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but it was hard to tell what's going on the phone but for sure they talked about me. Is that slut shaming? Is that bullying? Should I call the police? What should I do? I hope you respond to this. I need help. (2/2)

Hello, hope you're feeling okay today and i hope you see this! What they have done/doing is vile, this is slut shaming and bullying, what i suggest is that you tell your parents and if it gets worse go to the police with the video, i would save it then report it wherever it is so if it does get taken down you can show the police since you have saved it. Also, i know it is hard but try and not let it get to you, you're strong, smart, beautiful and independent, you're better than all of them.
DON'T LET THEM VILE HUMANS DETERMINE YOUR SELF WORTH
Stay strong, you got this
~Cloe<3
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how can i stop doing drugs

There is no officall way to stop smoking, but there is treatment out there for everyone! First step is to admit to your responsibility and accepting that you need to stop and need help which you have done! Now i would suggest going to your doctor for a referral to a councillor if you don't already have one as drug abuse is usually the effect of expressing internal pain or the effect of a traumatic event.
It will be the hardest thing you do in your life, but you got to stick with it, you got this!
Stay strong
~Cloe<3

I'm a perfectionist, and it causes massive anxiety/procrastination/isolation, and I need pro help, but my family doesn't believe in therapy. My school doesn't have a counselor nor do I trust anybody there to find me outside help (because they will tell my parents who will stop me) How can I get help

I am proud that you are admitting that you need help that is the first step! I know exactly how you feel!!! But that is part of my disorder, my advice would be to search any groups in your area that can help they're usually DBT which is really helpful or any services that can help you! The help is out there you just got to find it!
PS-remember there are forums to go onto and websites where you can talk to doctors and even go to your doctor they're not allowed to tell your parents anything unless you feel that you're suicidal, else it breaches confidentiality which is the law!
Stay strong!
~Cloe<3

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What would you think if a friend of yours smoked?

Overall it isn't my place to judge my friends (If i had any) as they may going through stuff that i do not know about or it helps them. But, it somewhat depends if you meant tobacco or weed ect, if it was tobacco I wouldn't care at all as i smoke bacci as well, but if it was weed or anything else i wouldn't want to be around them much because of the smell
Remember everyone's opinion is different, so try not to rely on this.
Stay strong~Cloe<3

Do you believe that two stubborn people can work out in relationship?

Definately! Its about compromise, communication and respect. Talk to eachother, respect eachothers views and feelings but agree to dissagree or enfage in something which keeps both if you happy!
~Cathy<3

What do I do it I want to talk to someone so badly? The person knows me but the way we got to know each other is messed up. How can I talk and show interest without making it feels creepy?

Sorry it's so long ago you asked and the delay in answering, but if your still wondering about this then just try having a casual conversation xx it shouldn't come across as creepy if it's casual ?
-Dani X

Still active?

Hey, V V sorry I've had quiet a difficult few months and have been inactive and I'm unsure about the rest of them but I'm here for now if you remember me xx
-Dani X

I fell in love at first sight and I feel the need to share it with someone neutral. I want to see him again, knowing that he will be at a presentation, should I go with my male bestfriend or alone? I need my friend for support but scared that my love might think that he is my bf, help please?

You should go with your friend if that's what your more comfortable with and that should be understood by the guy you like:) even try explaining if he does seem to get the wrong impression xx
-Dani X

Whats the best age to have your first relationship?? (Please reply)

It always depends when you are ready or when your parents allow to have boyfriends/ girlfriends. In my opinion I'd say 16 +
Kristina
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Hey can I talk to someone privately please?

Hello, we can talk on here, i just wont reply to it, but you'll need to message me without being an anon~Cloe<3

Hi I'm super shy girl but I'd like to get to know one boy but I don't know when and where and how start talking We are in the same class and some types from my class are judging me about everything "weird" from me ?

Ignore them, you are fabulous and amazing, you got this, you can ask about the class or homework/coursework, even ask how his day is or how he is? Or maybe a smile at first then lead into a converstaion! You got this! You're a strong independent person
Stay strong~Cloe<3

Part 2 like idk how I'm obsessed with him bc I only text him. I don't get y he said idk like y didn't he just say he's kind of talking to someone. I should probably stop liking him but how do u get rid of feelings

I'm afraid there is no way to just get rid of feelings :( However, I feel that you should speak to the guy and ask him why he acting this way as it seems toxic
Stay strong~Cloe<3

I'm ugly and I want to feel what it's like to be pretty

You're not ugly, you're beautiful and perfect, you need to try to build your self-esteem so you can see how amazing you are!
Stay strong~Cloe<3

What is your best advice for on and off depression?

I would suggest having a 'soothe box' this is where you put stuff in that can help you such as pictures, lyrics, candles etc, maybe go to your doctor about CBT? Or seeing a Councillor or taking up a hobby such a drawing, colouring, exercise etc
Stay strong~Cloe<3

I have had really bad anxiety for the past three years, including panic attacks probably once every other month. I kind of want to go on anxiety medication, but how do I go about asking my mom for that? and are you familiar with any medication at all and did it help you??

It depends on your age with what they can do regarding medication have you tried any techniques to help with panic attacks? Or CBT? Also, I have been on medication for mental health and still am, i have been on Lustral 200mg and Fluxotine 60mg and the lustral helped me a lot with my anxiety for a little while,
Stay strong~Cloe<3

hey ok so in my sch there's this weight programme for overweight kids & i feel so depressed by it its like siding all the fat kids in one side and its embarassing, im getting my weight checked next wednesday & ik im still overweight i hate the programme ?

This sounds quite negativly, so we need to change it so it is positive so it will make you feel happier! If you want to lose weight try to have healthy foods but you can make them fun! Using different colours and shapes! Especially, since it is getting closer to summer, means it's getting warmer and not as dark so quick so you can get your friends to do runs with you or dance! to music, see if there are any events plus this will help your endorphins rise to make you feel happier!
You got this! Stay strong
~Cloe <3

how can you tell when someone's a lesbian? Other than them saying "hey I'm a lesbian" cause I LOVE this girl who in scared is straight everyone makes tumors that she has a boyfriend but I don't think she does... She's 25 btw and so fucking beautiful inside and out she's not a girly girl nor tomb boy

Hello, i would suggest that you just have a general conversation then gently bring it up like saying "is there any guys/girls that you like" This should give you both the answers that you're looking for! Hope it all goes well!
Stay strong~Cloe<3

anyone, but he still talks and laughs with other of my friends. I don't know why he won't talk to me anymore, and I've even cried over it a few times, just because I miss talking to him. What should I do? :((( I want my friend back so so badly

I would suggest that you explain to him how you feel, maybe there is an underlying reason?
Stay strong ~Cloe<3

So there's this girl, her name is Anne, and I keep having dreams about her and its freaking me out. Does this mean I like her? I'm a 15 y/o male, 10th grade

There could be a few reasons for this, how do you think you feel about her?
~Cath<3

Is there a way to just straight-on tell someone that you've always really wanted to be their friend? Without sounding pathetic or awkward?

If you are honest and upfront with them,try and be confident and maybe explain why or why youve not told thne before, then it should be okay! Or if this isnt possible, just slowly start to talk to them more and get closer to them :) If someone doesn't take it well then they obviously weren't worth being friends with in the first place, remember that :)
~Cath<3

I have so much home work every night. And a bunch of tests. I'm failing like 3 of my classes because there's just to much. I'm in an after school activity that I can't drop out of. And it's way to frustrating. Is there any way I can improve? PLEASE HELP ?????????

I feel you! Have you tried talking to your school or a parent/carer about this? I think that would be thebest way to manage the work! Maybe you can get some extra support :) Good luck!
~Cath

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