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I'm so frustrated by my thoughts

I had a very difficult day yesterday, feeling heartbroken and unable to sleep the entire night and day. I was also feeling unwell, with too many stress factors involved. Without realizing it, I spent the whole day working on repairs around the house, which turned out to be part of my coping mechanism. Maybe it was just a bump in the road. May Allah help me find peace and comfort. Ameen.
I think you should try to get busy in your life so you won't have time to think about stuff that frustrates you. 🙂

What do you think a "parallel universe" version of you would be like? 🤔💭

hellojonesymo’s Profile PhotoJo
**What if it's the same as me?**
They say parallel ones are supposed to be the opposite of the current you ... If that's true then I'd tell him how lucky he is and he has no idea what I'd give away to just see how much he smiles or the fun he has ... Maybe he takes care of himself in terms of sleep , diet and exercise while making those abs ... Maybe he's getting more sharp and active as he ages like wine 🍷 ... Maybe his lucky enough to have his life plans executed as he planned and is at a better stage of life ... Maybe he'd be a little selfish enough to think about his priorities and himself ... And Maybe he'd enjoy his Life and time with more quality people while keeping his priorities straight !!!
I'd love to see a me version in the parallel universe but even if he's not as I expect it will be cool by me because I know both of us would understand why we are the way we are than anyone else could ... !!! 🍀🤞🏻
How about you Jo ?

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What do you think a parallel universe version of you would be like

Why is it weird for people to sleep in jeans? Incase of an emergency I’m ready to GO!

Haha, I actually did that when a major earthquake hit, and there was a tsunami warning in our area. I evacuated to a strangers’ place (well, more like tagged along with my landlady & landlord, and they were very kind to adopt me at that time 🥹) and wasn't really comfortable changing as you could feel the aftershocks only minutes apart.

What is your goal for the next 24 hours?

DEATHSTROKE420’s Profile Photoنبیل احمد خان
My next 24 hours will be occupied with shopping stuff… dinner preparations… family gtg…
And the plusminusdividemultiply of my bankbalance.
But i need a good sleep and solid prayers to packup for the upcoming 💕😴
ان شا اللّٰه🌹

Remind me not to piss you off 😹

i slept like a baby last night and I've said it once and I'll say it again : "THERE AIN'T A MAN ALIVE WHO CAN TOUCH MY BUTTON! IF I HAD ONE YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO LOCATE IT! can no man knock me out! i am tired of being humble, i am tired of letting people think they got a chance.. the tribal chief is head n shoulders above EVERYBODY!" *goes back to sleep for 12 more hours*
Remind me not to piss you off

All I want to know is how you're surviving the daily grind. Where do you park yourself all day, and how do you deal with being stuck in your own skin?!

MMaryamKhan’s Profile PhotoMaryam Khan
Aight, bring a chair, chaye and cigarettes. First n foremost life is a loop untill it's not. I feel relaxed when i came in my bed. That's prolly the only time it's just me. My brain kinda stop functioning n somedays I'd want to escape from myself but it's not possible. Certain goals n desires seems impossible but it's life you never know. Somedays i don't like to think or try to fix anything i just want to sleep n let that day be over. Somedays life don't make any sense at all and somedays am just tired n unbothered.

Do you think it’s justifiable to judge people using deductive reasoning based on what they wear since most people chose their attire on a regular basis? Obversely, do you dress in a way that speaks to who you are as a person?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoΣΩ
I don't judge anyone on their appearance, i know some functioning crackheads..their appearance is always on point..so who i am to judge someone how they dress...none of that shit matters at the end of the day when i lay my head down to sleep. I dress differently outside of work..so i guess.

Do you sleep with a cuddly toy?

shahbazk23267’s Profile Photoshahbaz
Don't sleep next to them, but have a few plushies in the living room. Two of my favourites are a build-a-bear highland cow named Hector & a Squishmallow, Avery. I rarely have panic attacks anymore, but when they happen those two are a huge help
Do you sleep with a cuddly toy
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Who is kissing your cheek as you sleep?

I’m not fucking with a guy my age who’s really broke with fake jewelry just to prove I’m loyal and don’t need money that would be the dumbest thing in the world I walked out with nothing but less money than I went in
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Has your life gotten better, worse, or stayed the same since 2020?

DICKFosbury22399’s Profile PhotoDICKFosbury
Gotten worse. I became more of a recluse and no longer had my priorities straight as a result of my psychological state getting worse over time. I didn’t want to leave the house at first and was fine with staying home but after a while, I started worrying about things that I wasn’t really worried about before. I no longer had friends irl and kept to myself for the most part because my friends moved away and so did I. I no longer prioritized my grades and ended up failing to take my final exam due to the intrusive thoughts I was dealing with as well as a messed up sleep schedule that made me forget what day it was. Moving away also made it hard for me continue with my goals because where I live now, I only seem to have two options (either attend a community college like I’m doing now or attend the OSU). I had more opportunities where I lived previously and am currently majoring in a field that I’m not really sure if I want to continue with. How about for you?

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Anybody else just wake up ?

bobbystar95270’s Profile PhotoHickey
I’ve been awake the whole day and need to have my lights closed during the nighttime so my grandma doesn’t come into my room and close them herself. She’s only here for another month and thanks to her, I have a regular sleep schedule… for now.

كيف رفعت من جودة حياتك اليومية ؟

I prefer peace over fights and arguments. I try to become a better Muslim and reconnect with things that matter. I try to cherish the good moments and make time for myself. I am focused on my health and diet. Saving up money and just made a purchase that I wanted to make for years. Cutting off on music and movies with strange content for starters. Better sleep schedule. Shukr Alhamdulilah. 😇

Question... if your wife is taking a nap and you know she is taking a nap, would you yell "love you" at her and wake her up out of a dead sleep then wonder why she is irritated? Or am I just being unreasonable?

addydabbydo’s Profile Photoaddy
Either that guy is brain dead, or stupidly brave.... Let sleepy wifies sleep.... or risk instant castration 😖
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Are you more of a morning person? 🌅 Or a night person? 🌆 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ ᏖᏋᏁᏗፈᎥᎧᏬᏕ ᏖᎧᎷᎷᏗᎩ™ ▩ ♚ ☻
These summer days I am more morning person and at 10 p.m. I usually go to sleep 😴. Maybe during autumn and winter it will be vice versa 😅.

How are you Star? You’ve been on my mind? How is your beautiful baby too? I hope you’re getting some sleep when you’re able.

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoΣΩ
I think we experienced a horrible regression. She's been sleeping longer during the nights and falls asleep easily. I can have some rest and free time during the day because it's easier to put her down for a nap.
She's been smiling all day long. 🤭
She received her second vaccination yesterday and tolerated it well, without a temperature. 😁

قدر تو ہو ہی جاتی ہے پر وقت نکل جاتا ہے

rajasabb’s Profile PhotoKayyy
You might not feel anything after they are gone, but all of a sudden...
You cannot sleep peacefully at night and you don't know the reason.
You get irritated and angry over very little things and you don't know the reason.
You want to break and throw away things, BUT YOU DON'T KNOW THE REASON...

In most cases, are you someone who gets more attention than they feel comfortable with or less attention than they actually want?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
Definitely more than I want or need but I don't lose any sleep over it. Most people become bored very quickly and move on. It seems to be a pattern. One may crave excitement. Until it's found. Familiarity can erode appeal with little effort. Interest rarely lasts for more than a fleeting moment. Human nature.
In most cases are you someone who gets more attention than they feel comfortable

Morning Kian! I dunno what time it is for u there mostly cuz I dunno if we be in the same time zone or not, but I hope u were able to sleep well last night!!.. did ya feel like u were able to get any sleep at all or nah?

Cali0143’s Profile PhotoMami Kasey
hey! about to be 4 pm. I did managed to sleep at 7 am lmao so that was effort. but how are you today?

اية هي ال green flags بتاعتكم ؟

reem_elghamry’s Profile PhotoReem El-ghamry
There are pros and cons of everyone. Some of my pros/green-flags are,
• I am ready to talk it out and find a solution all the time.
• I won't end things due to a single argument.
• I have persistence and stubbornness, which is required to continue something.
• I don't like to lie or cheat. (May Allah make me steadfast in it, ameen).
• I don't want to show my partner to the whole world.
• I won't force my partner to make a living.
• I try my best to act like a Muslim by living and implementing my life on the basis of the Quran and Sunnah.
• I can sacrifice my sleep and routine if my partner is not well.
• I am ready to improve myself even if the learning process is slow due to factors like ego and stubbornness.
• I want to spend my whole life with the same person without replacing her. (In Sha Allah)
• I want to learn about religion with my partner and improve myself.
• I don't want a rich partner, just a normal one with good character and faith power.
• I would never want to ab*se verbally or physically.
• I hate femi*ism and Western agenda against Islam.
• I don't mix up with the opposite gender. I'm shy and have strict regulations for myself.
• I can't harass anyone and will defend others as much as I can, In Sha Allah.
These are what I know, and there are some more, of course. I have disadvantages too. I have a lot of flaws. It's part of being a human. You come as a package, pros and cons included. 😊

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What are your plans for the autumn? 🍁🍂

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
I'm one of the few who can tell that autumn is approaching very quickly. You see, when I came out of the hospital, I had to wake up at 3 a.m. and I saw the sun behind the clouds/horizon, and the room was quite lit. Now? I wake up at 4 or 5 a.m. and it's still so dark outside...
Plus, I keep putting the baby to sleep earlier and earlier every day. Now she goes to sleep at 8 p.m. because it's already dark.
My plans for the autumn are no different than what they are now. I'm getting heavy nostalgia. Plus, she will be 3 months old at the end of September. So not a lot of fun there. 😅 Next year will be more interesting. 🥰

How good are you at managing your life?

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mahmood
I've had days when I'd cry all night and go to work next day without getting any sleep and get mentioned by the consultant psychiatrist as an example of how I'm always sorted and I don't let anything effect my mood in a staff meeting. Can we consider that being good at managing it?

The point in your life where you are today - what or how would you label it?

fried_brainiac420’s Profile PhotoSarr Dard
It's a ditch, kinda dead end. At some point in life you lowkey know that you lost, everything else is just aftermaths of the tragedy. Wish i could rant about alot of things, scream, ask questions about why things aren't normal, cry, make sense or hold on to hope etc but frankly Am very tired, not just physically but mentally n spiritually. I'll simply just try to sleep.

What’s keepin' you awake?

Egoistic_101’s Profile Photoᴶᵃ ˢⁱᵐʳᵃⁿ ˢᵉᵗ ᵈᵃ ʷᵒʳˡᵈ ᵒⁿ ᶠⁱʳᵉ
The only thing I'm worried about rn and why I couldn’t sleep properly last night, is our cat's surgery today. Neutering him wasn’t really my idea, but it’s the best move for his health, a longer life, and to keep those UTI issues at bay. The surgery is set for 5 PM, and I just hope everything goes smoothly, InshaAllah ✨.

Who was the last person who made you feel special? What did they do to make you feel that way?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoΣΩ
By an Ask user !! This was a really sweet morning motivation ....and something sweet someone has done for me in a long long time to be honest 😅
... A few days ago after an anon learned that I couldn't sleep due to the bad mood ... This is what I received the same morning 😂😂
To that person THANK YOU !!
I hope I get to return the favour!
Who was the last person who made you feel special What did they do to make you

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