Find what hard to believe?
that he's never said he wanted to be with you, but if he hasn't have you given him the inclination that could have pushed him away from that option?
+2 answers in: “🙄 I think I really do just need to move on ... hoping he’ll feel the same later is my problem... I always do that ... if a guycan’t even tell me he wants to be with then he doesn’t .”