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If you could change your skin color to anything outside of the natural palette of skin colors, what color would you choose?

Green so I have a reason to take steroids and become a real life hulk. If all else fail, I'll become shrek bcos shrek is love shrek is life

Yea same. Wow. Everything you say is just spot on for me. But if you go for a casual relationship, you won't know how it feels for real. If you don't want it, it just means you haven't found the right person. It's not enough to love someone, it's about loving someone enough to want all that.

hahaha sometimes I'd like to think that it's not about only about fate or chemistry that brings people together but it takes effort and the desire to keep exploring each other that binds them together. I lack the latter so maybe actually hitting something off will be a stepping stone for me

Homaigawd the whole "I can't say I need someone when nobody really NEEDS anyone" thing. Yes. But. I always thought it's better to be wanted anyway. Yes, wants can change, but so do needs. And ultimately, isn't it better to know that someone doesn't have to be with you, but they choose to anyway?

ya thats good but nobody is that persistent. i think i've been pushing away people who are attracted to me or who i think are somewhat attracted to me. like the moment i managed to "get her attention", it no longer drives me to flirt around and keep it going. because of that, they usually get it and just move on instead of still staying around. makes me feel like a douche, really, but reality is that. yes, it makes me sound like a player but im not ready to be that hopeless romantic who does super sweet stuff for his girl.
to me, a relationship is an all in or fold kind of thing. i dont want to commit if i cant always be that wonderwall to turn to. at times, i have my dark days and it's tough being vulnerable to the ones you love because you dont want them to worry. i just hate feeling weak.
tbh i think too much anyways. i should just go and have a casual relationship and see how it feels for real

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What do you think about love?

love is the affectionate attachment towards something that causes you to put cathexis into that particular something. you love gaining knowledge, hence you're eager to go learn new things. you love to play games, hence you play games. you can fight for whatever cause you want or fight for nothing at all. the only thing that drives you towards anything is love. that's just what i think it is..
i cant exactly tell you what love is because i don't know what it feels like. my brain works too mechanically to tell you all these abstract emotional things. the way i see things is usually structured and need to meet certain criterias before i could say it is what it is. I do not know what criterias love is made up of. i think the only way to find love is to go out there and gain experience in trying new things. i lack experience since ive always been doing routinely stuff. routines kill creativiuty and limits your expressiveness
some people think love is when you're always thinking about that special someone or doing that something because you need him/her/it and you can't live without it. i think that's just an exaggeration. sure, it would be uncomfortable to be without the thing we love but it's bearable to live without it. one reason i try to stay out of a relationship is this. how can i say that i need that person when i dont? im a bad liar and i can't hyperbolicly prove my love to another. it hurts to hurt others too when you feel like you're taking advantage and you doubt your own love towards that person because you've always been on the receiving end of affection and unable to reciprocate that love. so, i guess you can say that love takes commitment too.
a commitment towards something you love should have no boundaries. you should literally die for a person if there is a need to. the best example of love i could give you is a parent who would sacrifice limbs to save his child because the child is his everything. once you get to that point in life, what you love becomes the sole reason of your existence. based on maslow's hierarchy of needs, love is placed on step above safety. apart ffrom having food, water and shelter(physiology and safety) in life, love drives a person to survive. why do we love our children though?
probably because it's in our nature to stay alive. we don't live forever but our genes do. can we all stop for a second and just admire how great our individual existence is? we were brought into this world through thousands of years of lineage. and it's the power of love that brought us here. if any of our great grancestor mothers did not love any of the members in succeeding generations for that 9 months in her, could we have been alive?
we can all blindly say "i love .....something or someone" but how many of us can truly explain what love is?
love is a feeling and it's subjective to everyone how love makes them feel. so you'r ebetter off finding your own definition of love than to ask me. running out of characters bye

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Have you ever taken other peoples food during recess without even asking them ? ?

yes, either when they dont want it anymore or because im close to the person
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If one day, this girl whom you barely knew for a few days asks to share an ice cream with you( let's say uhh...the "flower pot" ice cream) would you? Or is that considered a flirty move on guys? Would you feel weird or creeped out?

idk what's a flower pot ice cream but yes, it's obviously a flirty move because i have yet to find a girl whom ive barely met willing to share food what more desserts with me. no i would be flattered because food is a blessing to all
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Omg I just saw your last answer ahahahaha well new question. When SueKi dances, she looks like..?

DoYouKnowSUEKI
a midget, a really good at dancing midget wahahah... hah.. ah.. tbh i havent seen you dance for ages..

If there is one thing that you could change about the past, what would that be?

I would create a time machine back then so I don't have to do it now

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