How do you know if you love the person and not just infatuation?
When you've considered all the flaws and still accept that person as to who he is and who he will become.
He was supposed to protect you and be there for you but he chose to leave you. What kind of a man is he
No. I was supposed to protect myself from myself. But for the past few years, I still couldn't do that. I was dragging him down with my sadness. I was and still am always miserable.Do you think that's healthy for him? Considering his culture and environment he grew up in? No.
How can you not blame him when he ghosted on you?! He ruined you and you're protecting him.
I'm not protecting him. You know nothing. So you have no right to hate him. He ghosted me to protect himself from me. I will ruin him as how I've ruined myself if we continued to stay together.