#surrogacy

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what if the man of a straight couple lets his semen get put into a woman's body so the couple can have a baby that's at least 50% theirs biologically speaking? (but all of it being consensual obviously and everyone being aware and fine with it)

none of what you just said changes what i said about surrogacy though. its still treating womens bodies like a resource, surrogacy has a very dark underbelly stained w human trafficking and there is 0 reason why someone cant just adopt. millions of children are already alive and need homes. theres no good argument for surrogacy.

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+3 answers in: “Why are you against surrogacy? I honestly have never heard of someone being against it.”

Do you view surrogate partner therapy as unethical, considering that surrogate partners help their clients by getting intimately involved with them? Elaborate, please.

uh, that isn't how surrogacy works. when a person takes on the responsibility of being a surrogate, they become artificially inseminated through in-vitro fertilization. there's no physical contact involved.

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وبجانب تأثيرهم الضار مجتمعيًا، أعتقد ان السماح لهم بتبني الأطفال يضر أيضًا بصحة الطفل النفسية وهويته الجنسية. فالمثليون أكثر عرضة للمرض النفسي من المستقيمين، والإحصائية في الغرب، أي من الصعب نسبتها للاضطهاد والعنف https://psychcentral.com/lib/higher-risk-of-mental-health-problems-for-homosexuals/

TawfikAtef’s Profile PhotoTawfik Atef
اولا الدراسة اللي انت مشيرها دي بتحاول تثبت ان العنصرية ضدهم هي السبب في ارتفاع نسب الاكتئاب و اضطرابات القلق.
ثانيا التبني ده ليه اختبارات، لازم يحصل مقابلات مع الاهل و نشوف حاجات كتير منها الاسقرار النفسي و المادي.
ثالثا في مليون دراسة بتتكلم عن ارتفاع نسبة الامراض النفسية في فئات عن غيرها، مثلا مرض ثنائي القطب و الاكتئاب في الفنانين و المبدعين، هنمنعهم هما كمان؟
ارتفاع معدلات الانتحار بين الناس في المجال الطبي مثلا، ها؟ :D
رابعا الامراض النفسية مش كلها زي بعض و مينفعش نمنع حد يبقى اب او ام عشان عنده anxiety disorder مثلا او حتى مر بإكتئاب..المفروض لو مسيطر على مرضه يبقى له حق تكوين اسرة، و ان كان هتنزل اولويته في قوائم التبني

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انا مقلتش الحوار يبقى سبهللة اي حد يتبنى، انا مع اجراءات حازمة و تقييمات كتير قبل السماح لاي حد انه يتبنى.
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خلي بالك انه لو متبناش يقدر يعمل surrogacy و يجيب اطفال برضو و ان كان الموضوع مكلف شوية بس مش للدرجة و بيتعمل كتير.

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+47 answers in: “What is your opinion about homosexuality?”

i respect ur opinion and yeah surrogacy in a way is choosing a tailor made baby cuz ur doing it just go the kid will have ur genetics but how is private adoption doing that?

because couples tend to go through binders and try to find women/babies they’re interested in. then the couples who are interested are sent to the bio mother. she has the ultimate say so but lol it’s definitely picking and choosing 🤷🏻‍♀️

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my male coworker said the other day that he would never date anyone who made money based off their body. he included strippers, hooters waitresses, camgirls, and surrogacy (yeah idk). what do you think of this line of thinking? would you be comfortable dating a stripper? sxxy waiter/waitress? etc.

eggsydoessomethingnaughty’s Profile Photoless pure eggsy
I think that's pretty silly! I'd date anyone I want, regardless of their job! I'd find it difficult at first, having to accept that I'm not the only bloke who's gonna see their body, but at the end of the day, why should anything like that stop me from being with the one I love?

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my male coworker said the other day that he would never date anyone who made money based off their body. he included strippers, hooters waitresses, camgirls, and surrogacy (yeah idk). what do you think of this line of thinking? would you be comfortable dating a stripper? sxxy waiter/waitress? etc.

eggsydoessomethingnaughty’s Profile Photoless pure eggsy
I believe his way of thinking is ignorant. I'm a stripper 😉 lmao but I wouldn't mind. As longs as they're making money

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my male coworker said the other day that he would never date anyone who made money based off their body. he included strippers, hooters waitresses, camgirls, and surrogacy (yeah idk). what do you think of this line of thinking? would you be comfortable dating a stripper? sxxy waiter/waitress? etc.

eggsydoessomethingnaughty’s Profile Photoless pure eggsy
I think it's up to the person who they date, we all have our own preferences and what we're attracted to. I personally don't think those jobs have any affect on who we are as people though, but that's just me 🙂🏽♀️

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https://ask.fm/EXOversal/answers/142691900947 Now imagine these two beautiful boys getting married and having babies through surrogacy 😍 can you imagine how beautiful their babies would be

ASDFGHJKLKSAJDKLASD AND KAI SPOILING THE BABIES DAY AND NIGHT WHILE SEHUN IS THE STRICT PARENT, NAGGING KAI TO NOT TO TAKE THEM OUT FOR ICE-CREAM IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT OR LET THEM WATCH CARTOONS FOR TOO LONG. HE NAGS AT KAI TO GET OUT OF THE BATHTUB AFTER MORE THAN AN HOUR OF BATHING WITH THEIR BABIES WHILE PLAYING WITH RUBBER DUCKIES AND BUBBLES!!!

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I'm curious/ can you babies if you tried? Or would the baby not make it or you not make it? (Just really curious)

I can get pregnant but I can't keep the pregnancy as I have no abdominal muscles for the pregnancy to grow and it would become life threatening.
My eggs are viable and my conditions aren't genetic so I can try surrogacy in the future.

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Why is it evil? It's not even medical care in that being infertile is not a disease. We are being raised to believe we somehow deserve everything we desire. You know whats evil? Rich couples using poor brown women as wombs for rent.

what the fuck is even happening right now? wombs for rent?
wait wait wait I think I get the disconnect - I read "stop medical help for infertile people" as "don't treat them if they are hit by a bus, don't treat them for cancer, don't give them medicine for anything", but now I see, you meant "stop assisting infertile people to get children by other means, for example surrogacy or artificial conception".
Now them bones have some ethical meat on them. Boy, no yeah, that makes that question make sense. I apologise. OK. I.. have to think about that.

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Surrogacy I've always wanted to be a surrogate but with the procedure I got done I don't think that's possible anymore plus I have applied once and they say I'm to thin ?

walkermomma_2’s Profile PhotoRavish Me Red
Yeah idk where i'll find someone willing to be one, because commercial surrogacy is illegal in Australia, only ultristic surrogacy is allowed.
It's going to be very expensive for the IVF etc that goes into it, and idk how i'll go having my eggs "harvested".

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9. What's on your list of things you really want to do until you die? (I think it's called a 'bucket list'?)

shinyscar’s Profile PhotoScar~
- Getting married
- Having a pet Sphinx cat, and a pet duck
- Visiting America (especially Las Vegas)
- Move to the Gold Coast
- Own a Lamborghini (I wish)
- Manage a clothing or jewelry online store
- Have a childrens story book published
- Have a baby through surrogacy

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If someone hands over their rights as a parent, should they still have to support that child financially? Why(not)? Should someone be allowed to fight to get their rights back after willingly handing over their parental rights?

youcuntx’s Profile PhotoJ.
I don't think people should have to pay child support if they hand over their rights and it's agreed upon by both biological parents.
However, I don't know how I feel about fighting for rights back, but maybe they should be allowed to, if there's a change of heart.
On this note; if my partner and I have a child through surrogacy (both my egg and his sperm are used), if he decides to leave, he doesn't have to pay child support like wtf? Why does it matter how the child was "conceived"?

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Saw this interesting question on Twitter, so I'll pose it to you guys: should a surrogate mother be allowed to refuse an abortion if the parents change their minds regarding children? Why or why not?

RoleplayGateway’s Profile PhotoRoleplay Gateway
--Out of Rocky-- Ironically enough I work at a Fertility Law firm, one of the attorneys at work was interviewed on the radio about this. We also discussed this on lunch the other day, so... A gestational carrier agreement is a bounding document between the parties involved, it's reviewed by the intended parents and the surrogate and both parties agree to what's written. In this particular case the section when the IPs state the surrogacy needs to get a reduction in case of a multiple pregnancy was not very clear. Now, the surrogate has all her right to refuse if she believes and its proven it will cause her irremediably damage, that would avoid the breach of contract but, if the surrogate doesn't have a valuable reason ( I know this makes me sound horrible, but it's the law) she will be in breach of her contract and will no longer receive her compensation. As you see, it's very complex and it's not an easy situation and I'm sure it's very hard for the IPs as well for the surrogate.

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Interesting question I just encountered on Twitter, so I'll pose it to you guys: Should a surrogate mother be allowed to refuse an abortion if the parents change their minds regarding having children? Why/why not?

Well, once the adoptive parents change their mind, then the baby inside is hers to decide what to do with.
However, that's a dumb decision by the adoptive parents... you should've thought it through more.... plus you've wasted an insane amount of money in order to say "oopsie, we changed our mind."
"In general, the cost for gestational surrogacy (including all agency fees, attorneys' fees, screening and surrogate fees, and medical and insurance costs) ranges from around $100,000 to $150,000, depending the program chosen."
In short:
IT'S FUCKING EXPENSIVE TO GO THROUGH SURROGACY.
I also feel super bad for people who can't conceive naturally.
The cost of a natural pregnancy is a working penis and a working vagina. $0 compared to $100,000+

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Didn't you post months ago that you were being a surrogate for someone in February? It's amazing you doing this for a family who can't do this on their own! You are truly a blessing, Caitlin! You are the most thoughtful person ever and I bet the couple whom you are doing this for is so thankful! 💕

caitlin_whalen13’s Profile PhotoCaitlin
Yes the family decided not to go with surrogacy that I was going to carry the baby for so I'm back up on the surrogacy website

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- asking is that we should probably look at where this is leading . How far is it ethical to go - we already have exploitation, as discussed earlier, of third world women etc This stuff is always pushed aside for happy IVF pics in Women's Weekly. Anyway, thanks for your comments.

It's unethical for a woman to be forced into pregnancy/birth altogether. Doesn't matter if it's accidental pregnancy, rape, partner abuse or commercial surrogacy exploitation.
Society places a lot of the value of women on being mothers, so it's totally understandable that women are often devastated and desperate when they're unable to have kids.
I'm also all for magazines helping to normalize IVF families.

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Females - Would you ever consider being a surrogate? Males - Would you ever let your wife/girlfriend become a surrogate? What is your opinion on surrogacy? If you don't know what it is, please look it up.

daily_questionss’s Profile PhotoDaily Questions✨
I was just talking about this yesterday.
I don't think I could be one. I would create a bond with the baby and would have a really hard time giving it back to the people I was doing this for. It would be an emotional roller coaster for me after giving the baby back.
I think surrogacy is great for people that can't carry a baby through pregnancy but could still conceive.

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(stealing this question from Quorra) How would life and society change if men were able to get pregnant? Have a nice day, nice people!

Well then it'll be easier for men, or same sex couples in particular to have kids.
They will have one more option to have kids other than just through adoption or surrogate program. And a bonus point is they dont have to undergo some set of bureaucracy process, which btw god only knows how complicated, tiring, and long that shit could get.
But the thought of surrogacy itself is cray cray here in this country let alone the idea of a pregnant guy walking down the street.

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