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I'm the type of person that people never really notice, I am loud and outgoing, but I'm not very popular. I have trust issues, so doesn't help. I decided to help with this advice page because when I was going through "my past" there wasn't one of these I could turn to and I think its quite inspirational that people do these things. I'm bubbly,usually happy,I get angry really easily and yeah, I'm weird. I have a lot of fears tbh, loads! I was bullied so my self-esteem is pretty low, but I'm boosting it back up.I still believe all the things they said though(I'm ugly,fat,worthless,stupid etc) but I'm trying to believe that they're wrong. I have the most wonderful boyfriend ever, he's gorgeous,kind,caring, hilarious&so much more. He's my universe. And my soul mate:'). My dream job is a psychologist, a child psychologist. I always admired school nurses because they help kids. I'm in year 9 and will be starting my options in May/June? Yeah, I love my family&my friends. I don't know what I'd do without the people in my life right now. I love you/them all.<3
(Pippa<3)

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Well, start off why
kissing her for a while,
Then move from her
neck, down her chest,
and belly button, then
slowly make your way
down. Not fast AT all.
Also while kissing her,
Explore her body with
your hands by rubbing
her legs, stomach, boobs,
ect. Start out slow. One
of the biggest mistakes
guys make when they are
trying to eat a girl out is
starting too fast. You
want to start out by
slowly licking around
your girl's clitoris. At the
same time, use your
hands to slowly rub and
caress her legs and inner
thighs. Slowly licking her
inner thighs
Use your tongue to hit
her G-spot. To eat a girl
out properly, you will
defiantly want to hit her
G-spot with your tongue.
Move your tongue in and
out of her vagina. Again,
start out slowly before
increasing your speed. To
ensure you hit her G-
spot, make sure you tilt
your tongue upward
when moving in and out
of her vagina.
Lick her clitoris. By this
time your girl should be
super sensitive and wet.
Start out licking her
clitoris slowly to get her
even more excited. After
she is begging for more,
flick your tongue over
clitoris very quickly. To
really drive her wild, use
your hands to hold her
hips at a 45 degree angle
while you're licking her.
Don't bite her. This is one
of the most import things
to know when your
learning how to eat a girl
out properly. It can really
cause a girl pain if you're
biting her clitoris.
However, there are a few
girls who enjoy this. If a
girl asks you to bite her,
then it is OK, but be sure
not to do it too hard.
Listen to what she wants.
To truly eat a girl out
properly, you have to pay
attention to her individual
needs. Some girls like it
when men take charge
while they are eating
them out. Other girls like
to be in control and sit on
the guys face. Be flexible
with what she wants you
to do and you will have
her orgasming in your
face in no time.
Learning how to eat a girl
out properly can give
your girl an unreal
experience. While most
girls love guys eating
them out, it is important
to be sure she is
comfortable with oral sex
before doing it to her (Owen)

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Well, start off why
kissing her for a while,
Then move from her
neck, down her chest,
and belly button, then
slowly make your way
down. Not fast AT all.
Also while kissing her,
Explore her body with
your hands by rubbing
her legs, stomach, boobs,
ect. Start out slow. One
of the biggest mistakes
guys make when they are
trying to eat a girl out is
starting too fast. You
want to start out by
slowly licking around
your girl's clitoris. At the
same time, use your
hands to slowly rub and
caress her legs and inner
thighs. Slowly licking her
inner thighs
Use your tongue to hit
her G-spot. To eat a girl
out properly, you will
defiantly want to hit her
G-spot with your tongue.
Move your tongue in and
out of her vagina. Again,
start out slowly before
increasing your speed. To
ensure you hit her G-
spot, make sure you tilt
your tongue upward
when moving in and out
of her vagina.
Lick her clitoris. By this
time your girl should be
super sensitive and wet.
Start out licking her
clitoris slowly to get her
even more excited. After
she is begging for more,
flick your tongue over
clitoris very quickly. To
really drive her wild, use
your hands to hold her
hips at a 45 degree angle
while you're licking her.
Don't bite her. This is one
of the most import things
to know when your
learning how to eat a girl
out properly. It can really
cause a girl pain if you're
biting her clitoris.
However, there are a few
girls who enjoy this. If a
girl asks you to bite her,
then it is OK, but be sure
not to do it too hard.
Listen to what she wants.
To truly eat a girl out
properly, you have to pay
attention to her individual
needs. Some girls like it
when men take charge
while they are eating
them out. Other girls like
to be in control and sit on
the guys face. Be flexible
with what she wants you
to do and you will have
her orgasming in your
face in no time.
Learning how to eat a girl
out properly can give
your girl an unreal
experience. While most
girls love guys eating
them out, it is important
to be sure she is
comfortable with oral sex
before doing it to her (Owen)

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First off, make sure that
she is okay with you doing this to
her. Slowly slide your hand down
her pants and over her panties.
Rub your hand over her vagina
through her panties a bit. You will
feel her arch up into your hand or
moan in pleasure enjoying what
you are doing to her. This means
that you are good to keep going
unless she says otherwise. Slowly
slide her pants off of
her and pull her panties
down. Women really enjoy the
sensation of being undressed so
consider this part of the foreplay.
Find her clitoris which is above
her vagina. This is the perfect
place to start out touching your
girlfriend. Most women love to
have this played with by a man.
Rub your fingers over it gently
and start to move them in a circle
all around. Start out slow and then
get faster while you are doing it
to her.
She will enjoy you playing
with her clitoris, but
alternate between this and
actually fingering her vagina.
Slide your hand down and start
out sliding one finger barely
inside of her. Move it back and
forth as you start to push more
into her. She will start to get
really wet and your finger will
move easily inside of her. Some
women prefer being fingered fast
and others like it slow. Try a little
bit of both to see what she likes
the best while you are doing it to
her. If she is really enjoying it,
she will moan or even grab your
hand to help you along a little.
You can feel free to use both
of your hands if it is going
well for you. Use one of your
hands to play with her clitoris and
use the other to slide two fingers
deep into her vagina. You can also
slide another finger inside of her
which will feel great as she feels
them both moving in different
directions. Do not be afraid to ask
her what she enjoys, but if you
don't feel comfortable, just pay
attention to her actions and
noises. You can tell this way what
she is enjoying and keep doing
that the most. Every girl is
different, but you will find what
works best for fingering your
girlfriend. (Owen)

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So you're telling me you've tried all these?;To stop self-harming -
1. Butterfly challenge
2. Twanging elastic bands on your wrist
3. Drawing on yourself in red marker
4. Scribbling on sheets of paper
5. Writing (poetry, stories, journal, etc.)
6. Cuddling with a stuffed toy
7. Being with other people
8. Watching a favorite TV show (preferably a comedy)
9. Posting on web boards, and answering others’ posts
10. Thinking about how I DON’T want scars for the summer (or the rest of your life)
11. Painting your nails
12. Going to see a movie
13. Eating something ridiculously sweet (or any favorite food)
14. Doing school work
15. Surf the net
16. Go into chat rooms to talk
17. Call a friend and ask for company
18. Playing a musical instrument
19. Singing
20. Looking up at the sky (night is especially beautiful) .
21. Redo this list.
22. Punching a punching bag (with gloves on)
23. Shoot rubberbands across the room.
24. Cover yourself with band-aids where you want to cut
25. Mix warm water and red food coloring, and put in on your skin (feels and looks like blood)
26. Letting yourself cry (can be very difficult for some)
27. Sleep
28. A hot shower, or relaxing bath (no razors in the tub, though)
29. Play with a pet
30. Detangling yarn or necklaces
31. Re-organizing your room
32. Cleaning
33. Having a pillowfight with the wall (yes, neighbors may think you are crazy, but that’s ok)
34. Knitting or sewing
35. Reading a good book
36. Dressing up very glamorous
37. Coloring your hair
38. Listening to music (try use calm music)
39. Watching a candle burn (no playing with the flames!)
40. Finding someone else you can help out
41. Meditate
42. Watching a scary movie.
43. Work on a website
44. Have a vivid fantasy love affair with a celebrity
45. Go somewhere very public
46. Bake
47. Alphabetize your CD’s
48. Chewing leather (especially if you self harm by biting)
49. Buy a home Henna tatoo kit (peels off the next day-similar to skin picking)
50. Painting or drawing
51. Ripping paper into itty-bitty pieces
52. Hugs-(this one is very nice…)
53. Writting letters or emails
54. Talk to yourself (or if that feels weird, buy a small tape recorder-It then feel like someone is listening)
55. Stroke nice fabrics
56. Hug a pillow
57. Hyperfocus on something like a rock, hand, etc.
58. fingerprint
59. Scream real loud
60. Dance
61. Make hot chocolate (mmmmm….)
62. pop bubble wrap

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I use burning things to stop me from self-harming, I make a fire in my back garden and pleasure x
(Pippa<3)

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