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Hey :) I started college two days ago and I'm worried that I'm going to fall behind with coursework and revision etc. It takes me ages to do homework and I can never focus when I'm doing revision. Have you got any tips for revising or just college in general? Thanks :) xx

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Hey :) tip 1) always try and stay ontop of work! Don't worry too much about falling behind though, everyone falls behind at some point! Always speak to your tutor if you feel you're falling behind - they may be able to come up with some sort of plan and targets you can work towards. You could revise by writing things down and sticking them up on your wall - writing then down and decorating it in a colourful, eye-catching way can make you want to look at it more. Writing it down in general also helps you remember it. Try and do as much work at college as possible because you may not feel like doing it when you go home. After revision always reward yourself! Give yourself a treat or something to look forward to. Doing some past papers are always useful too xxx
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