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You seem sort of different lately. Your writing is different, too. But that's alright, hope you're okay

Yeah I noticed that too. Not sure what's happened. I was in a pretty bad place when i started youmeanyes and since then, a lot has changed about my life (and simultaneously not that much at all) and that's affected my writing

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Hey, always hope you're doing well. I know you're not from Canada but it's Thanksgiving here and I am thankful for all the stories you wrote lol (no pressure to write anymore) but I think you're really an amazing writer

Hello. Thanks very much, I'm glad you liked what I've written so far. I am technically still writing just at a far slower rate than i used to. Enjoy your Thanksgiving :)

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Owh. That's really interesting of you. I would like to talk more to you

I'm only willing to go so far on a public platform, so you're welcome to ask but I can't say I'm likely to answer

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I'm sorry but I feel the need to say what I took from your words, it's like you were implying you are not caring and dependable enough

Yes

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Why are you intentionally single and think Amber could be a better gf than you?

Fair disclaimer, it's not like I actually know Amber so I don't know, maybe she's horrible or maybe not. Who knows. She just seems to be caring and dependable.
As for me, I prefer to keep romantic relationships as a concept of fiction, and let's leave it at that.

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Ouch. Then it's a shame. Who knows you just discouraged someone who is initially ready to make true that sweet idea

Would have pushed them away anyway

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I guess it depends. If your girlfriend was Krystal then definitely Amber could be better than you. Just find someone (or you have already??) that makes you the best gf for her

That idea sounds quite sweet. But I'm intentionally single so no. I'll just write love stories

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Mind to share the name? And may I ask this? If in the relationship you are the "Amber"?

Hmm, I'm not sure I want to just yet. And... Maybe? I feel like Amber would be a better girlfriend than me

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Oh. Hold on there. You write Kryber?? And ohhh. They are she all along!!

Yeah I used to, under another name.
And yeah they have been a she all along, I've been using the word 'she' the whole time lol

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That's really... Cute..

Haha. We broke up pretty soon afterwards and she was more interested in my kryber fic anyway, not a big taeny/snsd fan

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One more question. You said I sounded like your ex. Does that mean, they know about your "youmeanyes"?

Yes, we were still together when I began youmeanyes

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Missing and appearing is not really the problem, it's just the "sudden". But please don't get me wrong, I don't try to be at the wrong side of you. Just it seems like you have interesting dating life for me. And yes, pardon me for getting curious on someone's personal life

Oh I don't mind the questions, it's fine. And as for interesting, I don't date much so it's not all that interesting

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I always think relationship is about the presence of the significance other. So I thought it's really interesting if someone is fine with the sudden missing and appearing of the other. But you brought up the factors, so yeah I agree it becomes complicated

Well the problem also is that I'm usually fine with the appearing and disappearing of the other person so I'm not always on the same page, it would have been better with someone who had the same temperament

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I mean since you said you were guilty for neglecting, I wonder did your ex ever try to ask your compromise about the abandonment or maybe they were pretty fine with it? Fell free not to answer because I understand it's too personal, I'm just wondering

Oh. Yeah it gets kind of complicated once you start thinking about that side of it. There were always other factors involved in the issues, so I can't say really

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If I'm allowed to ask more, none of them complained (or at least said something) about the abandonment..?

I'm not sure what you mean

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I think I especially like your stories because somehow you form this invisible line between taeyeon and tiffany. It's like they're connected but something is keeping them apart, on emotional levels? Basically I'm saying you really make taeny seem like soulmates, no matter the situation. I like it.

Oh interesting, I'm glad you are able to read it and feel that concept from it. thank you

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I'm grateful every time you post something new that you've written. I honestly really enjoy everything you write. It's funny, because literally every time you post a sad-ish story, it rains here.

Thank you :) and that's a very... cosmic connection, I like it

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They /definitely/ /need/ to make it mutual. But I bet you were the first one who started? Haha. Should I feel bad reminding you of your ex? And I just share some my photos which I think good enough. I keep precious ones to myself

Yes, as with all my relationships I am guilty of neglect. Anyway don't feel bad, I haven't thought of her in a while

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Wait. Let me ask the most important question. Did you unintentionally abandon your gf/bf too?

I'd say there was some mutual abandonment in the end but I definitely neglected her from time to time. It wasn't always just for a video game though. Interesting question

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Now I'm curious who I sound like, mind to tell? That's great to know, do you share your photos somewhere? IG maybe? And I bet the game is good since you played it way passed your bed time

You kind of sound like my ex, actually.
As for the photos, I don't share them anywhere public, just on my private fb profile. Sometimes I think about doing more with them but idk. How about you?

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