hoping i get my happy ending whenever i start dating again 🤍

I only watch xfactor before they pick out the best ones, that's the most fun part. 😁🤣🤷🏻‍♀️

M1ssSemy’s Profile PhotoStar. i
We yesterday were watching first 3 parts of new Czecho-Slovak Love Island.😁 First I thought that it is stupidity but in real there are several interesting or funny moments from building of relationships, we had fun with my daughter while watching it 😂👍. And the second I like is when people are presenting their own ideas of business in front of 4 successful businessmen to obtain investitions from them 😁.

How to get away from a toxic relation?

To exit a toxic relationship, first recognize its harm and set firm boundaries. Seek support from trusted sources and create a practical exit plan. Communicate your decision clearly and prioritize your safety. Use the experience for personal growth and understanding of healthy relationships.

What is different between friends with benefits and open relationship? Can you define it properly

Even though you can find the answer by a quick Google search I will explain it for you.
The difference is the type of relationship. Friends with benefits means you’re just friends that are physically attracted, but not romantically. There are different types of open relationships, but it’s based on a romantic relationship where people also see other people, whether that would be romantically or purely physically.

Do you ever feel bad or experience remorse when you hurt someone or are you a psychopath?!

Yes, most people do feel bad or experience remorse when they hurt someone.
This is a natural human response, driven by empathy and a sense of moral responsibility.
When we cause harm or pain to others, it can trigger feelings of guilt, regret, and remorse.
These emotions serve as a social glue, helping us maintain healthy relationships and behave in ways that respect others' well-being.

What celebrity couples do you consider as relationship goals?

I don't really consider any celeb couple as relationship goals because really we don't know what any of their relationships are like, but from what we can see I do think Holland and Zendaya are adorbs

Who is Amalric and how does he look like???!!!

kaliaventis’s Profile Photokaliaventis
Amalric: My name is Amalric Brom Arkwright. Eldest son to Queen Katarina and nephew to Empress Alexandrea. I belong to the Arkwright royalty and the Red Diamond Empire is my home -I point to my eyes- Rubies are our family emblem.
Most red eyed members of the family come from my own. It is our signature mark and most dominant eye color.
Next to me is one of my many sons, Amdis Bram Arkwright. Who is the current head/chief of the Red Diamond Empire. Handpicked by me
Amdis: There's many other empires that differ from ours. All of them connected and ruled by the empress, my grand-aunt. I myself have many descendants and children to count but I won't get into the entire family tree right now. Just a warning, we do not like mudbloods of any kind.
It's highly disrespectful to wed or have relationships with outside species or people without the blessing of the Empress and the Queen. We won't tolerate such behaviors. Bloodkin is the only way of life and the most acceptable for its system allows for stronger heirs to be born.
We practice arranged marriages and we expect everyone to understand the massive responsibility that lies on our shoulders as one of the most important Serant courts and Serant militia power.
We produce the best soldiers to serve and represent our kind. Even the silly hierarchy can't help but negotiate with us for our impeccable fighters.
Amalric: We have unique ways of breeding and creating such servants of justice. They fight in the name of our kind. But other corps or groups benefit from collaboration. We have participated in the abolition of the so called angels. We have also orchestrated the mass production of humans (Human farms) and rare artifacts.
We're currently making new farms, ones relating to angels. It is still an ongoing project of sorts. Ah and how could I forget? We also are the heart and the keepers of those who suffer from bloodlust. We help them achieve their true selves through beautiful g o re.
-Pretty much, a very evil and powerful family-

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How can we foster a sense of belonging and connection with others?

Hasne_De’s Profile PhotoDr Sunati Gulover
I think one of the most important things we can do to foster a sense of belonging and connection with others is to be vulnerable. It sounds counterintuitive — since vulnerability often feels like weakness or an invitation for rejection, but I truly believe it is the key to building meaningful relationships when we allow ourselves to be open and honest about our fears, hopes, and struggles, it creates space for others to do the same. And that kind of mutual vulnerability can lead to some of the deepest connections and understandings in life. 🌻

What is your opinion on those who cheat on their partners? 🥴 😇

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It's never okay to cheat. If someone is not happy in a relationship they should leave and find their happiness. Unfortunately I ended all my relationships from cheating. It doesn't feel good and I don't wish it upon anybody. I will never hurt anyone the way I've been hurt. 💯

What is your opinion on those who cheat on their partners? 🥴 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ тєηα¢ισυѕ тσммαу™ ▩ ♚ ☻
Word 'cheating' for me means to have real intim physical contact with other person than partner while being sober. Men usually wants to try something new or different and women usually miss something in their relationships. Cheating is just consequence of something what did not work or was already dead before.

When you've been in the "talking phase" of dating, what approach did you take? Did you choose your words more carefully? 🗣️💞

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Isn’t the “talking stage” simply friendship? I think the best relationships start with the best friendships. The mistake about mature relationships is that we tend to speak words carelessly because of comfort. We should always care about what we say and how we say it. There’s always room for grace in love, but intentionality is a perfect example of a desire for intimacy.
When youve been in the talking phase of dating what approach did you take Did

لقيت الكل معصب 😠 قلت أعصب أنا كمان وأحكيلكن سبيس حلوة متلكن طال عمركن 😠🔪

anona2344’s Profile Photoanona2344
When you wait for someone for a few minutes, it's out of necessity, for a few hours, it's a sign of trust, for a few weeks, it reflects friendship, but to wait even when you know they won't come shows your love .
Yeah, people often say you shouldn't expect anything in return from others .
Yet the sad reality is, when we truly love someone, we naturally hope for a little care, even just a tiny bit.
Every person you encounter is part of your journey, but not all are meant to stay, the majority are merely passing by, offering gifts, whether blessings or lessons, and along this path, it's essential to embrace the fleeting nature of relationships, recognizing that each interaction serves a higher purpose intended by the creator himself .
These experiences mold your character, shaping you for the better or worse, they build your resilience, and prepare you for the future whether it's bright or dark .

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لقيت الكل معصب  قلت أعصب أنا كمان وأحكيلكن سبيس حلوة متلكن طال عمركن

Если ваш партнёр никогда не узнает о вашей нечаянной измене, вы рассказали бы о ней, или лучше молчали до конца своих дней, в надежде, что никто другой не сообщит об этом событии? И вообще, как это можно нечаянно на, или под кем-то оказать?

vezhnovets’s Profile Photoможно просто Лжедмитрий
The question you're asking is indeed complex and touches on both ethics and personal values.
Regarding whether to confess or not after an accidental infidelity, it really depends on your personal principles and how you view relationships. On one hand, honesty is the foundation of trust in a relationship, and hiding something like this could lead to feelings of guilt and potentially harm your connection with your partner. On the other hand, confessing could cause significant pain to your partner and possibly end the relationship, especially if it was a one-time, unintended event.
Some people choose honesty, believing that the truth is always the best course, even if it comes with consequences. Others might choose to keep it a secret if they feel it was an isolated incident and won’t happen again, in order to avoid causing unnecessary pain.
As for the idea of an "accidental infidelity," the term can seem contradictory because infidelity generally implies a conscious choice. However, there are situations where people might find themselves in circumstances where their control is diminished, such as due to alcohol, emotional vulnerability, or other factors. While this doesn’t excuse the behavior, it can explain how it might happen.
Ultimately, the best approach is to reflect on your feelings and understand what is more important for you in the relationship: keeping the secret or being honest with your partner.

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Denerwuje Cię gdy ktoś kogo znasz udaje kogoś kim nie jest?

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PL: Nie, szczerze mówiąc sama często zachowuję się inaczej w różnych grupach i chyba tylko przy Chłopaku czuję się w pełni taka, jaka chcę.
Być może jest to powiązane z ADHD, a być może z moim wychowaniem.
Mój Chłopak uświadomił mi niedawno, jak wiele zła wyniosłam z domu i jak wiele jest we mnie do naprawy.
Oczywiście nie mam na myśli tego, że zmusza mnie do tego, że Mu nie odpowiadam taka, jaka jestem, że jestem zła i niedobra, wręcz przeciwnie - widzę, że mnie kocha, że się stara, ale ja jestem bardzo aspołecznym introwertykiem, co wpływa na moje relacje z innymi, i to JA chcę się zmienić, otworzyć, zacząć rozmawiać z ludźmi.
Chociażby wczorajsze urodziny - w domu zawsze było "No, masz prezent urodzinowy, 100 zł, a teraz spie******" (nie dosłownie, ale na takiej zasadzie to wszystko było i na tym się opierało) - tutaj każdy chce ze mną świętować, rozmawiać, przebywać, poznać mnie, dowiedzieć się czegoś więcej o mnie, za to ja po prostu nie jestem przyzwyczajona i ciężko mi się przestawić.
Powoli robię małe kroczki, ale jeszcze długa droga przede mną.
ENG: No, to be honest, I often behave differently in different groups and it's probably only with Boyfriend that I feel fully the way I want to be.
Perhaps it's related to ADHD, or perhaps it's related to my upbringing.
My Boyfriend recently made me realize how much bad things I brought with me from home and how much there is in me that needs to be fixed.
Of course, I don't mean that He forces me to change respond to Him as I am, that I am bad and evil, on the contrary - I see that He loves me, that He tries to comfort me, but I am a very antisocial introvert, which affects my relationships with others, and I (!) want to change, open up, start talking to people.
Just like yesterday's birthday - at home it was always "Well, you have a birthday present, 100 PLN, and now f*** off" (not literally, but that was the principle and it was all based on that) -

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You telling me demons do the shabangbang and the person who offer such opportunities don’t come back alive 😨 HOW FREAKY DEAKY ARE YOU DEMONS GOLLY MAN

Astaroth: -I clean my demon guns- It's actually normal for a demon x demon relationships ending in chaos when they mate because their rutting is so bad, they end up killing each other or even themselves from being driven insane with the need to mate.
NOT every demon is like that? My rutting is pretty normal. I mean for DEMONIC standards. For humans, it is abnormal and scary -I giggle- Our stamina can go for a very, very long time.
That's where the problem surges. We can exhaust said human partner or even kill them. If its bad between demons already, it can end up horrible between demon and human.
It's why we view human x demon relationships as this no no because if you grow too attached and end up breaking your toy you're the only one to blame. There's of course, exceptions for very special human types that can withstand this but even they... run certain risks if not careful.

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تفتكروا ليه علاقات السوشيال ميديا فاشلة ؟ 🌝

عشان التواصل فيها فقير جدا فيه مواقف كتير المشاركة من خلف الشاشات فقط مبتكنش كافية أبدا فعمر العلاقة ما هتتعدى نقطة معينة ده ل any type of long distance relationships. بالنسبة للارتباط اللي بيبدأ بسوشال ميديا وغالبا بينتهي بيها برضو فعلشان بيكون سهل، سهل أي حد يدي commitment ويخلع وقت ما يحب.

What incident changed your perspective towards life?

usmanaay1’s Profile PhotoUsman
Spending quite some time as an attendant in a govt hospital changed my perspective about life. We take so many things for granted, health, fortune, relationships, untill and unless we face some serious problems. Being in a helpless situation taught me how useless and powerless humans can be at times, how every beginning will certainly meet an end which may be painful to endure. How time can be merciless in seconds yet how a tiny helping hand can get you through the day. etc and a lot of many other things while speculating those around me at that time.

I feel like there are many people who want to talk, but few who want to listen.

listening is a skill that takes practice, but it's worth it to build stronger relationships and gain a deeper understanding of others.
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What is it like having a brain that's always against you?

gawnferal’s Profile Photohudیٰ
My brain is not against me. But i am in constant struggle because my heart say one thing and brain keeps pulling me in another direction. Mostly my stupid heart will overpower me and i refute logic as far as my personal relationships are concerned. For me my mind is not where my heart is and that's constant.

Have you ever won a contest or a competition?

Every debate competition I've ever participated in.✌😌
My juniors and seniors used to say behind my back " yaar or kisi say dar nahi lagta bas is sey dar lagta hai. Ye na hoti tou phir koi masla nahi tha."

Been English debating secretary in college.
So,Better not mess with me!😂
And my teacher used to tease me saying "Ab buhat bari debater ban gyin hai. Yaad hai wo din jab choti si thi or kehti thi. Madam meri pencil gum ho gayi hai. Merey SATH pencil nahi hai. Instead of saying PAAS. 🤦🏻‍♀️
P.s ab tou kho gaya sab kuch 😉
Saat rangon ka jahan tha mujh may. :')
And yes! I am not flexing i just get happy when i remember all that. It was golden time. That junior and senior relationships.

Past or present is there someone you wish you made amends with? If so, who and why?

I’m a very sentimental person. I don’t want to lose any connection I’ve made in this life. Unfortunately, I’ve lost hundreds of connections: friends from school, college, old neighborhoods, the internet, and more. Reconnecting with people is tough because they often prioritize their egos over maintaining relationships.

Which sort of things do you hate being asked?

I don't like to be asked about friendships and relationships, and I don't really like to be questioned about my sexuality. I think those questions are invasive and can be harmful. Being questioned so publicly about my sexuality at such a young age has put a nasty taste in my mouth and now that's a touchy topic for me... I don't mind talking about it sometimes on my terms, it's been super healing for me to finally be able to talk about it a little bit, to finally be able to be completely authentic, and to see everyone's love and support... I just think after 20+ years of being closeted and it not being my choice that I need time to adjust and decide what I do and don't want to share... so hopefully during this journey that is and isn't new to me in certain ways, all I can do is hope people be will understanding and not too invasive 🙏

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How can your relationships, which are mostly financial transactions, inform the opinions you give to people online in more conventional romantic relationships?

Because, as said in the Muppets Take Manhattan: People is people.
With the strings of money or not, people handle relationships in much the same way. Me giving advice is from the standpoint of a guy who's seen every facet of the human psyche in a wide variety of emotionally-charged situations.
I've learned to digest, process and understand why and how. It's made me a more aware adult and one that can talk with people on whatever level they're currently at.

If your partner wants you to give your location to them 24/7 is it a red flag?

Yes, if a partner asks for your location 24/7, it can be a red flag. Constant tracking can indicate controlling or invasive behavior, which is a concern in a healthy relationship. Trust and respect are fundamental, and it’s important to discuss such requests openly to understand each other's boundaries and concerns. Yes, it can be a red flag. Requesting constant location tracking may indicate a lack of trust or an attempt to control or monitor you excessively. Healthy relationships are built on trust and respect for each other's privacy. It’s important to discuss boundaries and concerns openly and ensure that both partners feel comfortable and respected.

Never beg anyone for anything...not affection, not attention, not love—nothing. If someone wants to be a part of your life they'll find the time, make the effort, and create the space. If it's always one sided—that's your sign to step aside. You're either a priority or you're not. 💫

That's a green flag. It reflects healthy self-respect and boundaries in relationships. You shouldn't have to beg for affection, attention, or love. Genuine relationships are mutual and reciprocal, where both parties are equally invested. If you find yourself constantly seeking validation or effort from someone who isn't giving it, it’s wise to reassess the relationship and prioritize your own well-being.
That's a green flag. It reflects a healthy approach to relationships by valuing mutual effort and respect. Prioritizing self-worth and not begging for affection or attention aligns with maintaining healthy boundaries and valuing reciprocal relationships.

Have you ever met someone you haven't seen in years and were excited to see them again, but when y'all met, you were disappointed to realize how much they had changed for the worse?

It’s happened. People change. I wasn’t “disappointed” but kinda surprised in such a drastic change. I kinda feel bad for that person. He thinks so lowly of himself that he completely secluded himself of friends, relationships, etc. He used to be one of the most “popular” people around. He’s a good person and deserves happiness as much as anyone else. I hope one day he realizes his worth.

How to forget someone! Who is moved on But you still stuck, because you thought to spend the whole life with that one.

you can never really forget someone. yeah losing the person you thought you'll not spend a moment without is surely a big setback, but life is too short to hold on to dead relationships, just say "cheen tapak dum dum" and move on.

What have you learned later?

This world is not my kinda thing. I need someplace else to be. They say it's important to have relationships to survive. That's how the world works, they say. If only fiction were real; I'd be living with Leonard and Shelly.

We're mikhail and Michael friends when mikhail was still in heaven?

Michael: Once upon a time. We were...
We were friends. Not anymore.
Dius: The best of friends too. Amazing relationships. They would constantly fight because that's how good both were when it came to the challenge.
Michael: -Sighs-

What's your secret to success in making and maintaining friendships? :))

The secret to making and maintaining friendship is that both individuals should take on their respective responsibilities as friends. Friendship cannot thrive solely on one person's efforts, like other relationships. When one person is consistently making an effort alone, they end up falling behind. So, there's no need to keep a friendship going when the other person isn't interested. 🌸

If you are in a relationship or married, when did you fall in love with them? 💘 😇

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I'm married since 21.04.2023. We both share the same birthday :D (21.04.1995) and we were born at the same hospital too :D. At first we met by chance in 2015 (or the first time after birth) on a bus, where I caught his eye, so I made eye contact with him :D. He saw me too and came to sit next to me. We had a nice chat and we talked so much that he missed his stop :D. After this incident we never met again, until 2022 March, after we both had broken up from our previous relationships :).
When we met (18 March 2022), he told me he had a massive crush in me for a long time, and he wanted to have a chance with me. I at first didn't want to be in another relationship, because I was still hurt from my past experiences, so at first we just had some fun, went on dates, etc :D.
21 April 2022 when we both had our birthdays, he took me to the yard of an old hospital where we both were born, and he said he loves me for the first time. I cried. A lot. From happiness.
22. december 2022 he took me to Saaremaa island in Estonia, and that was the day he asked me to be his wife, and that was the time when I understood how strong my love for him really is. That was the time I understood that noone has ever done anything so romantic to me, and I knew that I can count on him, because he understands me like noone else ever did, and he sees his future only with me, 'til the end of our lives <3. We've been together only 2,5 years, and I know it's not a long time, but since our love story started, our love has grown so deep so fast, and he understands me on a level that no one has ever even aspired to. He healed my past traumas with his infinite love and affection for me. I've never in my life have felt so protected by someone.
I wish everyone could feel the same deep love from someone.
I added our wedding photo too :).

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If you are in a relationship or married when did you fall in love with them

Your POV on self-love?

Lucifersays_hi’s Profile Photoزینب
Self-love is a necessary thing,,,, but without becoming a narcissist. If you do not love yourself, then most likely you will be used, your point of view will not be respected, they will think that you are not worthy of more. Usually people feel those who do not love themselves and almost always treat them, using them for their own interests in work, in relationships, in friendship

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