Im 23 and ive had the usual trouble with dating as anyone my age. the weird thing is ive had several women say "I treat them too well" when they elaborated, they say my habit to be faithful & not be a dick to them is offputting. have you ever dealt with this & how did you manage?

Yes, this is something we've dealt with. Because of the way our lives are set up, we will answer this on the 'bonus' podcast rather than here. Check in around 45mins for our response. You have two options.
Good luck!