@needadvice1

Need Advice? Just Ask♥

Ask @needadvice1

Sort by:

LatestTop

how do you know when you're in love? i want to be with 'the one' & i'm tired of wasting my time with relationships that don't work. how do i flat out ask my bf how he feels about forever and what he think love is and what we have. he isn't the communicating type.

When you're in love you'll know,trust me. And just come out with it!the longer you wait the longer he's going to keep you wondering. Sit down and have a conversation about where this is going,he'll have to come out with some answers,i'm sure you'll be surprised,good luck -a x

(part two) anyways, my ex broke my heart. but my current bf treats me so good. i just dont know if i feel some special spark with him? i feel like i cant end it but is there something im missing? i really like him i just dont have that first love feeling with him....i dont know what to do..

Maybe you're still secretly trying yo get over your ex?he was your first love so you're not going to have that same feeling with anyone else bc they're not going to be your first love,if you're not 100% and he is is that fair?if you're having doubts maybe you need to re-think whether you want to be with him,but then again maybe you're just nervous,if you do really like him then work to keep the relationship going,hope this has helped,good luck -a x
Liked by: 99.69.96

my bf&i have been together for almost a year, we took things pretty slow but we recently finally went all the way. when we did it it was really great but i didn't feel like i loved him like i did w/my ex (my 1st btw)ifelt like i wanted to be with him forever. (see next question...)

i'll reply in the next message -a x
Liked by: 99.69.96

Related users

What would be the most perfect day out for a girl? Thank you if you answer this by the way :)

well it differs on each girl because they might have different tastes,so ask her what she likes doing and what her interests are,and no problem:)-a x
Liked by: 99.69.96

what's a good way to meet people? it's my first year at ju co so i'm having trouble. i live with my parents &commute. my college has like no clubs that i'm interested in. i dont party much..i joined the y thats by campus..i'm friendly to people in my classes..but i havent made real friends yet:(

try joining some new clubs even if you arent 100% interested in them,its a good way to make friends and you may end up liking it,add them on facebook and try talking to them more in class,maybe have lunch with them etc,im sure you'll find new friends in no time,good luck:)-a x

my bf &i did it for the first time. well, it was his first time not mine. but i'm really tight down there& he's pretty big..i was kinda uncomfortable. it's the next morning& i'm still bleeding alittle. nothing major like i just notice it when i pee. is there anything i can do to be more comfortable?

just slowly let him brake in to you,it'll get alot easier and less painful the more times you do it x
-benyon

last school year i really liked this guy ( i still do) and he liked me too but now we dont have any classes together..but how do i know if he still likes me?

just ask him?you never know if you don't ask,be brave :)
-benyon

Can you share my advice page please? I would like more people to know about this page so they can get any help they need as soon as possible, question box is empty, we're here for anyone, stay strong!<3

yourallsostrong’s Profile PhotoSupport for you❤️
xxxxxx
-benyon

I've liked this guy for ages and we dated, I broke up with him and Hooked someone else on that same night. He then slept with 2 of my friends. I really like him and he keeps coming running back. Should I move on or give him one last chance?

move on hun,but if you love him and feel as though its right,take him back
-catherine x

I've become friends with benefits with this guy and he's the guy version of me, we've also become best friends and I think I'm inlove with her but were both still in high skl

fair enough,hope it all works out:)

My blonde wife looked on my computer and found lots of pics and videos of blonde lady's like her enjoying sex with bigger black muscular men :-) Sarah my wife now has a black lover !! Is this my fault ??

if you're old enough to have a wife,you shouldn't be asking on here:)
-catherine

'LIKE' this if you think ask.fm should be shut down, due to cyber bullying causing tragedy's!

personally i dont think it should :s no one is forcing you to make ask.fm,and you can put it on no one can send anonymous questions. Also people send questions to themselves. If they can't handle the hate they shouldn't make ask. and share it?it's still terrible they would do that but thats just my opinion..-aoibhinn

so my ex is showing me all the symptoms that prove to me that he wants me back ( being jealous , asking my friend about me, coming to my house and checking if im allright or not ) so what should i do ?? should i talk to him about us getting back together ? or shud i stay this way with him? help :(

well would you like to get back together with him?if so then yeah talk to him about it!you'll never know if you never try,the worst he could say is no,and from what i've heard he does!but remember you did break up for a reason -aoibhinn x

i get rejected a lot and i've not had a proper girlfriend, the girl always says i'm "too good a friend" but i think this is a cover up of the fact that i'm not much of a looker, i get told i'm ugly a lot, any advice to make girls see past this?

aw hun, maybe you're just a lovely guy and some girls don't want to ruin their friendship with you and if they do say no because of your looks,then they're not worth it! just wait for the girl who loves you for you, looks and all! trust me just be patient she's out there looking for ya! x x
-catherine xo

If your plane was about to crash, who would you want sitting next to you?

brother and boyfriend
-catherine

The guy I like hates me, its all because of a girl I know, I'm really heart broken, what should I do?

there's nothing really to do,just ask him why he hates you?if he carrys on hating you after explaining yourself to him,then im sorry but you've just got to your best to get over him x
catherine

This boy I was really close to moved about 2 hours car drive away from me last week and I miss him so much, I cried on his shoulder the day he left and I has cried every night since, I have no way to contact him, I have cut I mis him that much, how can I stop missing him so much and wanting to cut??

don't cut, please don't ruin you're beautiful fragile skin, and trust me, it never makes you feel ANY better in the long run, just leaves scars!but i'm afraid only time will heal your sadness, but it'll get so much easier x
-catherine
Liked by: Tamara

Always picking friends over his girlfriend Never going out Takinnnn about 4O minutes to reply stuff like this ?x

tell him how you're feeling, tell him he should make effort with you aswell as you making effort with him x
Liked by: Tamara

Can you tell me what a good boyfriend is like? Such as how he treats you and stuff? I'm unsure about my boyfriend and need some advice about if he is treating me right x

i'm in a lovely relationship myself, tell me how he treats you and i'll say if it's right or not? x
-catherine

I want to break up with my girlfriend but I think she will take the news badly and self harm or worse what should I do??

it's not fair to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you, tell her cos doing this will just hurt her more x
-catherine

What can I do to improve myself...basically my parents and sisters are telling me that I am a complete disappointment to my family. They say I am not worth the air I breathe and that I am never going to be good enough for them. Help?

record all of this happening, tell an adult at school you trust x
-catherine

I'm carrying on from hear anyway my dad beats me sometimes and my mum calls me a bitch my school life is fine but I want to move out we have had sociall service round once but they lied and said everything was fine I want them to come round again but I don't want them to find out it was me I need h

ring them up and tell them, show them the beatings and record your mum calling you names x
-catherine

hey i have friend problems ok so i moved home about a year and a half ago and i moved to a really small place. i made a group of friends but in april they strted ignoring me. there were 6 friend sin the group and they would all ahve sleepovers and leave me out they would also talk about me, ignore

they're not true friends then, find some new people to talk to and try to make a friendship with someone new x

This boy likes me and he started texting me, and I only texted beck to be nice. He's related to a really close friend of mine, and he asked me on a date and I begged my friend to come along. Now he's saying he'll pay for me ect and I don't like him and I don't want him to think i so. What do I do?!?

tell him straight up, you don't like, tell him he's lovely as a friend but you can't see yourself being anything more than friends x
-catherine

Is it true, a guy who has teased you, called you names, embarrassed you, ganged up on you (himself and his friends) and so on.. likes you? I'm so confused, I've known him most of my high school year, I didn't even know him and he started on me for no reason.. Really need an answer, thanks :)

no it doesn't usually, it just means he's an asshole x
-catherine

what's your fb?x

i cant get the link atm,but if you go onto my personal ask ask.fm/aoibhinnbieberxx the link is in the bio x

Hey,urm well Im finding this hard ive fallen for my brothers bestfriend but I don't know what to do!?:/ x

Well if you like him you like him,you never know it may work out!think of monica and chandler from friends,chandler and ross are best friends!dont give up!-apibhinn x

I have vajina flaps, do guys actually find it a turn off? I wont shag anyone because of it.

everyone does

How do you know when a boy wants to kiss you?

tbh this is a question all girls want to know,sorry but i'd ask a boy -aoibhinnx

iya,really wanna be a part of your advice page,can I be one of the admins please?x x

yeah mail me on fb x

Would you ever go out with someone with scars?

yes,it wouldnt matter if they did or not-aoibhinn x

I like a teacher at my school, what shall I do ?

Nothing,try to move on and get over him,nothing is going to happen as firstly it's illegal. You should see him/her as nothing more than an educator -aoibhinn xx

I have a cooking exam tomorrow and we're not allowed to wear long sleeves or bracelets. I'm terrified someone will see my scars. What can I do to cover them? :S

Use makeup e.g concealer,foundation,powder etc,hope everything goes okay -aoibhinnxx

Next

Language: English