I look for someone I can be myself around. Someone who has the same interests as me but also doesn't so then there's something new I can learn about them. I want someone that's gonna devote their time to me but also things that are important to them because if you don't let them have time to their selves then they won't be happy. I want someone that's not gonna be up my ass 24/7 but they'll still talk to me. Lastly I look for someone that's gonna make time to see me. Not someone that's gonna tell me we're gonna hangout then blow me off. You need to hangout to make the relationship work, not being able to hangout or see each other just doesn't work.