I had a very difficult day yesterday, feeling heartbroken and unable to sleep the entire night and day. I was also feeling unwell, with too many stress factors involved. Without realizing it, I spent the whole day working on repairs around the house, which turned out to be part of my coping mechanism. Maybe it was just a bump in the road. May Allah help me find peace and comfort. Ameen.I think you should try to get busy in your life so you won't have time to think about stuff that frustrates you. 🙂
**What if it's the same as me?** They say parallel ones are supposed to be the opposite of the current you ... If that's true then I'd tell him how lucky he is and he has no idea what I'd give away to just see how much he smiles or the fun he has ... Maybe he takes care of himself in terms of sleep , diet and exercise while making those abs ... Maybe he's getting more sharp and active as he ages like wine 🍷 ... Maybe his lucky enough to have his life plans executed as he planned and is at a better stage of life ... Maybe he'd be a little selfish enough to think about his priorities and himself ... And Maybe he'd enjoy his Life and time with more quality people while keeping his priorities straight !!! I'd love to see a me version in the parallel universe but even if he's not as I expect it will be cool by me because I know both of us would understand why we are the way we are than anyone else could ... !!! 🍀🤞🏻 How about you Jo ?
I have sleep paralysis. So, in one of my episodes of sleep paralysis, I saw a joker with a big dagger in his hand beside my bed, and I could move to escape. That was really horrifying.
Haha, I actually did that when a major earthquake hit, and there was a tsunami warning in our area. I evacuated to a strangers’ place (well, more like tagged along with my landlady & landlord, and they were very kind to adopt me at that time 🥹) and wasn't really comfortable changing as you could feel the aftershocks only minutes apart.
My next 24 hours will be occupied with shopping stuff… dinner preparations… family gtg… And the plusminusdividemultiply of my bankbalance. But i need a good sleep and solid prayers to packup for the upcoming 💕😴ان شا اللّٰه🌹
i slept like a baby last night and I've said it once and I'll say it again : "THERE AIN'T A MAN ALIVE WHO CAN TOUCH MY BUTTON! IF I HAD ONE YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO LOCATE IT! can no man knock me out! i am tired of being humble, i am tired of letting people think they got a chance.. the tribal chief is head n shoulders above EVERYBODY!" *goes back to sleep for 12 more hours*
All I want to know is how you're surviving the daily grind. Where do you park yourself all day, and how do you deal with being stuck in your own skin?!
Aight, bring a chair, chaye and cigarettes. First n foremost life is a loop untill it's not. I feel relaxed when i came in my bed. That's prolly the only time it's just me. My brain kinda stop functioning n somedays I'd want to escape from myself but it's not possible. Certain goals n desires seems impossible but it's life you never know. Somedays i don't like to think or try to fix anything i just want to sleep n let that day be over. Somedays life don't make any sense at all and somedays am just tired n unbothered.
Do you think it’s justifiable to judge people using deductive reasoning based on what they wear since most people chose their attire on a regular basis? Obversely, do you dress in a way that speaks to who you are as a person?
I don't judge anyone on their appearance, i know some functioning crackheads..their appearance is always on point..so who i am to judge someone how they dress...none of that shit matters at the end of the day when i lay my head down to sleep. I dress differently outside of work..so i guess.
Don't sleep next to them, but have a few plushies in the living room. Two of my favourites are a build-a-bear highland cow named Hector & a Squishmallow, Avery. I rarely have panic attacks anymore, but when they happen those two are a huge help
I’m not fucking with a guy my age who’s really broke with fake jewelry just to prove I’m loyal and don’t need money that would be the dumbest thing in the world I walked out with nothing but less money than I went in
Gotten worse. I became more of a recluse and no longer had my priorities straight as a result of my psychological state getting worse over time. I didn’t want to leave the house at first and was fine with staying home but after a while, I started worrying about things that I wasn’t really worried about before. I no longer had friends irl and kept to myself for the most part because my friends moved away and so did I. I no longer prioritized my grades and ended up failing to take my final exam due to the intrusive thoughts I was dealing with as well as a messed up sleep schedule that made me forget what day it was. Moving away also made it hard for me continue with my goals because where I live now, I only seem to have two options (either attend a community college like I’m doing now or attend the OSU). I had more opportunities where I lived previously and am currently majoring in a field that I’m not really sure if I want to continue with. How about for you?
I’ve been awake the whole day and need to have my lights closed during the nighttime so my grandma doesn’t come into my room and close them herself. She’s only here for another month and thanks to her, I have a regular sleep schedule… for now.
I prefer peace over fights and arguments. I try to become a better Muslim and reconnect with things that matter. I try to cherish the good moments and make time for myself. I am focused on my health and diet. Saving up money and just made a purchase that I wanted to make for years. Cutting off on music and movies with strange content for starters. Better sleep schedule. Shukr Alhamdulilah. 😇
Question... if your wife is taking a nap and you know she is taking a nap, would you yell "love you" at her and wake her up out of a dead sleep then wonder why she is irritated? Or am I just being unreasonable?
Traditionally I’d say late afternoon and night person. However in recent years my sleep schedule has been random according to my energy, so I can be either asleep or awake at any given point over 24 hours.
I think we experienced a horrible regression. She's been sleeping longer during the nights and falls asleep easily. I can have some rest and free time during the day because it's easier to put her down for a nap.She's been smiling all day long. 🤭 She received her second vaccination yesterday and tolerated it well, without a temperature. 😁
Depression is living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that tries to die. Not everything in the heart can be said, so god created sighs, tears, long sleep, cold smile and shivering hands.
You might not feel anything after they are gone, but all of a sudden... You cannot sleep peacefully at night and you don't know the reason. You get irritated and angry over very little things and you don't know the reason. You want to break and throw away things, BUT YOU DON'T KNOW THE REASON...
Definitely more than I want or need but I don't lose any sleep over it. Most people become bored very quickly and move on. It seems to be a pattern. One may crave excitement. Until it's found. Familiarity can erode appeal with little effort. Interest rarely lasts for more than a fleeting moment. Human nature.
Every night. Sometimes I’m watching a relaxing video and drift off to sleep, only to wake up the next day with a different video playing on my phone and my battery percentage being low.
https://youtu.be/VROyqFr6wDc?si=w28-cYSpfQ8HgS4vGoing pretty good bro but swamped by relatives at the house but glad i posted this lyrical vid today before going to sleep. Song title might suggest my priorities not straight but it's okay cause it is what it is 😂
Morning Kian! I dunno what time it is for u there mostly cuz I dunno if we be in the same time zone or not, but I hope u were able to sleep well last night!!.. did ya feel like u were able to get any sleep at all or nah?
There are pros and cons of everyone. Some of my pros/green-flags are,• I am ready to talk it out and find a solution all the time. • I won't end things due to a single argument. • I have persistence and stubbornness, which is required to continue something. • I don't like to lie or cheat. (May Allah make me steadfast in it, ameen). • I don't want to show my partner to the whole world. • I won't force my partner to make a living. • I try my best to act like a Muslim by living and implementing my life on the basis of the Quran and Sunnah. • I can sacrifice my sleep and routine if my partner is not well. • I am ready to improve myself even if the learning process is slow due to factors like ego and stubbornness. • I want to spend my whole life with the same person without replacing her. (In Sha Allah) • I want to learn about religion with my partner and improve myself. • I don't want a rich partner, just a normal one with good character and faith power. • I would never want to ab*se verbally or physically. • I hate femi*ism and Western agenda against Islam. • I don't mix up with the opposite gender. I'm shy and have strict regulations for myself. • I can't harass anyone and will defend others as much as I can, In Sha Allah.These are what I know, and there are some more, of course. I have disadvantages too. I have a lot of flaws. It's part of being a human. You come as a package, pros and cons included. 😊
I'm one of the few who can tell that autumn is approaching very quickly. You see, when I came out of the hospital, I had to wake up at 3 a.m. and I saw the sun behind the clouds/horizon, and the room was quite lit. Now? I wake up at 4 or 5 a.m. and it's still so dark outside...Plus, I keep putting the baby to sleep earlier and earlier every day. Now she goes to sleep at 8 p.m. because it's already dark.My plans for the autumn are no different than what they are now. I'm getting heavy nostalgia. Plus, she will be 3 months old at the end of September. So not a lot of fun there. 😅 Next year will be more interesting. 🥰
Lol ahh dang I’m sorry Kian I mean if I knew u were tryna go to sleep, then maybe I wouldn’t have tried to hit u up and txt ya here… I can stop and let ya try to sleep if ya want unless ya don’t mind talkin now that it failed on ya
I have parked my car away from my house, so that people assume I’m not at home, and they don’t knock on my door. Then I am gonna put my phone on D&D, and then guess what… will sleep all day long..
I've had days when I'd cry all night and go to work next day without getting any sleep and get mentioned by the consultant psychiatrist as an example of how I'm always sorted and I don't let anything effect my mood in a staff meeting. Can we consider that being good at managing it?
It's a ditch, kinda dead end. At some point in life you lowkey know that you lost, everything else is just aftermaths of the tragedy. Wish i could rant about alot of things, scream, ask questions about why things aren't normal, cry, make sense or hold on to hope etc but frankly Am very tired, not just physically but mentally n spiritually. I'll simply just try to sleep.
(never split the difference by Chriss Voss) funny story tho, I remember i used to read her dumbazz stories to sleep and then when i felt like she slept i used to start reading boring af self help books to enlighten her subconscious. Ikr, you cannot get more sneaky then me hehe 🤭😂😂
The only thing I'm worried about rn and why I couldn’t sleep properly last night, is our cat's surgery today. Neutering him wasn’t really my idea, but it’s the best move for his health, a longer life, and to keep those UTI issues at bay. The surgery is set for 5 PM, and I just hope everything goes smoothly, InshaAllah ✨.
I sleep in shorts or pajamas, and I keep my clothes on because I don't want to get caught without clothes after a tremendous earthquake or emergency 😅 running around with no clothes.
By an Ask user !! This was a really sweet morning motivation ....and something sweet someone has done for me in a long long time to be honest 😅 ... A few days ago after an anon learned that I couldn't sleep due to the bad mood ... This is what I received the same morning 😂😂To that person THANK YOU !! I hope I get to return the favour!
Do you think I would come across as entitled if I told a friend to stay up late to talk to me on the phone if they want to sleep early because they have to go to work early?