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boleh tahu knapa anna tak nak couple? :)

Anna takut dosa, Anna takut balasan dekat akhirat.
Lagipun ibu cakap sekarang bukan masa untuk main main, cari boyfriend. Selama Anna couple sebelum ni pun, Anna tak main main. Semuanya relationship yang lama. Tapi lepas dah tahu hukum, Anna taknak dah. Dan Anna tak suka main main, Anna takut hanyut nafsu, Anna takut tertunduk dengan syaitan. Anna nak serius, nak berkat, nak halal. Faham kan? :)

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anna i rase u pakai tudung labuh. tpi u kawan dgn lelaki. boleh u bagi pandangan u? not tryna offend u but just wanna ask. thanks

Saya tak tahu macam mana orang pandang saya, apa yang orang fikir, apa yang orang nampak, apa yang orang cakap.
To make it simple and clear, yes I do have more guy friends than girl friends. Girlfriends saya semuanya yang memang kawan kawan rapat je, they're all I have. I had issues with girl friends yang buatkan saya fobia to make new friends. And frankly I'm not friendly enough so I don't have many friends macam orang lain. Another thing is, I have 4 brothers. Most of their friends are my friends too, more like brothers to me jugak lah. I hang out with them too sometimes kalau abang bawak.
Kalau dengan kawan lelaki, saya tak pernah keluar without a girl companion. I know the limits, I really do.
And please, do not blame the tudung I'm wearing. If you want to judge, judge me. Bukan by what I wear okay! :)

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Anna, saya kulit gelap. Kadang kadang tak ada confident nak keluar, nak pakai cantik cantik. And ppl always said "kulit cerah cantik, org yang kulit gelap ni dah ah hitam tak cantik" i really lost my self esteem bila tengok org yg berkulit putih. Ada hrpn ke nak putih anna?....

Hi awak!
Satu je saya nak bagitahu awak, awak sangat cantik, luar dan dalam. Tolong ignore apa orang cakap pasal kulit awak, pasal wajah awak, pasal badan awak, pasal cara awak minum, pasal cara awak makan, cara awak berjalan etc. Kita kena sentiasa bersyukur dengan apa yang Allah bagi. Memang selalu rasa tak cukup, rasa tak adil tapi itu yang kita dapat, make the best out of it. Jangan asyik nak improvise sampai kita dah tak jadi diri kita sendiri.
I know how it feels bila orang ejek, bisik bisik, tapi makin hari saya belajar yang semua benda tu tak penting pun. Yang penting hati, achievements. Orang memang akan judge kita dari luaran, itu memang typical dan normal. Tapi kan, bila kita rasa macam tak suka dengan diri kita lagi lah diorang suka judge kita.
So macam mana nak avoid?
LOVE YOURSELF. Be confident dengan your skin, everybody has flaws somewhere. Bila kita sayang diri sendiri, nanti confidence tu akan datang eventually. Bila orang tengok how confident we are with ourselves, diorang pun jadi takut tau. Nanti diorang stop.
It's like balas dendam tau, tapi macam mana? Be successful. Satu hari nanti awak boleh cakap dekat diorang "orang yang kau ejek ni lah have achieved more than you." :)

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Hi kak anna , boleh bagi tips untuk makanan yang sihat and simple to prepare? Actually saya dalam proses nak kurus :)

- Makan wholemeal bread
- Kurangkan gula in every drink
- Kalau boleh minum air suam or air masak je
- Eat a lot of fruits and veggies
- Kalau makan nasi make sure lebihkan lauk (kurangkan nasi)
- Jangan skip breakfast
- No heavy meals at night
- Elakkan oily food dan junk food

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Im 17 and I still tak pakai tudung. I do have the intention to wear it but its just so hard. Sekejap pakai sekejap buang. Sometimes rasa malas nak pakai sebab nak kena pinlah apa lah and sometimes i feel insecure with people around me. Advice please?

Well, actually hijab isn't something burdening.
The most important thing before you do something is your niat but I don't think it matters in this case sebab we all are aware that covering our aurah is a MUST. It's not an option. Whether you like it or not, you must cover your aurah.
If you just take it slow, you'll get used to it eventually. Lama lama nanti it'll become your routine. Awal awal je you must force yourself to do it, lama lama akan ikhlas sendiri.
Kalau rasa pakai pin leceh, you can wear tudung sarung or tudung bawal. But really, for me tak leceh pun. Setitik peluh kita dikira pahala tau, worth every single effort as long as you cover up properly.
Remember, it's not just about tudung tau. It's about your aurah. Kalau pakai tudung, make sure you cover your whole body as well. No tight clothes, see through clothes and all.

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macam mana nak belajar english? Dari sek rendah tak minat english. So bila dah tua bangka ni, macam baru nak merangkak belajar. Kekadang rasa malu + menyesal sebab tak nak belajar dulu T_T

Sejujurnya, dulu pun Anna tak suka English sebab tak pandai. Annoying sangat.
Masa Anna sekolah rendah, ayah Anna selalu motivate Anna. Tahu tak buku nota 555 tu? Dia beli satu buku nota tu untuk Anna. Every week dia minta Anna tulis 5 new vocabs siap maksud dekat dalam buku tu. Nanti dia check.
Dia belikan Anna novels masa Anna kecil, that's why Anna suka sangat baca buku. Ayah yang galakkan.
Masa Anna darjah 5, cikgu English Anna garang gila haha. Dia paksa kitorang listkan vocabularies siap gambar lagi, nak colour pulak tu T_T Rasanya kena tampal 3 buku untuk vocabs je. Pastu kena hafal, kalau tak kena rotan wuwuwu. And then dia ajar past tense, hari hari kena tulis verbs baru. Next year tu cikgu sama lagi. Kalau buku last year hilang, dia paksa kitorang buat semula.
My teachers & my dad played a huge role in helping me to enhance my English. If you ask me macam mana nak belajar, mula mula kena minat. Tu paling penting, baru learning process jadi senang.
Try lah dengar lagu English, tengok movie, start baca novel best yang nipis je dulu. It will help so much! Kalau nak improve grammar, beli buku latihan grammar yang basic & buat. That's what I did back then. It'll take time tapi with a lot of effort, insha Allah semua akan jadi mudah.

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Hey , you're not like the God or what . Please stop acting like one . And guess what , you're not that perfect . You know what , you give people advices but do you blend it with any of your advices ? And sometimes it's not even your own advice , it doesn't come from you .Please be humble! Stop bajet

Oh wow. You're so pathetic for comparing me with God. I'm a servant not God. Comparing a creation and its Creator is a sin you should know that. And I've never ever ever EVER said or thought that I was perfect. Just because I help people, it means I'm perfect? Where did you get that? No. Wrong. I make mistakes, I have my own problems too. I'm giving out my opinions. I don't tell people what to do. It's up to them to agree with me or not. And you should read my bio, I believe there's "perfectly imperfect" or you missed that one? This is my account and how exactly the answers are not from me? What makes you think I'm being 'bajet' or stuff? Because a lot of people come to me for help? I don't like you. If you have problems with the way I help people, you shouldn't stalk me. You're so pathetically pathetic. Your question disgusts me so much especially the first part. You know what. At least I help people, at least I don't pose as an anonymous and send hate to people. At least I'm not like you.
I take everything you say as an advice. Thank you. May Allah bless you. :)

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hai anna!i'm not muslim.1 day,i ada bca kt fb page islam kata 'COUPLE ITU HARAM'.but,i tk fhm knapa org muslim still couple.kdg2,i tgk org muslim couple lebih teruk drpd non-muslim.i dh tnya kwn2 yg muslim i,but answers diorang still buat i tk puas hati.i'm confused.help me please,anna?

Hye there! I took me quite a while to answer this. Let's just take it this way, couple memang haram because it leads you to bad things. But you know teenagers, teenagers ada perasaan ingin tahu yang sangat kuat, like try new things, terpengaruh dengan your friends etc. Despite all that, they feel empty. You're a teenager too so I'm sure sometimes you would feel unloved and alone and all that like you want to be loved and appreciated at times kan? Seeing everybody else having their own boyfriends and all make you wanting the same thing. Like wah they give you gifts and they tell you you're beautiful. Teenagers crave for love. Not from your family but from someone else, who's special. Is it? And that's what lead them to 'couple' / dating world. While when you date, you see everyone hugging etc and you want to do the same thing too. So that's how they become worst. The thing how they become worst because they're lost, get what I mean? Basically, some people conclude that those who are more like 'terlanjur' (in physical way such as holding hands) because they take hukum hakam as something ringan or probably they're lack of didikan agama. Do you know the YOLO concept people are talking about? That's it. It's not about hukum agama, it's themselves. Nafsu. If they have strong iman, then they won't go there. But I can't say anything because I don't have right to judge that. I hope I help. :)

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kak anna, nak diet plan boleh? (target to lose 5.5kg)

You don't really need to plan your diet. Just avoid some food and eat more healthy food.
Somebody had already asked me an almost similar question before, but I'll answer it again alright.
Food to avoid:-
1) Oily food - avoid fried food, they're not okay but if you still want to eat it go on but make sure you toss it first and don't eat too much. This means, absolutely NO kfc and whatever.
2) Junk food - NO twisties, NO mamees, NO everything.
3) Fast food - NO mcdonalds etc
4) Soft drinks - NO COKES, NO PEPSI. They contain TOO MANY SUGAR. If you're thirsty, grab a mineral water. Reduce sugar in your daily drinks. Kalau pergi makan, biasakan diri mintak air kurang manis or just order air suam je. Jimat duit, and also healthier.
How to get on diet?
1) DONT SKIP BREAKFAST. Breakfast is the most important meal of your day. Make sure you eat your breakfast. At least a bowl of cereal would do. Add in some fruits ke.
2) Detox. It's an effective way to get rid of all the toxins in your body. Tak perlu cari air untuk kurus, teh pelik pelik no need don't waste your money. Just letak filtered water dalam botol air, tambah fruits, lemon etc. and leave it overnight. Esok boleh minum. Do this everyday. Once every few days, drink green tea. It has many benefits tapi jangan drink too much of green tea, tak elok for your body.
3) Bila makan nasi, make sure pilih pinggan yang paling kecil. This way, your potion will be small. Nasi sikit je, lauk banyak. Pilih lauk yang tak oily, yang tak processed sangat. Nak tips cepat kenyang, minum air masak satu gelas or dua gelas before makan nasi. Kalau ada buah, makan buah dulu before makan nasi. Bukan lepas.
4) Tips paling penting, MINUM PLAIN WATER BANYAK. At least 2-3L sehari. Pergi kedai beli tumbler yang besar tu, habiskan. First few days you'll go to toilet so often but eventually you'll get used to it. Biasakan diri minum air kosong. Kalau nak lagi best, squeeze half a lemon into it. Anna selalu buat macam tu. The excessive water intake will get rid of the toxins from your body.
5) Kalau craving benda manis, makan buah. Make sure selalu ada buah dekat rumah. Pisang pun jadi lah. Banyakkan makan buah dan sayur.
6) No more food at night. Paling jahat pun 8pm onwards dah takde heavy food dah. Kalau lapar, makan wholemeal bread or biskut etc. Buat toast ke. Cicah air ke.
Please please don't skip your meals. Jangan tak makan sebab nak diet, that's not how it works.

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Anna, seriously your life is so close to perfect! God gives you almost everything that other people needed /wanted it. After stalking you, i feel useless to continue breathing in this unfair world, I stop doing what i supposed to do after maghrib and i stop praying. All that happen after I know you.

Sweetheart, nobody's life is perfect. You only see what I choose to show you but the reality is, my life is not as good as it looks. However, I am truly grateful for every single bad and good thing that has ever happened to me. I make them as lessons, the good ones I learn to appreciate. We all come from different backgrounds, for every good thing there is something bad hidden behind it and vice versa.
Don't be envy, don't. You have no idea how it feels to be in someone's life until you walk in their shoes. Until then, you'll realize how grateful you're for not having what they have.
On the other hand, if you do want a better life, work for it. Insha Allah He will make things easy for you, help you to achieve your goals and make your dreams come true. All you have to do is- just put some efforts. If it's good for you, He will give you what you want. If it isn't, He surely has a better plan for you. Have faith :)

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Assalam kak anna. Kenapa yaa rasa susah sangat nak berubah dengan orang sekeliling yg selalu ungkit masa silam saya. Sy rasa give up dgn semua ni, dan saya nk jadi balik sy yg lama. sy bru 18 thn tp orang pandang sy mcm masa depan sy gelap sbb dulu sy sgt2 sosial. hmmmm

Waalaikumussalam.
Bila kita niat nak berubah kan, macam macam ujian akan datang. Allah nak tengok sama ada kita ni betul betul nak berubah ke tak. Kat situ lah Allah uji iman kita ni kuat tak, kita ni sabar tak. Bahagian paling susah nak buat bila berubah ialah istiqamah. Susah sangat sangat. Sebab tu kita kena dekatkan diri dengan Allah, kena sentiasa ingat dosa pahala, dunia akhirat, syurga neraka. Ingatkan diri sendiri mana baik mana buruk. Orang lain tak boleh tolong kita.
Bila kawan kawan awak ungkit masa silam awak, bila diorang ingat awak tak boleh berubah. Kat situ Allah dah tunjuk, diorang ni bukan kawan awak. Kalau betul kawan, mesti diorang support & hormat awak as someone new.
Be around people yang awak akan buat awak rasa motivated, rasa macam nak jadi sebagus diorang or perhaps better. These people will help you. Kenal kawan, kenal lawan. Jangan give up. You're just getting started.

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Kak Anna, i have bf tapi sejak dua menjak ni he always ignore me and do his work with his friends. Dulu apa hal dia yang mulakan convo dulu but now he changed i asked him sayangkan i lagi or not and he said he love me and he begging me for not ask a same question. So what should i do yaa?

1) You guys are not married
2) Most guys don't like to be controlled, not saying that you're controlling him but it seems like you're pushing him. Lelaki ni suka freedom. Bila dia dengan kawan kawan dia, let him. Biar dia spend masa with them. Dia tak bagi awak tanya that question sebab dia rasa macam you're asking him to choose- you or his friends. Trust me, you don't want to ask that question.
3) Kalau rasa macam his attention isn't balanced, talk to him about it. I'm sure he'll do something. Kalau ada anything, talk. Guys don't get clues. Kena cakap or else diorang tak tahu.

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Assalamualaikum, Anna. well my nickname is ana jgak ^^ hehe so lately sy mmg ade masalah jerawat agak teruk laa. maybe sbb hormon or tabiat suke tukar2 pncuci muka. ah rse tk confident lnsung nk kluar. blh bgi cadangan tk how to handle jerawat and parutnya? klo boley bgtau la ape produk yg anna guna

Waalaikumussalam
Hiiiiii! Okay I've been getting a lot of questions like this. Honestly, my skin is problematic too. I have oily, extremely sensitive & acne prone skin. If you've met me you'd know. Yes, I do wear make ups, sunscreen and such to conceal my flaws. So I understand completely how you guys feel. That feeling, tak rasa confident langsung, takut being judged for having flaws. Bleh trust me, I've gone through all that and I'm still dealing with it. I don't even think it will go away.
I know a lot of tips. I do understand how you guys are searching for products that give you fast & long lasting results and all. Sometimes you wish that it would all be gone in a second. Gosh trust me I've been there.
But day by day I think majority of us girls are being so obsessed with beauty. Especially with a lot of products sold online, you guys are affected by it. Rasa nak beli ek? Well don't waste your money.
Stop feeling so insecure, it's time for you to accept yourself the way it is. Don't be so obsessed to have flawless skin, no flaws because we can't run away from that seriously. I'm not even flawless myself.
However it is okay for you guys to find solutions to your problems, just don't be too obsessed with it okay?
What I do with breakouts :-
1) I always use bedak sejuk. Almost every night akan pakai. Petua orang orang tua, it actually helps jugak lah. Tak hebat macam products sekarang tapi it's natural and safe that's good enough.
2) Kalau nak cari product, I'd find ones yang 100% natural with no chemicals like paraben etc. Some of them are costly but benda yang bagus dan selamat to me worth my money.
And nomally natural products will take time to show their effects so tak boleh nak expect too much. Kena consistent & tawakal.
3) Jaga makan, elakkan junk food, carbonated drinks and all. Cara pemakanan kita pun affect kulit kita tau. Makan makanan sihat, kulit pun jadi sihat.
4) Elakkan gula. Kalau dahaga, biasakan diri minum plain water & warm water. Kalau nak best tambah lah lemon ke.
5) Don't stress out. It's one of the main reasons jugak sebab nanti kita tak boleh tidur malam. Lack of sleep pun boleh affect kulit.
6) Kalau cakap pasal resdung dengan hormon, tu memang tak boleh nak elakkan lah. Anna pun still deal dengan masalah tu. Kena pantang semua & jaga hygiene. Sooner or later baik lah tu insha Allah.
I'm sorry if I don't help much but that's the best I can give. Remember, don't focus too much on your outer beauty, focus on the inside. At the end of the day, the outer beauty will fade but the beauty inside will always stay the same if you know how to take care of it. Let them love you for who you are not what you are.
Love yourself! That's the most important key to have self confidence. :) x

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tapi kak anna, u hv to remember, even my mom pun always reminds this to me, bila kita pakai tudung labuh org akan tgok every single things we say, we do, we act. sebab people thought those with tudung labuh is a good person sebab tu die takes challenge utk pkai tdg labuh. so u must take this risk

Sebenarnya, kalau tak pakai tudung labuh pun kena jaga perkataan dan perbuatan semua tu. Cuma, people these days they are too typical minded-
Kalau tudung labuh, baik.
Kalau tak pakai tudung, jahat.
Kalau pakai tudung singkat, jahil.
It's ridiculous. It's dumb.
The way they judge a person based on what they wear, based on the appearance, the surface is so unfair. Padahal these people they're judging <<could>> possibly be thousand times better than them.
Don't do that okay. Always take care of whatever you do, say or act no matter how you dress up. It's the personality that matters.
Beautiful appearance with bad personality is still bad.

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Assalam Anna, what do you search in guy?sorry to ask you this but you look so successful and so does your friends,its kindda intimidate for a normal guy like to approach you.

Waalaikumussalam.
To be honest, I don't really search characters. Everybody is different, I accept people the way they are. I think it's a bit unfair to say that I'd like to have this and that kind of person to be the love of my life. It could be a wish but it shouldn't be demanded because when you truly love a person, all those things will be put aside. You can't tell that person "okay i want you to be like this". But, you can help them mend themselves. If they're less, help them to be better. If they're weak, help them grow strong.
The 'intimidated' part, I get that a lot I guess? People are scared to approach me because they think I'm not approachable? Too scared to be around me and my so-called-success. They tend to judge my friends as well. I don't choose who I be friends with. All they need to do is say hi, I won't bite.
If a guy is scared to be with a girl who is apparently more successful than him, he surely has ego problem. He needs to sort that out first.

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Salam. Dear kak ana. I need someone who listen to me. And I guess maybe it was you. Hm. Here's the questions. Dulu, I once was a bad person, who neglected all the suruhan allah. Eventhough I know clearly bout hukum hakam. Its just me, who never obey. Now, I try to make a changes. Its not because of

Waalaikumussalam. You don't finish your question, if you come back for this please write the rest of it.
Ok listen, when you have the nawaitu to change for the better, don't hold. Just do it right away. Stop thinking of your past, you're living NOW, not in your past nor your future. The reason why you can't obey the suruhan Allah because you don't pray. "Solat itu tiang agama", kalau tak solat tiang akan runtuh bukan? Do you know yang solat can help you ease the bad things? Solat gives you peace of mind and heart. Yesterday I was crying, I felt so down and weak then I heard azan, I go take my wudhu' and performed my Asar. I was crying during solat until the moment I amin my doa, I felt peace right away as if my tears have been wiped off, my sorrows have been taken away, all that left is happiness. I was in a very good mood after that, go ask my friends. It is real, it feels beautiful, it is amazing. Don't hold back, when you read this I want you to go take your wudhu' and perform your solat taubat. While you're performing your solat, remember all the bad things you've did, cry if you can. Trust me you'll feel so calm right after that. To keep you still, always remember to perform yor solat fardhu. Ingat, dosa kalau tak solat. Kalau malas, PAKSA dan paksa. Lama lama it will become one of your routines. Once a day, read a page or two of Al-Quran. Zikir at times. Kalau boleh jangan terpengaruh dengan your friends sangat, nak berkawan boleh but tahu batas. And rajinkan diri dengar dengar zikir dan ke masjid time maghrib untuk dengar tazkirah. Solat tahajjud bangun malam. Turn to Him, He will be there, He will help. Sesungguhnya Allah itu Maha Pengampun. Kalau nak berubah, berubah sekarang. Jangan nanti. I will pray for you. :)

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Anna! You start bisness modal berapa ya? And baju yg you jual you jahit sendiri or you beli secara borong? You beli kat mana? I minat bisness tapi I tk ada modal dn tak tahu carenya. Share tips ana. Tq! I doakan semoga bisnes you maju jaya! xoxo

Siti Hajar
Assalamualaikum.
Hi! Awal awal haritu modal Anna 5k. Duit kumpul sendiri, daripada kerja etc. Anna simpan dalam satu bank, bila dah banyak Anna buat modal bisnes. Baju Anna semua Anna upah tailor jahit. Tailor Anna cari sendiri, Anna survey banyak sangat tempat sampai dapat yang harga affordable sebab nak jual murah untuk you guys. Sekarang still ada problem and all, tapi Alhamdulillah so far okay kot. Kena banyak usaha awak, buat bisnes tak senang. Kena kuat. & paling penting, jangan fikir untung, jangan fikir duit, nak kaya. Niat kena baik, baru Allah tolong. :)

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