ffs He is not a peado. Do you even know the definition on peado? I guess not. Well here: pedophilia n. an obsession with children as sex objects. Overt acts, including taking sexual explicit photographs, molesting children, and exposing one's genitalia to children are all crimes + there has to be 5 years between for it to be seen as peadophilia, and it only occurs to children under the age of 13. He hasn't done any of that so how is he a peado? There is 4 years between us, not 5, but why does it matter? It has nothing to do with you or anyone. So just let me and Danny be happy. I don't see why everyone is jumping to conclusions and interfering when you know nothing about us.