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is it wrong to move on so quickly? Like, after a 3 week breakup, i suddenly start to fall for someone else. I feel like a slut :(

It's not wrong at all :) it's up to you the pace that you move on at and you're not a slut for it :) I've done worse that 3 weeks. (Owen)

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If I set up an advice page for kik under a differentname that hides my identity wouuld my dad ever fond out?

I don't think so, only if he goes on your phone (Owen)

How do I have sex for the first time. What if my gf gets infected. Help

Best thing is to relax and just do whatever feels right for you but if you're worried about infections make sure you wear a condom (Owen)

I have an English exam tomorrow, any tips?

Don't stress about it, if you stress you won't do as good. Understand the questions fully and if the exam is on an extract. Make the point, explain it and show the evidence behind this point. Use proper grammar and punctuation and good luck! (Owen)

No why would I hes my brother

He abused you, irregardless whether he's your brother or not, what he did was wrong and he should be punished by it (Owen)

My brother abused me i want to cut to get rid of the pain he did it a few years ago but it still effects me I want to die

Have you told anybody about this? (Owen)

I went to a party recently and the guy I like looked after me when I was really drunk and throwing up- but now he's telling everyone he got off with me- does that mean he likes me?

It could do, but he could also be showing off to his friends about what happened, you're best of asking him to be fair that way you can get an answer (Owen)

Im pushed around by people I get treated like im nothing and I can't handle it any more

Talk to me love, what's going on with you? (Owen)

I self harm (not really badly though) and this girl keeps asking if I do but I keep saying I don't, but I feel really guilty lying to her and stuff and I don't know what to do, I have trouble trusting people so tend to keep everything bottled up :/

Good, frankly it's nobody elses business apart from your own but this person may also be asking whether you do because they want to try and help you and to understand why you do, I'm the same I keep most things bottled up inside of me so you people on ask know barely anything about me, even the people which I help a lot and are close to (which apparently isn't good) but once you do let your problems out, it does feel good knowing that you're trusting a person with these and that someone wants to at least help you (Owen)

What's the butterfly challenge?

1. When you feel like you want to cut, take a marker, pen, or sharpies and draw a butterfly on your arm or hand.
2. Name the butterfly after a loved one, or someone that really wants you to get better.

3. You must let the butterfly fade naturally. NO scrubbing it off.
4. If you cut before the butterfly is gone, you’ve killed it. If you dont cut, it lives.
5. If you have more than one butterfly, cutting kills all of them.
6. Another person may draw them on you. These butterflies are extra special. Take good care of them.
7. Even if you don’t cut, feel free to draw a butterfly anyways, to show your support. If you do this, name it after someone you know that cuts or is suffering right now, and tell them. It could help. (Owen)

hey, I've got summer ball (prom) at my school on Friday night! I'm so exited! But I really don't know what to do because I really want a boyfriend and well I'm only 12 so... Can you tell me what does the boys really like and what to do around them and how to get them to chat with you?

Just try and be yourself, don't try to be somebody that you're not, if you like a guy, have the courage to ask him out or something like that. Just be yourself and stop worrying about little things (Owen)

I have missed my period for six months?

Have you engaged in any sexual contact? If so there's a chance you may be pregnant, if not they I would go and see your GP to find out what's happened to you (Owen)

I selfharm as I find its the only way to release pain, but I haven't told my parents as I'm not that close to them but my friends have seen my cuts and want to help me but they have tried and can't. I feel so bad and want to stop and my friends have been crying because of it, what should I do?

The best thing to do is to try and find something that can help you to stop self harming, here's 62 ways
To stop self-harming -
1. Butterfly challenge
2. Twanging elastic bands on your wrist
3. Drawing on yourself in red marker
4. Scribbling on sheets of paper
5. Writing (poetry, stories, journal, etc.)
6. Cuddling with a stuffed toy
7. Being with other people
8. Watching a favorite TV show (preferably a comedy)
9. Posting on web boards, and answering others’ posts
10. Thinking about how I DON’T want scars for the summer (or the rest of your life)
11. Painting your nails
12. Going to see a movie
13. Eating something ridiculously sweet (or any favorite food)
14. Doing school work
15. Surf the net
16. Go into chat rooms to talk
17. Call a friend and ask for company
18. Playing a musical instrument
19. Singing
20. Looking up at the sky (night is especially beautiful) .
21. Redo this list.
22. Punching a punching bag (with gloves on)
23. Shoot rubberbands across the room.
24. Cover yourself with band-aids where you want to cut
25. Mix warm water and red food coloring, and put in on your skin (feels and looks like blood)
26. Letting yourself cry (can be very difficult for some)
27. Sleep
28. A hot shower, or relaxing bath (no razors in the tub, though)
29. Play with a pet
30. Detangling yarn or necklaces
31. Re-organizing your room
32. Cleaning
33. Having a pillowfight with the wall (yes, neighbors may think you are crazy, but that’s ok)
34. Knitting or sewing
35. Reading a good book
36. Dressing up very glamorous
37. Coloring your hair
38. Listening to music (try use calm music)
39. Watching a candle burn (no playing with the flames!)
40. Finding someone else you can help out
41. Meditate
42. Watching a scary movie.
43. Work on a website
44. Have a vivid fantasy love affair with a celebrity
45. Go somewhere very public
46. Bake
47. Alphabetize your CD’s
48. Chewing leather (especially if you self harm by biting)
49. Buy a home Henna tatoo kit (peels off the next day-similar to skin picking)
50. Painting or drawing
51. Ripping paper into itty-bitty pieces
52. Hugs-(this one is very nice…)
53. Writting letters or emails
54. Talk to yourself (or if that feels weird, buy a small tape recorder-It then feel like someone is listening)
55. Stroke nice fabrics
56. Hug a pillow
57. Hyperfocus on something like a rock, hand, etc.
58. fingerprint
59. Scream real loud
60. Dance
61. Make hot chocolate (mmmmm….)
62. pop bubble wrap
(Owen)

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