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What's your opinion about the death penalty?
For it, but depending on the case, of course.
What's the last thing you bought?
A much deserved whiskey and coke.
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What color do you wear most frequently?
blue or black. I wear jeans almost every day, and my work shirts are black.
You guys need to make a video together about raising the girls in two different homes, I think it would be helpful to a lot of people.
I don't know. Our lives are very complicated right now. We are both trying to move on, not so much emotionally, but financially, and mentally. I think both of our hearts are out of it, and we are trying to concentrate on the "smart" decisions to make that is best for all of us. Making videos together is not the smart thing to do right now, because people won't stop speculating about "us." Yes, our lives were out there on youtube for the world to see for a few years. But her and I are very much over, we don't communicate too much except when we exchange the girls. I'll tell you right now, that we both love on them, try to teach them as much stuff as we possibly can, we play with them, we try to teach them the difference between right and wrong. We celebrate their differences, and enjoy their similarities. "How" we do that isn't really anything that a video can show. Just know that although her and I have different opinions about how her and I should live our lives, we have a common goal in raising our children. They WILL be good citizens, who hopefully make way more "right" decisions than "wrong" ones. They will know how to love, to cook, to befriend, to "say no", and nothing will ever make us change those goals.
Do you want more kids?
I would love a boy. I bartend, and so often I see guys in there with their sons watching the game, hanging out...I have considered becoming a member of Big Brothers, Big Sisters here to get my little "fix." lol
Would you be sad if Brandy had another baby and do you think she ever will?
Sad? No, I don't think so. It's tough when you have siblings that don't live with you 100% of the time though. There are some days that are pretty stressful, simply because my youngest don't understand why my oldest aren't there that day. If either of us have another kid down the road sometime...that will probably be the toughest part about it for me. Do I think she will? Yes.
Are you going go make any more videos with Brandey?
Probably not. It's possible though
What's a phrase you use often?
When I'm pouring a drink (I bartend), a lot of times when someone is waiting for it I'll say "Oh yeah, that looks real nice...Oh, and this drink looks good too." Then I give a little wink, walk away, and see him/her shake their head/roll their eyes as they walk off with their drink...
How does your families feel about the split?
Honestly, I don't know how her family feels about it. Her Grandma still loves me, as I do her, and she sends me encouraging messages throughout each and every week. Most of the rest of her side of the family seems to have dropped off of Jeremy's planet, however. As far as my family goes, we are a lot smaller than hers. My parents wanted us to work it out for the longest time. They don't really "believe" in divorce. I know a lot of people don't "believe" in it, but when someone walks out the door with a loaded uhaul, there's only so much you can do. I remember the moment I finally came to terms with our final break-up, a huge relief came over me. I think my family realized this, and have been supportive of both her and I. They want us to be good parents, and I think that so far, we are.
Knowing now what caused your marriage to fail, if you could go back and save it...would you?
No. I'm not really a believer of things happen for a reason, though. In hindsight, the ring should have never been placed on the finger in the first place. We already had two beautiful little girls together. Tons of problems to start with...even more to end with.
Outside of exchanges with the girls, do you and Brandey talk much?
No. We send pictures of the girls to each other sometimes, but we don't sit and chat on the phone, or go out for dinner or anything.
How are Ella and Audrey adjusting to the divorce?
It's been up and down. Some days are definitely better than others. They don't like when we have to go to work. Some days they'd rather be with one of us, and some days they'd rather be with the other. It IS an adjustment for all of us.
Yeah I think you should & about your life & kids & tha adventures u have
coming soon. i promise.
Her nice status was on her StarSince1987 page. It was basically telling these trolls to leave you alone.
Oh. Well, it would be nice. lol
How did you guys determine your visitation schedule?
We've basically been working the same schedule for a long time, so we just attempted to keep it the same as much as we could. Our work schedules are pretty much opposite, so we both get to see the kids just about daily.
What’s your favorite breakfast food?
Oatmeal.
I think your ex still cares about you. She post a lot of quotes and I think some of them are about you. And her recent Facebook status was about you. Maybe you guys should talk.
About her facebook status...she's blocked me on there, so i have no idea what you're talking about. As far as her still caring about me...she cares that I'm hurt (I hope), but she doesn't care like she wishes we were still together. Trust me.
How does Brandey feel about the girls being around your girlfriend? Or the fact that you have a girlfriend. Sorry for asking you but she won't answer any questions on her ask account.
She probably feels the same as I do about her having other men around our kids. It sucks/is going to suck. I actually have not had my kids around my girlfriend even once yet. I think she understands me having a girlfriend.
I think you guys should take some time and try again. Y'all were so cute together. :(
Sorry, but no thank you. We've taken time before, and it only got worse.
Why are people trying to start shit?? I think that you and Brandey are great parents and good people. I follow both of your Instagram accounts and it looks like you two are heading in different directions, but one thing is constant, y'all both love your girls.
Thank you. I agree we are definitely on different paths, but we both love our daughters tremendously. It is what it is.
Maybe you should take a break from social media for a while. It seems like you still have some unsolved issues on your part. Don't get me wrong, I am team dadoffourgirls but you are giving these trolls what they want. They want to see drama and know that you guys aren't ok. Just my two cents.
thank you. :-) It's not about me and her being ok anymore. That's what I don't get. We are divorced. But these people keep assuming. lol I know I don't owe anybody explanations, but when all they get are one-sided tidbits of information making ME look bad, it definitely gets frustrating.
Hey don't get mad. You put YOUR life out there without all the details. Of course people are going to speculate. Now you're considering making your own YouTube channel to continue to put your life out there. It just sounds to me like she's paying someone who can't take care of themselves.
I'm not "mad" because you keep asking redundant questions. I'm mad because you're trying to start shit between Brandey and I. For what? We are already divorced. We are good parents to our kids, but not very good as a couple. I thought the whole divorce thing made that clear.
This isn't a question really just wanted to say your response to the child support question touched me. I'm sorry you're experiencing all of this. For what it's worth you're a great father (from what I see as an outsider) keep up the good work. Having a great father sets the foundation
Thank you
Do you think Brandey is pretty now that you're divorced?
On the outside, yeah. Her insides need some work. Sorry, but it's true.
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