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I’m shy but not that much. I’m extro and introvert both. What am I basically? So confused 😐

nimal_shah’s Profile PhotoNimal Shah
Well no one's ever completely extroverted or introverted, we've specific reactions to different scenarios. You could call your self a social introvert, its an oxymoron for people who have trouble identifying themselves one way or the other.

What makes a guy attractive to you?

Happiness. Someone who is happy in their lives, in their work, engaged with their "extracurriculars" or hobbies. A sense of appetite for more: improving themselves and with dreams, projects, goals. Generally OK, not in need of help or love, but open to the possibility. You don't have to be rich, or funny, or hot, or brilliant, but you have to be happy.
Intelligent without needing to always "prove" they're smarter than others. Confidence without being an arrogant jerk who can't admit they're wrong. Kind even when they're not having a great day. Interested in and passionate about something; the specifics don't matter as much as having something that makes his eyes light up with excitement.
As someone who is physically fit, I am significantly more attracted if a guy is fit or working their way to it. Obviously I'm not like "dad bods need not apply" but if you're just chilling in your inactivity and not making any lifestyle changes, it's a major turn off.
Having his shit together at least on par with mine and a plan. That plan doesn't even to have to include me. I'm a fairly independent person, I handle financials very well and I have a short-term, a mid-term and a long-term plan. If you don't have those things, then we are not going to be compatible.
I like guys that are taller than me, who work out and are muscular, who have a mature look to them (not into guys who look like they're still in high school), who have some kind of ambition/goal in life. There's nothing wrong with being shy and nerdy (I kinda am), but it's not going to be something that draws me to you.
Bonus points if you are creative or happen to have brown skin and green eyes. But those brown skinned, green eyed guys probably know how fine they are and are getting scooped up immediately. More importantly: Laid back, doesn’t freak out in stressful situations and has a good sense of humor (especially when things are not going well). Pursues intelligent things, like reading/art/literature/music because those are things I do myself and I want shared interest and conversation. Have some kind of passion/passions, because I have mine and I want to share or be able to have active participation on both our ends. Be able to have empathy and understand other’s positions, bc if you can’t do that with strangers, you can’t do that with me. Know how to listen and make an active effort to evaluate someone’s position. Be bold, but not brash, as in saying things you actually believe and accept people will have opinions, but know the contexts to keeping things to yourself. I think my most important thing is being humble. Realize your accomplishments and hobbies are for yourself, and not for bragging to other people. Know you aren’t the only person who does cool things, but be able to share and contribute to the community in a mature and intelligible way.

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W którym roku miały Twoim zdaniem najgorsze outfity?

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🔸 Ciężko jednoznacznie stwierdzić, ponieważ w każdym roku miały raz lepsze, raz gorsze stylizacje. Więc wezmę pod uwagę erę i tutaj stawiam na NOT SHY. Outfity nie były, aż takie złe, ale moim zdaniem wypadają najsłabiej na tle pozostałych er. 😅
W którym roku miały Twoim zdaniem najgorsze outfity

I’m shy but not that much. I’m extro and introvert both. What am I basically? So confused 😐

nimal_shah’s Profile PhotoNimal Shah
you are perfectly fine.
nobody is a total dgree extrovert or introvert,
we all have this vibe of functioning that tells us to be what , when and where in different circles.

When do you consider yourself in a relationship with someone?

Bring it up but no, 5 dates and sleeping with someone in this day and age is not cause for any assumption of any kind. So ask and see where he stands. Also 5 dates over what time frame? When I really like someone I probably see them 5 times in the first 2.5 weeks, which is definitely too soon to declare exclusivity. Sometimes it is 5 times over a month, which timewise may be more reasonable, but you're only seeing them once a week which means you probably aren't exclusive.
It is the moment to bring it up when you either want to or you feel worse for not doing so. It's an awkward conversation, so I think you just need to focus more on taking the leap. It's good to lead with an unambiguous statement so that you don't chicken out and backtrack. "Hey, Hotstuff, I was wondering if we could just touch base on things. How do you feel about this? . . . Okay, so how would you feel about being a couple?" Don't get sidetracked by what he says -- remember what you want to hear. If he goes, "hey, you're really special to me, and I really like you." that is not an answer. An answer would be "hey, you're really special to me, and I really like you. I would really like to be a couple with you." Or "I need more time to figure things out" (at which point you have to give a deadline or risk being a warm body getting strung along). Be firm and don't lose sight.
Bring it up or it isn't official. Even if you personally decide to stop seeing other people and see where it ends up, there isn't anything until you both agree to it, in explicit terms. Even if that's just a "Hey, want to stop seeing other people?" "Yeah, sure, that sounds good," some sort of mutual agreement has to be reached.
I've been on like five dates with this guy and I already slept with him. I've never slept with anyone so soon after dating, so I'm not sure if at this point, do we consider ourselves getting to the point where we should stop seeing other people or not? We're both pretty shy people and I don't know how the "talk" starts about being in a monogamous relationship. When should we consider ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend? After how much time? Will I feel if a moment is right? How do you bring it up without it being awkward?

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Something worth reading📝

abdurehmansarwar’s Profile PhotoAbdurehman
I know it sounds a little made up or cringe, but you all do have secret admirers. People who like your smile, your hair, your eyes, the way you talk, your manners, something you said, your humor. People do like you but can't verbalize it. They are too shy to show their admiration for you, so never stop being you <3

Why do people not go after the ones they truly love & want to be with? Like why don’t they ever tell them how they feel?

Maybe they are too shy, maybe it’s fear of rejection and being embarrassed. It can be very hard for some but I encourage people to take the risk and tell people how they really feel. I think regretting not doing it is worse.

I work at a coffee shop and I have a huge crush on a regular. We're both really shy, it's obvious. But I speculate he might think I'm attractive as well. Would it be weird for me to start writing things like "have a great day" or cute little coffee jokes? If it sounds weird, I don't wanna do it lol

To be honest, I have been out of the dating scene for several decades so it is difficult for me to relate.
> he might think I'm attractive
What makes you think that? Is there any evidence or are you hoping?
> if it's weird I don't want to do it
Weird is a subjective term that is open to many interpretations. Why not just say: "hello, how are you today?" Sometimes simpler is better and less is more.
Good Luck!

I’m shy. I missed the group socials and parties, and now nobody cares about me at work. What should I do?

You must engage more with people, have a new activities, going to book reading club maybe.. participate in sports challenges .. etc..
At the beginning you will fell exhausted then day by day you will be more comfortable and have a new connections or relationships and don't forget to love your self first ! 💜

Share your best advice. 🙂

For me love is that relaxed blissed feeling you get when everything is at ease.
I never really experienced “firework” love or passionate love, but I’ve felt companionship love and pure love.
Companionship love is like platonic relationships where everyone seems to just connect and easily fit into each others lives as if they were already there.
And pure love is like my dog wagging at me lazily as her face is squished up on the couch, or giving people little momentos like small texts or gifts on a whim without really needing to put effort into it.
And for someone else it could be holding eachothers hands during a movie, sharing some food and you sacrafice your favorite part because it is their favorite too, or staying awake even if they didn’t want to because someone needed them more then they needed sleep.
I always see love as a slow bond that slowly gets tighter and more secure as life moves. Some people’s love is as fragile as tissue paper and anothers could be as solid as a rock. Both have their positives, fragile love can be like a crush, or two people too shy to fully commit, and solid love can be a marriage that has lasted for decades, caring for someone else when life gets tough.
I also would never call love “unconditional.” I’d only call it pure. Unconditional seems to indicate that absolutely nothing the person can do can stop you from loving them and ultimately that isn’t true. But pure love, on the other hand, shows that you can still love someone and their faults but the purity can get tainted if both parties are not fully commited. I feel like that describes love in an all encompasing way.
Yeah my definition of love changed a bit from the last time around.

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‏حدثوني عن ادفئ عبارة انقالت لكم ومن حنيتها مانسيتوها؟

اه ي ربي أنا انصدم بشكل من العبارات "الدافئة" ذي 🥲!
هو انا حد يعبر عن مشاعره كثيرا بالكلام زي ما اسلفنا، ونص رسايلي ستيكرات حضن، وتعلمت إني ما أترددش بالتعبير ابدا، بس لمن حد يقلي اي شي كويس؟ لما اصحابي يقولوا لي انهم اشتاقولي مثلا أو انهم كانوا خايفين عليا من شيء ما او قلقوا..إلخ؟ ي لهوتااي ما استوعبش 😭😭😂😂😂 ولا لما يقرروا يثنوا عليا بدون سبب او حتى بسبب 🥲 قلبي ما يستحملش 🥲🥲
يلي هو الكلام ذا لي حضرتك🥲؟ لي أني 🥲🥲؟ طب شكرا الله يجبر بخاطرك طيب 😭😂
فهل في مليان عبارات براسي الان؟ يس، هل بأشاركهم؟ نوب 🏃🏽‍♀️🔥 I'm shy 🏃🏽‍♀️🔥🔥

Is it okay to confess to your crush even if you're a girl?

shaneursula’s Profile Phototwelve
Of course, dearie! That is more than okay. Guys do actually dig that and it is so much better than having you two to play on some sort of a guessing game. There are a lot of people who liked each other but never had the chance to form a relationship and create true happiness, just because the guy was convinced that the girl couldn’t be interested in him; and therefore the guy didn’t make any moves. On the other hand, the girl was too shy to make the first move; just waited and waited till she stopped waiting and moved on. Tragic, right? So, it’s more like starting a communication. It takes the guessing out of life and the simplicity will make things a lot easier for you. Moreover, even if he doesn’t like you back, you have a surefire way to find a guy who does. Also, a woman who makes the first move is usually going to come off pretty sexy. :)

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ʏᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱʜɪᴘ ᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜꜱᴇ?

RaziaShah_’s Profile PhotoKURKURE ❥
Because we both were shy, we have not told eachother for about 5 years that we love eachother.
We have not even been into relationship. After that when I confessed, Her parents already fixed her somewhere. And she said "Bilal Kash Ap Pehly Bta Dety" I said, You know I am shy and I can't confess.
Lekin wo khud bhi confess nahi kr skti thi mujh se ziada shy thi 😂❤
I loved her and still she is in my heart,
Jahan rahy abad rahy 😇

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What was the last thing that made you go bright red with embarrassment? 😈

BlueEyesWhiteGuy’s Profile PhotoReaper
Honestly lol last night I was chatting to the girl I like and we was just messing around and she admitted she likes me. I went all shy and red and didn't know what to do lol .
I'm with her now just chilling she's so cute .....
I act all flirty but I'm actually quite shy sometimes I want to kiss her so much

What warning would you give someone who is falling in love with you? ⚠️❤

MaryJane214’s Profile PhotoMary Jane
I'm more than you expect ~ most of the time people see me in public and see a sweet, shy, quiet little "good girl" 😏 then they discover my whole other side and are shocked or not interested 😔

Mega playlist: Twenty one pilots.

VIP_Games’s Profile PhotoThe Others. [co's needed.]
Trees, Car radio, Morph, Guns for hands, Holding on to you, Kitchen sink, Ode to sleep, Migraine, Chlorine, Addict with a pen, House of gold, My blood, Heavydirtysoul, Tear in my heart, Truce, Goner, Ride, Lane boy, Jumpsuit, Leave the city, Heathens, Neon gravestones, Stressed out, Polarize, We don’t believe what’s on TV, Levitate, Trapdoor, Isle of flightless birds, The judge, Doubt, March to the sea, Semi - automatic, Forest, Fairly local, Shy away, Saturday, Level of concern. | Bueno acá dejaré mi pequeño playlist, desde ya les digo que es muy poco que vengo escuchando esa banda y eso que me dio darme ese pequeño gusto de hacerlo una noche en el que tenía mucho insomnio y y llegué a estar despierta hasta las tres de la madrugada y ahí saque unas cuantas melodías que me convencieron en su totalidad,, hay unas que tienen unas tremendas liricas y todo lo demás, espero que les guste mi resultado, enjoy it.

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الحركة دي 👈👉عليها إثارة جدل اليومين دول وماشاء الله احنا بنحب تأليف المواقف التايم لاين أغلبه بيتكلم عن إن الحركة دي حركة من بتاعة الشـ.ـواذ وحاجة ف منتهى أنا ألفت هبدة الحركة دي حركة عادية بتدل ع ال shy "الخجل" حركة cute يعني بتُستخدم ف حالات التوتر والخجل يعني ومش معناها عاوز بوسه ولا حاجه 👍🤡

لا معناها هات بوسة 🙂.
أنا الحركة دي كنت ف الرايحة والجاية بعملها بتصور بعملها ف الشات بعملها وانا فاكرة انها حاجة عادية يعني 🙂.

‏مهم ‏مقرف جدا– very disgusting – فِري دِسقَستِنق ‏لذيذ جدا– very delicious – فِري دِليشَس ‏ذكي جدا– very smart – فِري سمارت ‏مشغول جدا– very busy – فري بِزي ‏لطيف جدا– very nice – فري نايس ‏ساخن جدا– very hot – فري هُت ‏بارد جدا– very cold – فري كولد ‏ ⁧#ماذا_لوعاد_بدون_اعتذار⁩

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شدخل هاشتاق تويتر طيب ههههههههههههههه
نكمل شوي ؟
جدا صعب - very hard - فيري هارد
جدا سهل - very easy - فيري ايزي
جدا مريح - very comfortable - فيري كومفرتبل
جدا سعيد - very happy - فيري هاببي
جدا حزين - very sad - فيري ساد
جدا خجول - very shy - فيري شاي
جدا مرن - very flexible - فيري فلكسبل
الله يجزاك خير حركتي افكارنا شوي .. يله عاد ترا العلم زين تعلموا تكبر مخوخكم الله يرزقنا وياكم العلم النافع .

Yar how to build your confidence? I mean, I'm at that level where i can't even talk to same gender. I feel like ppl will laugh at me.

Whoever bullied you to this extent where you can't even match your own spiritual energy and live with a low self-esteem, will have to pay for this. Right now I just want you to know is that it's not necessary to interact with people who make you uncomfortable. Keep your mental peace your first priority. Let people call you shy, reserved, under confident, rude, crazy or whatever they want to, but i want you to just take a break from the society's norms. This is the only possible way to heal and after this healing process, IA you will meet a new you who will not care for anyone, who'll shine bright like nobody else for her own self. You don't have to try to fit in a circle which has to kick you out telling you don't belong to them or make you feel uncomfortable. Good people will never make you feel like that and I wish you a better company for life. ❤

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How well do you take rejection?

I honestly have never been rejected, only because I have never put myself in that situation. Part of the reasons being.. I can be very shy and also just a personal preference, but I like to catch a man's attention and have him approach me.
I do have to say though, it's completely okay to be rejected. As a person who has rejected other's, there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with it. I think many people are too hard on themselves or take it the wrong way. There's no need for people to be upset or feel like there's no hope just because they've been rejected. You are not for everyone and that's OKAY.

Jakbyś miała sama stworzyć album z samymi hitami ITZY (solo), to jakie utwory by się na nim pojawiły? (max 10) 😁

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🔸Bardzo fajne pytanie!
🔸Dalla Dalla
🔸Not Shy
🔸Mafia In The Morning
🔸Be In Love
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❛ᴵᵗ'ˢ ᵉᵃˢʸ ᵗᵒ ᵖᵘˢʰ ᵐᵉ ᵃʷᵃʸ ᶠʳᵒᵐ ʸᵒᵘ
ᴱᵃˢʸ ᵗᵒ ˢᵃʸ ʸᵒᵘ ʷᵃⁿᵗ ᵗᵒ ᵇᵉ ˡᵉᶠᵗ ᵒⁿ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵒʷⁿ
ʸᵉᵗ ˢᵒᵐᵉʰᵒʷ ᴵ ᶜᵃⁿ'ᵗ ʰᵉˡᵖ ᵇᵘᵗ ˢᵉᵉ ʰᵒʷ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵉʸᵉˢ ˢʰʸ ᵃʷᵃʸ
ʸᵒᵘʳ ʰᵃⁿᵈˢ ˢᵉᵃˡ ᵗʰᵉ ᵉⁿᵗʳᵃⁿᶜᵉ ᵃⁿᵈ ᵖᵃᵗʰ ᵗᵒ ʸᵒᵘʳ ʰᵉᵃʳᵗ
ᴬⁿᵍᵉʳ ᵏᵉᵖᵗ ᶠᵉᵃʳ ᵃⁿᵈ ᵗʰᵉ ˢᵃᵈⁿᵉˢˢ ʸᵒᵘ ᶠᵉᵉˡ
ᵁⁿᵈᵉʳ ᵗʰᵉ ˢᵘʳᶠᵃᶜᵉ ᶠᵒʳ ˢᵒ ˡᵒⁿᵍ
ᴸᵒᶜᵏᵉᵈ ᵗʰᵃᵗ ʳᵒᵒᵐ, ʸᵒᵘ ᵏᵉᵉᵖ ⁱᵗ ⁱⁿ ⁱⁿˢⁱᵈᵉ
ᴸᵉⁿᵈ ᵐᵉ ʸᵒᵘʳ ᵛᵒⁱᶜᵉ
ᵂᵒʳᵈˢ ʸᵒᵘ ᵗʳʸ ˢᵒ ʰᵃʳᵈ ᵗᵒ ᶠᵒʳᵍᵉᵗ, ᵗʰᵉʸ'ˡˡ ᵇʳᵉᵃᵏ ᵗʰʳᵒᵘᵍʰ ᵗʰᵉ ˢⁱˡᵉⁿᶜᵉ
ᴮʳⁱⁿᵍ ᵐᵉ ᶜˡᵒˢᵉ
ᴸᵉᵗ ᵐᵉ ˢᵉᵉ ᵗʰᵉ ᵖᵃˢᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ʳᵉᵍʳᵉᵗ ᵈᵉᵉᵖ ᵈᵒʷⁿ ᵇᵉˡᵒʷ
ˢʰᵒʷ ⁱᵗ ᵃˡˡ
ᴸᵃ⁻ˡᵃ, ˡᵃ⁻ˡᵃ, ˡᵃ⁻ˡᵃ, ˡᵃ⁻ˡᵃ...
ᴵᵗ'ˢ ⁿᵒᵗ ˢᵒ ʰᵃʳᵈ ˡⁱᵛⁱⁿᵍ ᵃˡˡ ᵇʸ ʸᵒᵘʳˢᵉˡᶠ
"ᴵᵗ ⁱˢⁿ'ᵗ ʰᵃʳᵈ," ʸᵉˢ ᴵ ᵏⁿᵒʷ ᵗʰᵃᵗ'ˢ ʷʰᵃᵗ ʸᵒᵘ'ˡˡ ˢᵃʸ
ᴵᵗ'ˢ ʷʰᵃᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ʰᵃᵛᵉ ᵗᵒˡᵈ ʸᵒᵘʳˢᵉˡᶠ ᵒᵛᵉʳ ᵃⁿᵈ ᵒᵛᵉʳ ᵃᵍᵃⁱⁿ ⁱⁿ ᵈᵃʳᵏⁿᵉˢˢ
ʸᵒᵘ ᵗʳʸ ᵗᵒ ʰᵒˡᵈ ᵇᵃᶜᵏ ᵃˡˡ ᵗʰᵉ ᵗʰᵒᵘᵍʰᵗˢ
ᴮᵘᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ᵏⁿᵒʷ, ᴵ ʲᵘˢᵗ ʷᵃⁿᵗ ʸᵒᵘ ᵃˢ ʸᵒᵘ ᵃʳᵉ
ᴶᵘˢᵗ ᵗʰᵉ "ʸᵒᵘ" ᵗʰᵃᵗ ᴵ ˢᵉᵉ ʳⁱᵍʰᵗ ᵇᵉᶠᵒʳᵉ ᵐᵉ
ᴵᵗ'ˢ ᵃˡˡ ᵗʰᵃᵗ ʰᵃˢ ᵇᵉᵉⁿ ᵒⁿ ᵐʸ ᵐⁱⁿᵈ.❜
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هوا انا طلبت رقم بنت اعرفها بس محترمه جدا جدا فطلبت رقمها عشان ابقي اطمن عليها وكدا.. فبصتلي بصه غريبه كأنها انصدمت وقالتلي هفكر واقولك... فمعني كدا ان هيا هتجيب الرقم ولا لا...؟

ي عم انت عديت Level انا موصلتش لي فحياتي قبل كدا انا بخاف اعاكس واحدها بحترام واقولها نتي حلوه حتي لو هقول كلمه بكل ذوق او احترام مش عارف بخاف بحس ان انا Very shy 😂

What are you most proud of and why should I remember you?

I'm a super shy person, but recently I've tried streaming my games and have actually had some success. I'm so proud of how far I've come and how much more confident I am, but gaming is still kind of a stigma... I interviewed for a job a few months back and these were the first two questions asked of me and damned if I stumbled trying to answer them. Ever since then I've been turning those questions over and over in my mind trying to come up with and elegant way of answering them and I can't really think of anything. I'd string together the two questions and give a singular answer. So for me, I'd probably say, "What I'm most proud of and the reason you will remember me is my personal investment with projects in that any time my work is reviewed, you will know it is quality and that I put my best effort forward in completing it." I can't really say anything for the first one, but everyone remembers me for my awful jokes, and I guess the interviewer would probably ask for one and I'd come up with nothing and start to fumble with my words and still be out of job...
That's the thing with a lot of people: the need to be remembered. And honestly, if that's how this system works, you're going to have a lot of people that are doing their best in hopes of being recognized. Because of that, the value of effort is going to be inflated, and what we would have considered to be great work is now just good work. And it's always an effort of being able to one up the other, to be that guy that the boss is going to remember some day down the line. Sure, the increasing quality of work is a good thing for the company, but it really only makes the hiring process a lot more difficult for people entering the workforce. But really, the only ones that are really remembered are either the radicals or the troublemakers. Everyone remembers the guy who attempted tax fraud. Everyone remembers the guy that broke some things out of anger on his way out of the office when he got fired. Troublemakers aren't remembered for the wrong reasons. As for the radicals? Well, they're the revolutionaries that changed things in the system. And the thing about radicals is that they're either already on their way to the top, or they're categorized with the troublemakers. It's a dog eat dog world out there, and they'll tear you down on the spot when they get the chance. So how am I going to stand out? Honestly, I probably won't. I'll stay on top of everything, do all my work, and make it quality work at that. That's where my pride lies—my work ethic, being sure to get things right the first time and learning from it and trying again if I don't. Because when you do things right, people won't be sure you've done anything at all. So I'll be the one employee that comes in, shows off quality performance, gets on the good side of fellow co-workers during breaks and lunch, maybe even comes out to annual picnics and such.

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Exactly!! Welcome to team askers!! ☺️ *Puts pin on your shirt* How has your test run gone so far? 😊

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Well, thank you! 😄 It’s gone good so far! I haven’t sent it to many people as of yet. I was overthinking what types of questions to ask, honestly! That’s probably why it’s taking me so long to branch out and actually start doing it. Also, I’m a little shy. 😅
Exactly Welcome to team askers  Puts pin on your shirt How has your test run

Ano nasa isip mo ngayon?

I'm actually shy showing my digital designs to strangers since I'm not confident enough with my works, but last night I send it to someone I met here then, then nag-offer siya ng collab para sa poetry niya and I'll do the designs.
small things, but my heart is actually happy and excited. 💗 PS. Sorry if I posted our convo. 😅
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Have you ever missed an opportunity because you're too embarrassed and/or shy to ask for it?

Yes, maybe I'm not enough determined to take the chance🙂 and shyness can also be one of the reason for it.
I don't take part in auditions for modelling, drama, and other activities.
Each opportunity is good to gain confidence and experience. 🙂 But, let's see, I have applied in something and the result will be out by end of June. 🤔🙂
Otherwise, I don't want to just study my course, I want to do something extra along with it. Hope I find it soon which might be of my interest. 🤞🙂

Is a associate degree worth it?

An associates degree is valuable for several reasons:
1. Work - depending what you study (in my case electronic engineering) you can find employment upon graduation and then work full time and attend night school where your employer pays for your bachelors degree.
2. Location - often times 2 year colleges (community colleges) are located locally and are small so the student can live at home and save money on living expenses.
3. Less Stress - some high school graduates are not prepared for a large university experience because they are shy or introverts and would prefer to leave home later in life. This gives the student a few more years to mature and work while deciding on their career and life goals.
In my daughters case, Florida has a college tuition program where you can save college tuition money each month at a fixed rate determined at the time you enroll into the tuition savings program. By the time your child graduates from high school they can attend any 2 year or 4 year state run Florida college or university with 100% tuition paid in full. In our daughters case she will attend SPC which is offers associate and bachelor degrees. Since she will live at home we can minimize college expenses and upon graduating from college she will have no college loan to pay. Also we will apply for several scholarships so books and miscellaneous expenses will be paid for.
With proper planning and preparation you can, if you live in Florida, send your child to college and graduate without any college loans. The belief that many Americans have that you must take out a $200k college loan is not true, although many families mistakenly spend hundreds of thousands of dollars sending their children to universities only to have them return home indoctrinated in the Marxist ideology and rejecting Faith, Family, Freedom, God and Country.
NOT a good investment at all.

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Are shy girls more attractive to guys or ones who make the first move? #forscienceandresearch

sarah2k21’s Profile PhotoSarah Alhashmi
well ... to me i believe men fell for bitches,
"call it shyness or not just giving a flying fu** about em".
they find it quite attractive.
they would love you for being friendly, bitchy, stubborn (whatever you are to them & them only) and not to other men!

Are shy girls more attractive to guys or ones who make the first move? #forscienceandresearch

sarah2k21’s Profile PhotoSarah Alhashmi
Huzoor e wala aasaan baat...
Jese aap ne kaha ke shy girls or the ones who make the first move... Aise hi banday bhi alag alag tarha ke hotay hain aur un ki pasand naapasand bhi alag alag tarah ki hoti hai... Aap hard and fast koi aik verdict nahi conclude kar sakty is baat ko ley kar... Meri shy girls ae jaan jati hai but i have seen people loving their girls only because they are naturally shy... I adore confident ladies but i have seen majority of men pushing away confident women just because it hurts their chauvinism to be told anything by a lady... Salamat rahiey... I wish you find it helpful for your research 😜

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