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I love my crush :( but he ignore me what should i do?

Sometimes, people just aren't ment to be together. Maybe you two are! who knows?! Give it time and maybe something will eventuate. If not, don't be disheartened love has it's crazy ways and i'm sure you're only young so you have the rest of your life for boys and relationships and things like that :) x
Liked by: Kayla Wysong

I'm officially giving up on life

Life is hard sometimes and it's ok to feel like you're breaking. There is a crack in everything that's how the light gets in. We have to be strong and push through it and focus on the good thimgs and how lucky we truely are. x

im depressed, im a cutter ive tried commiting multiple times, im told to go die every day im bulimic im fat im ugly i dont know what to do

That's horrible but I know you can get through this. Show the world, the haters and yourself how strong you can be! I believe in you and I know you can do it! If your not already I would recomemd seeimg a councellor or someone like that that is qualefied to help you through. Keep strong and I'm always here if you need to talk x

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Wow well said (: you made my day! Thank you so much :* kisses to you

You're very welcome and it's all 10000000000% true so believe it! x

I feel really depressed nowadays bc my friends are so pretty and I'm really ugly. all that matters to ppl now is appearance. All my pretty friends have it great and I'm just there like pls notice me. You might tell me appearance doesnt matter but wt do you know?ur pretty urself! sorry if im rude :(

Noo you're not rude at all aha :) Honey, if you think i'm anywere near pretty well consider this. I turn 16 in 10 days, never had a boyfriend, havn't even had my first kiss and get absolutely no male attention what so ever. But you know what? I'm fine with that because I know that boys and male attention and relationships isn't everything in life. There are much more important things in life and yes I agree the world is all about phsycal apperances now days but I think thats totally wrong. One day i'm sure we will both find a lovely guy but untill then, who knows?! I'm sure you're young like me so we have the rest of our lives for boys anc relationships, for now just have fun and enjoy life and only worry about the things that matter. I'm sure you are beautiful and far from ugly. The way you see yourself and the way others see you is completely different! We are much more harsh on ourselves then others! x

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Hey, I'm not to sure about this but, what should I do if I'm dating a older guy and he wants me to do things that I don't think I'm ready for?

Then don't do them. You have every right to refuse and if he respects you enough, he will be ok with your decision . No one ever has the right to make you do anything you don't feel comfortable doing . Tell him exactly how it is and he is just going to have to wait for you. x
Liked by: Shannon

I feel so empty and useless and i ruin everything in my life and i just erghh idk i feel like shit all the time

You are not useless! You've changed peoples lives i'm sure! Think, what if your parents didn't have you... Your friends would have one less friend to talk to, one less future potential amzing person that could go on tp do amazing things which i'm sure you will! You're not alone with those feelings. It's common in teenagers. if you feel it's nessisary you could have councelling if you don't already x

I'm 15 and have had a 'shitty life' according to counsellors. But I know that things are going to get better for me. I'm proud to be able to think like that, as I have been diagnosed with clinical depression, anxiety disorder and PTSD. But I know life gets brighter, I'm a strong minded young woman.

You go girl! Wow that's incredible! You're a very tough cookie and don't let anyone tell you any different! Keep up that fighting attitude and you'll go very far! x
Liked by: Casey Dennis

What do you do if your getting hate and teased for dating a boy younger than myself I'm year 8 and he's year 7, please I don't like him and I getting hate!

If you truely like him and you really want to be with him then you shouldn't listen to what the people are saying to you. They are going to try and make you two fall apart and you have to show them how strong you can be. You have every right to date a guy younger then you thats totally your choice! Let them know that what they say isn't going to change you or effect you in any way. x
Liked by: Zoe Cocking

How young is to young to get engaged?

I don't think theres a particular age that's to young. I don't think it can be defined as that.I think if you feel like you're not ready and the relationship isn't sercure and things like that then the proposal should be posponed. x
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i dont really wan my friends to know... alright I'll go for a walk... thanks: )

You don't have to talk about the situation specifically! My best friend is really funny so I ring her and i'm always in stitches by the end of the conversation haha :,) Good luck and you're welcome x
Liked by: XinJing 0110

what do i do? when people keeps saying that you didnt put in effort in doing things whwn you already tried your best... annd people keeping focing to do things

You know when you have given something your absolute best shot and you know when you've done your best and thats all that anyone can ever ask of you. You're not a robot and you're not always going to do everything perfectly. Don't compare yourself to others. No one has the right to force you to do something that you're not comfortable with and you have every right to say no! x

what to do when you're feeling down and sad?

I look up funny youtube videos or ring a friend and talk about stuff or just do something that you find fun and that you love doing! Going for a walk is really good for clearing the mind aswell :) x

im just afraid he might me faking to be my friend idk. :(

Trust your gut! Believe your feelings and i'm sure you'll be fine. x

so it just means the guy is shy?

Well thats how I persieve it. The fact that he still texts you just doesn't talk to you in person makes me think he is shy because it is alot easier for some people to talk through a computer or phone rather then face to face. I could be 100% wrong but thats how I see it :) Tell him that he has nothing to be shy or afraid about! :) x

do you have an older brother? if so, you got any suggestions on how to get bros to back off, when they put you in a headlock?

Ohh yes I have 2 older brothers so I feel your pain! haha I say in a headlock try and go for their side like rib area and poke and it should jolt them and even before that try not to get into a headlock in the 1st place because its a hard position to get out of :) x

i did all that wat would the manager say cause i dont know who he is

You can still block anonomus people and if you turn anon off then they souldn't be able to ask you questions without their name x

cause somebody told me to kill myselft

Thats horrible! Do not listen to them! That is 100% illegal and not on! There are always going to be people trying to bring you down and get a reaction from you but if you don't give them one then they will get bored and move on. Make sure you report and block the person and maybe turn the "allow anonomus" off x

hey! my crush is in my class. I always stare him and sometimes he notices it. sometimes he stares back but sometimes he doesn't. the situation becomes akward. I always try not to stare him but subconsciously I start staring him. plz help how to stay away from my crush

Staring at him shows your interested but at the point it becomes creepy I think you need to change it. Make sure your listening to what your teacher is saying (as you should always be!) and keep your eyes on the teacher and you should be ok! x

It's hard to leave it for a bit though because I feel as though I've gained feelings for him even though we've only meet twice, ahaha is that weird? x

No that's not weird aha :) By a while I don't mean like a year or anything like that maybe like a few weeks maybe 1 month. It's your decision but that's what I would do :) x

I was talking to a guy every now and then a little while ago, but I was the one always texting first. He said that we would make plans to hang out, that never happened because we don't really talk often and if we do, I would message him first and depends if he replies! Advice on what I should do? x

That's trickyyy! You don't want to seem to desperate or too clingy so I would maybe have a little bit of a break for a bit and then text him and say something like "hey haven't spoken to you in a while how are you?" and then try and rebuild your relationship with him and become closer again by keeping up the texting and keep trying to catch up and meet with him in person and give the relationship time to develop into something special hopefully! x

Give me a few tips on how to not act crazy because my friends are nuts plz help me I get bullied everyday can u suggest something for me to do about this!

Just be your natural self. Some people are just naturally quieter and more reserved then others and some are loud and boystrus. Don't fake being a loud and crazy person if that isn't you but if you are then go for it! Don't change who you truly are for anyone! x
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Hi! Plz can you help me on how to make a boy like me bcause I really have a huge crush on him but my friends tell me not to! Any suggestions on what I should do about this?

Make sure that your friends aren't forcing you into anything you're not comfortable with. If you want him to like you just be yourself and make sure you talk to him and just become generally closer with him. Ask him personal kind I questions like "when's your birthday?" And things like that to show him that you're interested and give it time! If your meant to be with him I'm sure it will happen! x

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