Is it possible for transgender ppl to find a partner? Seems to be impossible for trans guys to be considered as a partner for anyone. Lonely existence, often makes me feel life isn't worth struggling for.
How many books, talk shows, etc cover the topic of finding a partner to love? How many movies have been made about this topic? This isn't just a trans issue.
I'm not saying that the trans dimension doesn't add a nuance to the finding someone special. What I am saying is that my answer is the same, cis or trans.
IMHO, the pain of not having a special person is cause by the *need* and not from not having a relationship. The reality is that it's easy to have a relationship. It's easy to find someone - anyone - to be with, but that's not what most of us want, is it? We don't just want a relationship, we want someone who will cherish us and be a responsible emotional adult. From my experience, the best way to attract someone like that is to be someone like that.
I'm not saying that the trans dimension doesn't add a nuance to the finding someone special. What I am saying is that my answer is the same, cis or trans.
IMHO, the pain of not having a special person is cause by the *need* and not from not having a relationship. The reality is that it's easy to have a relationship. It's easy to find someone - anyone - to be with, but that's not what most of us want, is it? We don't just want a relationship, we want someone who will cherish us and be a responsible emotional adult. From my experience, the best way to attract someone like that is to be someone like that.
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