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pehlay tou meri shaadi nahi hui.
tou obviously wife hai nahi 😔
jab shaadi hogi aur meri wife ki koi bestie hogi
yani real bestie,
(wo baaki university walay matlabi snake nahi)
aur shaadi ki wajah say dono alag hojayein-gi?
tou mein apni wife ko offer karoonga k wo apni bestie ki shaadi meray say kara dey.
Iss tarhan wo hamesha saath rahaingi 😇

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acha ji ab serious answer...
Tbh?
mera dil abhi say nahi maan raha.
acha bannay k liay "yes,
definitely, agar all girls nighter hai etc"
keh sakta hoon lakin mein sacha bolonga. mein thora possessive type sa banda hoon.
mujhse nahi saha jayega.
ab aesa bhi nahi hai k meetups pay ban laga doonga,
apnay ammi abu k ghar janay say mana kardoonga ya akelay/friends k sath shopping pay nahi jaanay doonga.
lakin nighter?
wo bhi kisi aur k ghar?
SORRY MUJHSE NA HO PAYEGA 😔

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Stairway to Heaven:
1. You must learn the basics of Islam on your own first, do your research, find out what's what, and what exactly is expected of you. Point being, your logic shouldn't be that's how my parents do it or my teacher or sect does it. Most things will be clear but even when there is a doubt, you can ask around, & go with whatever makes more sense plus you can rely on Allah's mercy.
2. Follow the basics as best as you can, if you make mistakes, repent. Don't lose hope & as long as your heart keeps telling you that you shouldn't do this, this is a sin or something wrong, that means you are morally conscious and that itself is a gift from Allah because Allah wants you to repent which means you can succeed.
3. Keep trying to improve yourself & be better muslim, life is all about struggles & tests. So, keep trying your best, keep relying on Allah & everything will be fine. You are supposed to face all the troubles that are coming your way, all of them a test, not to measure how strong you are but how strong your faith is.

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I read it followed it nd trust the rehma of ALLAH to be among them. No one will deserve to be in jannah but it is only given by the mercy of Allah. I can't stand a chance expect Allah’s mercy.

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Sahih al-Bukhari 5705

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Narrated Ibn `Abbas:

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Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, 'Nations were displayed before me; one or two prophets would pass by along with a few followers. A prophet would pass by accompanied by nobody. Then a big crowd of people passed in front of me and I asked, Who are they Are they my followers?" It was said, 'No. It is Moses and his followers It was said to me, 'Look at the horizon.'' Behold! There was a multitude of people filling the horizon. Then it was said to me, 'Look there and there about the stretching sky! Behold! There was a multitude filling the horizon,' It was said to me, 'This is your nation out of whom seventy thousand shall enter Paradise without reckoning.' "Then the Prophet (ﷺ) entered his house without telling his companions who they (the 70,000) were. So the people started talking about the issue and said, "It is we who have believed in Allah and followed His Apostle; therefore those people are either ourselves or our children who are born m the Islamic era, for we were born in the Pre-lslamic Period of Ignorance.'' When the Prophet (ﷺ) heard of that, he came out and said. "Those people are those who do not treat themselves with Ruqya, nor do they believe in bad or good omen (from birds etc.) nor do they get themselves branded (Cauterized). but they put their trust (only) in their Lord " On that 'Ukasha bin Muhsin said. "Am I one of them, O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)?' The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Yes." Then another person got up and said, "Am I one of them?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, 'Ukasha has anticipated you."

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Well depends ... If there's a slight scope of correction there's no harm in trying but I guess most of the time it's better to let things take their course because if it's meant to be the situations will turn itself in a way that they can be repaired and if it's not then the sooner you move on from it the better because life and time will keep moving wheather you have regrets or you don't feel okay or maybe anything else that stops you from being you ... But it's much better to take some time off from Life and not care if it waits or not but just take that time to recover, heal and reflect on what's next so you can continue with your future self without letting things hinder your way ...
I personally envy those people though because sometimes life never gives you any time to heal or recover from any of it ... You'd have to leave your healing as secondary and just move on far to a distance that your regrets and things don't bother you anymore ... !!!

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That is a serious question.

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In today's age, everyone is struggling. The financial crisis and unemployment in our country is not a theory any more, it looks clearer when you step into the market.

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If young women in their twenties are married to a person that is same as their age, then obviously, they would be struggling with life, maximum salary of an employee in Pakistan would be two lac if we exaggerate it.

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Now, what is there to manage? House rent, electricity, gas, water, and school bills, transport, food, clothing to blend into a lifestyle that they surround themselves with, and much more.

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So it's not just a husband who has to work, but the wife also needs to work either as a freelancer or as a regular employee anywhere.

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Oh and they both need to compromise so much for each other, work frustrates everyone and they can not take out their frustration at each other, or their offsprings.

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And your second question, "Yeh achi zindagi hai?"

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Well let's be honest, zaida achi ho na ho, zindagi to hai, aur buri bhi nhi hai.

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Hmari qoum ko zra beemari hai raat o raat kamyab hony ka khwab dekhny ki, mehnat koi krna hi nhi chahta, bardasht koi krna hi nhi chahta, sb bss yehi chahty hain k bss koi lottery nikal aye, zindagi asaan ho jye, mehnat na karni parhy.

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Bss khud ko aisi baaton sy bachain bss.

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