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So the thing is I got scared when someone shows extra interest in me and tries to get attached also I don't want to get attached to people deeply that's why I never came into any relationship all my life it gives me anxiety to be that much close to someone is that a disorder and I need professional?

It’s not a disorder, it’s just that you’re afraid of the feeling of loss that comes after something you’re attached to goes away. It’s completely natural. Don’t be hard on yourself. Just ease up a little. This might help: when you’re careful, they can’t break your heart but then they can’t make you happy either. Because happiness requires that you give in. Now I’m not saying give in to someone you hardly know and get your heart broken. But do allow people to show efforts and if your heart skips a beat to something, allow it in. Don’t attach yourself to things, know that they come and leave. It’s the journey that matters. Gather happy memories. Even if the subject of those memories doesn’t stay. That’s life. Little happy moments. Nobody died from a heart break. But the heart does die from holding back.

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You're welcome!😇🤗You should really see this! It's where i learned that fact about Interstellar!🙊 https://youtu.be/D7Cv7x6jjYQ?t=12m29s (i made the link so it skips right to the interstellar part) So interesting!😃 Tell me what you think?😇

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I just watched it, thanks for the recommendation.
Pretty interesting insights, in my opinion, I also watched some parts about the Lego-Part because working with programs for animation is something I can really imagine myself to work in later in life. That's what I'm going to study. Media sciences. Never thought that Hollywood movies would inspire scientists as well. x'D
That's amazing.

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What is a hobby or passion you enjoy but wish more people knew about or asked you about? Tell us as much about this hobby as you are comfortable! I look forward to reading your replies ^.^

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Is probably my biggest passion in life. I did it before I could even speak correctly, my mom always told me. When I sing I forget the world and literally that's how I found out about me I don't care if people hear me, if there are a lot of people listening. I always had this fear speaking up in front of a big audience but never when it comes to singing. And so I just did that. I sang in lots of challenges at my school. And a couple of months ago I was invited into a private studio to sing a song of the studio-owner and to produce it. In exchange, I was able to cover a song which I like to be produced. So yeah, singing is love and singing is life for me. Also sang at weddings of my family. =)
Is my 2nd passion. I started in the second grade I guess, together with a school friend of mine. We both wrote small stories and showed it each other and discussed the story-plot if everything makes sense and so on. Later in life, I wrote longer stories on my own. Furthermore, I discovered RPG-Groups. Which is one of the most amazing things I took part in. It brought me so much experience in writing and was so addictive. I even miss it right now but for my A-Levels, I wasn't in one of those RPG-Projects since probably 1 or 2 years. Will probably start as soon as I'm getting my degree this month.
I probably had the best art teacher since primary school - she taught me a lot of technics and taught me to always be open-minded about learning every day. Drawing is my way of Therapy. I need it to calm my soul and it helped me so much during stressed times.
One of my closest friends I've had was into white magic and since I lost her through time, her passion skips on to me.
I do sometimes tarot just to ask the cards if she and her family is still okay now. I miss her and I will always wish the best for her, hoping that life will be good to her. I also got more into astrology. It helps me a little with my trust issues.
Is a passion I discovered because of my partner. He is a passionate gamer and he nearly manages to understand every game. He didn't even need to play for a long time to understand the game mechanics, that's why I always ask him for help when I'm stuck somewhere in the game. And since I am gaming as long as I am in relationship with my partner I guess that makes me a gamer as well. xD
I love to dance with my bestie. She has this aura that you feel home in any discotheque. But I am also enjoying to dance just for myself.
Allows me to switch into another world. Which is too comfortable when reality hits me hard. My dream is to have a big library just with the books I enjoy to read. x'D
Nature always calms my soul down. Also, I would love to see every corner of the world.

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هل يمكننا حقا ان نقع في حب شخص فعلا من النظره الاولى ام ان الافلام والقصص الرومنسيه والاغاني هي التي اقنعتنا بان ذلك ممكن? ؟

هو مش بيبقى حب عشان الحب معناه أكبر من كده بكتير، ومبيحصلش مع كل الناس يعني مش اي حد تشوفه هتحبه مش كوسة هي ? بيحصل لما بيبقى في كيميا مشتركة..
عمرك ما بصيت لحد وقلبك فضل يدق بسرعة لدرجة إنك متبقاش عارف تتنفس؟? الكركبة اللي بتيجي ف بطنك دي أول ما تشوفه وتبقى مش على بعضك?
هي اسمها electric spark او chemistry between people وانت مبتبقاش عارف هي بتحصل ليه مع الشخص ده بالذات او اما تبص لحد وتبقى اللي هو عايز تقتحم حياته وتعرف عنه اكتر ? وكل مرة بتشوفه فيها بيبقى نفس الشعور مبيتغيرش وتبقى مسيطر مع الناس كلها ويجي الشخص ده بالذات دونا عن أمة لا إله إلا الله يخليك تتصرف تصرفات هبلة ???.. انا مبحثتش اوي ف الموضوع ده بس هو تقريباً ليه حاجة علمية
When u look at somebody and they just sweep you off your feet?
when your heart skips a beat ?
When you feel butterflies in your stomach ?
هو شعور مبيتوصفش الحقيقة بس هو شعور جميل
و الايموجي ده? accurate اوي عشان when u feel this u better run?‍♀️?

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️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️she knows she's walking, because her FEET were moving, but andy's already too distracted by nina's RAMBLING that she barely has any time to focus on anything else. '' are you saying you WANTED him to kiss you? '' brows go up in surprise, hands re-adjusting the strap around her shoulder. a sudden scoff makes it past her lips faster than she could STOP it.
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️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️'' keep it a secret like how you kept NATE a secret? '' which took a lot of CONVINCING to make nina realise SHE hadn't been the one to tell the ENTIRE school. '' you know, i never did like that guy. '' andy didn't like many people, and boys were just easily DETESTABLE. then again, so were girls. '' OH MY GOD, nina! this suspense is KILLING me! ''
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️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️head falls back as she SKIPS once in excitement. fingers are crossed she doesn't say MARKUS' name. words couldn't amount to how GLAD she was another name sounded from her lips ────── NOTT, she could handle. lips are agape, indigo wide as they stare into turquoise. '' NO. '' she's at least proud nina's actually getting back out there instead of CRYING.
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️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️'' WAIT. . . and you RAN away? '' eyes are even wider, if that were even at all possible at this stage. '' you're severely underestimated in this school, nins. '' people didn't give her enough CREDIT. '' -which actually REMINDS me! '' andy quickly spins to face her, even as she continues to half STUMBLE past the other students, all in multi-coloured cloaks.
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️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️'' i've heard some things about you recently and you know i'm not one to believe rumours. ESPECIALLY if they're about you. '' not after the NATE one. that had been BIG. '' . . .but if this is true and you didn't TELL me, i might actually CRY. '' no, she wouldn't. but she liked to say she would. hand pressed to her chest, andy raises an. . . INQUISITIVE brow at nina.
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️️️️ ️️️️️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️️️️️ ️️️️there's a certain UNEASINESS in her chest. did she ever think she'd be here? in this position? NO, definitely not. but she is, and she has to put on a brave face━━━ if not for herself then for her family. for HER BROTHER. another breath is taken in; she doesn't want scarlet to see that she's nervous. and dumbledore, IS she. why? so many reasons. . .
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️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️️️️️ ️️️️a KNOCK on the door, and she takes a step back. of course the damn door is RED; as if it couldn't be more obvious than that. but bea shakes her head━━━ she PROMISED herself to be nice. no one else, but herself. only because. . . ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ scarlet. ’ ️️️️ ️️️ there's no EXCITEMENT in her words. they are firm. not cold, but very BUSINESS-LIKE. ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ may i? ’ ️️️️ ️️️
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️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️she doesn't really wait for an INVITATION. she sees the tiredness on scarlet's face. how she hasn't had a shower in. . . well, a LONG time definitely. and frankly, bea thinks she could━━━━ HELP? ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ hope i haven't come in the wrong time? ’ ️️️️ ️️️ but is there a right time with A BABY? she even manages a soft smile. she extends her hands, which are holding a bag.
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️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️️ ️️️it's a small green and black bag; seems like scarlet isn't the only OBVIOUS one. ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ you don't know how HARD it was not to pick a green onesie. . . ’ ️️️️ ️️️ she almost LAUGHS. ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ ━━━━but red and green DON'T go well together, so i picked something else. ’ ️️️️ ️️️ it's grey with a red baby LION. truly, it was hard to buy it. ️️️️ ️️️ ‘ also a pacifier. ’ ️️️️ ️️️ that one's with a baby SNAKE, though.
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️ ️️ ️ ️ ️️ ️. . . ʙᴜᴢᴢ, ʙᴜᴢᴢ ️ ️️ ️ ️ ️️ᴾᴵᴺᴳ ! ️ ️️ ️ ️ ️️ ️ https://ask.fm/rainbowgoddcss/answers/154309262477

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️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️' you scared the PETALS out of me. ' hand to her chest, she almost felt BREATHLESS; iris had a way of making her feel so TIRED, with all the energy she had. besides, the fact that it was WINTER didn't seem to help liven her mood. it was far too COLD and the flowers were all withered. before she even has a chance to answer, she's BOMBARDED with HAPPINESS and girly SCREECHES; she can barely make out her words.
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️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️. . .IT SHRIEKED. was her boss trying to KILL her? ' you, iris diamandis, are INSANE. ' almost as insane as the colours of her hair on a WEEKEND. ' first of all, i don't see the issue in staying SINGLE. ' she was married to her FLOWERS. ' . . .and second of all, don't pretend like you care about my answer. you are going to tell him i said YES the moment you see him next, regardless of my answer. ' she knew her too well.
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️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️even IF she were to go on a DATE with this man, it was unlikely that it would BLOSSOM into anything ROMANTIC, or anything that would SWEEP her off her feet. ' if i have to go on a date with a POSTMAN who is happy with being a postman all his life, from the way he TALKS about his profession, then YOU have to come with me. ' there was no rule against having someone there with her, SUPPORTING her.
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️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️ ️️' . . .if YOU come WITH me, i'll go on a DATE with him. '
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ʙᴜᴢᴢ ʙᴜᴢᴢ      ᴾᴵᴺᴳ         httpsaskfmrainbowgoddcssanswers154309262477
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why is it that people cant stay in a long term relationship anymore? i know the answer but from you it will be different i think

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People can stay in long term relationships.
I can’t say why all relationships end, but I can name one reason: lack of commitment.
Before I proceed, it is important to make one thing clear: love is not a feeling, it is something you do (i.e. an action). When your heart flutters or skips a beat, that is infatuation, not love. Love is taking the time to hear how hard their day was, love is trying to understand their side before giving yours, love is focusing on them more than yourself. There is no crystal clear definition of love; it can be vague and confusing.
Now that that’s out of the way, a relationship can fail when a person confuses love as a feeling instead of as an action. Feelings are fickle; they come and go, and morph almost constantly. If a relationship is built only upon the foundation of feelings—something unpredictable—then it’s not a stable relationship. People who see love as a feeling are the ones who give up on the relationship when the going gets tough, who break up saying “there’s just no spark anymore.” For a relationship to last, something more than feelings has to act as support. Hence commitment. Relationships are built to last when all parties involved commit to loving each other and re-commit to loving each other again and again and again. When people commit to loving each other, they understand that the ride will get bumpy but push forward anyway because they choose to love one another. Commitment is not always romantic or fun, but it is love and it is strong.

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Yeh mazak chal raha hai? You tryin to show yourself as a good girl? Achi larki?
Nae hota rey baabaa. Achi larki jaisa kuch nae hota reyyy

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So this is deflecting right? she asked about paying for the plane ticket, you gave her advice (including not paying for the plane ticket) and she skips over the part where she’s paying to see someone and he’s likely not paying for most of his trip.

Yes. I believe you’ve summarized this situation accurately.

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+1 answer in: “yes, it's 3 wks, which is why we are arranging to see each other as soon as possible-- and his conference in a beautiful resort town is ideal. This isn't a couple of 25 yr olds. You tell wmn how much men aren't into him but don't seem to recognize what grown men do when they are.”


"people are allowed to leave you.
people are allowed to break up with you.
people are allowed to love you but not want to be with you.
people are allowed to not want to talk to you.
people are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy even if it does not include you.
people are allowed to move on from you.
people are allowed to fall in love with someone else.
people are allowed to not want you in their life.
people are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love.
don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy."

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asa wasn't at the wedding but he didn't need to be to know that something was wrong. he felt it. . . in his BONES. he was quiet, but the less he spoke, the more he heard and what asa heard didn't. . . make any sense. it was now, his heart racing and his mind all discombobulated, that asa had time to THINK. the only thing he knew to do was. . . LOOK FOR HIM. he was old enough to do that now, wasn't he? hands throw CLOTHES and SNACKS into a yellow bag ( not inconspicuous at all, asa ).
he was just. . . on his boat, right? no one told him anything. no one EVER told asa anything. he HAD to be on the boat. if he wasn't on the boat then. . . did he──── NO. asa shook his head, wiping away the one tear that managed to slip out despite his desperate efforts to NOT think negatively. perhaps it was because he was so distracted with all his thoughts and terrifying questions that he didn't hear the DOOR, didn't hear AMY walk through it.
head darts, heart skips a beat. asa almost CHOKES on his own surprised GASP. he didn't think he'd ever felt more relieved. ' amy. ' it comes out, surprisingly, as a SOB. it had been held in for DAYS. right there in that moment, it didn't matter how OLD asa was, because he STILL extended his arms out and RAN to her. he CRUSHED into her, his arms wrapping around her tightly, SILENTLY begging her to NOT LEAVE HIM. ' don't go. PLEASE don't go. ' he wouldn't be able to handle it.
' he promised he wasn't going to LEAVE. ' even though asa knew, deep down, that noah wouldn't ever betray a promise like that, it was hard to BELIEVE. perhaps it was time to relieve him of that promise, now that asa was. . . OLDER. ' he. . . ' the SADNESS had broken through the cracks but asa had to try. . . try to CONTAIN himself, try to. . . BELIEVE just a little longer; he was always the believer. HE did the believing for the both of them ──── that was how it always was.
he gulped, untangling himself from her and allowing himself three seconds to recompose himself, to BELIEVE that noah HADN'T abandoned him. eyes closed, asa tried to think LOGICALLY. ' captain hook is gone. ' translation: CAMERON was gone. ' ──PETER PAN. . . ' was gone. was there a connection? turns out asa wasn't one to think logically. expectant, HOPEFUL eyes look up to HERS. ' everyone says he LEFT. he didn't leave, did he? he DIDN'T go! ' . . .did he?

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Hey beautiful:) I just wanted to tell you that how perfect you are <3. You are the most beautiful girl I have every seen.. you’re cute, smart, nice, any guy would be lucky to have you. When I see you my heart skips a beat. I would do anything for you<3

Ghosh! Thanks ya dear?❤️! It really means a lot! (Was strangely way cheesy tho?❤️) anyways..if you could do one thing..then untick please!?

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