My lady is an AKA. Pink/green cardigan, a paddle from when she crossed, duffle bag at my crib, whole 9. She's trying to drag me to this Greek thing this summer and I'm like "bruhhhhh". Is it selfish to say "yo babe that's a part of your life I REALLY don't care about"? Greeks so sensitive about that

BRUH! Prayers and sympathies. Logically, you don't have to go. But the way yo relationship probably set up, you should probably just go. I would voice your concerns and maybe find a comprise. Is there something you want to do with your family/friends that she's not a big fan of? This might be a good time for bringing that up and find snatch a win from the jaws of defeat.