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ways to get rid of insecure ?

Nis_
i think insecure comes from your mind. so, i think the best way to get rid of insecure is avoid anything that have bad influence for your mind. for example, you unconsciously comparing yourself to the instagram model. i think when you start comparing yourself with someone in social media, it's time for you to "heal" your mind. take a break from social media and do the things you like or do things that only focusing on you. uninstall your social media for a week or any time you need. and when you're refreshed, come again to socmed :) this is what works for me. i hope this help you too
[04/05/21]
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What lessons do you think most people learn too late in life?

Shaireen
interesting...
tbh, i've been thinking how i would answer this question lol.
i don't think we're late to learn about something because every journey to learn that thing is different.
however, if we look at it widely, the lessons that we learn are basically the same. and actually we've all learned about it through many things like movie, quotes, internet. but we don't take it seriously so we got to learn it the hard way or you may call it late to learn it.
[24/04/21]
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Pendapat lo untuk orang yang suka marah" di ask fm gimana guys

Adipati Irawan
based on my experience, i did that because i have none to trust.
when i have enough emotions piled up and i don't have anyone i trust, i throw it on the internet or my diary.
when i throw my emotions to the internet, some are pretty supportive and validate my feelings and comfort me.
and those things are the things that we look up when we share our feeling. validations and comfort. those are pretty easy to get on the internet.
[17/04/21]
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gua boleh ungkapin kecewanya gua disini kan ya.. lu semua gapapa kan kalo ini tb2 pertanyaan gua muncul di shotout lu pada? 😭😭😭

sunshine
just want to share what i've been thinking lately.
i used to think why do people get crazy. crazy as in medically crazy, like you can't communicate with them and they're acting super weird.
i thought life is as easy as when i was in high school.
i thought how hard will it be until people get crazy and some decided to end their life.
i thought it was unbelievable because how hard could it be?
now,
i guess i might be one of those people lol and i'm a last semestet college student.
gosh, no wonder some people died and get crazy lol
i really appreciate all of you who survive until now. all of you are amazing, literally.
[04/04/21]
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Dear Cewek, yang gemar baca buku baik itu novel atau cerpen. apa pendapat kalian jika ada sebuah film yg diadaptasi dari sebuah karya sastra, apakah jalan ceritanya bakal sama atau malah merusak imajinasi kalian ?

Pecandv_Kopi
what so interesting about reading a book is that we can imagine the plot, the character, and the situation and make our own movie in our head.
but when we already get the idea, the whole story and we compare it with the movie maker imagination, of course it will be different and "destroy" our imagination about the story.
sometimes it's either explain more and make things clear or simply ruin our imagination.
i'm not saying that movie that adapt from a novel is bad. a lot of movie are good too. it's just different.
[02/04/21]
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Buat cewe nih, mau tanya dong kalo kalian pen glow up, mulai dari mana dulu? Wajah, badan, ato outfit? And give me ur reason!!!

yuuka sato
i think it depends how do you give meaning to glow up itself.
some might say glow up means upgrade their closet, some said glow up means have a clearer skin, some said glow up means have a healthier body, even some others said glow up means being a better person.
it really depends on how you give meaning to glow up.
[29/03/21]
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Menurutmu apakah melupakan itu menjadi balas dendam terbaik?

Guntara Manalu
idk, i don't want to think about revenge because i don't like to be bothered by the things that don't have benefit to me.
like, if you did bad things to me, i'll be angry ofc and def will ignore you but it doesn't mean that i ignore you and thinking that you might get hurt because i did that.
i forget for the sake of myself. i've been there before. thinking of get revenge. it didn't end up well.
[26/03/21]
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Menurutmu apakah melupakan itu menjadi balas dendam terbaik

Ada yang mau curhat?

Ridwan Nur Adi
i don't like the way people especially Indonesian, judge or looking at someone just because how someone dress up.
for me, dressing up is how i express myself.
when i'm happy, i dress up happy, when i'm sad or not in the mood i'll wear tshirt and short, when i'm feeling sexy, i'll wear something that'll make me feel sexy.
but unfortunately not all people have this mindset especially in Indonesia where people still so conservative about looks.
i really wish one day Indonesia can be very open to the way people dress up.
[13/03/21]
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Mungkin jika semua manusia punya Kemampuan Telepati mungkin kita bisa lebih mudah Akrap, dan Bisa menghindari niat jahat seseorang🤔?? lebih mudah melihat orang yg baik dan buruk😲!!!

ivanandriawan
kayanya kalo semua org punya kemampuan ini, yg ada bakal semua org jadi individualist dan punya trust issues semua.
karna kita bisa tau kejelekan dan kejahatan orang lain.
bayangin aja lagi di jalan, minding our own business, tiba" denger atau tiba" masuk ke otak kalo orang di serong kanan kita jahat.
atau kita yg pertamanya baik" aja sama temen kita, tiba" kita bisa tau kejahatan atau kebusukan dia.
kayanya jatuhnya bakal saling bunuh deh ntar wkwkwk.
sometimes, lebih baik gatau apa" daripada tau banyak hal :) for our own good.
[12/03/21]
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Cita cita kamu waktu kecil apa.?

Guntara Manalu
out of the topic, ak punya keresahan related to this.
idk, ak ngerasa kalo society terlalu memaksa kita untuk mempersiapkan diri sedini mungkin.
ada ga si yg merasa salah jurusan?
waktu sma boro" pilih jurusan, mau jadi apa aja belom tau.
waktu smp, kita udh harus mikir mau masuk ipa/ips.
mau jadi apa aja belom tau.
padahal ada beberapa jurusan kuliah yg harus based on ipa/ips.
bisa sih linjur, tp berat ga si?
idk, ak mikir aja si kenapa kita harus memikirkan kita mau jadi apa sejak kecil dan mengambil keputusan berdasarkan hal tsb.
misal waktu sd/smp cita"nya jadi dokter.
jadi waktu sma harus ambil ipa biar kuliahnya bisa ambil kedokteran.
padahal seiring berjalannya waktu bisa aja ganti keinginan.
mending kalo dari cita" yg ga begitu berat plannya ke plan yg lebih mudah.
kalo misal dari kecil mau jadi youtuber terus tiba" waktu sma mau jadi dokter tp udh terlanjur ambil ips?
you know what i mean?
but, idk. please tell me your opinion about this.
[11/03/21]
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Cara nabung uang versi kalian kayak gimana? Siapa tau bisa dicontoh 😉

R
i always save first in the beginning
for example i got 10k per month
before i spend it, i would save 3k for investment
and spend 2k for shopping
the rest is for living.
it depends on the salary.
usually i save around 20% of the salary
i always shop less than 500k whatever the salary is
and the rest is for living.
[04/03/21]
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Nanya dong, gimana sih cara kalian healing setelah putus dengan doi yg sangat berkesan di gw tapi kita ga baik udahannya. How?

ridhwan_rt
enjoy the pain,
enjoy the feel of missing,
enjoy the guilt.
cry everytime you're feeling like to.
then live.
do everything you regularly do.
you'll def miss him sometimes and you might really want to call him and text him.
it's super normal.
as for me, i won't text him or call him because i know i would fall once more.
until i finally living without thinking about him anymore.
[01/03/21]
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Apa karna dlu sering disakitin, sekarang dapat doi yg memperlakukan kita seperti raja/ratu rasanya biasa aja malah berpikir paling sama aja kaya yang dulu. Ujung2nya nyakitin

it might be.
or maybe because you've seen several relationships that end up the same way.
if i may give suggestion or give my point of view, don't get into a relationship when you're not ready.
heal yourself first before jump into another relationship.
if you feel hurted that way, please heal yourself first or otherwise you'll end up hurted more and you might hurt your new partner.
but, if you already have a new partner, communicate it.
let them know that you've experience that and you feel this.
let them know about it so they know what they're dealing with and they know how to handle things and treat you.
i wish all the best for you.
[27/02/21]
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Mau tau pandangan cwe/ cwok kalo lihat cewe merokok . Khusus nya cwok.

ketrinepohan
personally, I don't have any problem with it.
I hate the smoke in general.
as long as I don't inhale the smoke, I don't care.
well, maybe a little bit suprised when I see a woman smoking since it's not a normal situation to see in this country.
but then I just don't care.
just keep your smoke for yourself.
[23/02/21]
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