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One of my closest mates felt my balls the other day, and ye i was just kinda like what ya doing bro? and he just kinda got all horny on me... is he gay or just too much testosterone?

Tough one... You have to consider. If he is gay, does that really matter? I mean like he is your friend. Just make sure he knows you're not and that way you hopefully won't be in another situation like that. But maybe he isn't actually gay, maybe, as you said he has a lot of testosterone and maybe he's a little confused and is just experimenting or something. I haven't been in a situation like that but, that's my view on the situation

I'm really shy at my new school, and I'm finding that small talk doesn't work, is there any advice at trying to be myself and being more talkative. I'm scared ill say the wrong thing, or sound to cheesy or offensive, and its just scary

I know exactly what you mean, I feel the same way around certain people. But really, it's normal to feel that way, most people are quite self conscious and anxious around others, I myself am pretty shy if I'm honest. But what I've noticed is that people actually don't seem to notice, and they feel it's a part of who you are, it isn't frowned upon or a bad thing in fact, the shy people I know all tend to be nicer and more friendly and everyone sees them that way. If it is bothering you though, you should actively try to be more open, even build stronger bonds with your inner circle of school friends and that way, you'll feel more natural around them. When you're more natural around them, you won't even think anymore about being more open with others. It'll be second nature almost :) good luck -D

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Sorry for the bother, but can you please help me spread around this page whatever way you can, so I can help as many people as possible? Thanks  Here for you. (this one)

Then I ask you, help me share it please :)

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Hey David. Listen maybe you should start sending people the message you used to send on stream.

I think I should. Since the stream disappeared it's been hard to be found by people who need help. Because of that; it's largely been given up on. Please share this page. I swear I will be active and help people whenever they need it!

Hi guys, we get like no questions.

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We honestly get next to no questions at all. And although that may mean people dont need help. Lets be honest, to believe that is naive. We WANT to help as many people as we can and need your help! So share this link all over the place, write it on your neighbours cat for all I care, as long as people see it. And that way people who need help might drop a question and we'll be able to give them help, or at least comfort them to the best of our ability. Any share will help, I'm asking for yours -D

My friends r being horrible to me nd I dont know why :( they have all turned on me and it's awkward at school now. Even my crush hates me ;(

I've been through this before, it's most likely just a friendship group thing, soon it will leave from you and move onto someone else but if it doesn't then you should talk to one of your friends that has turned on you and ask him/her what's happened. If you don't want to do that maybe ask your crush? It will give you a reason to talk to them as well;) or maybe distance yourself from them and see if they say anything or talk to you about it. I hope it all gets better soon. We're always here to help if it gets any worse but stay strong and act like it doesn't get to you. I love you. E x

Okay so I'm 15 and I went on a family trip. The family we visited had a 21 year old son, and he took a liking to me. He kissed me unexpectedly and nothing happened for awhile. Recently he told his parents and blamed the whole thing on me so its a huge family crisis and I have no idea what to do, and

Explain to your family, surely they will understand and believe you. None of this is your fault and your family will have the common sense to know that you wouldn't randomly kiss a 21 year old. He should be ashamed of himself for not only what he did but also for not taking responsibility for his actions. Remember, they're your family and you have the right to their attention at least until they hear you out and explain what really happened. God Bless -D

Thank you so much that really helped me I'm gunna try the cutting idea thanks

No worries always here beautiful (: -E

I get bullies on ask fm and I hate it but I also get bullies in person so if I delete ask I'm sacred it will get worse In person. I cut because I hate my life and I can't do this anymore all my friends don't care about me nd I'm losing everyone please help me

Okay please listen to me, you are beautiful I promise. Please don't let anyone tell you different because you are probably loved by the most amazing boy out there who is probably thinking about your gorgeous face right this very second. Please do me a favour, if you cut write someone's name that means a lot to you on wherever you cut and you can't cut until their name has gone completely. Or draw your cuts with colourful pens. Every single girl is beautiful in there own way and that means your are aswell. So keep your head up princess and stay strong; your tiara is falling beautiful. -E

Responce. One of my closest friends tells me I should tell a teacher, but I don't want everyone knowing, and I know they will keep spreading after. At school the girls also say horrible things about me to the guys who like me and my mates and they also try intimidate my girl friend

talk to your friends about it. tell them to to listen to any of the stupid rumours. the peoples spreading them are just pathetic. they do it all out of jealousy. stay strong. hope I helped -M

I also go to a Christian school and church and they are small, and we all know each other. But yeah, now I'm too scared to go to church anymore because the rumors of me wanting to hook up with guys has gotten worse and at school, I try not let it bug me and I put on a brave face, giving them a nice

tell someone about it, your brother/sister or someone close to you. maybe they will help you sort it out -M

. Some girls one year older than me always body check me, give me death stares, make snarky comments and spread false rumors about me. I'm too intimidated to approach them and ask them what i did wrong, but they told some of my guy mates they were jealous of how pretty I am. Can u help me? :/

okay well there just doing those mean things out of jealousy. if you want to approach them but are too scared go with a group of your friends. stay strong gorgeous -M

i have asked so many questions and never get responses. If your "group" was really here for help then you would answer me. are you against gays or something? homophobic group?

I have seen 0 see questions that relate to homosexuality. I am in no way homophobic and I am sure nobody on this page is. The people on this page are voluntarily giving their own time and do so selflessly. Please be more respectful and refrain from making false claims stating that we are homophobic. -D

I like a guy ok but my friend she is new she likes him and she says she wil kill me if I like him and I told her i don't like him as a lie and that boy sits right next to me i want to tell him i love him but I don't know how please help I love that guy but other girls the popular ones go up to him

Its not always the popular girls that gets the guys. But before you tell him that you love him, get to know him a bit better, try build up a friendship before expressing your feeling towards him, because if he ends up being a jerk, you don't want to get embarrassed and feel rejected.. we all know how painful that can be. As for your new friend, tell her the truth; I remember telling my best friend that I really fancied the guy who she used to like and she was surprisingly okay with it and it didn't ruin our friendship (It also felt really good finally telling her, it meant I no longer had to secretly flirt and pretend I hated him). Don't let a boy come in between your friendship though, because boys come and go. Hope I helped and hope it works out for you :) -Hღ xx

my bestfriend kissed the guy i liked then a year later i got a bf and she made out with him behind my back aswell, and condoms fell out of her bag yesterday aswell. I asked her who they were for, because she is single, but she just said its for 'emergencies' should i be worried.. :\

This is a very tricky one, but most likely yes, from what you've told me your best friend isn't really a true friend, and you should talk to your friend and tell her your not very comfortable with what she has been doing and that it hurts your feelings, she may not actually be aware, but is she really a best friend if she goes behind your back and hurts you? It also takes 2 to tango, so your boyfriend on the other hand seems like a player, I suggest you let him go if your not his one and only, hes probably not worth holding onto. -Hღ xx

I really like this boy but I don't know wat to say please help me!!

Okay if you like a boy be yourself, some people say you shouldn't buy boys can tell when you act different with them. Tell him you like him. All you have to say is 'I kinda like you...' The conversation will carry on from there. Hope I helped -M

My friend has just left me for another girl, I made a bit if a big deal about it but I said sorry and we made up but now everyone's going against me

There's not much to say except that it will all blow over. If people can't accept that youre sorry then they don't deserve your apology, youre a wonderful person and people will recognise that you don't deserve anyone going against you. God bless. Hope I helped -D

There's a guy in my class who I really like. I've never really talked to him before and I'm not that confident. Plus he's always surrounded by pretty girls and a bunch of his mates. Even if I did get him alone, i wouldn't know what to talk about.

Talking to the guy you like may be very hard, as you are scared what they may think of you and if they will like you back as well. But what you have got to do is step out of your comfort zone and approach him, there is no use waiting around and keeping quiet or he will never know how you feel. Start off by asking some questions and listening to his replies, this will give you topics to start conversations with and will show your interested. Don't forget to laugh and smile and keep good eye contact so he doesn't feel as though he's boring you to death. Even throw in an appropriate compliment, and he might get the hint your interested. Hope this helped -Hღ xx

Who ever '-M' is she gives the best advice I wish me and you were friends

Thank you, that means a lot -M

I just recently got a girlfriend she's my first and I don't know what to say to her and stuff pls help

First of all text her sweet things in the morning when you wake up and just before you go to sleep so she knows you've been thinking about her but don't be to clingy, sometimes let your gf talk to you first because girl like a chase. Don't act over protective with her but still be protective so she knows you care, also just talk to her like she's your bestfriend(: -E

How can I become popular

Okay it's hard to become popular. Try and get in with the popular crowd try and make lots of friends with different people. Don't be afraid to go up to people and say hey. That's how I became popular. You just need to have the confidence to talk to people. Hope I helped -M

How can I get a girl

Okay, always be yourself with girls. Text her cute things like 'Morning Gorgeous' give her compliments, ask her if she's okay? If she's ever sad of feeling low text her long paragraphs to cheer her up. Make her happy. Make her feel as if she can trust you. Don't just tell her how you feel...show her how you feel. Hope I helped -M

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