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What do you think is a normal amount of porn for a man to watch? I think my boyfriend has a problem.

There is no "normal" amount. If it's causing a problem in your relationship, or he prefers the adult videos to real-life adult time, it sounds like something you need to discuss. It may be uncomfortable but communication should help. We discuss some options, pros and cons on SE28 http://www.twoguysoneshow.com/2016/01/14/se28/

Hi Guys. WIM-I know you just finished writing a book and hired an editor. How did you find your editor? I've finished a fiction novel and want to be sure I hire a good editor to review and provide useful edits and comments.

I had the 'hook-up' on a couple editors from the day job. We discuss on SE29 http://www.twoguysoneshow.com/2016/01/21/se29/ how to explore your network for opportunities and some other on-line options for finding reliable editors.

Recruitment related question: A lot of companies use websites like Taleo for processing applications, I feel like they filter me out before my application gets seen by a human. What are your thoughts on those kind of services? I'm asking cause I know Alphabet doesn't use them.

Thanks for the question. We answered this (and, unfortunately, a couple other things you should be concerned about) on TGOS 091 - http://www.twoguysoneshow.com/2015/11/17/091-good-debt-vs-bad-debt-jobs-are-watchin/

Have you ever cheated on a woman? Why? I recently found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the majority of time we've been together. We were talking marriage. I'm just trying to make sense of it all.

Yes. We responded to your question on this week's show. You can skip to it here https://soundcloud.com/twoguysoneshow/se15-big-scoopy#t=58:45 . I also answered a similar question for SBM, which you can read here: http://www.singleblackmale.org/2012/10/22/the-unfaithful-man-why-do-men-cheat/
Hope these help.

There was a discussion on twitter w SmoothOrator abt socializing at work. You guys seem to be cordial but not overly friendly. A young lady felt you need to be known, attend events, etc to climb the ladder. Do you think this differs by industry? Can u just do good work and go home and be successful?

It's industry specific. Yes, while we are cordial, I wouldn't consider us overly friendly. Yet, we both manage to hold down jobs and have worked our way up the chain. If you're going to choose, most industries will reward you more for doing good work over doing bad work while being well-known. Put another way, we'd rather work with the person with 100 followers that can get us a $100,000 job over the person with 100,000 followers that can get us 100 RTs

I'm currently seeking a job in a completely different field than I'm in now and I have some reservations about updating my LinkedIn profile to show my qualifications for the job I'm pursuing due to having current supervisors as connections. Should I update it anyway, or stick the resume route?

Update it. Most people don't actively monitor LinkedIn that closely. Also, you can turn off your send update settings in LinkedIn. It's pretty straight forward (right-hand column of LinkedIn) Move the "Notify your network?" option to "No".
We also cover this in a bit more detail on SE10. Jump to the relevant discussion on Soundcloud here https://soundcloud.com/twoguysoneshow/se10-so-much-to-discuss#t=1:05:23

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