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Thank you for your good attention. I admit I was wrong about this person. I've known this woman for three years. You sent a link to her, I don't want to have anything to do with her, so I'll call this lady the letter P. She had already made me sad on her previous profile. She created a new profile and apologized to me for what she had done previously. I forgave her and recommended her account to be followed so that her profile would start to prosper. I was wrong and it was my big mistake. Mrs. P started telling me that she was at the house of a certain family - Mrs. D1 and Mr. D2, a former policeman who had been expelled from the police. The man is 20 years older than the woman, which makes them look like father and daughter, not husband and wife. I told Mrs. P not to write to me about such matters because I am not interested in other people's personal affairs. Everyone arranges their lives the way they want. A few days later, I wrote to her that I was receiving many different sexual questions from the D1 account that were cluttering up my inbox and I had to delete the questions. I guessed that these were questions sent by this woman's husband, Mr. D2, on her behalf from her profile. He probably wanted to see how I would react. It no longer amused me, because I already suspected that it was the beginning of an online tragicomedy, which is often created to get readers interested in a dead profile. Such internet dramas are done to liven up the profile. I don't have time for online games, so I told Mrs. P to stop sending me such insinuations, because if she doesn't stop, I will block her. I guess it helped because I don't get that kind of information from her anymore. I apologize again for recommending this person. I unfollowed Ms. P and you do whatever you want. I don't dictate what you do with it. I just showed what the situation looks like. To apologize for recommending an irresponsible person, I have a photo of a kitten for you. Best regards and I wish you a nice and warm evening

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"Forced to sleep" sounds wrong. No one forces anyone to sleep! It's a natural process and my favourite activity!

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If I had no option but to sleep in a noisy environment, first of all- I'd become crazy. 🤪

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If you're very sleepy, you'll sleep through the world war.

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But I'm a light sleeper and often get woken up by sudden noises. I went through horrible trauma yearsss ago - sleep related.
I cried because there was nothing I could do. Headphones don't help because the situation still exists. Also, how loud are you supposed to put the music or whatever on so you can fall asleep and not hear the background noise?

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One option is no headphones, having radio or TV running in the background so it cancels noise around you as well, not only in your head. Although it depends on the situation. (I had to listen to 👉🏻👌🏻 noises, NOTHING could fix it... the disgusting sounds went through every crack and hole)

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I also know that people talking loudly is pain in the arse, when every other word sounds like a scream. 👀

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Sleep medicine. Prescription one. The best option.

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It’s a tough one. I used to be a full-time student, who used to work and hit the gym all at the same time.
But the past year has been exhausting, the gym part took the biggest hit even when I don’t have to worry about my studies anymore.

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Finding the balance, for selfcare i.e gym, working out, you have to have consistency, more than motivation. 1 din gym jaa k don’t skip 4 days. What I did is just pay 3 months of your gym fees in advance, phir to apke daddy bhi jayen ge hxhx.

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Regarding the personal life, you have to spend atleast 1 hours talking with your family. Its the best therapy one can have. Think of it as they need someone to talk as well, so do it for them. There are weekends as well, have chai with your boys, talk shit/business or whatever you want to. Sometimes you wont like going out, but trust me its worth it. 22-27 is the age of saying goodbyes. Most of my friends are leaving and we’re all scared. The best moments of my life has been with them, all we can do is maximise whatever we have left.

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Yes, work is important, but so is your mental health. Paharon me jaa k thora time guzaro, sb yaheen rehe jana he.

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Thankyou.

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Yes. I can vouch on this. Whatever you ask for, either you get it after some time, or you get an alternate for that, which is a thousand times better than what you were asking for. I've tried, tested, and experienced this. 🌸 Alhamdulilah, MashaAllah.

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Although I hate boasting and showing off this part of my life, there are times when you just want to cry like a baby for not getting what your heart wants. However, if you divert all this anxiety and restlessness towards your tahajjud prayers, kuch na bhi miley tou sukoon bohut milta hai, and I guess this was the most anticipated part of the bargain, right?

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They say you don't want something until you're serious enough to pray Tahajjud for it. I don't want to go into the details of testing this theory, but all that I would like to say is this - Ramazan nights and Tahajjud - what else is it that you need to get your prayers accepted?

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Please do remember me in your prayers too, if even a single line made a difference on your heart and mind. 🌸

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Норм вопрос, кстати)

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Сперва тут нада подушнить: в среднем по планете ситуация, всё же, противоположная, и, спор не дискуссионного характера, в ней, так сказать, выступает как "подпорка" своей состоятельности, точнее, состоятельности мысли: перефразируя наоборот, многие люди ТМ не_соглашаются [воспринимать твою или множественные точки зрения] потому что это угрожает основам основ их картины мира и мышления в целом. Таким образом, спор, на самом деле, уже не является спором, а только компиляцией вопросов и утверждений подводящих тебя к тому, чтобы ты условно согласился с оппонентом — которому твоя позиция, строго говоря, вообще ехала-горела, он с тобой не дискутировать пришёл. Всё это есть ни что иное, как, имхо, не всегда сознательная манипуляция — чтобы вербально получить свои валидации, "закрепиться", окружить себя единомышленниками, булки расслабить, whatever.

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Обсуждать спорные темы я люблю)
Более того, если копнуть, этих спорных тем даже между хорошо знакомыми человеками поднимается больше, чем они представляли себе в своём идеальном идеале. Так вот, соглашаются ли такие человеки друг с другом чисто из-за своей несостоятельности в качестве победунов в споре?) Ну э. Дааа, сия Вселенная полнится персонажами, которые радостно признают свою беспомощность перед аргументами других персонажей))) В общем, автор вопроса нормально вбросил, но... Справедливости ради, да, плыть по течению уже готовых мнений и аргументов — очень просто, удобно, и, что важно, практически не подвергает тебя риску. Поэтому, имеем достаточное количество пассивно-безучастных ребят. Насколько часто ситуативно ты становишься одним из них?

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