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It's being infected for 3 days now it pretty much went infected when I did it because I cut went to sleep woke up and it was infected -.- I won't go the doctors
If you don't treat an infection, there is a chance the infection could spread to the rest of your body. And after 3 days, its vital you need to get it treated very soon.
jake-well i havent spoken to my mom in months and tbh she's most of the reason for my unhappiness. which is why i cut in the first place.
Do you feel you can talk to anyone about the self harm? Why has she caused you to become unhappy? Does she know she caused you to become unhappy? - Jake
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My self harms gone infected and I don't know what to do, I can't tell my mum she doesn't know I self harm...well she does but she doesn't its really complicated I have a meeting with camhs tomorrow should I tell them? Or should I tell a teacher? Because my app is at school and I've left?
You will need to tell a doctor, or someone who will be able to take you to the doctor, as this will need to be treated. So preferably it will need to be sorted today or tomorrow. Tell whoever you think you can trust and who will help you the most. - Jake
My boyfriend wants to have sex with me i dont know if i want to yet. And now my friends are calling me a nun and frigid cuz i wont. And its making me want to do it but i dunno please help://!
Hold up just one second, you must only ever do this if you are willing and wanting to do this! Never listen to anybody because if they pressure you into doing this it won't be as enjoyable or as special to you as it normally would be. Only do things if you're willing and ready, try not to listen to what you're being called it's not a bad thing having personal standards (Owen)
jake- do you mean why dont i tell my parents or my friends why i cut?
Yeah, so they can understand better, and help you out more, rather than them saying everything will be okay and being a bit vague - Jake
No it's okay don't worry about it thank you so much!:) it's amazing to know that I can ask you guys anything you always help
Anytime! - Jake
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All that's going through my mind at the moment is suicide and self harm. Help:'(
Why, what has caused you to feel like this? If you wanna talk more privately, message me on kik. Just remember, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem ! - Jake
I think you misunderstood me I was just saying that I'm overweight and I don't feel comfortable with myself and I don't know how to keep myself motivated or just be able to change my habits so that I can loose weight. I don't self harm though
Oh sorry, I think I did! To keep yourself motivated, you need a goal. Something to achieve. But it must be something specific! For example, you could say, I need to lose weight so I can fit into a size 8 dress, or buy a dress you love, and your goal is to fit into that dress! This aim, has to be sensible, specific, reasonable, and if you want, you can put a time limit on it. Say, in 9 weeks I must be able to fit into this. This way, you'll keep yourself motivated! This will also help you to break your habits. You can also ask your guardians or parents to help you with this! Sorry for the misunderstanding earlier - Jake
is it bad im attracted to guys in relationships and try get with them while dating someone else im such a slut urgh
You're not a Slut for trying to get with guys whilst they're in a relationship, but its not good though. If you really loved them that much, you'd tell them how you feel, and see if their relationship works out or not? Or learn to move on - Jake
My self harm has gone infected and idk what to do help
Tell your parents or guardians about this, as this will need to be treated with antibiotics! - Jake
Fact that I'm clearly not healthy. I want to change myself for the better so I can be healthy but so i can also feel healthy and be more confident being me.
148 pounds? That is 10 stone 8, that is overweight yes. But, its your responsibility to lose that weight okay? Do your parents know you want to lose weight? They should support you with the weight loss! It is good that you've told someone what was happening, not good to bottle it up, have you explained to the school and parents what's going on? What caused you to self harm in the first place? - Jake
i was hospitalized a while ago for cutting. but when i came home my parents did nothing to support me. they think it was like a one time thing for attention or something. even though they've both seen my cuts and scars. and my friends are supportive but dont really understand why i cut.
Why don't you tell them why you cut? So they are able to help you and support you more? - Jake
I wanna talk to someone but not on here, Jake I said hi on kik x
Okay! - Jake
Jake?:'(
What's up? - Jake
owen do u have kik or bbm?
I have both!
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Uhh doesn't narrow it down :P (Owen)
I have a date on Sunday and I need my spots to go!! Any tips or ideas?!
Errm, clerical, nivia or face wipes should help with spots :) (Owen)
Owen - thank pippa for everything:) all the help ad support. You guy run a great page x
Anytime :)
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iv'e been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now, he is so perfect and i'd never dump him because i love him way to much and i think he loves me that much too? Anyway, we both keep having arguements somehow? and we really need to stop, how do we try and get along together? x
Well, you can't stop two people from arguing, it's part of every relationship. But you could always talk to him, and tell him you want to stop the arguing, and tell him how you feel okay? If you don't want to do that, then when you think an argument is about to happen, you always try to back down, ( So don't argue back ) Which will then stop the argument, either of these two are a possibility - Jake
Can you suggest a particular admin or couple of admins from other sites who are great?
Well, all of the admins I know and all the pages I know are very good, including the admins on this page. But simply the first page who have had a huge amount of experience answering questions - http://ask.fm/AdviceToHelpU - They're very good, but this is just ONE example. - Jake
What are some ways to cover up self harming scars? I tried wearing all sleeve tops but I get to hot and sweaty, my parents don't know I self harmed and I don't want to tell them, my school and gp promised they wouldn't tell my parents
Why can't you tell your parents? But you could always put a bandage round the scars if you want to? Or wear a long sleeve thermal top? If you need to talk to someone about this self harming, we're here to help, just ask okay? Or privately message me on kik - Jake
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