Well hopefully that changes soon for you. You'll make some man happy. Netflix can't keep you warm lol
From your lips to god's ears!
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Anybody currently have your attention?(Romantically)
Nope. Unless you count my very serious relationship with Netflix. In which case I am FULLY committed. lol.
I'd switch around everything for a chance to take you out. I saw you once walking around in SoHo but was too afraid to speak because I had to remind myself that you don't even know me lol smh wouldve been all bad
Awww. lol. I think its interesting that you were too scared to speak just because I don't know you. That's kinda the point of intros, no? Next time say hi! Closed mouths don't get fed. ;)
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You can have any man you want. Youre so pretty!
If only it were that easy, huh? lol. But thank you!
Do you think you are ready for a long distance relationship?
Would depend on the person.
Would you have voted for herman Cain?
Not in this lifetime! Or any other Republican for that matter.
Have you ever shopped at rainbow? Strawberry? any other ratchet clothing store?
Yep. We didn't have Strawberry where I'm from (or in the South in general i dnt think). But honestly, I still would. Fashion isn't necessarily about labels so much as it about having an editing eye. Rainbow isn't a place I would shop for timeless pieces, but they have things that are trendy and good for a one off occasion if you know how to choose wisely.
be honest, did you ever used to rock baby Phat?
Sure. When it was the "in" thing to do.
What were you like as a little kid? Bratty? Nerd? Tomboy? Flirt?
Bratty (like REALLY bratty) and nerdy. lol
At what age would you like to be married by?
Ideally. 30.
Favorite places and things to do in Atlanta? Favorite places and things to do in NYC?
In Atlanta, eh...Im usually there just to see fan or go to something very specific like homecoming. So i dont do a lot of going out. I mean I lived there for 5 yrs and its home now so theres really no novelty to it. I do however LOVE to catch up on all the food I miss when Im not home. So I pig out on places like American Deli, Chik-fil-A, QuikTrip slushes (lol). So yea, I mostly just eat everything I can get my hands on when I'm in Atlanta.
In New York...EVERYTHING! I especially love that all my blogger friends are in NYC so I go to a lot of their events. Do a lot of shoots with them. Try to take advantage of all the festivals, summer parties, etc. I also get to reunite with all my friends from college. It seems like we all packed our things up and ran to NYC. So it's always like a little family reunion.
In New York...EVERYTHING! I especially love that all my blogger friends are in NYC so I go to a lot of their events. Do a lot of shoots with them. Try to take advantage of all the festivals, summer parties, etc. I also get to reunite with all my friends from college. It seems like we all packed our things up and ran to NYC. So it's always like a little family reunion.
How tall are you? How tall does your man have to be? Can he be skinny? Im 6'2 and skinny with a little chest muscles. Do I have a shot? lol
Lol at "skinny with a little chest muscles". You are a mess. lol. But are we talkin like a Snoop Dogg/Wiz Khalifa kinda situation?
Are you closer to being country or cultured?
I dont like the word "country" bc for most people they use it when they mean "unrefined" or "uneducated". As evidenced by your juxtaposing it to "cultured". Am I SOUTHERN? You bet! Born and raised. Don't have much choice in the matter. But do I know which is a salad fork and can string a sentence together with noun/verb agreement. Sure. ;)
Is chesthairs a no no for you?
Haha. I hate body hair in general. Legs and (managed) underarms are exceptions.
Would you sour on your boyfriend if he asked for anal simulation? Mine did ( I DIDNT CAUSE THATS NASTY) and I don't view him the same anymore. I just don't think a man should want to have that done.
Whoo honey. You took us there tonight! Lol.
That said, there are nerve endings "back there" that are enjoyable to both men and women. Some men (yes straight men) enjoy it. I'm not sure just how far he was wanting to take things (toys etc? (whole 'nother story). You just said stimulation.) but if its outside your comfort zone, don't do it. Explain to him that it makes you uncomfortable. He may accept that answer, he may not. The real question is if your feelings about him have changed so much that you don't want to be with him anymore. If so, let him go and let him find someone who enjoys what he enjoys.
That said, there are nerve endings "back there" that are enjoyable to both men and women. Some men (yes straight men) enjoy it. I'm not sure just how far he was wanting to take things (toys etc? (whole 'nother story). You just said stimulation.) but if its outside your comfort zone, don't do it. Explain to him that it makes you uncomfortable. He may accept that answer, he may not. The real question is if your feelings about him have changed so much that you don't want to be with him anymore. If so, let him go and let him find someone who enjoys what he enjoys.
lol smh i knew you was gonna get on ur strong blk woman anthem defensive tip. theres a difference btw having high standards and not being reasonable and not wanting to meet ppl halfway when you know their situation. Women ESP blk women need to know when to invest n a guy whos story isn’t written yet
Well since you've got all the answers, why ask me questions? Seems a bit silly, no?
"Investing" is about making SMART decisions. It's about not wasting time on things that may not pay off in the way YOU want them. What seems like a worthwhile investment to one person might be a complete dud to someone. We are ALL works in progress. NO ONE'S story is ever completely written. That is until we die. But just because YOU'RE in love with your story or the potential dream come true ending, it doesn't mean that everyone you encounter will. That's life. Further, compromise is about bending as far as YOU'RE willing bend. What one person deems as compromise/bending might feeling like breaking the other party involved.
You're self righteously throwing around gender and racial generalizations on the premise that what you (or your "homeboy") sees as meeting halfway is the way ALL women ("especially black women") should see it. Compromise is relative and is predicated on compatibility. If two people aren't compatible in their desires/ideals abt potential partners no amount of "compromise" will change that. I make compromises all the time in my relationships...platonic and otherwise. But only to the extent that I don't feel morally and ethically compromised.
That said...I've been called a lot of things by men i date. I'm tough. Firm. Emotionally reserved (until appropriate to be otherwise). But never "high maintenance" in the pejorative manner you're asserting. And one thing they'll ALL tell you (even if it takes them years to realize it...because they always do), I don't ask for a lot but I won't settle for bullsh*t either. What I want is what I want. And I'm not willing to sit around playing duck duck goose in someone's grey area while they try to figure out what THEY want. Being a work in progress is one thing. Being unsure about yourself, what you want or what you are willing to make time for is something completely different. If refusing to muddle through the latter makes me "high maintenance" or as you so brilliantly asserted in all your male arrogance "a defensive black woman" then....HEEEEEEY BOO! *kisses*
"Investing" is about making SMART decisions. It's about not wasting time on things that may not pay off in the way YOU want them. What seems like a worthwhile investment to one person might be a complete dud to someone. We are ALL works in progress. NO ONE'S story is ever completely written. That is until we die. But just because YOU'RE in love with your story or the potential dream come true ending, it doesn't mean that everyone you encounter will. That's life. Further, compromise is about bending as far as YOU'RE willing bend. What one person deems as compromise/bending might feeling like breaking the other party involved.
You're self righteously throwing around gender and racial generalizations on the premise that what you (or your "homeboy") sees as meeting halfway is the way ALL women ("especially black women") should see it. Compromise is relative and is predicated on compatibility. If two people aren't compatible in their desires/ideals abt potential partners no amount of "compromise" will change that. I make compromises all the time in my relationships...platonic and otherwise. But only to the extent that I don't feel morally and ethically compromised.
That said...I've been called a lot of things by men i date. I'm tough. Firm. Emotionally reserved (until appropriate to be otherwise). But never "high maintenance" in the pejorative manner you're asserting. And one thing they'll ALL tell you (even if it takes them years to realize it...because they always do), I don't ask for a lot but I won't settle for bullsh*t either. What I want is what I want. And I'm not willing to sit around playing duck duck goose in someone's grey area while they try to figure out what THEY want. Being a work in progress is one thing. Being unsure about yourself, what you want or what you are willing to make time for is something completely different. If refusing to muddle through the latter makes me "high maintenance" or as you so brilliantly asserted in all your male arrogance "a defensive black woman" then....HEEEEEEY BOO! *kisses*
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If you still love the person why are you not with them?
You can love someone and still realize you're not supposed to be together. And also, not all love is a "I want to be with you" kinda love. Sometimes you just love what I person meant to you at THAT moment in your life and appreciate how the situation has grown you.
Ever been in love? If so, how did you know? If not, again how did you know?
Yes, once. When you're in the situation it can be hard to tell if the feelings are real. Your judgment can get clouded. But looking back at it, I can objectively still say I love/loved the person. Even some 4+ yrs removed.
Would you describe yourself as a guarded individual?
In most regards
Do you have a good poker face?
Not really sure how to answer this
When you coming back to NYC? I want to see you.
Probably xmas break
Have you ever been caught in a love triangle?
Eh. Caught? No. As someone attempted to involve me in one? Yes.
Have you ever run into a guy who was a little TOO much into your low cut? Like creepy status?
Lol. No.
Are you really high maintenance? my homeboy said you were.
*rolls eyes* If by "high maintenance" you mean I have standards and don't "settle for the pickle juice"...then yes. I'm gonna assume that whoever your "homeboy" is/was that he just couldn't keep up. You win some you lose some. #kanyeshrugs
Whats the likelihood you moving abroad when you're done with school?
Can't really call it. I do want to live abroad at some pt. Just don't know how soon in the near future that will happen.
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