#volunteer

Do you have evidence?
Can you prove what you are saying is the truth?
Do you have:
- accurate account information and reliable user account identification?
- digital foot print i.e. source ip address or source mac address?
- photographs and text messages that can be used in a court of law?
- what international law has been violated?

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Remember, various countries have implemented legal measures to address these types of issues within the confines of their sovereign nations, but the international community has not codified into law impersonation involving fake askfm accounts unless a serious crime that involves death or extortion has been committed. Also consider that the burden of proof is the responsibility of the plaintiff and their lawyers and all associated legal fees are the responsibility of the plaintiff. These fee's can easily reach in excess of $100k.

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I recall reading a similar story a few years ago that took place in Madrid, Spain. The plaintiff went to the police in Madrid and attempted to file a criminal complaint against an askfm user located in Canada. The case was dismissed because the source ip address of the accused was located in Germany and did not match the digital footprint that the alleged victim had provided to the police.

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Keep in mind that proving cases like this is extremely difficult because local police lack the resources required to conduct a proper forensic investigation and international laws are either vague or do not currently exist to cover cases involving fraudulent accounts, name calling, insults, racism, etc. on social networks such as askfm, tumblr, twitter, etc.

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But hey, if you have $20,000+ dollars to waste on legal fees, why not proceed so you can learn how the legal system operates and perhaps you can become an advocate to champion the necessary changes to affect international law to prosecute askfm users who roleplay, create fake accounts and utilize your photographs without explicit permission.

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Conclusion:

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Perhaps you might avoid these situations if you stop posting personal information on social networks or maybe even consider disabling your askfm, instagram, twitter and facebook accounts and do something more productive with your life like: graduating from college, obtain a job, volunteer are a homeless kitchen, adopt a child or (heaven forbid) help a neighbor or friend or family member who is suffering and needs help.
Good Luck!

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Meanwhile, fish...I'm getting better but oh man the fish are the hardest I think aside from the one that jumped out of the tank a couple months ago I think at least one of mine is close to 1-2 years old I'm not a good fish mom but I'm getting better.

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Last year, I went to volunteer at an animal shelter because I was still feeling suicidal, this poor sad dog had been brought there twice because of health issues, I can afford to give him the life he deserves, he needs me...a few months after bringing him home I began to need less medication and now we take care of each other, and we both love my boyfriend too. New dove...ok now a tragedy, I was adjusting a perch in the cage, both doves got out, the first dove knows I've got her so she just waits on top of the cage and lets me put her back. The other one was less tame, she fled from me in the panic and got behind the dining table and she was tired and fell down and the dog got her before I could. He's a terrier it wasn't his fault. My boyfriend told me it was an accident don't blame myself. She died in my hand. The surviving dove was cooing all night for a week, my dog was upset because I was upset, but when my boyfriend saw for himself my bird was grieving we went and picked out a new mate for her. And they are very happy together. The new one is not tame but the first one still loves pets from me when I reach in with my arm, they do not get out ever when the dog is loose, and I always put them in their carrier when I work on the cage and I will never let that happen again. Two cats, a pair of sisters just over a year old. I got them not quite three weeks ago when I went to one of the local rescues to “look” because I had just lost my 12 year old ginger kitty and my apartment was as dismal as a tomb. I had already sorted of rejected this pair based on their online pictures and profiles, but when they reached out through their cage as I walked past I couldn’t resist them. Found out later they had never had a home, they grew up in foster and spent their entire lives in rescues and foster homes except for one week when someone adopted then returned them because she “couldn’t cope” with them. They are super sweet and well behaved (for cats) and playful which is just what I needed after losing my previous cat so unexpectedly.
I had a Shi-tsu (dunno how to spell that.) that we got from a local in our town when I was roughly 11 years old. Loved him dearly for almost 14-15 years before he died from something we couldn't figure out. (there's no vets in my area, and we were VERY tight on money, so sadly, we couldn't get him the help he needed; he had a bad leg so we assume he passed from infection.)
Cat 2 - Friend asked if I wanted a kitten, I said maybe. Ended up seeing her, she has two hearts on her fur and ended up taking her because the people were going to drown her and the rest of the litter, after they decided kittens were just too much. She was a week and a half at the time.

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Is it possible for you to do unpaid internships or volunteer work in a field you find interesting during your free time? That way you'll have an idea if that new line of work is so something that suits you before you quit your current job. An alternative is to see your job as a means to finance your passions that actually make you feel alive so you don't try to find inspiration in work that will never be inspiring. You can also talk to your manager to get a more challenging position. Lots of options here but the most important thing to remember is to not quit your current job without a new one, and to not start a new job without an emergency fund. That's actually an objective that might inspire you. Use your good pay to accumulate savings enough for an emergency fund (1-2 years' expenses) and even basic investments. I have an easy job that pays well. I don't see work as a source of inspiration or feeling alive. Instead I use the easy work to make space for my creative passions and the pay to finance my hobbies, my comfortable life, and to secure my savings and retirement. It's not for everyone, especially if you need to be inspired by your job. But it's a good spot to be in and you'll appreciate this when you find an inspiring job that is hard and pays little.

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Most megnéztem, milyen csatornákra vagyok feliratkozva.
Ezt valahogy 2012 óta hoztam össze:

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Krzysztof Utbult - Kevésbé ismert darkwave bandák népszerűsítése
thesalukie - csávó, aki háborús övezetekben mászkál hátizsákos turistaként.
Corey Gil-Shuster - Ez ilyen kérdezős projekt, néha érdekes témák is vannak (de csak néha)
Jreg - politikai trash
Bailey Sarian - tömeggyilkosos sztorik és smink
Ideológiák tárháza - az szerintem elég egyértelmű, hogy miről szól
varlamov - Ilyen városjárós trash.
Lazy Square - animációs trash
apetor - na, ő mondjuk már meghalt, mert beszakadt a jég alatta. Rip :( Nekem szimpatikus volt
laczfy87 - Nem éppen magas színvonalt képviselő amatőr "zenészek" összeszedése az internetről, és a szövegeik elemzése :D
Ezen kívül:
- Gitáros oktató csatorna (3 éve nem volt gitár a kezemben)
- Zongorás oktatás csatorna (10 éve nem ültem zongorához, de el akarom kezdeni újra, úgyhogy ide legalább nem fölöslegesen iratkoztam fel)
- Néhány profil, akiknek valahol belefutottam valami videójába, amin jót röhögtem, aztán bekövettem őket, hogy hátha lesz még ilyen kontent
- Néhány volunteer battalion a Donyec- medencéből. Évek óta nincs kontent egyiken sem btw xd
- Néhány jobbféle amatőr zenész, akiknek szeretnék értesülni a próbálkozásaikról, úgyhogy bekövettem őket
- Néhány ismerős, akik bekövettek, én meg visszakövettem őket
És még egy rakás ember, akikről tényleg halványlila fingom nincs, hogy kik

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Ezekre csak úgy fel vagyok iratkozva, mert valamikor érdekelhettek (?), de amúgy nem vagyok otthon ebben a Youtuber témában, mert inkább csak zenehallgatásra használom a platformot.
Magyar youtubereket kb nem is ismerek. Max akkor lesek rá, hogy mégis ki a fenéről van szó, ha valami botrány van :D

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Egyébként az ilyen olcsó turistáskodás meg a félnomád életmód érdekel, úgyhogy ha videókat akarok nézni, többnyire ilyesmikre keresek rá :D

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I am a clever, no-nonsense prince with a heart of gold and nerves of steel. Gorgeous, brilliant, and with a heart of gold. I'm the lonely cafeteria guy who mows lawns and has a heart of gold.
Anyway, beneath that too-smooth exterior beats a heart of gold... I think. I have a rough exterior but a heart of gold. I may look rough but I have a heart of gold. I have a heart of gold and an infectious personality.
With a heart of gold and the soul of a child, I have an innate sense of beauty and an immoderate appetite for life. He may be the most muddleheaded man, and people may laugh at him, but he has a heart of gold. I am shy, and soft-spoken. She's so self-assured she might come across as tough, but she has a heart of gold. A long-time volunteer, she's participated in a variety of charitable causes, particularly those devoted to children. I am a man of action. She was also a sentimental woman. "We know she had a heart of gold; she was generous," says Gregory Munro. Wherever she went, she never hesitated to take care of poor people and sick children.
He had a heart of gold, a cheerful character, always glad to be of service and to make others happy. He was an excellent confrere and earned the esteem and affection of everybody, but especially of the young people. I've got a heart of gold and a body to match.
I'm a problem solver and I have a heart of gold.
I don't enjoy small talk, gossip/drama, etc.
Introverted who gets attached too soon and also self sympathetic all the time. I was a pessimist, but I transformed into an optimist in my prime.
Superman, King of All, Best Looking, somewhat delusional.
Dramatic, reckless, sensitive, misunderstood, wild, desperate for love, insecure yet confident, and the list goes on.
Blind to how many women were into him because he believed the many people at his high school that treated him like he was childish, inept, incompetent and stupid. Played football, had a steady girlfriend by the end of his year, and only here began to learn that everyone is stupid, he is the smartest person at the school (quite literally), and that the guys who bullied him only did so because they felt threatened, jealous, and envious of his ease with understanding tough material, his athleticism, and his unfiltered ability to engage with women in public and have them enjoy the conversation. Very popular. I was class clown and biggest rebel at the small private school. I convinced a bunch of people to bring water balloons for field day and we went nuts. Principal came up to me later and said “do you know what nonchalant means? That’s who you are and walked away. “ I got suspended for 3 days. He knew I had more power over the students. Skipped a lot of school so didn’t have good grades. Drove at age 14 and clubbing at 16 using fake ID. Just all around bad.

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Couldn't have said it better, life is just too painful to bear. It's been 5 years since I last went out with someone and of course I hear the usual platitudes of "It's your personality that matters" and that kind of stuff, which has proven to be ineffectual even in the college years. Most people cannot comprehend what being FA entails, so they cannot understand the deep-seeded issues that effect our personalities, health, and other factors. It just hurts too much that the platitudes you hear being contradicted throughout moments of your life and knowing that lowlifes who never put any effort to life get to reap the benefits of life's joys & wonders.
I fell asleep staring at the DNP pills I was going to take. I'll be 48 in a few months, and there are sixth graders with more relationship experience than I have. All I ever wanted was one chance. One fucking chance. Oh, sure, I'd botch it up and I'd be alone after that, but I could cling to the fact that I was given one chance and that someone actually claimed to love me. It probably wouldn't be enough, but I'm desperate enough to dream that it would be enough acceptance to start being able to lie to myself about being a good person and worthy and deserving of love. But I'm not human enough to even qualify for that kind of success before rejection.
All I have is music, and I'm evidently not good enough at it to pay the bills. Online, people will say to "get up and do this, go here, play here, write this, get his famous musician to record your work, perform there, just go and do it" like it's some magical thing that you can just walk up while in a funk and play in some famous hall perfectly or have some famous person give you clout with your music. I don't have the desire to practice or write anymore. Life is too much work, and when you're alone and have no one to share the joys and troubles with, it's just not worth it. I am weary and ready for it to be over. I think I'm going to sell or dispose of everything I own so that I'll die in an empty room. It's not much: a barely-running minivan, two electronic pianos, music textbooks, cables and microphones, printers and cheap computers. A few pots and pans from years when I was able to afford a place with a kitchen. A microwave. Clothes and bedsheets and towels. I don't think there is any happiness or success that would be able to negate all the bad that has happened. No one is guaranteed happiness; we are all guaranteed pain and suffering. It's like telling someone who has gambled away $20,000,000 to keep pulling the slot machine handle because there's a chance they might get a $300,000 jackpot a few years away.
I deserve all the bad things that have happened to me. They are all my responsibility. And because of that, no one is going to volunteer to help me undo them or make things right. That's too much energy for someone else, and I'm not valuable enough for someone to spend that time, money, and energy. Besides, some things can't be made right.

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March - May 2017 I plan on traveling to a few countries in Asia (I haven't decided which ones yet), and August/September 2017 I will do South America for a year, or until I run out of money (giving myself a $10,000 - $15,000 budget). I'm starting to do research now, figuring out what there is to see and do in each country, what path I want to take, transportation, volunteer and couch surfing opportunities, etc. The last two trips I took were to Thailand and Japan, and I started planning 1 month and 3 months in advanced, respectively. Once I'm in country, I tend to be more relaxed and have a go with the flow attitude, but I do like to have a general idea of where I'm going, staying, and how I'm getting around. I'm just curious, for those that like to plan ahead, how far in advance do you do it? And what kinds of things do you usually plan/research as your trip approaches. Since my trip is so far away, what do you suggest I get started on? Researching and planning always tends to be a bit overwhelming, especially if it's to a place I've never been before. In addition, the moment I book tickets somewhere, I will be on the lookout, and add to that doc. If anything needs arranging meeting up with people, I will do that about a month in advance, then a follow-up 2 weeks in advance. Anything else is flexible and can be done a week before departure.
For this trip I knew which area I wanted to go to, so I made a very rough itinerary of how many days I wanted in each place before I booked the flights to make sure I would have enough time. That plan has been altered slightly. Otherwise I start looking at accomodation and start checking out wikivoyage and other resources. I bought the Lonely Planet guides on sale and got a hard copy and a pdf copy, so will take the pdf copy with me. For example, I have made the decision that I am going to travel to Guatemala this fall. I don't have flights or anything booked but I have begun doing some research and am in the very early planning stages.
Even though I do detailed and extensive research and planning, I am like you in that I am more relaxed once I get to my destination and I don't follow my itinerary to a tee. I leave room for spontaneity and exploration and relaxation.
I bought a ticket to NZ 8 days ahead of time and booked a rental car and the first night hotel. After that I just drove around goin wherever I wanted for 16 days. The only time it bit me in the ass was I didn't realize Easter weekend meant everyone in NZ goes and buys all the hotel rooms and I ended up having to pay like $200 for a room one night.
I tend to research flights, accommodation, any large transport expenses (intercity trains, etc) and visa requirements well in advance, since I like to get all that stuff locked down early. I might do some brief research on fun things to do there, but I usually don't bother much with that until I'm actually there.

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First and foremost, I am an optimist. I feel I have to be. There are plenty of people dragging eachother down with negativity, I do not feel the need or the right to add to it. This is something I would imagine that some people find as my refusal to see how things really are. On the contrary to this opinion, I see things with a suprising amount of clarity and it is for that reason that I HAVE to be optimistic about the future. If I lose my optimism, than I will lose my drive to work for the benefit of myself and others. I will no longer work for the greater good and will lose motivation to better myself. I find this notion really quite distasteful. I think I have a decent grasp. I'm introverted, dominant, funny, analytical. This is in layman terms. To scientifically understand personality a trait theory like the big 5 is useful. I don't recommend taking the MBTI very seriously, if you talk to a good psychologist they can explain why.
I am smart. Not a genius or anything like that, but enough brains to offset my flaws and have a good quality life and career with a reasonable effort. I guess I am actually really pretty smart. I am a huge volunteer. I give way too much of my time to volunteer activities, especially in and about the sport of figure skating. Keeping myself busy keeps me from angsting about my flaws. I am an outdoorsman. I spend every weekend somewhere invariably getting soaking wet. Being close to hyperthermic most weekends has a way of deflecting my thoughts from my flaws.
I'm particularly honest, unselfish, trustworthy and often have quiet dispositions. I'm known to keep a low profile. I'm also loyal, honest and intelligent. I'm easygoing and make natural friendships. Sometimes I'm easily cheated or decieved and I am prone to sloth and laziness. I'm often quite artistic, poetic or both! What I really like most about myself is how much I deeply care about others. Believe it or not, I have a very good heart. Even though some people are never there for me, I've always been there for other people because that's what a (good) human being does. As a little girl, I would feel guilty when I felt a negative feeling toward another person. It would make me feel so uncomfortable and confused. I wanted so much to stop and control bad feelings. In my little mind those kind of feelings were bad so of course I must be bad. As I got older, I realized the “what” about feelings but I just couldn’t explain “why”. And that’s the reason I fell in love with words. Words afforded me a mode of expression. So, I would search for clarity by writing about my feelings to embrace them and try to understand… and right up to this moment I’m still doing just that. I love to learn and create, but I’m very introverted, preferring my cats company to others. I love nature, music and beautiful things. People have told me all my life I am physically beautiful, but I feel as if it’s more important to be a beautiful person inside.

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What are some useful tactics/ways to get a Scorpio man to open up emotionally?
I've been seeing this Scorpio (Gemini rising, Libra moon, Virgo Venus) for 6 months now. We are seeing each other exclusively but aren't calling it a relationship. He's said that he's happy with keeping it casual (How is it casual if we're not seeing other people?). He's admitted that he's not exactly the most expressive person and that it isn't easy for him to talk about feelings etc. and to top it all, he's never been in a relationship through no fault of his own. I understand that. However, I'm slowly running out of patience. I've been doing my best to be accepting, to be there for him, and to not judge but I just need some reassurance now that he's not going to wake up one day and decide to leave. I can feel that he likes me and has said that he cares about me a lot but I can also feel that he's not letting me see it all. So I've been thinking of talking to him about it directly (in a nice and gentle way) but what are some ways in which I can make him feel that is safe to talk to me? I'm hopelessly stuck on a Scorpio guy. We aren't a couple but we talk frequently. I feel like I've shared a lot about myself to him, but he's not very talkative about himself. There are a couple things he'll share about readily (work, food, movies, music) but there's still so much I don't know about him. But he keeps texting me, and he says he likes talking to me, and he's said he doesn't mind if I talk more than him, so I guess I haven't scared him away? I know Scorpios are reputed to be private, so I'm afraid if I ask him too many personal questions he's going to feel interrogated and just stay closed up. But I also feel afraid that I talk so much about myself that I seem self-centered. I'm used to being around people who jump in and volunteer information about themselves much more readily, and I really don't know how to interact with someone who seems content to just let me chatter away. I just feel like I'm laying my soul out for him and getting not a whole lot of vulnerability in return. Is it just a matter of waiting until he feels more comfortable? Should I ask more questions? What do I do? How can you make a Scorpio guy fall in love with you? What are some things you should and shouldn’t do to get and keep a Scorpio guys attention? How do Scorpios behave when they like someone?
I can't help with the astrology part but it seems like the issues are that you are more emotionally expressive than he is, and that while you are both on the same page about not seeing other people, you're wanting a commitment that he hasn't given you yet. Is that more or less right? Looking at it from his perspective, things are probably great as they are. By "casual" he doesn't mean "non-monogamous" but he does mean taking it slow and easy. You're affectionate to him and he enjoys this connection with you.

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Wooooah, that depends entirely on the nature of each specific vacation. If we go to a beach, then there's just relaxing, snorkeling, swimming, etc. If it's a volunteer thing, then we're doing whatever is needed of us (capture, tagging, clean up, etc.). If we're visiting family, it depends on whose family we're visiting (mine - beach stuff, my bf's - ranch/ farm stuff, camping and hiking, my bro's gf- hiking and eating lol). If it's an educational trip (like DC or Krakow), then we're hitting museums. If they're extended trips (a month or longer), then we just pretty much take our time exploring the area, seeing what it's like for residents. Mostly it's about getting away and experiencing something new.

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And sometimes it's about dragging your poor boyfriend to the temple of Poseidon to pray he turn you into a mermaid 🧜‍♀️

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Nothing, you’re supposed to be who you were supposed to be when you were born. I’m weird, I’m quirky and I’m so caring. And I find things to bring home when I really shouldn’t, things that need help, or love. Yes I have three biological children (Lizzie, Logan and Lexi), but I have six other children that I fostered. I also in my twenties took in a ton of animals over the years that needed love and a home. Then when Lizzie was transferred to a level 1 school, I went there to volunteer so I could protect Lizzie and found kids that needed some help so I took them home with me. And that’s how my husband and I have raised (or are raising) nine kids. And now we’re raising a baby duck that we think it’s mommy got eaten. And one top of the duck, we have two hermit crabs. So we’ve got our hands full.

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If they broke your heart, you must distance yourself from them.

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I am a believer in fighting for love. But if that comes with the other person intentionally hurting you, you must move on with your life. You cannot allow others to intentionally hurt you. It will become a trend that will follow you for the rest of your life.

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Find a new passion in your life. Reacquaint yourself with your positive friends. Volunteer for a local charity. Surround yourself with positive people.

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Your first step should always be, “I am a better person than how I was treated by this person. I did not deserve to be hurt. This is now my time, and I am moving on with my life.”

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Good luck to you. Most everyone has experienced the same heartbreak that you are going through right now. Do not be afraid to reach out to people for advice. People are generally good in nature. Unfortunately you got one that was not. We are here for you.

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