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what would be the song if given to you by a partner or someone who likes you would make you say "wow" or would melt your heart?

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Depende. Kahit ano. As long as appropriate naman ang lyrics teh. Pag dinedicate-an ako ng Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds or Baby Got Back, di ko sure kung mamahalin ko siya ng lubos teh.

a social media question: what annoys you the most in facebook/twitter?

Mga pa-pampam (papansin) na pa-self-important na pa-witty na pa-deep parang sarap paluin.

i have this femme friend for 5yrs na. we started out na m.u pero hanggang ganun lang kasi f2f sya, ako f2b.kaya we remained good friends.she's in a rel now and workmates na rin kme. last month she admitted na na-fall daw sya ulit skin and over na sya sa feeling kya sinasabi nya na.Tapos this week

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tapos this week she admitted to having a crush on me again and her feelings for me never went away daw. it's kinda bothering me now na kasi yung gf nya is getting jealous na.workmates na kami ni friend and mas madalas na ako kausap nya at nakakasama kesa kay gf nya.im her only trusted friend here in

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manila.i dont want to make it a big deal sana kaya lang i feel awkward na. hindi ko na alam gagawin ko, yung kilos ko naman around her is same lang with my other friends. i can feel her actions towards me are more with malice na ulit,even before nya iadmit.i was proven correct.hai, what to do?tia!!

Layuan mo siya. May jowa siyang tao. Kung type ka talaga niya, makipag-break muna siya sa jowa niya tapos kayo ang magkariran. Sabihin mo na lang na matakot siya sa karma kapag sinaktan niya yung jowa niya ngayon. Ikaw din, matakot ka sa karma dahil malakas ang batok nito kapag pinatos mo yan. Ingat.

If somebody from the future told you after graduating HS whether you study or not you're going to be billionaire, what will your 17 year old self do? will you still go to college or not?

I am a student of life. I love learning. So the answer should be obvious.

Scenario: You will be given 10 million pesos in exchange of 10 years of your life. The deal will be immediate once you consent and there is no turning back. Would u accept? (You will not add +10 to your age, you will die 10 years earlier instead)

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I'm not afraid of death. It is inevitable. Plus I don't really like to live that long, like maging centenarian and such. I'll take the money because there's a lot of people I could help using that money. Will start with providing education for those who cannot afford it but are deserving. Then put up LGBTQ centers all over the Philippines to help queers in all aspects. Then make 8 films about my 8 exes, bioflick series baga hahahaha charut! Basta!
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What's more hurtful and which one is likelier to receive ur forgiveness? You caught your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating and says sorry? Or he/she verbally admits it to you and says sorry?

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This happened to me recently (both!), like last weekend pre. None of the things you said deserve forgiveness on my part. Cheating is not part of my vocabulary so it should not be part of hers, too. Deal-breaker ito sa akin. I'm sorry pero nawawala ang zen mode ko sa ganitong episode. But give it a few days and I'll be able to shake it off na rin naman. Kasi it's easy to shake people who wasted my time. Mga walang kuwentang halimaw.
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can you give some tips how to come out with your parents? i'm bisexual and i'm scared to tell my parents that i like girls than boys and i'm so scared if i tell them they will kick me out of the house. can you me some suggestion what should i tell them and do?

This is quite tricky to answer since there are no hard and fast rules because it depends on many factors in your life. How old are you and what is your status in life? If you are a student and still very much financially dependent on your parents, mahirap nga iyan especially if your family is conservative, religious or not very open-minded about these queer things. Pero the first thing you have to do is to be independent. If you are ready to move out of your house, make sure you can financially support yourself.
But in the end, if your parents love you naman, they will eventually warm up to the idea that you're not straight. But it's still hard to secondguess kasi I don't know your life circumstances. So I hope this note helped a bit.

Just curious. What's your worst case of LSS? Gracias. :)

Parang wala. Oh lately pala, I had to marathon My Husband's Lover eps na 2-months' worth for a project. Lumalabas na sa ilong ko 'yung theme song ni Kuh lekat.
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bcz of yolanda nagkahiwalay kmi ng gf ko.am from palo leyte.i survive d typon.we are nw in cebu kc mamamatay kmi sa gutom f we stay dr.pnuntahan ako ng gf ko aftr d storm.im glad nka survive kmi.d alam ng gf ko na nsa cebu na ako.ang sakit mawalan ng bahay.ang sakit malayo sa minamahal.greenheart331

Oh no, I hope you're fine na at the moment. Sorry to hear that. Pero okay na rin siguro iyang nagkahiwalay kayo sa kuwento mong napakahabang panahon na may lungkot kang nararamdaman. Ingat ka ha.

Worst film you have ever seen? 1 local,1 foreign :)

Hindi ako masyadong absolutist mag-isip like that teh hehe so walang worst na isa lang ever for me. May kategorya kasi yan.
Kasi ganito yan: like what I used to teach back in film school, a film could work or could not work for you but it could have aspects naman na makakapagsalba nito. Meaning walang absolute na pangit kasi kahit papaano, may mapupulot ka rin dito. In fact, when I was a student myself, natutunan ko sa isang direktor na mas marami daw akong matututunan sa kakapanood ng "pangit" na films kesa sa maganda. May punto siya. But I also don't advise on watching films and judging them "solely" sa dichotomy ng maganda/pangit lang. Like napangitan ako sa Kung Fu Divas pero nag-work sa akin yung mga creeping pa-witty inside joke symbolisms na ginamit sa pelikula. Mga ganun ba.
Saka sa dami na ng napanood ko, mahirap mag-rate ng one and only hehe. Basa ka na lang ng film blog ko, dun mo sipatin kung ano ang wiz ko type hehe:
http://leaflenstakilya.wordpress.com/

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On a scale of 1 (most vanilla) to 10 (most BDSM-ish), how are you sexually? (If this question is too personal to answer, disregard)

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The truth? The truth? Are you ready for the truth? You can't handle the truth! lolz. I'm quoting A Few Good Men Here ha, don't be alarmed.
Anyway, suffice it to say, I hate vanilla. In any forms and permutations. Yun.
But this scale really depends on the person I'm having sex with din. Alangan namang nasa #8 ako at nasa #2 pala siya? Luz. Chemistry: it begins here.
Ganyan na muna. Mahirap sagutin ito nang walang alak pare hehe charut! Saka na.
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Dahil makulay ang pride celebration: If I were to peek into your CLOSET, what clothing color would dominate my sight? (Pride celebration in a few weeks! Stay out of closet, be your own color, show your pride! (((super plugging! sorry!))))

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BLACK. Since the '90s, yan ang peg, kahit nung di pa masyadong fashionable to wear it much pero di ka naman goth-goth-an at nasabihan ka ng "pupunta ka ba ng lamay" or something. Mixed with some greys din pati. And some blues. But lately, I'm diversifying. A bit. Abangan!
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1)May nakilala ka na bang girl na straight na na-attract sa isang bisexual o butch? I don't want to put any labels sa sexual preference ko kasi I'm attracted to both. There are cases na I'm attracted more to a girl at a certain time, meron din namang cases na I like a certain guy more

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(2)than the girl. I've never had relationships. There's this really cute girl, she used to be an athlete and kinda made a name for herself. Now she's into modelling. She's really pretty and I've heard straight girls telling her na "natotomboy" sila sa kanya. It was only with her that I've felt this

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(3)way. Dati, kala ko wala akong pag-asa. Kasi nga she's straight and drop-dead gorgeous. Than it so happened la ng na I read something, na she used to be in a relationship, with a straight girl. Pero siguro it's just a write up. Pero siyempre, wala namang usok kung walang apoy. So I kinda had a

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(4)feeling na parang may chance ako kahit papano. I've been attracted to her for over 8 months now. And I'm on the verge of planning to live in the city, volunteer in sports events she's affiliated with. Just simply making a way to be close to her. Am I just insane? Planning these things na wala

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(5)namang kasiguraduhan. I've never been this impulsive.

Ansaveh ni Alex Vause beks? Ayan. Gif it gud. Click mo:
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While it's great to be impulsive, your moves are kinda premeditated already. You're planning eh. So that's different. And around this girl or a perceived chance of being near her? I'm not sure that's a good way of pursuing a life goal if the objectives are rather vague.
As for your kind of attraction, marami nang nuances akong nakita. Yes, may straight girls na na-attract sa bi o butch. Not labeling one's self is cool as long as you know who you are and what you want in terms of attraction. As for getting the person you're attracted to, medyo dun tayo ingat, beks. For the reasons I mentioned above nga. K? Doesn't matter if may rumor about her. Mas importante yata yung ikaw, at kung maaari, try to assess if smart ba yung moves mo sa pag-pursue sa attraction mong iyan.
Well, yun lang masasabi ko. Sana nakatulong.

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Natakot ka na ba sa sobrang pagmamahal?

Bakit naman kinatatakutan ang pagmamahal? Tanga lang ang matakot sa pagmamahal. So no.
Anyway balikan mo ako pag nakainom ako. Iba yata sagot ko dito if ever lolz.
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Makalipas ang ilang tambling, kamusta na ang love life? ;)

Ayan, may nilalang na akong tinatawag na baby kasi yun din tawag niya sa akin. Kahit di pa kami official and we're taking it slow, due to respective past experiences chenelyn eklavu.
Chismosa ka ha.Nagkuwento naman ako! Lolz. Wala, happy lang lola mo kasi. :)
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What are your favorite junk foods?

It varies. Right now, it's cheese-flavored chips. Pinagtripan ko itong nakita ko sa grocery na Lay's cheddar and sour cream potato chips nom. Na kasalukuyan akong kinukudaan ng baby ko dahil salty daw at hindi siya legitimate meal substitute hehe. Yari!

What color combinations will you never wear? Why?

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Yellow and something. Although sabi nila bagay daw sa akin ang yellow. Ewan ko ba pero di ko siya masyadong bet. May basic knowledge naman ako ng color chart bilang dati akong fine arts major before shifting to film, so may silbi ang basic viscomm classes ko until now. Ito ang gumagabay sa akin sa mga bagay-bagay na biswal.
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Do you believe that "2 out of 100 people you see everyday are ghosts"?

Hindi ko binibilang kung ilan ang nakakasalubong ko araw-araw beks, so I dunno. Tiyaga mo ha, dine-detect mo pa kung mumu sila. Ikaw na maraming oras sa kamay.
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for you, what is the horror of our society today?

That rulers forget what it's like to be governed so they abuse their power, and the governed forget that they have the power to overrule abuse.
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May kakilala ka bang hinalaan mong killer o mamamatay-tao?

Yes. Nagpapanggap siyang musical scorer noon hahaha! Iniwasan namin like the plague...until tiniklo siya ng ex niya na delusional at fake lang pala ang mga chorva niya sa life hahaha! I meet the strangest of peoples pare.

(This a Q for Catholic/Christian people. If you are not Catholic/Christian and u don't feel like answering or the Q does not apply, pls disregard.) Do you think the church should ordain women and make them participants in church's hierarchy as priest/bishop/cardinal/pope? Why or why not?

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Of course. Dapat lang naman na sumali ang women sa mga larangan na gusto nila.
Women are already active in religion since the olden days but men were just able to suppress them. If I remember it right, there was even one early pope na nadiskubre nila, when "he" died, na girl pala siya. Saw that in a TV docu before.

If you could be a God/Goddess of whatever, what kind of God/Goddess will u be?

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I already am nubeh. I am Bayli, Goddess of Caustic Wit. Next question.

If you are awarded the opportunity to ask anyone (fictional or not) one question, what would the question be and to whom? Follow-up: How do you think the person will respond to your question? (Ang ganda ng tanong ko na to, pang-Miss Unibers)

RRamwell’s Profile PhotoRamuel
The Marcoses. "Bakit andito pa kayo?" Kebs sa sagot. Pagkatanong ko, kakain muna ko ng Ilocos empanada. With lotsa suka.

Is film or cinema being treated as an art in the Philippines? And do you think Filipinos are film literate? Why or why not?

Medyo compounded mashadow ang question beks. Parang mga tanong ito sa isang film class take-home exam essay anek? Aminin!
I think people who could appreciate/enjoy any form of visual art is literate in that sense na puwede mong i-apply ang mga audience perception theories/studies sa tabi-tabi. People have basic understanding of many signs and symbols used in cinema na familiar sa daily life etc. so may identifiers doon na puwede nilang gamitin at pag ginamit nila, puwede mong sabihing literate na sila sa bagay na iyon. Isang buong lecture ko ito sa Narrative Cinema class actually. Tinatamad akong mag-explain now hohum.
At oo, art pa rin naman ang tingin ng mga Pinoy sa cinema. Sa trato? Di ko sure. Kasi marami diyan ang nagsasabing diring-diri sila sa Tagalog films pero sa totoo lang, nanonood din naman sila nito. Marami lang mahilig mag-generalize minsan na porke pangit ang isaln, pangit na lahat. Di naman ganun.
Ay bakla wala ako sa modang diskursong ganitich right now. Next question na nga.

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If Kris Aquino is branded "Queen of All Media" and if Miss J (ANTM) is branded as "Runway Diva Coach Extraordinaire", how do you think people brand you?

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Scary Lesbian Feminist during the late 90s when people first learned that I was a lez so they'd be careful and be all politically correct around me. Nawala ito during the 2000s. Pero since use ang vintage/retro this decade, bumalik yata ang branding kong ito heheh. Ewan. Bahala sila.
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Give one great thing about Filipino culture that you're proud of.

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The fact that we could still laugh when we're in the middle of hardships, and that somewhat makes the burden a bit lighter, kahit saglit.
At saka yung concept ng bayanihan, in many nuances and forms. I recently wrote about that, na kahit tayong mga queers online ay nagbabayanihan to the rescue lalo na kapag parang dating homophobia ang dahilan: http://thepoc.net/features/pinoy-lgbt/19494-tweeting-rules-of-dis-engagement
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Is masturbation a sin? I like to do it while watching porn. I feel guilty in the morning. Closet lesbian kasi ako. And I havent had relationships since then. So, ayun, sariling sikap.

Things that pleasure the mind, the body, the heart and the senses are not considered as "sins" in my book if the enactment of such things doesn't harm anyone in a legally binding way. Nasa sa iyo kung saan ka mas makikinig: sa katawan/pagkatao mo o sa archaic dogma that scares followers into submission through guilt.
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Teh, tulong naman. Medyo bago ako sa pagiging tibamchi. Paano ba ang safe sex sa mga tibams? Pag lalaki kasi partner ko, ang dali, pinapacondom ko, at di ako pumapayag ng wala. Paano sa babae?

Alamin mo muna ang sexual history ng babae, first and foremost. Kung active din siya sa males before, tapos ikaw din sabihin mo ang sexual history mo sa kanya, para levelling off 'yan, yun dapat mauna. Tapos you two decide on the best approach you want for safer sex. You can use condoms and put them in your fingers if you want penetration na safe or something. For cunnilingus, there's this thing called dental dams na parang saran wrap plastic sheet na you put on top of the vagina area before you go down on her, para walang direct contact.
Iba naman kasi ang nuances ng objectives din ng safe sex practice with m/f, m/m saka f/f. Siyempre dati, iwas-buntis ang drama kaya may-i-wear ng kapote si koya for you. Sa guys, siyempre sexual diseases, parang sa atin. Pero parang mas safer tayo in general, lalo na kung maayos naman ang hygiene ninyo in general. So bahala na kayong mag-nego nito.

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ODK, mamser! Ang tindi rin ng trauma na dinala sa'kin ng The Ring na yan pucha. Nadala ko yung takot hanggang college! As in halos naiyak ako nun kasi may nagsuot ng Sadako costume sa Humanities class namin! Grabe! KKLK!

TanginaTibs’s Profile PhotoTangina Tibs
Hahaha GROUP HUG!!! Leche lang devahhhhhh. I hate hate hate horror films.

Have you ever had a climax during sex na imbis na name ng kapartner mo yung lumabas sa bibig mo, ang lumabas ay ibang pangalan?

Oo, madalas. Kaya I'm sure rinding-rindi na si God gabi-gabi teh, kasi di naman niya first name ang "Oh" di ba? Ayun.

Saan nanggaling ang takot ng mga femmes sa mga "stone butch"? (Applicable to f2f maybe?)

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Well, maybe it stems from the fact na some femmes see stone butches as embodiments of patriarchal mimicry pa rin, meaning nagpapaka-man/macho to the point of being sexist/proprietary with their women (treated ang jowa as property) and all those things. Of course it's not good to generalize all butches are like this. May femmes din na ganito -- sexist, proprietary, at patriarchal. Kaya sa ugali at personalidad na yan minsan.
Pero di naman siguro takot talaga. More of hesitation, na ayaw nila ng male reminder kaya some of them nasa f2f. Pero may nuances naman kasi ang pagiging butchy/non-femme pero sadly, nila-lump na lang into one stereotype. Sometimes unavoidable, of course. We are all guilty of stereotyping naman paminsan-minsan. So it's best to put disclaimers na hindi mo gine-genralize na lang when you say an opinion about someone.

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At your age now, give 5 life lessons you've learned or you want to share (NOT pertaining to romantic love or relationships)

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Hirap sagutin ng mga Miss Universe questionssss! pero sige, will try.
1. "If it's too good to be true, it probably is." (Got this one from Catherine Willows of CSI.) Kaya dapat, trust your gut instinct more.
2. It pays to have an extra stash of something hidden away somewhere. You never know when you'll need it. Ikaw na bahala mag-define ng stash mo.
3. Ang pera, kikitain din yan ulit pabalik. Ang tunay na friendship, ang malalimang pag-ibig, at ang trabahong makakapagpaligaya sa iyo ay minsan dumadaplis lang. Yes, compounded lessons ito. Need beer to fully unravel.
4. Matakot sa tadyak ng karma. Kaya think twice before crossing this Taurean born in the Year of the Ox with a Cancer moon rising. You've been warned.
5. "Life's too short." Warrick Brown of CSI reminded me of this many seasons ago. At tama siya. Life's too short not to live, love, and laugh. Get a load of all of that whenever you can.

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Say God or whatever higher power you believe in gave you the chance to choose your sexuality. What would you choose and why?

I'd like to be a woman who loves another woman. There's some kind of synergy going on there that I couldn't quite fathom, to tell you the truth, but it excites me to no end, even if it also sometimes causes me severe pain. But being loved by the proper woman gives me immense joy. So there.

Kung may gagayahin kang nakakatakot na halimaw o multo ngayong Halloween, sino/ano at bakit?

Wala pare. Ikaw na lang.

Nagpapapasok ba sa UP Diliman ng mga kotse kahit walang UP sticker? If yes, saang entrance pwede pumasok?

Itanong mo sa UP Diliman Office of the Vice Chancellor for Community Affairs (OVCCA). Knows nila itey.

What's your idea of a romantic Halloween date?

Romantic ba ang halloween? It's my favorite foreign holiday because of the costumes and festivities (and because black and orange are my favorite colors of all time) but I don't think I could associate any kind of romanticism with it teh. Di kaya ng powers.

If your partner cheated on you a single time, practiced safe sex, and believes it will never happen again, would you want them to confess this indiscretion to you?

Sana, oo. Pero the fact na she went behind my back, wala, luz valdez na itey. Break na agad, lalo na kung wala naman sa usapan namin ang chumorva ng iba.
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What would you do if you saw a few lines/a paragraph/whole work that is intellectually and rightfully yours but is declared by someone as his/hers through outright plagiarism? Also, do we have existing laws for the protection of intellectual property? (I'm so matanong I'm so sorry)

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Oo May IPR code tayo somewhere. Google mo. May office din kung saan mo malalaman ang mga yan. Google mo. Hanapin mo rin yung FILCOLS. Mostly for writers ito. FILSCAP naman for songwriters.
As for being plagiarized, I come (came?) from an industry where, when you take someone else's a fictional story concept and jsut change the character's names/gender and tinker a few details in the plot, the concept is yours, nakaw be damned. Happened to me once, eons ago, when I first submitted a full-blown script to a TV show asking for some. Ni-reject nila dahil nagawa na daw ang casting pero nung napanood ko ang trailer ng isang future episode, the storyline was mine. Siyempre no credit. "Woe is me" ang motto ng scriptwriters sa Pinas, it seems.
Siyempre nakakangitngit ito pero in the end, mas nakakapagod minsan ang maghabol sa bansang ito. Pero suwerte ko at kakampi ko lagi ang karma. Kaya ayan, tawa na lang ako sa mga naganap sa kanila. Malakas manadyak ang karma pare. Be warned.

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I saw this somewhere: "Write drunk, edit sober." Is that idea good? #SorryIfNotApplicable4ExampleWalaKangPassion4Writing

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Yes. I do it all the time. Write on the rocks. Edit with coffee.
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Scenario: Same-sex marriage becomes legal in the Philippines. You are currently in a relationship with a partner and you think he/she is "forever" or he/she is "the one". Would u consider to get married? If yes, r u the type to propose? Or u'd like to be the receiver of the proposal?

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Sa unang konsepto pa lang, bokya ka na agad bok. I don't believe in the concept of "forever" so bzzzt. Saka yung konsepto ng "da wan" is bzzzt. It's kinda just like my belief in soulmates: that you don't have one, but you could have/meet several. Kasi we're not just two chunks of one whole soul who found each other. We could be part of a soul that got broken down into several chunks, so in several instances in our lifetime, we meet several people who are also big chunks from the same soul. So walang "da wan" but maybe "the biggest soul chunk that matches mine" is more like it.
And I also believe marriage still has to be reinvented as a concept because it is quite limiting in certain aspects and also oppressive in others. Long discourse, best delivered over drinks. But that's the gist.
But if I feel strongly for someone, why not? At least there's my superfriend lesbian pastora there to do our vows. That alone breaks one marriage concept for me already -- the fact that it could be conducted by a lesbian feminist. Yun.

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