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I used to cut when I was 14 or sth but i've been clean for several years now, these days i have been having those urges to cut ?? I am afraid that if i start cuting again i wont be able to stop :(

Well it's amazing that you stopped for so many years! But you need to keep this up!! Why do you feel like you should cut again? But you need to fight these urges, find something to balance off the urge, exercise, writing, drawing, doodling, etc. Just anything to take your mind off of self harming (Owen)

Hey um is it possible to have a crush on someone but not for there loooks?

A lot of people are attracted to peoples personalities! It is possible! :) - Jake

I have stayed with him cause i cant bear to leave him but im scared to talk about it because of what happened with my ex, which was a mistake btw..

We all make mistakes in relationships but you will need to talk about this. you can't just leave it alone. It's not good for the relationship in general(Owen)
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My boyfriend had been messaging random girls on kik basically asking them for pics and stuff and i found out, he tried to make it out as innocent but its really hot me.. when i found out i was being sick for hours, i hate him for it but i love him and we keep arguing and i don't know if i can cope..

Well i can understand that you would be pissed at him for this because it is technically a form of cheating in your relationship. Bottom line is if he respected you and loved you then he shouldn't have done this or abused your trust in this way. He is completely in the wrong, never feel like that you are at fault but it's up to you if you decide to forgive him or not. But if he did it once, he might do it again. (Owen)
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Am i a hypocrite for being so upset about my boyfriend cheating because i cheated on my ex, is this karma?

I wouldn't call you a hypocrite for being upset at this. You're bound to be upset love, but it's karma if you believe in karma really (Owen)
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I am a 17 years old virgin, and I've been with ym boyfriend for 3 years.. These days he's been itching me to sleep with him.. Even though am not ready, I stil feel guilty for saying NO, what should I do ?

You should tell him that you are not ready, and you do not like being pressured, you can say to him you still love him and want to be with him but I am not ready. The only reason why is he itching to sleep with you and do stuff, is because that's what all guys want, me included. If he's been with a girl for 3 years and hasn't done anything he is going to be deprived of sex. A lot of guys would have left if they didn't get sex for 3 years, but this shows that he does truly love you and that he does truly trust you and will want to stay with you okay? Remember what the legal age limit is, and talk with him about it :) - Jake

Is it right for a 16 year old girl to b sexually active with a few guys? I mean this one guy was okay and fine as we've been friends for years, but then somehow I got involved with another guy- after not wanting to do anything with him? Say no etc to him?

People make mistakes in life, and stuff does happen. If you say you've been friends with him for years then make sure you keep it like that okay? But if you don't want anything to do with this other guy, you can push him out of your life. Stay with the friend you do have, and if both of you are happy with it (No forcing, no pressure etc) then as long as you're SAFE and both happy with it, it is fine. But, friends with benefits isn't.. well, liked by everyone, so it's probably best not to go round telling people okay? :) You asked, is it right at the beginning - My answer is, is it right? depends on your beliefs. Is it normal? In the UK, it is common. - Jake

I have no one to turn to. My life has gotten even worse with lies being told by my mum and secrets about where my dad has gone and done.. Him and my brother left when I was 5 weeks old... Noone likes me at school, I keep losing friends etc... What should I do? :(

You need to stick with the people who do care for you okay? There are always people who will care for you and will be there for you. If you treat them how you wanna be treated, make sure they stay with you then they will okay? Your mum is only lying to protect you. If she is lying then that means she doesn't want you to know and that you shouldn't know, some things are never meant to be found out and that's life:/ School is important, exams are important. Concentrate on school and look after the friends you have, and those friends will look after you back. If you do well at exams by getting your head down, your life can very easily be turned around okay? Cheer up sweetie we're here for you :) - Jake

So some of my friends are getting 'the pill' (I'm a girl btw) and they're persuading me and others to get it too? I'm 16, 17 next year. Should I or not? Please help? X

Well it's completely up to you, you shouldn't feel pressured into doing something you dont want to do. But if you're sexually active then the pill could be a good contraceptive for you but it doesn't always work. (Owen)

to Jake; who's the person you can trust the most?

I have a few friends, also Jade I can trust a lot, idk its hard to say aha - Jake

owen I thought you werent coming on?

I wasn't going to, I'm not gonna lie I'm in a shit mood but I can either block out the world and keep to myself or man the hell up, put it behind me and come here to help people. I'm selfless as can be but no matter what if people need my help who am I to deny them of this? (Owen)
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If I am attracted to my bestfriend who is a girl more than other boys does that mean am gay ? ( I am a girl)

If you are attracted to only guys. you are straight, if you attracted to boys and girls your are bisexual, if you are attracted to just girls you are homosexual (gay), if you're attratced all genders (including trans genders) you are pansexual (Owen)
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