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I was/am too, not so much anymore that I'm doing something about it but I still have the occasional soft drink here and there but it hasn't affected my weight so far now I'm only drinking one every few days. But eat healthier/exercise and drink a lot of water, you don't have to cut everything out but do it slowly if you do. That is if you want to do something about it but I'm sure you are also beautiful the way you are now, look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful no matter what the size. Your weight is not who you are and it's not all you are. If you want try to get motivated to exercise or drink water at least once a day however that may be, for me I just do it I don't think about it or I look in the mirror and see how well I'm doing and that kinda motivates me to get back to the weight I was when I was 18 which is slowly but surely working. It is difficult to get into the right mindset and I know there are days you just want to lay around and read a book or something after a stressful day, it's more what you put into your body then exercise but it is a part of it. Whatever you decide to do remember your body isn't all you are and you are beautiful exactly the way you are

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Engage yourself in some physical activity, which gives you a feeling of refreshment and makes you feel fresh and energized.
Swimming, running, jogging, walking, gym, aerobics,yoga whatever suits your body, just do it. the key is to give at least 45 mins everyday to your body if you actually want to lose weight and build strength and stamina.

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Pick any activity you like that you can do. Do it for as long as you can comfortably do it for a few days. It should start to get easier. Then you increase the time and intensity. Gradually. There are no shortcuts. You have to do the work consistently.

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Eat in calorie deficit.
Never skip your meals.Dieting is the worst thing you can do to your body. Focus on mindful eating

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Drink lots of water. Keep yourself hydrated. Start and end your day with water everyday.

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Try to balance your food with all essential Vitamins,minerals,carbs and fats in your body.

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Avoid junk food but that doesn’t mean you keep yourself so deprived, you can have some cheat days.

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Hm for me I loved colourful stuff and quirky playful styles a lot. But I didn't have the confidence to wear it in public, as its very different to what people wear here. It also naturally makes you stand out a lot (albeit unintentionally). So I would wear colourful things and do cool makeup at home for photos but didn't wear it out in public. I wore more toned down alternative clothes.

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But one day I just got tired of filtering myself because I was worried people would judge me. So I made a new insta account (new back then, not anymore haha. It's been years) where I wore whatever the hell I wanted finally. And i started pushing my to wear it out too. Dyed my hair fun colours and all that too. I made the new account at the time, because I didn't want my real life friends on my original acc, to see it yet till I was comfortable like that in public. So kept them seperate. Then eventually over the years started adding more and more of my friends from the old account on the new one.

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I'm still casually dressed plenty times as I have multiple moods and styles. But I go out dressed how I want now. Even if it's as a human glowing popsicle for a casual walk in town.

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How shallow do you need to be to take pride in what your forefathers left? What is your contribution in your generational wealth? Nothing, I suppose. Why must you brag about what your father owns? He built it from his time, effort and sweat. Are you the kind that likes to take credit for someone else’s work? Like are you 12?
Actually hate all these guys that roam around on the cars that their Abbah jee got them like bro shut up. It’s not yours. Whatever you’ll get from your own earned money will be yours and even then bragging about stuff is so fkin shallow. If you have more, help people MORE. It’s so fkn cold outside. People don’t have a place to sleep, don’t have warm clothes to wear, don’t have food to eat but nae bhai. Who cares? Can’t waste abbah jee’s ka paisa on them. It’s only to be wasted on their nikama beta. 🤡

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Firstly, this question isn't specific as to what the girls mean to u, what's the end goal, etc. Secondly, I am no guru of anything. Not in terms of socializing, not in terms of making someone fall for u, etc.

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With that disclaimer in mind, I think that whatever the end goal is, u just have to be a friend. A simple answer, I know. But I feel like people don't really do 'be a friend' like I meant it to be. To put it into a context, this answer of mine also applies to the question "How do I find new friends?". I think if u approach with a mindset that u are a friend (a friendly individual) and that u welcome people rather than look for people to be made into friends, it's a lot easier. And, just do u. Do things. To put it in a different way, u offer something first, before u expect people to offer u anything. It makes sense in order for people to accept u, u have to have something to offer. U have to have value.

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Whatever the end goal to your question is, be it in pursuit of a potential romantic partner or whatever, it should start with friendship. I feel like it's a facade, almost pretentious, for u to approach someone and 'introduce' yourself as someone who has a certain interest in a girl. I say it seems pretentious because it's almost like telling her "U don't have to know how I am as a person to everyone or anyone else; what matters is who I am to u". To a certain degree that's kinda nice but not always the case.

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Besides, when u are yourself, just socializing with people, doing things, it can be THAT that makes certain people gravitate to u. See that as a medium, or a conversation starter. This also means that it's not just u trying to talk to people (i.e. girls), they may also want to talk to u because of who u are and what u do. That halves the effort. And, like-minded people tend to gravitate towards one another. Easier to find people who u would click with, rather than just trying your luck.

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Again, just my non-professional two cent, but I hope it helps.

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Well someone from my duuur ke rishtedar shared his story with me that he was watching match pakvsindia and it was about 12 am . He decided to go to his room which was on the roof of his house as he lives in village so he sometimes slept on roof on his "charpai" or "manji". When he went to his charpai he saw a very tall women lying on his charpai with very long hair.He came downstairs and asked his mum who is upstairs blah blah. Everyone was shocked because wo bht lmbi thi.
Wo wapis gaya onke pas guns hain wo gun leke wapis gaya tb dekha to koi ni tha chat pe or light fans on thay.They all got scared and started reciting Quran.In the mean time he saw someone coming down from stairs covered with full black hairs. As per him koi body ni dekhi ose just hands and hairs. He was about to shout whatever it was osne hath lmba kia or thapar mara ose.And then he fainted. When he regained consciousness,he had a very high fever. Oske bad ose wo dobara ni nazar ayi in the end mein yehi kehna chahrai ke ose ek churail nazar ayi thi and its a real story believe it

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Hallo lieber Tommy. Da komme ich mal wieder zu deinen Fragen. 😉 Wenn man beim Essen schmatzt, das kennt glaub ich jeder. Ich kann vieles ertragen, nur bin ich froh dass es nicht meine Angewohnheit ist. 😅👍 Kennst du Leute die mit Kaugummi schmatzen, oder Nägel kauen, oder in der Nase bohren und dann, was weiß ich was machen.... 😵
Mein Sohn hat die Angewohnheit seine Füße überall hinzulegen 😅 Da möchte man zum Tisch, liegen die Füße schon auf deinem Stuhl. Möchtest du auf die Couch, möchte er die Beine am liebsten auf deinem Kopf ablegen 🤣

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Hello dear Tommy. So I come back to your questions. 😉 If you smack your lips while eating, I think everyone knows that. I can endure a lot, but I'm glad it's not my habit. 😅👍 Do you know people who chew gum or bite their nails or pick their nose and then do whatever.... 😵
My son has the habit of putting his feet everywhere 😅 When you want to go to the table, your feet are already on your chair. If you want to go to the couch, he would like to put his legs on your head 🤣

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