I once asked someone who was like acting really broken "who died" thinking maybe I know how it feels but yk, that pain is different everytime. Ps. "Acting" might be an inappropriate word but idk I couldn't think much
You can't have something when your mind isn't prepared for it. I mean how do you expect to win a race when your mind is saying you can't? It all starts with your mind. There's this statement I hear people say, if you're not getting something you want it's probably not good for you that's why Allah isn't giving that to you well I mean how do people know if it's not good? what if Allah wants you to work hard for it? Maybe you're not worthy of it as of now and Allah is preparing you for what you asked and don't you believe that even if something isn't good for you Allah can make it good you?
I so much doubt if the person who is claiming to love you actually really loves you because I understand how much our feelings can be easily influenced by so many things. Even worse the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
Everyone is gorgeous and beautiful until you meet someone who makes you believe beauty has less to do with physical existence and more with their whole existence, wait until you find someone who "feels beautiful" you'll understand what I'm trying to say Ps. I also actually totally believe that everyone is beautiful, setting aside what I said above and I don't like comparing such.
Nobody acts rude for no reason there’s always a reason
If reason is that someone's life is shit or someone has their own personal problems or even miseries that doesn't give that person right to be rude to someone who didn't do anything to deserve it, maybe and maybe only if someone has post traumatic disorder that rude behavior might be to some extent acceptable
Read someone's intentions (good or bad) that they were quite unsure they had for you and tell them in a way they acknowledge them. A mature person with good heart is very likely to accept them and a stupid person (idk about heart) is going to hate you for showing that. Ps. It's just an opinion that's isn't entirely accurate, and requires very specific situation. Still wanted to point it out.