well imagine that one day you meet a girl and you fell in love at first sight but she's all the things you hate .. like dolly girl or something .. you'll change won't you? .. you say you don't believe in love that much but in reality you would do anything for love wouldn't you? ..
Why do people always believe that you stay the same character all your life? It's called social evolution, for god's sake. And even if I don't want to change I'll change, probably, not being aware of it. It actually depends on her, for example her behavior towards me and all that bullshit.