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That you're responsible for another human being for the rest of your life. Being a first-time parent is the scariest time of your life and all the firsts that come with it and what you don't know. The scariest thing for me is knowing that you can't trust anyone and that predators are everywhere. Being a child of that makes me terrified every single day for my kid's safety and overly aware of my surroundings. You're always worried about their safety if you're doing things right, and if they're being a good person when you're not around. There's something about being a father to a girl that scares the crap out of me and I think it's because I know just how horrible guys are. Don't get me wrong, I'm scared for my son too because I know firsthand how truly evil women can be but holy crap... there's a lot but keep in mind it is also a blessing 🙌.

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And on St. Valentine's Day, I am alone, and on other days, too, without a partner. I've been alone for 7 years and so far I'm fine with it. Most likely, at this period, there is still no girl in my life with whom I would like to build a relationship. And not for a couple of days or months to play in love.

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If a suitable girl suddenly appears on the horizon, then I will not avoid her. And building a relationship with someone out of principle and for the sake of having a relationship for the sake of a relationship is incredibly stupid. I don't want to be one of those guys who doesn't last long with one girl. They jump from one to the other, justifying themselves that they were mistaken and she is not the one with whom they even fall asleep and wake up. And also spend almost everything together 24/7

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We do not realize how many different lives we are living all at once. One at home, one with friends, one at uni or office, one with strangers, how many different ways we react to the same thing according to the surrounding. Sab se mazy ki baat to ye hai k how smoothly we can switch between these lives. Sometimes humay khud ehsaas ni hota but if you sit back and think, you would find out surprising patterns in your behavior and you would know how many different perceptions of you do people have and you deal with it everyday... I am a single human being yet I never try to bring those perceptions of me to a single point. Why? because we get used to it? because we are not the same everywhere? or perhaps we are afraid of the reaction we would get if we showed them a side of ourselves that they have never seen. Whatever the reason is, we carry much more than it can be be judged from the outside.

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