#support

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. συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи
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Loyalty is a bond or connection that is not only linked with your sympathy for that person but also like an unspoken promise to the person/yourself/your dream/ that you are connected to. Depending on your values and how much you are actually connected to yourself a.k.a how authentic you are with yourself defines how loyal you can become with someone/something.

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Like I stated before, depending on what is important to you and therefore you might happen to share a strong bond to... by leaving those connections behind (with/ or without explanation) you are able to betray a person, your own values or your dreams, the image that you thought of yourself you are, or certain things that you once liked....like a franchise in media.

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e.g. leaving friends or family without actually saying that you leave them. That's betrayal. You just do not support them. Never be there. Ignore them purposefully when they are in need of you. You never really admit that you left but you still betrayed them. Maybe one can justify it by thinking exact this..."I'm still their friend/family member, and I will always be that." But words are words, and no one can look into the mind of the people that surround us. This is straight-up abandonment of loved ones. And a pretty coward one as well.

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Or maybe you give up on the interests you enjoy doing or watching only to be accepted by people who do not truly care about you, 'cause if they would...they would just let you be the person you are. Without judging you based on what you like. And this is self-abandonment and therefore self-betrayal.

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You can also abandon your own values, by looking away when a person you love commits a crime or does something disturbing that you never would agree with when you had seen this done by a stranger. But somehow you don't want to lose that person and you start to normalize their behaviour. Like saying...."this is surely not what they have meant, they never would have wanted to hurt someone intentionally..." Keep on dreaming.

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And another way of self-abandonment is when you start to put other people's needs on a pedestal. And while they enjoy the attention and energy you are giving to them, some of them would not even dare to think of what you need. Do you need emotional safety or reassurance that they will be there for you too if you need them? Sry, hny, that's not in. Furthermore, you like them...so you kind of ... depend on them, right? So, how dare you ask for basic respect and emotional safety! You are supposed to serve, not to ask for those high-level requests. Know your place. lol. That's of course double-hand betrayal. You get betrayed and you betray yourself.

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⠀ ❝Mmm. . . lil' bad girl,❞ A faint murmuring voice came with a small smile, reluctant to fall for one of those plays from now on, since he had a certain information advantage thanks to Nova's telepathy. He didn't show any movement of wanting to evade that kind of direct attack, confident that could counter it.

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The right hand of the one-eyed man quickly went in search of his tantö, his most characteristic and lethal possession for every witnessed occasion. That edge of pure steel acting as a damaging support to stop her jaw from biting him; Majima applied quite a bit of force and made sure that the blade was going in the intended direction to destroy part of her mouth, considering she would really be a skeleton. And a small one, which made the job easier.

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Of course, due to the height difference, he had to play with his legs and back for more accurate effectiveness.

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⠀ ❝This was gettin' fun, till ya mentioned Nova there. That mouth is too much for ya.❞

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A cynical passive-aggressive comment, going hand in hand with a hard kick that would slam her into one of the alley walls. He kept the distance and didn't allow himself to feel confident so soon, he really wasn't sure if this dangerous girl had any moves off his level.

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He held the tantö as he would prepare for a possible counterattack. Neòn would receive a challenging and careful gaze from him.

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⠀ ❝Cut this shit out. Go back the way ya came, aaan' everyone's happy.❞ Those words came out sullenly, meaning that man was not amused by the situation.

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Hey, Juiz. You're right- it's been years. A lot has changed. I moved out of my house- things have been harder since, but nothing I can't handle. I've become a much better cook, since I cook for myself daily. I work, currently a bit tight on bills but that should alleviate soon. I travel often across the region. I work out at my local gym. Combine that with a job that's undoubtedly physically demanding, and you have a common occurrence of soreness. But like I said, nothing I can't handle.

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Entered college alone with a dream- left college alone with a shattered spirit. I took a gap year to reflect and build myself back up again. I've been through a lot of trauma with my mental illnesses contributing to my mistakes and failures.

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Six months ago, I also left behind everyone precious to me. I also blew up a diary that lasted 1400 days filled with trauma. I guess it was an explosion of a decision due to being abandoned by too many people... maybe I decided to cope with the pain by leaving first. But at that point, I was well aware of what it was like to lose people. Once you lose them, there's no apologizing and going back. People don't work that way. Forgiveness cannot be expected. And that's a consequence I was determined enough to make because I knew it was something I needed to do for my own sake. Those that truly cared somehow found a way back to me. Told me the relevance I had in their lives. People that care that much deserve a place to hold dear.

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Loneliness isn't something you can just brush aside. It's deadly in lethal quantities, no matter how hard you fight. The only medicine is support, something I didn't have enough of. So, I vowed to become a stronger person, bettering myself since my downfalls. I'm ready to fight again against my traumas and chase my dreams in a different manner. I'm hoping to get into martial arts soon to further my discipline as well as learn to properly defend those I love. I have a beautiful girlfriend now. Four years older than me, but the sweetest and she works hard. She truly made me understand that one of my past relationships I hailed as glorious was nothing more than an illusion due to never being shown better with actions, not words. I remember hearing, from my ex, "Find a woman that will treat you better." Things like that, you remember forever. To the one I love- thank you, Kei. For being the most supportive person in my life and believing in me.

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I go back to college soon. This September. The thought of not being good enough has been at the core of what fuels my depression and anxiety. But no one knows the story. Neither do they care. It's all about the results. The difference between then and now is that I have someone that truly believes in me.

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How am I? I'm great. 7/10. Sore. Suffering from allergies. Maybe I've changed. I couldn't tell you. Only those that knew me long ago could. Thanks again for allowing me to use your SoulWorker account. Your kindness wasn't forgotten.

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Dekho bhai whether it’s care, material things or just general support and love, only give it when you know, you will be okay, even if it’s not reciprocated.
Don’t do even the most minor of something for someone, In hopping to get a rerun of favour or some benefit from them. It’s human nature to expect someone to atleast not bullshit you, if you’ve been kind to them.
Saaf baat hai, people are selfish. They honestly don’t give a shit even if they owe you ton and you owe them nothing.
So either do good because you’re a good person or just let it be. The world won’t treat you any better just because you’re a good person. It doesn’t work that way but you should know, whatever good you do will find it’s way back to you. People can forget but the lord of the worlds, never forgets. Who knows a random little good deed might end up being our ticket to heaven.
P.S you can always look out for people from afar, without directly interfering in their lives. You can pray for them too. Choose whatever’s best for you but do not sabotage yourself over an ignorant ass. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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This is like asking “what do you think of people?” Feminists are all genders, from all generations, across all cultures and demographics. They aren’t homogenous so my opinion of ‘feminists’ isn’t homogenous either.

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I support and appreciate feminists that actively advocate for women's rights on the grounds of the equality of the sexes… and I facepalm and deplore those who spout misandry or seek hypocritical goals (that don’t align with equality) because they make life harder than it needs to be for those who seek genuine equality.

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The feminist-misandrists give anti-feminists an excuse to dismiss the entire push for equal rights by straw-manning the worst sorts of behaviour (and wholesale applying them to the term ‘feminists’ which can be frustrating) while the feminists who post “kill all men” or exclusionist nonsense (like TERF’s & SWERF’s)… don’t look so bright when they go on to announce that they want equality…

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Sigh.

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I think equality of the sexes on the basis of gender is still an admirable goal so even though some feminists distort the message into something awful, the onus is on myself and other feminists to try to live up to the ideal of a truly equal society. I can’t control what they do - only what I do.

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Ultimately, I think of feminists in the same way as I think of people → I support some because their idea of equality aligns with mine and I don’t support others because I disapprove of their methods and goals.

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What wise words, I can say that I have support, and you can’t suppress feelings, in no case, the last shock with Raynor was and I fell ill for a month, not morally, but physically ^^ morally suppressing and pretending that everything is fine, everything is displayed on physical health, the body did not live the whole situation normally and the brain tries to play it instinctively itself in the form of a disease, psychosomatics be ^^ a suppressed feeling is an ailment in the form of a disease, and even a constantly stuffy nose is a consequence of suppression and silence, understatement, protection of a kind of organism from negativity, not a desire to accept what is disgusting ^^ it's like you breathe in the negative through your nose and it's like tobacco smoke is harmful, there is rejection and dislike for this smoke, the result is congestion and with the complication of ear pain ^^ My co-dependency with Raynor turned into pneumonia (intoxication with love, a terrible pneumonic prolonged hangover, but I worked the hell out, all the nuances, when you let go, you feel total catharsis ^^

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