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Have you ever had Christmas calendars? What kinds then? 🎄🗓️🍫

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Of course! 😁👍 The 6th of December we celebrate Saint Nicolaus here and we gift sweets each other, chocolate kalendars too. 🤩 I have already prepared them for my children 🍫🍫and some other sweets for my husband and my parents ❤️💟💟😃
Have you ever had Christmas calendars What kinds then

قبل ان ترحل عنك سترتب امورها في الخفاء مع رجل آخر 😂

Men should be worried when their partner suddenly stops arguing/getting jealous or becomes quiet and peaceful for "no apparent reason" with them.
Men take it as a sign that things are going great in the relationship, but for most women, it's a sign that she's already checking out.

if you're a parent, do you think parenthood changed you?

Absolutely. I don't think it's possible to be a parent and have it not change you in some way. Parenting involves change and sacrifice, you aren't the main focus anymore, the child is. Every decision is now made around them, your lifestyle now moves to accommodate them, your priority is and always will be them

Why does a bus stop to let people off early at certain bus stop with 3 bus stands close by to each other but won't let people on bus until bus is further down road?

If there’s a load of traffic and it would be quicker for the people who want to get off to walk, why not let them off? Some drivers also know where some patrons live or maybe they’re elderly so they do a nice thing and let them get off closer to home. They can’t really pick people up away from a stop because they’re not allowed to stop at random places unless otherwise instructed. But you can’t hold someone on a bus if they want to get off

How to come out of an endless cycle of depressing thoughts?

Through prayers, patience and constant hardwork. Get busy to the extent where you don't have any time for negative stuff. Start focusing on yourself, your life, your pending goals and become a go-getter. Avoid negative people and spend your leisure time with your loved ones and often share positive stories with them. You can also keep a journal, write a short summary of how blessed your day was and what goals you accomplished in a day. Last, but not the least, try waking up early in the morning and get 8 hour sleep at night. Start eating healthy food, avoid caffeine and junk.

What if you are your best self with someone but your worst when you lose them? How to find yourself again?

Don't be an emotional person who is affected by others; that will hurt you. Instead, give what you receive from others. You have to motivate yourself to be the best version of yourself
You will learn from experience

Czy jest jakieś miast w Europie które chcesz odwiedzić? Dlaczego, akurat to?

dominikaR20’s Profile Photoஐwrazliwaஐ
PL: Tak, Francja i Włochy.
Francja fascynowała mnie od dzieciaka, zawsze chciałam umieć francuski i zobaczyć kilka miejsc we Francji na żywo.
Włochami zainteresowałam się właściwie dość niedawno, za to jest to naprawdę piękny kraj, a włoski jest cudownym językiem, który chciałabym umieć.
Co najśmieszniejsze, mam na telefonie aplikacje do nauki francuskiego i włoskiego.
Myślicie, że z nich korzystam?
ENG: Yes, France and Italy.
France has fascinated me since I was a child, I always wanted to know French and see several places in France by my own.
I became interested in Italy quite recently, but it's a really beautiful country, and Italian is a wonderful language that I would like to know.
The funny thing is, I have French and Italian learning apps on my phone.
Do you think I use them?

What if you are your best self with someone but your worst when you lose them? How to find yourself again?

If I was my best self with somebody else, then they were showing me that I am lacking something within myself. I wouldn't say I'm worst without them — I would accept the fact that I am grieving a loss because I am. I would look back upon the relationship and try to pinpoint what it was that they fueled so I could learn to love myself better. You should never depend on your partner for your happiness because you're always going to be lonely in the end. They can make you happy but they can't make you happy. You have to learn how to love yourself, and I mean genuinely love and accept yourself because you're not perfect, and that's ok.

It's been 2 years my relationship has ended. She left me for another guy.. I can't stop thinking about her. I want to let go but her memories haunt me. How do I move on and forget her?

Get yourself busy in things you enjoy and build your own portfolio. You might miss them but after a while there’s nothing more enjoyable than focusing on u 🌻

You cannot tell nobody not to say anything on your post because this is a public app and we can comment on whatever we feel like commenting on and you cannot stop that.

Did I say to anyone to not post anything? Nope. There are some here that like to say certain things that they know I won’t like. But they like to keep coming back trying to be otherwise friendly. I can and will warn them to cut it out or else they will be ignored. How about mind your own business?

Now I'm wondering because of your answer.. if someone is kind to you because they want to gain your love and appreciation.. does that make them selfish or less sincere?

Lana_G_Hadeed’s Profile PhotoLana
Consistency of kindness is the key to this one, a single act of kindness doesn’t isn’t going to gain anyone’s love but it will gain appreciation but in any case neither are really necessarily related to sincerity or appreciation

at this point i dont want a bf i just want someone to listen to my daily rant

If someone doesn't want to talk to you, don't insist. Keep your emotions in check and don't beg for attention, love, or care. Anything forced doesn't last. Don't break yourself for temporary gain. Stay strong for your mental and emotional well-being. You're a good person, but you might be trying to prove it to the wrong people. The right ones won't make you beg. People neglect because you're no longer useful to them or they don't want you in their life. Remember that and value your sanity. Don't ignore red flags, it'll hurt more if you continue.

how soon before Christmas Day do y’all put your Christmas Tree up?

danniee2’s Profile PhotoDanniee
Mine will be going up on the 15th.
I tend to wait for my brother to come home for Christmas. It's always been a tradition to decorate the trees together. He's coming home on the 14th, so we'll decorate them on the 15th as I am working the weekend following.
how soon before Christmas Day do yall put your Christmas Tree up

If you celebrate/decorate for Christmas: Do you have any ornaments or decorations that hold sentimental value? Like one’s you’ve made, had since childhood, passed down in your family, etc? If you wish, maybe pap of them?🎄🌟

anonamouse89887’s Profile Photoanonamouse
I have a tiny Santa candle that I don’t light that I’ve had since the mid 1970s which was a gift from a friend.

من هم طيبوا القلب والأنقياء ؟

lioooOooon’s Profile Photoنجمة ⋆
I think just being kindhearted is overrated.. it's actually not that hard to be so.. just be nice considerate and don't be the aggressor in a situation.. but being good and righteous could take more than that.. sometimes it takes a lot of bravery and sacrifice.. the "nice person" might be a coward who wouldn't stand up for his family and friends and the not so nice person might be ready to die for them

Why do people not mention they’re asking a hypothetical question and expect people to understand/know that from the start?

If it’s a shoutout it should always be considered hypothetical. But a lot of people are not very smart or like to answer as if it means something specific which is fine really if it helps them express things. I personally have a hard time doing that but once in a while it just happens.

Someone told me lately the thing you are doing isn't right ethically, my reply was I'd rather be a bad one in the story! Just thinking how toxic was that if I did that for my mental peace 🙄

aleena_kamran1’s Profile Photoبھٹک رہی ہوں-
Every time you get hurt keeps making you a little dead & heartless just to protect yourself, it's human nature mostly but then you get to the point where you prioritise hurting others for the sake of your peace but the problem is, if there is any good left in you, you still feel guilty & know that you shouldn't have done that & hence another torment begins...
Such a person may want to turn to Allah for help, read the Quran with translation & hadiths... Then they see that cold-heartedness is a curse & not a good thing & then if they keep praying, Insha'Allah Allah will bless them with the peace of the heart & mind...

Hello everyone I’m lonely I wish I was pretty and that guys liked me

Same. But these days, I don’t make time for guys or even take them into consideration if they don’t make time for me. Whether or not they’ll eventually come around and act like they care is up to them 🤷🏻‍♀️

⚠️ Stop dating broke men. Stop helping struggling men. Stop loving men at their lowest. Stop feeling pity for men who can’t make a living for themselves. Men NEVER look back after finding themselves. Because at the end of the day. While you’re pouring love and care into him, he’s only draining you

-If this a woman writing this and not just to trigger reactions…-
I hear you, it’s better to be with someone who can take care of you and is stable especially financially. Just hope that man sees that you’re worth being his woman and what comes with that. Wanting a “ready made product” can come with rules that you might not like. And if she finds a man like that, then it’s up to her to prove she’s worth all of that.
As long as a good man has ambition and has a plan and puts it into motion, he won’t always be broke and struggling. It might be a while, but if they work at it and let YAH help guide them it’ll happen. A woman who sticks thru it with him on his grind will be rewarded tremendously once he gets there. I’ve seen in my family and my peers, they stuck it through with their men and don’t have to worry about anything because they’re were in the mud with them. It’s a beautiful thing!
And to the men who see this post(rather 18+ or younger), rather this is a troll post or not, there are women who think like this and they’re right in a sense. More reason for you to get your weight up and do what you gotta to make your goals and dreams happen. It can be rough and feel pointless and might even feel lonely, but you can do it! And if you have a woman (or women, whoever holds you down) who helped you and stuck by your side through it, treat her well. It seems to be rare today to find that. They’re a needle in a haystack but they’re out here
And should you be look down or passed over due to where you are now, know that it’s not temporary but it’s all up to you. And if/when you make to the top or elevate (whatever that looks like to you), and I say this with love.. you don’t have to fully dedicated to ANY woman once you get there and enjoy the fruits of your labor. Think about it, if women who think like this won’t be there at lowest, and only when you’re glowing, she’ll more than likely dip out once she gets a feeling that you might have a downfall. I’d say don’t deal with chicks like that but that’s one of the reasons chicks that operate like this get used for “recreation” and not seen as serious(with exceptions of course). Sad truths, but don’t let this fuck with you. You’re a human with a soul and essential to the society and life. You’re not a utility. Good luck out there and God bless!
TLDR: Women are right to think like this and not wanting a dude whose not up now, especially if she gives them a chance and it doesn’t work. But don’t let that get you down, there’s women who will work with you and see past that if they believe in you. Treat her like a queen so long as she holds you down and if she leaves and/women look over you or don’t acknowledge you… when you’re up move how you think/want to out here. Some of these chicks are finish line straggs/slores and they still out there doing them til you make it happen, go about that how you will. All this means is you really are the prize (in this way of thinking).
Have a good day everyone!

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Stop dating broke men Stop helping struggling men Stop loving men at their

Your ASKs are great 👏🏽

McDoquinha’s Profile PhotoJoão Henrique
Thanks, my friend <3 I really mean it. You guys are the truly great people around here. Maybe one day I will come back and do the jokes again. But I don't know. This app is like living in Fucking North Korea. I'm surprised they haven't sent any nuclear bombs already. Maybe they did. I used a lot of Indian IP addresses back then when I streamed Hindi series, so maybe they sent them over there instead 😬😬😬 Does anyone know if India is still a thing?

Men annoy because they are so rude and stupid.

anonstar845b’s Profile PhotoA.E.
I don't agree with you. Yes, there are such shots, but it's not worth rowing everyone under the same comb. There are women who are rude and stupid, but not all of them either.
Men annoy because they are so rude and stupid

Why are most men nowadays never honest about their intentions when it comes to women and what they really want from them?

It seems like it’s been this way for quite some time, since I myself am dealing with this at the moment and have been dealing with this for a few years now. I always get mixed signals from guys rather than having them directly tell me whether or not they want to pursue me romantically, be friends or want nothing to do with me whatsoever. I’ve had a guy compliment me a lot and even asked if I’d ever date him but when he found out that I liked him as more than a friend, he immediately rejected me. I’ve also been interested in someone else after him but he was only trying to initiate eye contact with me when he’d see me around but would never actually talk to me yet wouldn’t have an issue with talking to other girls so I never knew what he wanted. I guess it might be because they’re either players, they genuinely don’t know what they want or they’re not interested but are afraid of admitting that to the person for their own reasons.

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الشهر نهايته بكرا وفيه ولاد مدفعوش فلوس الدرس ومتنحين وانا مكسوفة أطالبهم لان أهلهم بيشوفوني ف الشارع مع العلم ان حالتهم المادية كويسة جدا وفلوس الدرس مبلغ رمزي اصلا،!

Just a little reminder won't do any harm, just tell them kids the month is ending today so don't forget to bring the money with you next time

What do you do with someone who doesn't resect your wishes?

LuxuryChosenFive’s Profile PhotoLuxuryChosenFive
That sounds like ASKfm admin ~ most disrespectful entity on our planet
Reboot them .
Does this person , organisation have an obligation to do as you wish ?
Have you paid for a service ? ~ entered into an agreement , or such ?
Perhaps lodge a formal complaint . . . .
Take them back to where you found them ; invite them to jump . . . . . .
What do you do with someone who doesnt resect your wishes

So have you found a job yet? Or are you still looking for it? And also, is it normal to know nothing about alot of things? For example, I know literally nothing about which field i wanna pursue or even if I ever wanna do FCPS.

I still do not even know a lot of things about my field. Jitna logon ko knowledge hota utna blkl nae. But that won't stop me from getting what I want and it never has before. Mein abhi 6 mahinay pehlay FCPS krna chahta tha and now PLAB. So, do not be worried, ask your seniours about the different options and learn about them in detail yourselves. You'll do just fine trust me.

What makes a person fake?

They smile when they see you but then block you out of nowhere on social media when they don’t see you anymore, when they can’t get their lies straight, showing empathy but being quick to disregard your feelings, and they’re only around when it’s convenient for them and they need a favor from you but they aren’t willing to return the favor when/if you ask.

Why do gatekeepers gatekeeper?

They most likely don’t want others imitating them so they keep their fashion choices (such as the brands they wear or what they do to physically stay in great shape) private as well as the other aspects of their life private as well.

I feel like I’m bored of everything I currently have done. What do you think I should do? I know something new. What specifically?

I’m feeling the same way these days, as if there’s no purpose to what I’m doing because I’ve been doing the same thing for years now. I want to experience life rather than always talking about it but hardly ever taking action. I want to find friends I can talk to regularly that I also see in person from time to time again. Writing out my thoughts and talking about them is satisfying but it does get old after a certain point except the only problem is, if I don’t read/write, what else do I have in my life?

❛Cisne salvaje❜. ─ William Butler Yeats,

The trees are in their autumn beauty,
The woodland paths are dry,
Under the October twilight the water
Mirrors a still sky;
Upon the brimming water among the stones
Are nine-and-fifty swans.
The nineteenth autumn has come upon me
Since I first made my count;
I saw, before I had well finished,
All suddenly mount
And scatter wheeling in great broken rings
Upon their clamorous wings.
I have looked upon those brilliant creatures,
And now my heart is sore.
All's changed since I, hearing at twilight,
The first time on this shore,
The bell-beat of their wings above my head,
Trod with a lighter tread.
Unwearied still, lover by lover,
They paddle in the cold
Companionable streams or climb the air;
Their hearts have not grown old;
Passion or conquest, wander where they will,
Attend upon them still.
But now they drift on the still water,
Mysterious, beautiful;
Among what rushes will they build,
By what lake's edge or pool
Delight men's eyes when I awake some day
To find they have flown away?
Source: The Collected Poems of W. B. Yeats (1989).

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Cisne salvaje  William Butler Yeats

1 thing you like and 1 thing you dislike about your job? I like that I work from home, and it's flexible. It doesn't even feel like working; I spend half of the time doing household chores in the meantime. However, I dislike not having in-person interaction. It feels robotic, non-human in a way.

I like the customers; I’d say about 70% if not more are regulars, and most of them are really lovely (they all are, I mean the ones that particularly engage with us beyond ordering a coffee). There’s a lot of folk that come in with their doggos, which always makes my day!
I don’t like the drama and politics, but thankfully that comes in waves, and I do my absolute best to stay well out of it. Aside from that, the 4:30am starts are rather saddening 😆

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